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Harlan Cohen
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Добавлен 12 июл 2006
Harlan Cohen is a New York Times Bestselling author of 7 books. He wrote The Naked Roommate: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run Into in College (over 1 million copies in print) and his most recent title is, Win or Learn: The Naked Truth About Turning Every Rejection Info Your Ultimate Success He loves helping and responds to comments and questions. Visit www.HarlanCohen and follow him on social media @HelpMeHarlan and @HarlanCohen for live events and resources.
Life Tip #871 My advice column showed me that many people are looking for love, just like YOU #love
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Life Tip #870 There is nothing wrong with being SINGLE in high school or college #single #dating
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Life Tip #869 Should she tell her friend about having the SAME crush? #friends #crush #lifeadvice
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College Tip #1294 Did not expect this MANY online classes in college? #college #onlineclasses
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College Tip #1293 Why you should NOT miss the next career fair #internship #job #college
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Life Tip #867 If you feel UNEASY speaking up during an Uber or Lyft ride, here's what to do #safety
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College Tip #1292 Getting to KNOW your instructors as a freshman matters #freshman #instructors
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Life Tip #865 To those who stay and help me grow-thank you. #gratitude #lifetips #communication
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College Tip #1291 Ways to support yourself if you’re struggling with the election results #election
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Life Tip #863 Is it POSSIBLE to trust someone who has cheated? #dating #relationshipadvice
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College Tip #1290 Why talking to those who studied far away before college search MATTERS #college
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College Tip #1290 Why talking to those who studied far away before college search MATTERS #college
Life Tip #862 Here are 7 THINGS to help you embrace the uncomfortable #lifetips #lifeadvice
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Life Tip #862 Here are 7 THINGS to help you embrace the uncomfortable #lifetips #lifeadvice
Life Tip #861 WATCH this if you need help asking someone out #lifetips #datingtips #datingadvice
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Life Tip #861 WATCH this if you need help asking someone out #lifetips #datingtips #datingadvice
College Tip #1289 Why visiting the financial aid office MATTERS. #collegetips #financialaid
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College Tip #1289 Why visiting the financial aid office MATTERS. #collegetips #financialaid
Life Tip #859 There are a lot of people who would love to connect with YOU. #lifeadvice #lifetips
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Life Tip #859 There are a lot of people who would love to connect with YOU. #lifeadvice #lifetips
Life Tip #858 Expensive schools might cost you LESS than you think! #lifeadvice #lifetips #seniors
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Life Tip #858 Expensive schools might cost you LESS than you think! #lifeadvice #lifetips #seniors
Life Tip #857 Questions to ASK if a student is failing #lifetips #lifeadvice
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Life Tip #857 Questions to ASK if a student is failing #lifetips #lifeadvice
College Tip #1288 Watch this video if YOU are intimidated by your Professors #collegetip #college
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College Tip #1288 Watch this video if YOU are intimidated by your Professors #collegetip #college
Life Tip #856 You Should EMBRACE The Universal Rejection Truth #success #rejection #growthmindset
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Life Tip #856 You Should EMBRACE The Universal Rejection Truth #success #rejection #growthmindset
Life Tip #855 If You Shared Your Feelings And Got Rejected, It Doesn’t Need To Be Awkward #dating
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Life Tip #855 If You Shared Your Feelings And Got Rejected, It Doesn’t Need To Be Awkward #dating
College Tip #1285 Where to live in your second year? #collegetips #roommates #collegeroommates
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College Tip #1285 Where to live in your second year? #collegetips #roommates #collegeroommates
College Tip #1284 DO NOT Stress About Your College Major #collegetips #careeradvice
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College Tip #1284 DO NOT Stress About Your College Major #collegetips #careeradvice
Life Tip #853 Not Everyone Has A Friend Group #friends #friendship #lifetips
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Life Tip #853 Not Everyone Has A Friend Group #friends #friendship #lifetips
Life Tip #852 This Is What You Do If You Hate Your Girlfriend’s Friends #friends #relationship
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Life Tip #852 This Is What You Do If You Hate Your Girlfriend’s Friends #friends #relationship
College Tip #1283 If You’re Really Upset About Your Grade, Try This When Talking To Your Instructor
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College Tip #1283 If You’re Really Upset About Your Grade, Try This When Talking To Your Instructor
College Tip #850 Try To Meet People and Improve Your Social Skills #friends #college #lifehacks
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College Tip #850 Try To Meet People and Improve Your Social Skills #friends #college #lifehacks
College Tip #1282 Know If Your School Has An AI Policy #college #highschool #ai #cheating
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College Tip #1282 Know If Your School Has An AI Policy #college #highschool #ai #cheating
Life Tip #848 I Think That It's Crucial To Experience Dating In College #datingadvice #relationships
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Life Tip #848 I Think That It's Crucial To Experience Dating In College #datingadvice #relationships
Life Tip #847 This Is What You Do If You Made A Mistake While Drunk #cheating #datingadvice #trust
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Life Tip #847 This Is What You Do If You Made A Mistake While Drunk #cheating #datingadvice #trust
Life Tip #846 Remember That YOU Are Always Enough #selfcare #dating #relationships
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Life Tip #846 Remember That YOU Are Always Enough #selfcare #dating #relationships
More toxic type of people will accuse you for something generic and random just to get out of the spot you just put them in and leave you speechless
No. Just no. That’s like saying, ‘I’m sorry for hurting you’ when it’s the other way around. You can politely call them out. ‘That hurt, and for no reason, I don’t deserve that’ but don’t fall into the trap of apology when it’s not on you.
Hey Harlan! I thought you would be interested to hear my son's experience that he learned about at college. He wasn't seeing grades posted for a particular class and people said some teachers don't post till the end of the quarter but I insisted he go check to be sure that was the case. Lo and behold, the teacher didn't know that the grades weren't posting on his portal. (So the teacher could see the grades, but they weren't showing up on the student page)They are now working to remedy the situation.I reminded my son that this is a reminder that teachers sometimes need to be taught as well. They don't always know the experience the student is getting and when you ask questions or point things out it helps them understand how to help you or maybe its about learning that some people need things explained in a different way.
Great story. It’s amazing how many students are too intimidated to have a reasonable conversation with the teacher. Good for him!
This is GOLD. Thank you.
GOLD
My daughter dropped her ASL minor because they were shifting so many of the classes to online, which for ASL...really?
Fucking good advice my friend!!!
If you think trannies and kids can mix, I cant mix with you. Sorry, not sorry, bridge burned.
Is this Louis from suits??
Bc their politics directly contribute to my rights being taken away?
Move to Canada so I can grab your spot in the US.
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Yaaas ‘ your safety is more important than peoples feelings’
I am starting to use punctuations when I speak English, and I am also glad to use proper English now.
Yeah, it could tsave your life and other people’s lives. And the driver’s life. Thank you.❤❤❤❤❤
So true sir.
Nah you’re wrong buddy . Ghosting actually works wonders !!! People will crave you more when they know you can get rid of them in a heartbeat, because everyone wants what they can’t have, especially attractive people they’re the biggest narcissist and can’t fathom you not wanting them. The greatest power you have is the Power to Walk away. This works for both guys or girls. You don’t anyone anything in this world if they don’t bring any positive value to your life and keep bringing you down then ghost them and let them kick rocks.
You should talk about why participating in class is important. In my classes nobody wants to participate in discussions and topics and it gets to be a drag. I’m the only one that be talking. When you have a chance please talk about why participating in class is so important. And talk about why it would be more fun and engaging 🙏.
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Thanks!
Mh, I personally use a horn
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Ohhh nooo i dont wannna do that
I’m 45 min away from campus my cars a piece of shit I got bills to pay I’m toast
One of the best helpful video❤
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Thank you for the video.
Thanks for watching! Grateful to help.
Idk what to do
Of course!
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Her husband doesn’t like it
Confused ❌ Lack of discipline ✅
I thought this is something we learn when we were 3 at daycare. I guess some adults haven’t figure this out yet.
We all learn it, but most of us fight it. We get offended. We take it personally. We don't give people permission to think whatever they want.
That's true. It's why I don't tell people "I like you" unless we know each other for a while.
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This video really make me know why i felt stupid these days I take so many classes now since i want to go to a top high school that i started feeling overwhelmed, but at first i still thought that i'm just lazy and tired Then suddenly i felt my grammars are very bad, all the things that i've learned felt like nothing suddenly. And i also felt very stupid that now i'm scared to talk since i feel everything that comes out my mouth is just nonsense I hate this feeling so much!
You are so smart and will always be smart. It can be really challenging to manage so many classes at once. How you studied in the past doesn't always work. The best way to reverse this is to get help. The academic resource centers are filled with students and grad students who have been in the exact same place as you. Learning how to get help and embracing learning (which mean embracing imperfection) will help you not only learn about the materials, but about YOU. It's the ultimate lesson. You go this. Let me know if you have any more questions. I'm rooting for you!!!
4 years later, and still a great tip. Thanks!
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Avoid telling people everything, tip number 2 is not a good idea for dealing with homesickness.
So would you suggest living on or near campus if you can?
On campus or as close to campus as possible
You talk only about the silent treatment, but at some point you might cross his boundary
And I'd just like to add that there's a difference between being chronically negative and just being down or going through tough times, you can see the difference in the attitudes.
I got into the club I wanted to get into now aiming for the second one
As a first-year college student myself, check up on the student. There might be some dark thoughts that can fuel inside because of the pressure. I know that all too well, unfortunately. :/
🏆 Words of wisdom! It’s like, « Let go, let god » 😅
It's true, you have to treat everyone with respect, but it's okay to stay away from people who are toxic/negative towers others. Honestly it's exhausting staying around such people. Overtime, it causes trauma and self-doubt. Doesn't mean that you disrespect them when you see them. It just means staying away from negative/ toxic people who have hurt you in the past. It's good because at least you won't allow the same toxic people to hurt you again.
I have a cousin who is very thin skinned and passive aggressive. He will temporarily ghost if his feelings get hurt or ego bruised, which is often, sadly. Otherwise he's a great guy. It's getting increasingly difficult to tolerate his "episodes" and ghosting games.
Yes! Spineless, selfish, passive aggressive people ghost others. Unless you are ghosting someone who is abusive there is NO excuse for treating others that way. It's manipulative and petty. And no one buys the "too busy" excuse.
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Then he might put his mind on me to not give my right points in exam n stuff
THEY ARE THE reason why I am crying