Sincerely Chelsea
Sincerely Chelsea
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Why We Eloped + Elopement Vs.Wedding + Pros/Con of Eloping!
We decided to make a video on why we eloped plus some pros/con based on our experience and how it compares a wedding! All of these opinions are our own ! You can feel differently and that’s okay!
Hope you guys enjoy getting to know us a little better!
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Hey y’all! Learn a little bit about us!
Rod and Chelsea were high school sweethearts and have been together since 2011. Once they attended college, they were in a long di...
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  • @amanda7231086
    @amanda7231086 9 дней назад

    Honestly I love the honesty. Planning a wedding is super stressful and there’s just so much that goes into planning a wedding. I think elopement is something that so simple yet memorizing, you get to capture that intimate moment more and hold it closer to your heart

  • @mlimo10
    @mlimo10 16 дней назад

    Can you please share the elopement services/company you used?

  • @michaelgetachew53
    @michaelgetachew53 Месяц назад

    Great video. Who do you use for your elopement package please

  • @DetroitRed03
    @DetroitRed03 Месяц назад

    My fiance & I will be eloping this year hopefully. I still want a bigger wedding in 2 years

  • @lucyromeo9661
    @lucyromeo9661 4 месяца назад

    My fiancé and I are considering eloping because well... money lol is a big reason. Plus, we want to have children in the near future. We want a house and a dog. And honestly, I love my family and friends, but combined we have a ton and that would be soooo expensive! At this point, I'm not concerned with how people may feel (I may take that back later) because I just want my fiancé and I to go into our marriage without the financial burden of a wedding. So happy you two had your beautiful day! Thank you for being so honest about your experience.

  • @macadamia668
    @macadamia668 6 месяцев назад

    My wife and I recently eloped and honestly, I could'nt have asked a better and more comfortable ceremony. I am pretty liberal when it comes to wedding and never liked the BS of Trad/Mainstream weddings that the media swoon about. Especially when you have family that like to micro-manage. A wedding is the beggining of a marriage. Not just a day to celebrate your marriage.

  • @TEWMUCH
    @TEWMUCH 10 месяцев назад

    I totally understand the appeal of eloping. I'm normally a minimalist,.so one would think I'd elope, but I still want a big wedding. ❤ I just want all the traditional Bells and whistles and i wanna spend all the money. I want the big shebang ok! Im not having kids, so I need something for me.

  • @letoyachantelle2229
    @letoyachantelle2229 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video! I’m having anxiety about all this planning lol this makes so much sense!

  • @lidiag.3650
    @lidiag.3650 Год назад

    Thank you guys for this video👍👍After six month of stress and anxiety over big wedding, we finally decided to elope at the private vineyard in Napa.

  • @user-hd5lz7qp9p
    @user-hd5lz7qp9p Год назад

    Thank you for your video. I’ve been engaged for a while but I’m stressed out about having a wedding as my partner’s dad is full of ego and white privileged, may as well look down to females according to his daughter. He’d talk to me like I can’t speak English at all and say strange things to me such as “ happy English new year” ( I’m Asian) etc etc. Due to global pandemic my parents have never met my partner’s parents in person , so they have no clue how ridiculous he is. Im so stressed when thinking not only I may have to put up with the stupid thing he probably will say in my own wedding but also have to translate that to my parents. I was upset as giving up a wedding and go elopement is the only solution if I want to avoid that 😢

    • @amsey3700
      @amsey3700 Год назад

      You willing to subject your future kids to that? Good luck then!

    • @user-hd5lz7qp9p
      @user-hd5lz7qp9p Год назад

      @@amsey3700 he’s not living in the same city so we don’t really see each other.

    • @amsey3700
      @amsey3700 Год назад

      @@user-hd5lz7qp9p understood completely, but where there’s smoke there’s fire

  • @andreafoxx3359
    @andreafoxx3359 Год назад

    congrats

  • @JolenEE148
    @JolenEE148 Год назад

    I'm so glad I stumbled upon this video. I currently am trying to plan my wedding and I'm so anxious and in tears. It's just been so much.

  • @MaiMai-ys4yg
    @MaiMai-ys4yg 2 года назад

    Im the midst of planning I was getting too stressed out and had a panic attack. I literally couldn’t breath and started crying. My fiancé came home and we just were searching for videos of elopement and came across this one. Your video gave us the confidence and reassurance to do what WE wanted to do. So we cancelled our venue and yes we los $2k but honestly that’s less than everything would’ve cost us. We are now eloping in a beautiful garden in poconos July 1st. We will only have our parents and siblings 6 people. This feels right to us. Thank you so much for sharing your advice because you really are helping people! Now I can’t wait to get married in three weeks

  • @megand8022
    @megand8022 2 года назад

    Ever since I was a little girl, I have always wanted to elope. I used to love reading novels where the couples eloped. I think I want to do that with my man. It feels right to me

  • @vanessab.6682
    @vanessab.6682 2 года назад

    I just feel like I will have to elope because my mom just hates when I am happy, so even having a boyfriend/fiance will have to be a secret.

  • @Agudel49
    @Agudel49 2 года назад

    I'm curious as to the location for the actual ceremony?

  • @gabi1kenobi
    @gabi1kenobi 2 года назад

    Who/what was the elopement package through? The photographer?

  • @aprilc00kie
    @aprilc00kie 2 года назад

    Wow you got me so excited, i didn’t realize an elopement would be my style, but my parents also got married in a courthouse, so mama doesn’t make a big deal out of it at all!!! I love you! Lol

  • @kierrafranklin9503
    @kierrafranklin9503 2 года назад

    Congrats on your union! It was a very amazing and smart choice for YOUR wedding. I don't see myself having a huge wedding at all. If anything it can be in a backyard with more of my man's side of the family there. Lol I have no problem with "hurting anyone's feelings or disappointing them"....they will get over it. Wedding planners and having everything perfect is unrealistic!

  • @xrrrismickey
    @xrrrismickey 2 года назад

    Cute couple

  • @tessameadows3223
    @tessameadows3223 2 года назад

    this is so funny! i’m graduating from coastal this may! I looked this up because we are thinking of just eloping too!

  • @mellamokori
    @mellamokori 2 года назад

    I love my immediate family, but I don’t live in the same country as them right now, and it doesn’t seem fair to throw a big wedding where we live. We’re eloping next month and I am so exited! Thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @devinlordy8582
    @devinlordy8582 2 года назад

    This is actually Bridget Lordy commenting. Devin Lordy is my late husband. We had the most beautiful wedding in 2016. I lost him 2 years ago. I've meet my current fiance Christian and we're thinking of elopement. I appreciate your advice <3

  • @shantelle2735
    @shantelle2735 2 года назад

    Love it, your Wedding and Marriage should be focused on the couple not people!

  • @nolimitkk2715
    @nolimitkk2715 2 года назад

    Looking like siblings….. 🥰

  • @lakeashacolemon3814
    @lakeashacolemon3814 2 года назад

    Omg you and I are so alike. While planning I was getting so depressed worrying about everyone’s opinions and needs. My anxiety was so all over the place. Being a Libra I am also very indecisive. We just cancelled out wedding for this year and are planning a wedding 6 months for now and only have our children and parents and our dogs. That way the focus will be on us and less stress

  • @beautiful2098
    @beautiful2098 2 года назад

    Getting eloped tomorrow so it’s perfect and there’s a pandemic going on

  • @macymiller6079
    @macymiller6079 3 года назад

    I've just never been into the idea of a big wedding and I hate being the center of attention. I'm sooo excited for my outdoor elopement ceremony though 😊

  • @daisypacheco2481
    @daisypacheco2481 3 года назад

    How did you find the package ?

  • @ArcherAdventures
    @ArcherAdventures 3 года назад

    You guys are so sweet! What a beautiful proposal, wishing you both many happy heathy years of marriage ☺️

  • @joleedavis9933
    @joleedavis9933 3 года назад

    My wife and I wanted to go to New Orleans and elope but thanks to COVID and a nosy aunt it turned into a micro backyard wedding. I hated it! She promised me the New Orleans trip for our vow renewal

  • @dettymakesart
    @dettymakesart 3 года назад

    My man and I are both hungarian living together in Ireland and recently we started thinking that maybe we shouldn't go home to Hungary to get married, even if both our families and all of our close friends are there, its just too stressful and we don't need nobody trying to organise things like they wanted (my mom tends to do that, her opinion is that you have to invite everyone who's family because then noone will get hurt, etc.. Even if those family members stress me out😅) so we're considering getting married here, maybe flying our parents, sibling and 1-1 of our best friends out... We can celebrate in Hungary after. Covid justifies this really well, I'm not great with confrontation anyway 😂

  • @sexyndacityable
    @sexyndacityable 3 года назад

    I am eloping. I’m 7months pregnant and my fiancé and I are private. It is making it about the marriage and not the wedding day. Our big reveal will be at the babyshower

  • @darkfairyxx1765
    @darkfairyxx1765 3 года назад

    wait not me stumbling into this and he went to my college that’s crazy

  • @lizarosa156
    @lizarosa156 3 года назад

    I know several wealthy people that Eloped and they are still married super long time

  • @lizarosa156
    @lizarosa156 3 года назад

    Even small wedding will get out of control real fast is too much stress

  • @beautydistress6815
    @beautydistress6815 3 года назад

    I put you guys to 200 subscribers. Yayy! Lol me and fiancé plan on eloping as well . The big wedding is not really my thing. So we felt this would be a great option. Watching this video really made things feel more comfortable for me. Sounds perfect . You two are a beautiful couple 🙏🏽❤️

    • @sincerelychelsea5430
      @sincerelychelsea5430 3 года назад

      Yayyy thank ya girl! Congratulationsss!!! It’s all about you two and your love! ❤️

  • @daisybonilla9828
    @daisybonilla9828 3 года назад

    Around how much are elopement packages?

  • @guitarnerd1022
    @guitarnerd1022 3 года назад

    Hey Chelsea! I’m a Chelsea too! :) hey question, my fiancé and I are looking into elopements in... Asheville! In 2022! Which vendors did you go through and which would you recommend?? Thanks!

    • @sincerelychelsea5430
      @sincerelychelsea5430 3 года назад

      I’m SO late replying , I’m sorry! But we used Destination Elopements for everything! And the photography we used The Remnant Collective! You’ll love Asheville, it’s beautiful!

  • @BriixxanyBriixxany
    @BriixxanyBriixxany 3 года назад

    Great video

  • @JGULLIF
    @JGULLIF 3 года назад

    Eloped 22 years ago (cold November Saturday in the basement of the Cook county building in Chicago ... just us)... been home owners for 22 years ... paid for 100% wedding and 100% house out of our own pockets ... rarely argue ... excited about our retirement in a few years. Eloping worked for us. ... oh, no one was pregnant ... we got asked that allot!

  • @lll3388
    @lll3388 3 года назад

    I don’t like people! So this is perfect lol I truly don’t want anyone else’s negative vibes. People usually just judge and I feel like I have to invite them not because I want too. So this is great! Thanks for sharing

    • @sincerelychelsea5430
      @sincerelychelsea5430 3 года назад

      I’m not a big people person either 😂

    • @lizarosa156
      @lizarosa156 3 года назад

      Awesome

    • @xoSimplyLexx
      @xoSimplyLexx 2 года назад

      This. I’m about to get married and have a baby and people will find out when they find out lmao no regrets I’m so peaceful

  • @TrulySimplyKieara
    @TrulySimplyKieara 3 года назад

    We are considering eloping in the Fall in Colorado. I agree, weddings are expensive and I rather invest that money elsewhere. We will have a true elopement just us two because we don't want the stress of people saying they going and don't etc. love you story

    • @busybeingtatyana2348
      @busybeingtatyana2348 2 года назад

      How did it work out for you? We are wanting to elope but invite a few people, I'm worried with some folks saying they'll come and never show lol

  • @junebugmom1985
    @junebugmom1985 3 года назад

    I'm eloping 3*23*21. We're excited 💚

  • @faletausalaenglish382
    @faletausalaenglish382 3 года назад

    ldr = 2 1/2 hours ? 🤣 i wish that's how my ldr was lol

  • @shivanidubey8541
    @shivanidubey8541 3 года назад

    I think foreigners have altogether different definition of eloping In country like India it is normally because of caste system and parents disagreement They dont *ucking care about a person's feeling there happiness just there fake respect or whatever they call it I am in love with someone but the made fun of the word LOVE only I think i wont be able to elope i think i need to die

    • @qemalice5256
      @qemalice5256 3 года назад

      I think that the shaming you are gonna get from your family for eloping (god forbid anything goes wrong) makes it worse.

    • @queenleo5578
      @queenleo5578 3 года назад

      That’s what elopement really means. But over the years it has changed and become more accepting. Also now some ppl confuse elopement with a very small wedding.

    • @dvn.pod.2023
      @dvn.pod.2023 2 года назад

      Shivani, please know that your life is worth living! Please don’t ever feel like you “need to die”.

  • @jasminesain09
    @jasminesain09 3 года назад

    My fiancé and I live a very secluded/private life I’ve been feeling guilty and bad about not having anyone show up, especially with the date being so close but after watching your video it’s really reassuring, love your story and great video ♥️

  • @ShanezXO_
    @ShanezXO_ 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video and congrats to you two love birds 💕🥰

  • @OtakumaENY99
    @OtakumaENY99 3 года назад

    So basically is all great it’s just some feelings got hurt in the way with some family members.

  • @courtscuts
    @courtscuts 3 года назад

    Thanks for making this, I’ve made my decision and am gonna elope!