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(10 likes for me to ask her out, read the comment lol) My brain has only chose 2, but the one im on rn prolly stopped liking me but i knew she liked me ages ago and now my brain chooses 6/7 months later >:[ Now i wanna at least ask her out, should I? I hate doing this but if this gets just 10 likes ill ask her out and do a yt post on it when i do

I hate having crushes! Is there a way to turn off this feature?

I don't got that algorithm

One of my best decisions in life was to talk to my crush, we actually have a good thing going on

My aroace butt here for no reason at all =/

I had a "crush" on someone I sat across in the cafeteria once at uni and smiled at him (I ate veryyy slowly - just a habit of mine and he ate pretty normal). The next day I saw him sitting at the exact same table at the exact same time like the last time and he even ate more slowly than the day before but was to shy to sit in the empty seat across him again. He saw me coming in, I got nervous and sat at the table right beside him lol. After he ate, he waved to his friends and left. He did it in a childish manner, so I got the ick lol, but I like to think that he told his friends to leave the seat empty. So to see if we would vibe I decided to go to the cafeteria over the week at the same time, spending unnessarry money and hoping to see him again but never did. I guess that sadly won't happen anymore.

Yeah i think my brain was addicted cause i got a crush on someone like twice and was like somewhat thinking abt them for like a year after they got a bf. Atm, we got like super close to dating, but i am now getting over her cause shes been ghosting me for like 4 weeks 🤑. i better not be a massochist bruh

Here I am again, an aroace trying to understand this crazy thing called love

The Bible says do not lust

I don't understand the love and crush at all its like you usually get attracted towards people who are attractive that is further determined by how society views attraction and also the biological factor lust is also in play.

Other than the dumb nine-year-old stuff, I never really had a crush. is something wrong with me? it’s a good thing though. I think I’m just focused on me and studying and learning new stuff and all that.

So this is what normal people feel.

it seems my brain likes to pick someone cute to dote on and project my fantasies onto. my most recent crush, however, is someone that i actually feel comfortable and compatible with. he reminds me a lot of myself, so maybe that familiarity is keeping the crush alive as i get to know him more. we're slowly becoming friends, and i hope one day he'll like me too :3

As someone who watched movies alot connecting with fake characters (By acting), I totally agree it affected who I crushed on in real life based on looks my brain has registered the way this person looks to be someone that's nice and kind and loving or someone with depth, down to earth hence why I am not attracted to Very cute pretty girls cos in the movies and other visual content i've taken in They are portrayed to be insensitive, proud, bitter, heartbreakers so i avoid that even taking in porn too much affects who you crush on real life experience is the best and it's sad i'm just realizing that

Never had a crush, watching this to understand.

I had a girlfriend who is now my ex. I never stopped having a crush on her. I still can't, it hurts so much. The pain doesn't go away, the tears don't stop. My brain can't comprehend that it can have a crush on people other than her. I think it thinks she can't too. But I can't take this pain anymore. I wish I could look at her beautiful face more the last time we met. I don't want to forget anything about her. We are not each other's anymore. I'm in pain.

That's a very good video. Not only did you mention it's upsides, but also the bad parts, like aimless distraction, and how to avoid it. Splendid work!

i have never had a crush in my life, so this is pretty interesting to watch. 😮

You know I'm quite young 19 and i haven't had any crushes for years now. it makes me feel as if something is wrong with me. maybe it's my hormones or maybe i just give up and lie to myself. sometimes i wish i could experience that rush or that feelings again but i just don't anymore. I'm just very indifferent at this point. in a way it's good because it's just unnecessary as it won't be reciprocated anyway but again its a part of human experience and i feel I'm missing out on it

Best video I've seen all damn year ( I don't speak English ).

Limerence stems from parental neglect.

Yea it's not looks it's per$onality

I have a crush on my guy best friend……I love him. We are addicted to talking to each other, and we go out of our ways to talk to one another. I really love talking to him, he makes my day and even if we are talking about sad stuff….he makes me happy. I don’t think anyone has ever had this effect on me, and I’m honestly glad it’s him. I’m gonna marry him one day, I know I will.

This is really interesting!! I would like to read about this subject. Do you have any of the sources?

Why should I be crushing on somebody I haven't seen in over a year?!!

Ohh come on!! This is crazy My brain is tricking for years I had so many crushes once i found out they are not interested on me i give up than after few days new crush came out of nowhere the person i didn't noticed before suddenly they started to look attractive and i was like were where you hidden all these days 😂

I had a crush on someone in my class for three whole years (even online) - and I tried to stop when he found out, and I found another guy (okay, 5 guys), and now after two years, I think I like him again.

I had a crush on someone in my class for three whole years (even online) - and I tried to stop when he found out, and I found another guy (okay, 5 guys), and now after two years, I think I like him again.

my bf and I have been together for 4 1/2 years... it's a long distance relationship and we never met IRL 😅 I was curious how evolution would make it so people can fall in love over a distance... I know I need to talk to someone and know them a bit to fall in love, but I always only heard about the smelling of another person and getting a crush that way. Very interesting, thank you!

Guys ive liked the same girl for 4 years do i need help

The suppositions in your Monroe/Miller comparison are unfortunately not correct, as Arthur did not value or truly see Marylin's depth. Miller was jealous of her fame and famously wrote and rewrote the screenplay of the Misfits on set to humiliate Marylin and paint her as a dumb blonde while he had an affair during a time when she was turning up for work and acting professionally following a miscarriage - a set of circumstances which culminated in their divorce.

Had a hard crush some weeks ago, it was pure pain, and it is good, that the person i crushed on, was not that good as expected

mine doesn't 😐

Now do a 4 hours videos with months of research for neuro atypical folks (Autism and more), that would be mroe fairly accurate to us

crush is based on physical apperance mostly and secondly on status. And if the appearance is very attractive that pretty much translates to status in terms of gens and/or influence solely based on appearance.

I had a lot of male crushes before, (I’m a Female for clarity), but suddenly, I started seeing one of my friends differently, and I felt something stronger than all those male crushes combined for her. I don’t know what happened to me but it got worse the more I knew her, we became close friends before she moved schools. That was the most painful Heartbreak I’d ever felt, and every time I found someone pretty or conversed with anyone and they crave me a compliment.. I thought of her. It’s still haunts me.

i got my first and only crush at 26. hes an unlikely actor that appeared in a dream with my cockatiel after he passed away. he showed me where my cockatiel would be in the afterlife and that he was happy. he also showed me around "the afterlife" for a while. the whole dream was bitter sweet. i didn't know this actor very well, i watched some of one thing he was in years prior. but later that year i decided to search him only to find out he died many years ago and i had no clue. the more i read about him, the more that first crush started to develop and i can understand why. i never heard of such a humble and generous actor. weird, huh

My crush is convinced I’m gay LOL. Luckily it’s like a very small crush so I don’t really care, but it’s kinda funny

“Had an insane crush for 6mo” ok well I’ve had one for 2 years does that make me super insane??

So what does it mean if you have a crush on someone for almost a year?😅

Starting with lust, you lost me. No relationship can be built from lust as lust does not come from Christ Jesus. He (Christ Jesus) is Love. Set Him before all else and everything will fall into place. Trust ONLY in Jesus Christ. He was sent to us which we call Christmas when we celebrate His birth. He died a gruesome death to pay OUR debt which is sin (lust and similar things) on a cross. And by the Grace of God The Father, He (Jesus Christ) has risen from the dead. The One Who Was, The One Who is and Who is to come. Keep your eyes on Him. I pray that those who need to see this message will find it, and that Jesus will soften their hearts and give them the understanding.

Had a really big crush on a girl when I was 18 magical! I’m 62 now Never had remotely anything like that since! Guess I never will now

Crushes are mainly formed from a lack of information; that vividly distant yet fuzzy warmth which sparks you to discover. From my experience, having a genuine one can help you discover humane traits which interest you in pursuing love. To its essence, crushes generally contain aspects which the infatuated one has never truly acquired; leading to a sense of curiosity.

exposure effect is crazy 😭

When I realize I may be attracted to someone, I stay the hell away. Quarantine myself because even before this video, I knew the more you are around someone, the higher the chance of being fond of them. So, staying away works for me. At least for now, I may have to find a better technique later down the road. Oh, I also use rationality and boom, crush gone.

Narrated by someone who is reading verbatim from chatgpt with no knowledge of how to pronounce any of the chemicals 😀

RUclips hacked my brain thoughts too

I've had a crush on someone on school for 5 years and i've never talked to them

For school i had crushes on girls who are really smart( im talking top of the class) and really kind and pretty. I had one for 2 years and as soon as they girl left the school, it stopped..? Then i started to have a crush on the new girl who was also really smart and really nice. Though im only into guys, i have never had a crush on a guy during school, only girls. I have never looked at them in a lustful way either, it was just a liking i guess? Idk. Does that mean something?

what about not being able to move on from someone you initially had no interest in but also couldnt stand not having their attention