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Thank you so much for your content on INFP's

I thought the fourth axis of MBPT is Perceiving vs. Judging-where is this “Prospecting” from? Is this a new interpretation? I am confused

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The reason why I am still single... I haven't found the one who is patient enough to give me enough time to get to know them and determine if I like them before they have given up and moved on. And if you proclaim you like me and 3 weeks later you have a girlfriend, well, at least I haven't wasted my feelings.

Feeling a relationship not worth maintaining. withdraw in silence

Surprised it didn't end with "infp is the best" as all this channel cares about is infp

I can’t understand lol change speaker

INFP Aries

All so true.❤

Not anymore. It was quite humiliating. So I stop. It was bad. I learned how to keep everything inside my head.

What about assertive mediator 😅

Damn so true 😂😂😂

I almost never cry.

Lol just add in borderline personality disorder and ADD and bipolar …. And a cherry on top of CPTSD I’m a wild cocktail of crazy contradictions and fluctuations. And a way to in tuned empath. I struggle to not let it make me become a door mat… hence finally divorcing after 14 years

I agree with many things but, I think we are all different and unique depending on what we have experienced and learnt from it. I disagree about attachement...some bond profoundly but it must be hard for people that love them back (specially if they feel reassured by routine and what is very known) to undertstand and adapt to the levels of freedom, intuition, changing and disrupting that they are so naturally attracted to. I believe what drives them is intuition, if they are spiritually aligned.... it could have amazing results in terms of creativity and even with coming up with innovative solutions for never ending and emerging problems (what our society needs). But if there is no equilibrium in terms of spirituality (anything you define as this) they might be too emotional and might be very hard to build something or get results.Have a great day!

I must be a different kind of INFP because I’m an open mouthy sarcastic dominant book when crossed. You are always going to know exactly what I’m thinking, feeling, going through etc. I’m an enneagram 8, the challenger, so I think that changes things. I’m someone who will be perfectly nice until you aren’t, and then god help you 😂. I probably appear like a weak or meek girl right up until that changes DRASTICALLY. It’s like a switch flips and I’m an entirely different creature. If someone is being bullied or harmed in some way, I’m right into the fray regardless of the fight size. I’ve bolted into the middle of a group of men surrounding a gay man who was minding his own business and not harming anyone-he was literally alone trying to eat his lunch-and they were harassing/bullying him. I came in like a pitbull with rabies. It was them that spun out and left, not me 😂. They were so startled by me that they really didn’t know what to do. Some yelled at me but I asked them if they were over compensating for a little “something”-is that why they had to take on a lone person who wasn’t hurting them in any way? Trying to be “real big men, huh?” 😂. I’ve done something similar over girls bullying another girl who tried to commit “self ending” due to depression. One of them handed her a bottle of pills and told her that she should do the world a favor. I chased her right out of the school building. Also took on a teacher bullying a black student who she had in tears over something so stupid that it defied belief that she allowed everyone else (white) to get away with regularly-we live in a racist area. She forgot her book and her locker was literally two down from that classroom door. She probably could have kept one foot in the classroom and still managed to grab that book. I jumped up and stomped over to her table where no one would sit with her as one of the only two black students in the entire school, slammed my stack of books on the table so hard that the whole table jumped and the noise echoed through the hall, and then sat down at the chair beside that poor girl and kicked my feet out in front of me crossed with a “I dare you to continue” look on my face. The teacher jumped ten feet when I slammed my books down. She looked frightened and walked back to her desk. I flipped open my book and slid it between us so that she could follow the lesson with me. The teacher composed herself and eventually went back to teaching as if nothing had happened. I sat with that (very nice sweet) girl the rest of the school year and nothing further happened to her. I don’t know why but I just can’t take it when people are being bullied for stupid reasons. I can’t handle it. I can’t sit by and do nothing even when everyone else is. It feels like a mark on my own soul or something. I HAVE to help them. No matter what it costs me.

as an infp i simply get tired of people being people

Love you entps. You guys are so real ❤

My infp bestfriend for 5 years was exactly like this. She's the type of person whom words doesn't match her actions so it gave me a lot of not so good emotions towards our friendship. When I expressed everything that I felt to her, she just ghosted me. She literally left me hanging. It hurts me so much because it was such a slap on my face that I am not important to her like how can she do that to me? I even questioned myself so many times like should I have not expressed my hurts/feelings to her and just kept on pretending everthing was fine in our friendship?

I'm stunned at the ratio of comments vs views. I'm an INTJ Male bonded with an INFP Female. We are managing to work out our relationship issues because I've chosen to embrace composure above all else and not express my negative emotions, except in a measured way. This requires me allowing her to yell, or be otherwise inconsiderate with me reacting. She needs to get past her trauma so I have to be patient. I am the Thinker before Feeler. It's unfair but so is Love.

because halloween👻🎃

Because that’s the most peaceful way to solve the problems without wasting time and mental energy. Infps may head for the next ideal chapter in life, instead of spending efforts in broken dreams.

There's this friend i texted but before they could reply or shi(i was left on delivered for a few hours tho)i just deactivated my acc and i didn't even let them know before doing so... Is that considered ghosting?

U suck

Because they suck.

I am an INFP that talk to myself.

No shitt... 😂

Since I somewhat know what the other person is feeling and when they feel down, I tend to give them comfort in a way they'd expect. I don't really show my feelings on my face, but even when I show just a little bit which would enough for a fellow infp to sense, I dont get the same amount of comfort and relief from others. Kinda makes me sad but yeah it's understandable but sometimes, it's just unbearable....lmao

if an INFP distances themselves from you then you should rethink your actions again. INFPs are the type who cares the most, they'd never throw you away easily just like that, unless you hurt them badly (enotionally)

I am an INFP

HAHAHA I HATE YOU INFPS!!!!

Ver cool! I'm an INFP-A, my wife... an INFP-T. Amazing how this vid just defined that with a high degree of accuracy.

When your core values are contrary to the direction the world takes you know your time is limited. We cannot just cast aside those ethics that are learned through our lifetime, and so we must die on the hill that is those integral convictions we hold more dearly that anything. Bullying is one thing I cannot stomach or ignore as I was bullied my entire life, I have defended many others to the point of having weapons pulled on me, but I stood my ground and will not relent on this and several other key issues that shape who I am.

I'm INFP and my best friend is ISFJ. We both ghost each other for weeks with no explanations. Sometimes because we forget to reply to texts, sometimes because we just need to be away. But we always just text and poof, it's as if we'd talked yesterday! :D He's the only person I met who could relate to me about this, and who wasn't upset with my random ghosting. ❤ But I also noticed that I'm terrible at making and keeping friends, because of how my personality works, yep. It's complicated to explain, difficult to understand, and I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm the only one trying to meet the other and forcing myself to adapt. As of now, I have two friends, and I know they're the real deal.

From my experience as an INFP, the T or A is reflective of how we deal with outside influences on our inner worlds. As you mature and gain experience you become more able to handle situational stress and criticism, even now when faced with the prospect of dealing with an unknown variable I have not researched or experienced I can become stressed, I have to center and focus on the many difficulties I have overcome and believe this new quantity will be no different. I still struggle with mastering assertiveness and can be buffeted with the turbulent aspects of our personality, but recognizing it and refocusing on applying myself to gain insight and understanding through research and trial has been invaluable. Yes I can still be sidelined and overwhelmed but I withdraw, reenergize and research and refocus. It is about becoming confident in your ability to handle the situation, with NE we are able to see a myriad of possibilities, but do not spend forever chasing the tangential nature of this function, instead start applying the best ideas using your perception and creative talents. Yes you may fail but this will then advise your SI and TE to what works and what doesn't, you will master anything you want to with SI in due time and effort. The challenges of being an INFP are nothing compared to the satisfaction you will feel as you gain assertiveness through experiential knowledge and overcoming the hurdles of life (your inferior TE seeks approval and is aspirational, if you master this you will control the T and become an A). If your TE is hurt your FI reacts, stop the FITE (reacting to what you see and hear) and use your FINE (feelings and intuition) to find the way to handle it (try another path forward as you can see many) and in time you will shine with your SINE 🙂 SI tells us what worked from our experiences and increases reliance on intuition. Your NE is explorative and can show you many ways to handle situations and find the path that works, this may take time and application. Use the stress of deadlines to get things organized and completed, you may not finish in the time provided if you let the need for perfection (TE inferior) distract you, remember getting it finished (on time) will provide you with the necessary information (SI) to propel you forward on future endeavours. You are more capable then you think INFP's, if you fail and are criticized respond with kindness and confidence, telling them what you learned from your mistakes and how you will incorporate this information into correcting future attempts.

John the Baptist said of Jesus, that he was unworthy to untie His sandals. Also, that He must increase, but I must decrease. This determination to criticize ourselves is our sacrifice to behold the divine. You are not meant to get trapped in navel gazing and self-sabotage. You are able to lay down your ego and persona so that you can stand in the presence of God, without putting words in His mouth or using Him for your own ends. This is a great gift that can feel like a curse. Go find Jesus in His own, "words in red" and let God breathe life into you.

Sometimes we are literally too awkward to reply. The words fail us. After a long enough time, it's ghosting but not intentional.

It's okay, I don't blame you. Very much ❤️

Yeah,I can!

As an INFP I’ve noticed I’ve crushed on the most fictionally INTJ, second most ENTP, and in real life most often ESTP. Tho when it comes to my friends I’ve often found myself being friends with ENFP, ENFJ, ESFP, and ENTJ.

Thanks for doing it again

I am an INFP and I agree that all of these are true, I am tryna change lol

I'm 16 and I'm an infp that's been in leadership positions but I feel so incapable... Especially now, Im the leader of a school project in charge of 100 students in total... And im trying my best to be hands of, just how the the other leaders I delegated the responsibilities want me to. But.. I get the blame quite a lot when things don't go well. It's stressful

This is true my self criticism pushes me to chase self improvement at sometimes a fanatic level

not only am I an infp but an infp-t...the lowest of the lowest... good to know

Unannounced by the INFP or unnoticed by the other person? Because the people I've ghosted in my life don't seem to have caught on yet, and back when I was still talking to them I did say how their actions hurt me, and got nothing

I used to find myself enjoying me time, now I realise it’s actually my own self healing therapy

Jesus in desert for 40days reminds me of infp’s ghosting:) . And he valued Maria just listening to his preach not working:). Then there were 3infps around the cross. Jesus, mother Mary, John the apostle. But I still want to hear why they think Jesus was infj.