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Musta na kayo. I hope you ars all dojng well

As soon as my youngest started school my MIL asked my husband, "So, is she going back to work now?" My husband clapped back IMMEDIATELY with, "She works harder now than she ever has... so what makes you think she is without a job?" It was THE SEXIEST thing he has ever said or done. I just simply felt seen ❤

Well said!

Easiest “job”

Don’t be a stay at home mom under any circumstances! Don’t sacrifice yourself or your life for anyone NO EVEN FOR YOUR HUSBAND NOT EVEN FOR YOUR CHILDREN! If you do, YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST IF YOUR LIFE! You will be under appreciated by your husband and your children! When your kids grow up and way to college, your husband will kick you out or tell to go get a job…sure after 20 years? No matter what your husband says about him being able to support you and the kids….DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID. After a while he will degrade you and call you stupid shit infront if your children and then your children will become their dad. I cook, I clean, i can him two boys, I do their laundries, I take them to their dr appts, I take them to school, I iron his work clothes, I mow the lawn, I washed the car, I take care of them when they are sick, I bought them their clothes, I do the grocery shopping on my own, I fix whatever maybe broken at home… Before marriage, I told him I do not want children and he said that’s fine. After we got married, he said to me that I am not his family until I give him children. So I did. Not one but two boys who does well in school because I educated them, I took care of them made sure they always had breakfast before school, always on time, took them to their sprits practices and games…all the while stressed out while he comes home eats and watch porn got caught and blames and body shamed me …I am 120 lbs. he blames me for his porn watching because my body changed…this is after I gave birth the kids he wanted. Then he slept and paid a prostitute contracted std and then infected me and lied about it. Now he and the kids treat me like I am beneath them. I am have no job I have nothing he holds all the finances. I have nothing. I am constantly regretting and contemplating suicide. I tried to hide the pain but most days I just spent wishing for death to escape this lonely life. So please before you give in to your husband think twice about it because they do change no matter how good and faithful you are and they don’t care if you end up with nothing in the end.

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Nice to see you Pls any vacancy for cleaning job are housekeeping job

Oh My Gosh. Here I am feeling so lonely on this new journey, and feeling misunderstood. I became a SAHM at almost forty y.o. while living abroad with my family. No one understands my decision including family. Me a career girl, brave to live South America and live in my own in Europe at twenties. And now… The thing is I never felt so exhausted, besides I’m doing digital marketing some hours while baby is sleeping. Also I never felt so realized as a human being, with a life with purpose, bonded to my child and husband. …accepting that tiredness, lack of energy and loneliness will be a part of my life for a while, is one of the most difficult thing. Also that I can’t control everything, for example last night baby couldn’t sleep for hours, the day today were with me and the house in a mess trying to put together at least food and emotional comfort for my little one. God bless everyone. SAHM keep going your work is Amazing, even if cultural and societal norms don’t acknowledge it. Thank you so much for posting it. I completely relate to you. Xx

This is what i neded to hear,ive been a stay at home mom all thru this year....honestly i never thought i would wnd up like this😢but having to raise my child and be there for him has been soo rewarding and fulfilling to me❤today i felt abit down but this has shown me am doing a good job,am trying its not easy especially with our economy...i thank God for this season of my life😊😊😊

Yeah handsome kuno pero ang mga bibig ng mga israeli talo pa ang babae hahaha

I needed to hear this 😢 thank you!❤

What an amazing video!

Be safe.❤

Hi April, i trust all is well with u and family❤

This made me cry just feeling so understood. Its been such a struggle. Thank you for doing this video 💞

That's interesting, i have a Jewish man and yea im a Christian and he wants me to convert to become Jewish if i dont then we will not be together what should i do

Why are you come to philippine🇵🇭 and israel🇮🇱🙄

Moms are amazing!!! There is no harder or more important work than bearing and raising a family!!! 💗🎉💗🎉

Glad to have seen your channel and so I subscribed. Thanks for sharing the beautiful sights. April, enjoy your wonderful family time and bonding with sis.

I'm thankful that vids like this have been coming out. Because I have been bullied by other woman for choosing to stay at home with my child. I have been misunderstood and prejudged. It feels horrible and has made me question my decisions. But when I hear other woman talk about how they feel and it's similari t to my experience I am reminded that I made the right choice for my child. My child is kind, confident, secure, smart.. the list goes on.

Thankful for this reminder. I forgot that im not the only one doing this. Loneliness is normal, and it doesn't have to be something to be saddened by.

I love having my little bub, teaching him showing him the world laughing with him tickling him. I hate sitting on the floor pushing cars around, I hate chasing a toddler around the house and begging him to let me change his nappy, I also hate the bedtime struggles and the stay up lates and wake up earlies. And yet. I love this. Love this job so much.

Thank you

sweetbonding family😅😅😅

mmmmmmmmmmmm nice

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Filipinas always cheat one week IS enought for them!

Thanks for the video. It really hit home when you said it’s ok if you don’t enjoy it al the time. I feel bad sometimes that I don’t enjoy every moment of being a stay at home mom, that sometimes I really want a break, and that I’m always second guessing myself and wondering if maybe I am actually lazy since I don’t work a payed job. It’s funny, isn’t it, though, that we consider daycare worker, babysitter, nanny, cook, cleaner, all to be real jobs that take time, focus and energy. But for some reason, stay at home mom isn’t considered a real job, when we are basically full time nannies along with being a cook, house cleaner, home and activities manager, and much more.

Being a SAHM is very difficult, and like any job it takes time to learn and adjust. I have thought most of the things you spoke about. Although my house will never be as clean as yours haha!

Wow! You are truly amazing. You are worthy of respect and dignity for all that you do. Don"t ever forget that!!! You are NOT useless. I hope those that put you down are reading this. You are AMAZING.

I'm just new to your vlog. Just wondering if you will continue. But rest assured you snd Israel as re everyday in our prayers.

EXPERIENCES FROM TRADITIONAL STAY AT HOME WIVES AND MOTHERS: I once saw a comment that said, "Men want a stay at home wife till they find out she stays at home." I've seen a number of cases where the man insisted he wanted the wife to stay home and be with the kids and then turn around to tell her she contributes nothing to the household and is a freeloader. My former colleague who worked 2 jobs told me it happened to her. After she had a baby, her husband insisted she stay home and he would pay all the bills. She even got offered her old job back, and he told her not to take it. She said barely 6 months in, and he started complaining that he's the only one paying all the bills and the verbal abuse started. Men feel its their right to withhold money, but women should not withhold the free labor they're doing for the entire household. My mum has lived for 20 years with a man who hits her, and when I asked her why she never leaves she said, "I have no work history, no bank account, no money, no education, mental health issues...what else am I supposed to do?" She's only 40 years old and feels like she has no future. Young women need to hear this because they are falling for a fantasy that will ruin their lives. It's not even good for the children because for years her sacrifice, the stress/depression that I saw in her, and the daily violence created a huge rift between us. I got into a big argument with my husband last year and he gave me 2 weeks to move out. Ever since then i moved in with my mom to finish my degress. That was the last time I'll ever live with a man or depend on one. Weird how these trad wife content creators think their husbands will live forever and always be smitten by them. Their husbands go out every day and work with other women. Some of those women are attractive and intellectually challenge him. Do they think talking about what she and the kids did that day is going to keep him interested? This basically happened to me. After staying at home while caring for two young children and the household, he told me I "contributed nothing of value." I was treated like I was not allowed to use "his money" and even told if I wanted to buy something for the home that he didn't approve of I'd need to pay for it myself. We were never poor, so money wasn't an issue...it was all about abuse and control. They need to criminalize abandoning a woman and 5 kids like they criminalize abortion. DNA tests at birth and automatic child support orders against the fathers needs to be a law. They want the death penalty for women who terminate pregnancies? Same penalties for men who abandon their families for other women (or men). I’m 60 and this trad wife shit is disturbing. When I was a teen in the 70’s so many women were newly divorced, with 4+ kids, STRUGGLING. Working as cashier or home daycare, children in rags and hungry. All my friends KNEW we needed education, careers and financial independence. These young ladies are delusional. They have seen their mothers working and decided they don’t want that life. They have no idea what they are signing up for. Any grown adult who insists on their grown adult partner being 100% financially dependent on them is objectively vile and a danger to society! My husband left us homeless twice! The second time I was done! He went to jail for abusing us, and the kids and I ended up homeless in a shelter. Now I'm in subsidized housing and no money. Take care of yourself first before marriage and children and don't rely on a man to take care of you. Protect yourselves ladies because most men won't.

No more vlogs? What happened?

Beautiful. Thank you April for these vids. And thank you for joining our larger Israeli family. God bless.

I don’t know you but I felt like you were speaking for me!..🥹 Thank you and this is every beautiful and nice to hear that I’m not crazy 😂 shishhh I hate to say this but I am glad to see that it’s not just me that overwhelmed at times

I needed to watch this video today.. all i can say is thank you.. and knowing that we are doing it just like many others out there makes the lonliness a bit bearable.

It’s pretty easy (single dad here) when I was getting paid to work from home it was the most gravy days of my life kids are not as hard to raise as people make it out to be

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we work 24/7 and never get paid and have to ask for every tiny thing we need.

I was blessed to be a stay at home mom for 24 years, and now I'm trying to play catch up and figure out what now?

Amen!!! Preach! It is non stop. 😊

I was a working mom with my first one I used to work 10h at day 4-5 days at week in an Amazon warehouse. My first daughter used to be in a daycare all day. I thought motherhood was easy because all I used to do was sent my daughter away to be taken care of even when I didn't work. Then the weekends dad was home so I was not only my job. Now I am a stay at home mom to a 4 year old I never felt so dry and exhausted I am grateful but I wouldn't do it again never.

Nice work April - Haifa looks amazing

a beautiful place - great work

I think Filipino girls married to almost every nationality men in the world 😅 i always found filipina-foreinger couples😊

Keep safe Israel,God is with you

so relatable.

So exhausted all the time as a stay home mom with chronic diseases

Just wondering what happened to your family with the on-going war between Israel and Palestine. I hope and pray you are all safe and went.to.another country for safety. 🙏

As a stay at home mom of a 3 year old at days I find it extremely difficult. I literally with my son 24/7. I also work at nights. I clean, cook, prep meals and try to entertain him as well as getting keeping my sanity. My husband works 11-8 so I’m exhausted. We got this mommas ❤ P.S. he definitely helps out as well