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Elder Care Attorneys of Arkansas is dedicated to helping seniors and their families plan for the future with peace of mind. Our unique value proposition lies in our expert advice and planning, which can help get you the relief you need during difficult times. Our mission is to empower individuals by creating personalized Elder Care Protection Plans that ensure their wishes are respected and assets are protected. We strive to be a trusted resource for our clients, providing them with valuable support, guidance, and solutions when it matters most. Through our vision of comprehensive care and strategic planning, we aim to give seniors more control over their lives and allow them to maintain their independence as they age gracefully. Trust us for dependable guidance in preserving your loved ones' well-being while saving you time, energy, and worry along the way.
This Is What Can Happen If You Don't Have a Life Care Plan In Place
If you are trying to ensure your end-of-life care is set up properly, you should have a life care plan. Not only does this ensure you can have the care you were looking for, but it will help guide your loved ones to your wishes. Watch now to learn how not having one, can be more than a headache!
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Maintain The Quality Of Life You Deserve With Elder Care Planning
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We have been helping families and seniors put together the best plan for their end of life care for more than 30 years. We believe that maintaining the quality of life you deserve is extremely important. That is why we do what we do. Watch this video to learn more about ECAA and how we help families across Arkansas plan for the future. #ecaa #eldercareattorneysofarkansass #endoflifecare #lifeca...
Common Concerns When Starting Life Care Planning
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If you are starting to do life care planning with your family, we know it can be an overwhelming task. That is why we do our best to help you through each step to ensure the best plan is implemented for your parents and you. Watch this video now to hear some common concerns and questions we get! 00:29 - What is Life Care Planning? 01:35 - What is an Elder Care Coordinator? 02:13 - How does a Li...
Common Questions About Estate Planning We Hear All The Time
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Do you really need an estate plan? Do you need to plan for end-of-life care? These are just a few of the questions we hear almost daily. Today, I am going to answer these questions to hopefully help you through these worries. 00:24- Why is estate planning important, and when should I start? 1:33 - What should I do if my parent is struggling with cognitive of physical challenges, and I live far ...
Arkansas Estate Planning Lawyers Who Can Help YOU With Life Care Planning
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Did you know there is such a thing as Life Care Planning? Elder law is more than just planning where your assets go after death. Sometimes, you need to plan for what will happen BEFORE that moment. Watch this video now to see how we help families start life care planning and how we have helped families throughout Lonoke County! #ecaa #eldercareattorneysofarkansass #endoflifecare #lifecare #lono...
Securing the Future: Financial Strategies for Facility Care | 3 Boxes of Care | ECAA
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COMPLEMENTARY ASSESSMENT LINK: elp.legal/ztwa3 In the third video in our "3 Boxes" video miniseries, learn ways to pay for care, how to protect assets, and advocate for your Loved One once facility care is necessary for their well-being. Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/ztwa3 If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click t...
Empowering Advocacy: Understanding and Meeting Your Loved One's Needs | 3 Boxes of Care | ECAA
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COMPLEMENTARY ASSESSMENT LINK: elp.legal/oawbo In the second video in our "3 Boxes" video miniseries, learn ways to assess your Loved One's needs, care for them, advocate for them, and help them the best way you can. Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/oawbo If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click the notification bell,...
Crafting a Care Plan: The 3-Legged Stool Approach | 3 Boxes of Care | ECAA
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COMPLIMENTARY ASSESSMENT CALL LINK: elp.legal/lur58 In the first video in our "3 Boxes" video miniseries, learn ways to plan for care and future healthcare needs before they arise. We will show you how planning is like a "3-legged stool" - if one leg is missing or broken, disastrous results await! Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/lur58 If you like th...
Meet our Elder Care Coordinator - the ECAA "Quarterback" | Elder Care Attorneys of Arkansas
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Meet our Elder Care Coordinator, Ashley Founds! With a recent certification as an Elder Care Coordinator from Stockton University and a background in business management, Ashley brings a well-rounded skill set to her role at ECAA. Watch the video to see how an ECC like Ashley can help you and your Loved One! Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/qmm6b If ...
Hurdles to Qualify for Medicaid Assistance | Elder Care Attorneys of Arkansas
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In this video, Doug discusses issues you may face with Medicaid qualification as an elderly patient and ways to overcome them. Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/7rtf1 If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click the notification bell, so you don't miss another! Website: www.ecaa.law Facebook: ElderCareAttorney...
How to Pay for Long-Term Care WITHOUT Going Broke | Elder Care Attorneys of Arkansas
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In this video, you will learn practical planning techniques and tips to pay for long-term care WITHOUT going broke! Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click this link: elp.legal/1m1qy If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click the notification bell, so you don't miss another! Website: www.ecaa.law Facebook: arkelderlaw/ Facebook G...
COVID Update for Caregivers | Elder Law Practice
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In this video, Doug and Cindy discuss the impact of COVID and the affect it's having on Caregivers and Nursing Homes Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? Click here: elp.legal/eud78 If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click the notification bell, so you don't miss another! Website: www.arkelderlaw.com Facebook: arkelderlaw/ Faceboo...
When Probate is Required - Elder Law
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When probate is required. In this video, Doug discusses the situations when probate is required and the solutions to overcome this. Want some free advice? Need help coming up with a plan? [insert new shortlink with campaign set to video id and term set to title of video except lower case and dash instead of spaces] If you like this video hit the thumbs up, click subscribe, and then click the no...
Trust Fund Setup | Elder Law Practice
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Trust Fund Setup | Elder Law Practice
Why Avoid Probate? | Elder Law Practice
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Why Avoid Probate? | Elder Law Practice
Protect Estate from Nursing Home Expenses| Elder Law Practice
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Protect Estate from Nursing Home Expenses| Elder Law Practice
Protect Assets from Medicaid | Elder Law Practice
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Protect Assets from Medicaid | Elder Law Practice
Staying Out of the Nursing Home | Elder Law Practice
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Staying Out of the Nursing Home | Elder Law Practice
Will vs Living Trust - Probate Issues
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Will vs Living Trust - Probate Issues
Alzheimers Care Plan - The steps to take
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Alzheimers Care Plan - The steps to take
Going to nursing home? How not to lose all your money!
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Going to nursing home? How not to lose all your money!
Nursing Care Plan - How to protect your parents assets
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Nursing Care Plan - How to protect your parents assets
5 Ways to Pay for Nursing Home Stay | Elder Law Practice
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5 Ways to Pay for Nursing Home Stay | Elder Law Practice
How to Get Medicaid Assistance for Nursing Home Care | Elder Law Practice
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How to Get Medicaid Assistance for Nursing Home Care | Elder Law Practice
Choosing the Right Nursing Home | Elder Law Practice
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Choosing the Right Nursing Home | Elder Law Practice
Exempt vs. Countable Assets | Elder Law Practice
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Exempt vs. Countable Assets | Elder Law Practice
Single Person: Nursing Home Issues | Elder Law Practice
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Single Person: Nursing Home Issues | Elder Law Practice
your elderly parent or parents are not beings that you just put out sight just because they are no longer beneficial to your lifestyle. hey they ,sacrificed for you when you were a child
Thanks for sharing. Its hard to see what is right when youre in the middle of this type of scenario, ehich I have been.
Putting parents in nursing homes is basically abandoning them. It’s a disgrace in many cultures.
Do you guys still accept phone calls I need to talk to somebody I don’t know what to do about my mom
Honestly never do this... just build a separate space near the house and have nurses come in and out and have a camera... because they (referring to the Nursing homes) contribute to Polypharmacy/ Prescription cascading...too many medications and put them on Psyche meds without their permission and more dangerous things..
My mother had to be admitted into a Care Home after she had a second fall in June 2022 and was admitted into hospital. 0:10 She had previously been living alone for the past 30 years since my dad died. Mother had the full care package and was adamant that a Care Home was never going to be an option. We realised that mother, at this stage , had reached the end of being independent . She had stage 5 Alzheimers and after an assessment, was deemed to be incapable of self maintenance. Mother was in the Care Home for 4 months where she died aged 95. No, we do not have any regrets because there was nothing more that any of us 4 siblings could have done for her. She died peacefully. Her long journey finally at an end.
I’m currently considering putting my mom in a home. My sister tried and I’ve tried. I currently have an aid that comes in 7 days a week for 5 hours but it’s not enough. I want to grow my family with my wife but having my mom and doing that is too much. It’s a hard decision.
Did you ever figure out what to do I’m in such a hard place right now trying to figure out what to do . My mom been in nursing home since 2015 she has dementia .. I don’t know if I can take care of her especially because I’m going through so much but I don’t want her to stay in a nursing home maybe I need to find a good one
@@SharlenesJourney so it’s ironic that you responded to my comment. My mom is currently in the process of going into a home. I made the decision because I knew that I couldn’t give her the 100% care that she needed. It more than about growing my family. My mom has a lot of underlying health issues that is too much for me to give her the proper care. My mom needed 100 % care because she is totally disabled. There are good nurses homes out there just do your research.
@@jwall8415 thank you so much for responding I think I’m Going to do the same . Cause you’re right I can’t care for her the way she deserves she deserves 24/7 care and if I have to leave and go somewhere I can’t just leave her there alone in my place . I just want to find a good place for her cause where she is at now is not good at all but thank you so much again for replying all the best to you and your family 🙏🏾
You never answered the question itself. You introduced the question, then grimaced. Then you danced around the issue and made suggestions for an adult child to get help or look for siblings or others to help. The answer to the question is: YES, a person *can* refuse to care for an elderly parent. They cannot legally be forced to take on care. The state can and will step in if there isn't anyone available to care for the elder, and the state will take guardianship of the elder as a next step. A child is not legally required to be a parent's caregiver. As you know, there are adult children who are estranged from their families, including parents. These situations are not uncommon.
I’ve done it since I was 17 years old in many ways along with my own life and then my kids, my dad just passed may he rest in peace but everything it’s been pretty satisfying, yes you can get overwhelmed sometimes but that is what my heart calls and I do not regret it a bit.
Nursing Homes are in business for profit not for providing adequate care for the resident/patient. I'm terrified !!!!! It's the meat and the money not care.
My mother was the 'well spouse' and she just passed away while trying to care for her husband, who is completely dependent now and I had to finish her efforts in placing him into the assisted living facility that she had picked for him and was in the process of signing him up for. I just got him in there and now he thinks I'm mad at him because of it and so I'm dealing with grieving my mom, while my dad thinks I'm angry with him. Trying to grieve mom (the both of us are grieving), and he's dealing with feeling like I've kicked him to the curb. I as not expecting how hard it is to deal with grieving my mother (4 days ago) and also dealing with the guilt of homing my father. I feel like I'm being beaten down from multiple angles and I took to YT to find videos like these for better understanding. Thank you both for sharing this with us. I appreciate you.
This is all so true, just went through this.
This is my take: - If you have inherited fortune or property from your parents, then you have the moral obligation to take care of them. - If you have abusive parents, destroying your family or peace of mind, then return the property back to your parents and ask them to use it for an old-age home. They gave birth, raised you and it wasn’t your choice. But inheritance is totally your choice. Stay on the right path. Don’t cheat your own parents. Don’t take their earnings/ property and ditch them.
That's a good way to put it. Of course, there's a lot of nuances to these situations, so it's not always so cut and dry, but this is a great take.
I traveled across country to take care of 91 year old parent after surgeries 4 times. Now I've lost my savings and run up debt. Especially paying housesitter to watch pets. So I told parent the ONLY way I can help is if they move in with me. They refused. I can't afford to quit my job so I'm 😢staying home. I offered a good solution. I guess I'll have to sell their house from here to pay for their care. Can't afford to take time off work and travel there.
Thank you very much. We are struggling right now with my 73 year old father.
Is it illegal to just say “I have no intention of helping my elderly parent, spouse, child what so ever.” ?
Oh I feel so bad for the caregiver. A nursing home sucks. Have home health aides
It’s the responsibility of the person to make the arrangements for their own needs. If they failed to plan for their declining years, then they get whatever is available to them. We will all die someday and most of us will spend a number of years with extreme disabilities. There’s literally no excuse to not plan ahead for this eventually.
Thank you so much for the tips! I am overly worried about my mum who I think is declining in her physical health but she refuses to get herself checked up, even if she is struggling. I will look forward to use these ideas when talking to her! Thank you :D
Thanks for the great video. Having a mum in a nursing home with Alzheimers has been a big transition after having mum live with us for the past 2 years. The guilt video has helped me greatly.
My 90 year old grandma back is so bad she can barley stand up and she spends most of the day just sitting in a chair thinking. Her dementia is so bad she can't pay her bills, figure out how to operate the TV/Computer or even read a book. A few months ago she hit the gas pedal instead of the brake when she was pulling into the Safeway parking lot and made a small dent in the building. We tried to explain to her why the policeman had to take her drivers license but she didn't seem to understand. She fell 3 times this year, the last time she fell she broke her jaw and a broken tooth poked through her lip. She has a walker that could have prevented this fall but she thinks she doesn't need a walker. She treated us very well over the years and we really want to help her but she gets mad when we try to help and she won't do any of the things we ask her to do. She thinks if she doesn't ask for help she isn't a burden and in her demented state I don't think we can convince her otherwise. The reality is refusing our help makes her more of a burden each time she ends up in the hospital we have to drive several hours to her place and live at her place for weeks while she recovers. We told her you have been to the hospital too many times this last year, living on you're own isn't working we are really worried about you being alone and we want you to move in with one of us or move into a assisted living facility. Some of us are getting so frustrated we might not help her in the future, its not fair to us to have to spend so much time away from home caring for her, she needs to be willing to move closer and follow some our helpful suggestions. Its really hard to not help her she was so good to us when she was younger but you just can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped. We can't afford a long court battle to prove her mental incompetence and it sounds like we'd need to have an ironclad case because the court often sides with the elderly. Her doctor doesn't seem to care he just likes the money he's making from her frequent hospital visits. Some of he neighbors are starting to question why we aren't doing more and I think we might be accused of neglect but at this point after trying everything we could think off we are about ready to give up.
I can understand IF there was abuse to the child by the parents then maybe you are too angry to help out. Here is my thinking.... if a parent raised the child, educated the child for 18-21 years do you not owe them something in their old age? What about a second wife having to do ALL the caretaking and two perfectly capable adult children who do nothing for their FATHER who went into debt to raise and educate them. How can you be so selfish?
Struggling with this.
My 94 year old mother had stage 5/6 Alzheimers and lived on her own for 32 years after my dad died. Mother was fiercely independent,refused to recognise that there was anything wrong with her and went through 4 sets of carers since her diagnosis in 2014. She had a care package and relied heavily on my sister for her obsessions with lights and parked cars. She had other health and capacity issues which caused great concern for all members of my family. After a fall in June 2022, mother was finally admitted into hospital. She refused to go at first but her condition deteriorated rapidly. In hospital she was assessed by a Carer Home manager and admitted after 3 weeks of hospitalisation in August. Mother got a chest infection and passed away with family at her bedside in December 2022. She hated being in her care home but it was the best place for her with the support and comfort always present. We have no regrets about her placement.
it is not their call if they have nowhere to live.
Hope is not a plan.
Hope is not a plan it’s an attitude, lifestyle.
Excellent job you two!
Please keep in mind that not all of us have had Mike and Carol Brady or Ward and June Cleaver for a Mother and Father Some of us may feel we do not want to be involved especially if their demeanor towards us hasn't changed
That was a very caring way to address this issue.
No they are just selfish
Great explanation
Thank you for the video. After exhausting every option, we put my mom in a nursing home. She has Alzheimer’s dementia Parkinson’s and diabetes. My brother and I had no choice 😭 God knows we tried.
No you did not you both took the easy way out..like when you got born and cried all night long did they took you to an orphanage and said o well we tried ....from a nursing home is just a slow death without love ones
@@orlandocala2941 Parents taking care of a healthy child is a LOT different than grown children trying to take care of a sick, declined parent especially with Dementia. You don't know his situation, maybe he and his brother work and cannot be there with her all day long, suppose something would happen to her, they would feel guilty and blame themselves. Not everyone is in a position to be the caregiver for their parents, but where she is now IS where she will get the care that she needs 24/7. They did all that they could have but there comes a time when you have to pass it on to the professionals to handle, and not all nursing homes are a "slow death", they are not all depressing and terrible places like they used to be, there are some very nice facilities which are nice and equipped to deal with patients and give them a better quality of life then they would have gotten at home with family members trying to take care of them.
Too many parents just let their eldercare fall to others and forget that they're responsible for themselves and their own planning. By making your kids do it for you because you're too scared, you end up making their sibling relationship suffer because they are inevitably going to disagree about your care. And your relationship with them will suffer as they resent you for this covert contract you've shoved on them for your choice of bringing them into this life and now making them pay for it by letting you be their child as an old person, but all without their consent! So insidiously evil.
Well said
Agreed. I was very shy kid and my grandma was one of only a few people who I was comfortable talking with. She was more than the typical Grandma she was also a friend at a time when I didn't have many friends. I have many good memories of visiting Grandma over the Holidays and until recently we were on good terms and we talked every couple weeks on the phone. Now I'm mad at her and will not speak to her because she is placing an unfair burden on my Mom. She needs round the clock care but she won't move in with one of us or move into a assisted living facility. My 67 year old Mom has to drive 500 miles and live with her for weeks each time she falls and ends up in the hospital and she been to the hospital 3 or 4 times in the last year. It seems a shame to spend a lifetime gaining a families repsect then go out with the whole familiy hating you but thats the direction things are headed.
I’d like to hear about being the only family member who’s involved in caregiving for the loved one.- lot of feelings involved there
That's me. I've been caring for my mom 9yrs .I have 6 older brothers who have never helped me with mom. The anger and resentment is palpable 😢
Or the state won’t pay for full time care. But they’ll pay for a facility
I’m 70 yo. A+O+3 living with my husband in our private home. Questions for future -- 1) if I don’t want certain Tx ,I.e. G-tube,surgery, NH,ETC. But I’m not completely lost mentally and still making a lot of life choices for myself , who consider that I’m the risk for my life? Why someone else, but me ,knows what is really better for me ? 2)Can I make d health and life decisions now, while I’m absolutely able to,so my children or others have to and OBLIGATED to follow? If “ YES “ - how to do it?
Its not that easy to place them in a home is what a lot of people fail to realize Expect phone calls demanding that you take your parent home and that you sign to be financially responsible Expect to be threatened to be bought up on elder neglect charges If you think your parent will be lovingly drawn in to a Nursing Home without any annoyance to you Your in for a RUDE AWAKENING
You're talking about the same people that raised you up from a baby somewhere along the line you need to put a little bit of effort into help them out not poor f****** me
Sounds harsh. Taking care of an elderly family member is way more exhausting caring for small children. Some elderly people are combative and fight with dementia, etc.
exactly,some are literally physically abusive.
Every person with dementia are their individual case and family case.
Walk a mile in a family caregivers shoes when trying to care for a person with stage 5/6 Alzheimer's disease when the caregivers are elderly themselves ... 😩
You can't compare a defenseless infant with a violent, stubborn, elder with dementia. 🤦♂️ Also, parents made the CHOICE in having children so they put themselves in the situation of having to raise them. However, one did not make the choice to be born into this world, and yet we're still supposed to be forced to deal with their violent, stubborn, incoherent attitude because they chose to have children. Yeah, let that sink in.
Yes. Yes, you can refuse. It's not your job to care for elderly parents. Especially if they were abusive a$$holes. It's called 'what goes around comes around". Besides, the parent brought you into this life that you did not ask for. Thus, caregiving requirements fall on the parent *not* their child ✌
Yes mine were abusive
Thank you for covering this important topic.
Thank you, I definitely need to learn more about a trust.
Very helpful. Thank you for sharing this.
Glad it was helpful!
This is great information. Thank you
You know after my mom passed medicaid was trying to take money from her estate.
Its funny their allowed to have an abortion if they don't want us Their body Their choice But if we can't take care of them Its such a inhumane thing??
What do you mean if they are at risk
At risk of hurting themselves or others. This is a bit of a gray area as you would need to prove this somehow. And even if you do get them to a facility using at risk as the reason, they will be evaluated and possibly let go. In situations where your parent has cognitive issues they may, for brief moments of time, be able to trick those evaluating them into thinking nothing is wrong. As stated in the video it could require guardianship or adult protective services.