Principle Based Living
Principle Based Living
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How To Change Behavior
How do you get others to change their behavior?
We have our own thoughts that drive how we behave.
3:46] If you use force to change other people's behavior, most likely, you'll experience resistance. And they'll prove you otherwise.
3:39] A better way to share what you know is to understand someone better. Why they do what they do? They may have their reasons. People have their own beliefs.
Watch and Enjoy!
Randy Soderquist
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Video by Nate Woodbury
BeTheHeroStudios.com
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Видео

Is It Okay To Do Nothing?
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.5 лет назад
1:39] Everything that we do is important. We can't judge a behavior against another. 2:36] Is it okay to do nothing? What is our intention? We need to be aware of what we're doing. We create beliefs. And over time, we become conditioned with most everything we do in our lives. We only pay attention when we're in a new situation we've never been in before. 3:51] Is it in my self-interest to do n...
How To Get Through Divorce Involving Children
Просмотров 7745 лет назад
Divorces can be one of the most difficult things one can go through life, especially if children are involved. Think that you're accountable for your life. Everyone else your children or your spouse you may influence, but you're not accountable to them. Also, think about what you have control over. You've no control over them if you're not with them so you need to take care of yourself. Watch a...
How To Not Take Things For Granted
Просмотров 3,7 тыс.5 лет назад
There are many things to be grateful for but sometimes we get so caught up in our daily lives that we tend to overlook the blessings. I have 2 ideas I want to share with you if you want to avoid taking things for granted. I'm sure this will help you live a better quality of life. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
How To Achieve A Goal When Motivation Disappears
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.5 лет назад
Motivation is what pushes us to move forward in life, especially when we're trying to achieve our goals. But do you ever find your motivation fading away? It happens and it's normal. If you want to find out how you can endure through your journey, here are 3 things you must know. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
How To Solve Money Problems In A Relationship
Просмотров 3,8 тыс.5 лет назад
Money is one of the closest things to our hearts and could be a source of conflict in a relationship but the truth is, money does not exist and there are underlying issues that need work on. Stay tuned if you want to learn how to solve money problems in a relationship. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
Principle Based Parenting
Просмотров 9815 лет назад
If you're a parent, this video is for you. I talk about principles that govern our lives that can help your journey in parenthood and my personal experiences as well. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
What Is Mental Health Therapy And Does It Work?
Просмотров 2825 лет назад
Mental health is part of our overall wellness and is something that shouldn't be overlooked. If you know someone who's in mental health therapy, this video might help you understand what it's all about, why it's necessary for some people and if it really works. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
What To Do If I Feel Stuck In My Life
Просмотров 8305 лет назад
Most of us go through the phase of being stuck in life and some days we feel we're alone but we really aren't, this is very common. Let's talk about what it means when we get stuck in life, what we are stuck from and what to do when you feel this way. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
Parenting From A Place Of Guilt
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Guilt is a strong emotion and when we start to parent our children coming from a place of guilt, it becomes unhealthy. If you want to know how to overcome this, then you've come to the right place. In this video, I remind you of the 3 foundational principles that we talk about that can help you deal with guilt better. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com...
190501 Randy 04 What is normal anxiety and when does it require treatment
Просмотров 1855 лет назад
When we say anxiety, we often think about the feeling of too much worry and to fear something that might happen but did you know that there is a level of normal anxiety? Find that out in this video and discover when anxiety requires treatment. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
Update On 2019 Goals
Просмотров 1905 лет назад
If you have been watching my channel for quite some time now, you've probably heard abou my goals for the year. In this episode, I'm going to give you an update on how I've been doing and my progress on my goals. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
What To Do If Spouses Have Different Interests Or Hobbies?
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.5 лет назад
One of the most important things in a relationship is the connection and it's usually through similarities of partners where they find the connection but what if your spouse have different interests and hobbies as you? Should that get in the way of a healthy relationship? Let's talk about that in this video. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.c...
Benefits Of Residential Treatment
Просмотров 1715 лет назад
As a parent, we always feel responsible for our children's development - how they make choices in their life and how they live their life. And because of that, we often think that it is not necessary to send them in residential treatment when they are causing bad things to happen in our family. But what do residential treatments really can do to your children? Find out in this video. Watch and ...
The Power Of Questions
Просмотров 5935 лет назад
Do you think it's true when they say that the quality of our life is determined by the quality of our questions? In this episode, we're talking about how self-talk affects our lives, how our brain works, and what happens when you ask the right questions to yourself. Watch and Enjoy! Randy Soderquist Video by Nate Woodbury BeTheHeroStudios.com RUclips.com/c/NateWoodbury
What Is The Difference Between Judging And Observing?
Просмотров 2,1 тыс.5 лет назад
What Is The Difference Between Judging And Observing?
How To Adjust When Moving To A New Location Or City
Просмотров 4,8 тыс.5 лет назад
How To Adjust When Moving To A New Location Or City
Should There Be An Age Limit To Social Media?
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.5 лет назад
Should There Be An Age Limit To Social Media?
How To Teach An 8-Year-Old The Principle Of Control
Просмотров 2475 лет назад
How To Teach An 8-Year-Old The Principle Of Control
Principle Based Living
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.5 лет назад
Principle Based Living
What To Do When Your Child Doesn't Listen
Просмотров 8075 лет назад
What To Do When Your Child Doesn't Listen
When does my child need residential treatment?
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.5 лет назад
When does my child need residential treatment?
How To Discipline A Child With ODD
Просмотров 4,4 тыс.5 лет назад
How To Discipline A Child With ODD
How To Help A Teenager With Drug Addiction
Просмотров 10 тыс.5 лет назад
How To Help A Teenager With Drug Addiction
The Importance Of Keeping Commitments To Yourself
Просмотров 4955 лет назад
The Importance Of Keeping Commitments To Yourself
How Not To Be Offended
Просмотров 3185 лет назад
How Not To Be Offended
Running My First Ultra Marathon (Part 2)
Просмотров 455 лет назад
Running My First Ultra Marathon (Part 2)
How To Give Your Teenager Confidence
Просмотров 1025 лет назад
How To Give Your Teenager Confidence
How To Get My Parents To Let Me Do What I Want
Просмотров 1905 лет назад
How To Get My Parents To Let Me Do What I Want
Lessons Learned In 2019 Goals
Просмотров 545 лет назад
Lessons Learned In 2019 Goals

Комментарии

  • @d1987reid
    @d1987reid 16 часов назад

    I also get angry when I spill water on my clothes. I get wet when I do that and I feel like screaming.

  • @d1987reid
    @d1987reid День назад

    I get super pissed when I drop stuff. It's so damn aggravating to where I want to kick a door or something. It doesn't take much for me to get angry.

  • @hanazawarui-jb9ic
    @hanazawarui-jb9ic 2 дня назад

    idk if he is trying to help, or just explaining things. as a solo traveller, meeting new people and going to differnt places. you'd feel like, you dont know what to do.

  • @Mike-gn3bb
    @Mike-gn3bb 5 дней назад

    People make me sick

  • @a.k.a.4794
    @a.k.a.4794 7 дней назад

    Stick with the truth that way you're not wrong❗ Are lies a waste of Gods time & energy⁉️ Truth religion is one of the 4300+ religions sorry it doesn't take your money or start wars like the Italian Mafia or the Government 🚫☢️-🌏⭐❣️

  • @LiikenneKuvaus_Katt
    @LiikenneKuvaus_Katt 9 дней назад

    The scariest part for me is the queue lmao for me once i step in the line theres no going back because people immediately pile behind me and theres no space to back out, i have to watch as the ride goes and finishes and then sit down, getting strapped and knowing i cant back our anymore you have to go through it alllmaoo

  • @marloboutte6661
    @marloboutte6661 10 дней назад

    If the person doesn't see how abusive and horrible their anger is to live with, you have to take care of yourself and leave.

  • @libyfernandes2499
    @libyfernandes2499 16 дней назад

    Love and marriage is a beautiful gift from God. Living in harmony despite all differences is biggest challenge I think both partners need to work at

  • @ctpatriot9116
    @ctpatriot9116 18 дней назад

    I joined the military just to get away

  • @gregorylatta8159
    @gregorylatta8159 18 дней назад

    God is the purpose, not happiness.

  • @MishaDavis-rr4ik
    @MishaDavis-rr4ik 18 дней назад

    How can i leave a marriage with no money i mean come on now smh

  • @rahmamohammed2103
    @rahmamohammed2103 18 дней назад

    Please I just started with my 17 year old son. Three days clean. Please I need guidance cos I'm 31 and confused on how to go about the whole thing. Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you

  • @AndrewMooreJ
    @AndrewMooreJ 19 дней назад

    Ok. This guy is the real deal.

  • @ohla7159
    @ohla7159 20 дней назад

    Im unhappy with my marriage because my husband doesn’t satisfy me in bed 😢 also. I dont feel he trust me on finances, he hides his income away from me. 😢

  • @MissLerae3r4t5
    @MissLerae3r4t5 23 дня назад

    Man i live in Utah and I terrified of cannibal but I will go there!

  • @muffintopz4692
    @muffintopz4692 25 дней назад

    Yes, let’s attach meaning to pain: it means loss of quality of life, it means unnecessary expenses, it means being viewed and treated as ‘less than’, it means loss of income for a full year when you have a child to support, it means garbage sleep for years nonstop, it means, degradation in physical health and overall beauty, it means isolation from others, it means having no one to discuss it with, it means extreme fatigue, it means EVERYTHING in your life suffers because of the pain. People who don’t feel your pain don’t care one bit. People who inflict the pain don’t care one bit. But hey, I’m still alive so there ya go. 😐🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @lheya88
    @lheya88 28 дней назад

    My son when angry used to dig the soil by his hand. I need to understand

  • @cheylie157
    @cheylie157 Месяц назад

    How TF do you cope with a customer that recorded you.

  • @ericachamlee3684
    @ericachamlee3684 Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @Olympus_has_fallen
    @Olympus_has_fallen Месяц назад

    Here to endure the pain of my parents beating

  • @ayacouzi2965
    @ayacouzi2965 Месяц назад

    I love your prespectives on issues and how you present them, thank you for sharing the knowledge!!

  • @show_me_your_kitties
    @show_me_your_kitties Месяц назад

    7:13 He financially abused me for the last time. The trust is destroyed. I have tried every way possible over the last 6 years, it's not happening. There is them and us, him and I; my burdens are mine hos burdens our ours; what's his is his what's mine is everyone's. Incredibly selfish person who does not want me. I have two weeks to prepare. I told him i will not be able to hold the family up and save to leave, he has to do it on his own. He has used me financially for years with no conscious what so ever. There is no future here and I can't do it anymore but I am afraid. I know i will make it but im still scared.

  • @shovel5526
    @shovel5526 Месяц назад

    got yelled at so bad today I needed to search this LMAO

    • @xkiller007x8
      @xkiller007x8 Месяц назад

      Welcome to customer service and enjoy!

  • @MultiAarcher
    @MultiAarcher Месяц назад

    What I’m Trying To Control Or Wanting To Control Is What Properties In The Outside World Can Fly The American Flag Or Where The American Flag Can No Longer Fly As An Everyday Thing The American Flag Is One Of The Only Thing That’s Causing Me To Want To Find An Eye Flash Machine To Give Me The Choice Not To See It Not Just On Google Earth And Street View On Google Maps But Also In Reality Too For It To Be Black Or White For My Eyes

  • @kashishkandhari2213
    @kashishkandhari2213 Месяц назад

  • @tracyklein9669
    @tracyklein9669 Месяц назад

    This is very helpful to me and my family. I made some mistakes like that. ❤

  • @Lizheller08
    @Lizheller08 Месяц назад

    my dad finds my weed and vapes cause he’s ALLWAYS on the look out nowadays, i walked into his room while he was sleeping and while i walked out he thought i stole his pills, what i usually use is carts and nic im not doing no hard drugs or anything and he doesn’t trust me at all he thinks im a drug addict and idk what to do anymore

  • @viridianhughes219
    @viridianhughes219 2 месяца назад

    What about a customer who intentionally sows confusion-where it is very obvious?

  • @1gaylas
    @1gaylas 2 месяца назад

    I'm 59 yrs old and have never had a career, I've had jobs just not what I would consider a career. Currently, and for a very long time I've been trying to open a business and so as I'm listening to your video, I'm thinking of several reasons why I am not lucky enough to do this, or there's some other reason why it wouldn't work out for me. I thought I was 100% committed but I guess I am afraid to get out of my comfort zone.

  • @nursehatchet6000
    @nursehatchet6000 2 месяца назад

    Is it safe to say that reason is a principle based on a natural law.

  • @josephp8815
    @josephp8815 2 месяца назад

    Sometimes I do what I want to do. The rest of the time, I do what I have to. - Cicero.

  • @shakirov.nicole
    @shakirov.nicole 2 месяца назад

    you named your video how to make friends and went on telling us not to…

  • @leaperm3433
    @leaperm3433 2 месяца назад

    I’ve literally become the most confrontational person.

  • @JonathanCrossland
    @JonathanCrossland 2 месяца назад

    Values drive behaviour. Substituting behaviours for other behaviours is just a fools errand. The best way to change, is to change the weights of values. If you value somethng that is in opposition to a behaviour, you must amplify that value until it is more valuable and the behaviours will change. Its all about values.

  • @JonathanCrossland
    @JonathanCrossland 2 месяца назад

    I also doubt that people get married because they think their life is going to be better. Instead it is more likely that they want to be with that person no matter what.

  • @JonathanCrossland
    @JonathanCrossland 2 месяца назад

    One wonders how many conscious thoughts over unconscious thoughts there are. Most thoughts pop into our heads, when we speak, we dont acrually know what we are going to say as we are speaking. One also has to wonder about control of emotions. Rationally it seems that we can, but there are many scenarios where people have done things they are clinically not in control of. The final one is control of behaviour. This is where I would agree wholeheartedly. We are in control of our actions, although there are some "reactions" we are not control of. You are specifically talking about conscious thinking and acting, but cognitively this is not alwaya true. For example, with anxiety, I cannot control cortisol and adrenaline in my brain, causing anxiety. This is a chemical response to which I cannot control. I can try to mitigate it, but its biological.

  • @ks506soton
    @ks506soton 2 месяца назад

    When both parties are financially screwed! When a child is too old to live with the parent, but the parent is co-dependant on the child, so both people become incapacitated! Our institutions, governments and just simply the way we live don’t make things easy for anyone.

  • @FleurOlivia
    @FleurOlivia 2 месяца назад

    Thank you, I listened and wrote down and applied it to a current situation I am facing. This really guided me into the right direction and way of thinking. Thank you for being so helpful.

  • @dorajones8581
    @dorajones8581 2 месяца назад

    His last name is sober quits 😂😂😂😂

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki 2 месяца назад

    I don’t think they will ever be solved lol

  • @hatemmh2191
    @hatemmh2191 3 месяца назад

    I hope you soon get back to this priceless and fruitful channel

  • @hatemmh2191
    @hatemmh2191 3 месяца назад

    I really enjoy my time watching and learning from you You're great

  • @Sky6an
    @Sky6an 3 месяца назад

    This is literally the most useless video Ive ever watched😂 bro really said “oh you feel underpaid? Well how about you change your mindset on that😢” bro stfu💀🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @koyeldas8706
    @koyeldas8706 3 месяца назад

    There's a teacher in my school who just hates me maybe because i don't butter her like others and always insults me. I always try to avoid her but it's not possible all the time i have stopped going to school because of her but tomorrow I'll have to go school. I feel like dropping out 😒

  • @daveloncarr1698
    @daveloncarr1698 3 месяца назад

    Thank u for this teaching! The point about it not being confrontation but what I believe or connect with it really helped me!

  • @melissacannon2915
    @melissacannon2915 3 месяца назад

    Would this apply to a child as young as 3 years old?

    • @principlebasedliving3294
      @principlebasedliving3294 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for your question. The thing about principles is that they apply to everyone. However, the way in which you apply the principle may differ depending on the person, their age etc

  • @Emeraldcity747
    @Emeraldcity747 3 месяца назад

    And there's this other Ethiopian guy so he's like around Tyrone's age 32 years old and it didn't really have a job he was complaining about his cousin Solomon that he stole money from him and everything so one day I kicked them out I want to live with me in the studio I'm like you know you're not working you don't got no kids no no wife and everything I don't expect you to to live with me and everything I see him after a couple months later like and he doesn't want to give me his number cuz I never looked at you the same you like fake and everything and I'm not trying to get taken advantage of and he got like he came from back from New York was being homeless and he came back to like Washington State still being homeless and he tried to give me to go to New York for with him for a visit I'm like what am I going to do there? I think even friends like they tried to take advantage when they don't think that they're trying to use you like I try to be helpful and everything but people do take advantage of their own friends even their family members and it's it's a it's a sad it's a habit though it's like second nature when people take things for granted people for granted.

  • @Emeraldcity747
    @Emeraldcity747 3 месяца назад

    You know that so after that like I have not even like a couple of my friends African-American dude this guy isn't he's like lazy doesn't want to work and I was helping to move out he's living with his mom says like 33 years old and he got so I'll just tell I told him like yo he has an autistic brother right so I said he should come to my country in Africa and got holy water people got cured cancer, AIDS and cancer he was like no I don't need that. So then after that today he got like schizophrenia or whatever so when I drove to the casino his name is Tyrone Elliott and after that I never heard it from him past 10 years from 2014 till now I was helping him driving around sometimes I bought them food or whatever I always helped him out.

  • @Emeraldcity747
    @Emeraldcity747 3 месяца назад

    I think you know I'm in Seattle Washington and stuff like that I don't know about other cities but especially in this city that I helped the homeless people less fortunate especially the females and I give them my real phone number and I bought them for the drink I was just asking him to be drug addicts or just homeless or you know I'm not mentally ill but like people that is coherent so I get and they never hit me one time or texting me data that they will never see me again and one girl even asked me she said and what do you want in return I'm like I just want to be a Good Samaritan to help and everything so that was only this one girl and the white I'll let her sleep stay with me I'll pay for the hotel room but I slept there too so that's just one story where I bought her even her cell phone and Metro and then after that. So then after that I never heard from her one time I called the number that she gave me the number and I never seen her ever again I'm like wow. So anyway long story short anyway me and her were like I was just about Cardinals or whatever in case she wants to mess around so she just seen over here sex or whatever. It didn't even have a voicemail and

  • @jocelynpowell6223
    @jocelynpowell6223 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for taking confusion out of confrontation. Well thoughout and heart delivered. Thank you for the compassion. You have helped me tremendously.