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I'm from Atlanta, USA, Georgia and I'd like to humbly apologize for the way so many African Americans are treating Tyla. We seem to think that the whole world is supposed to bend to American will, and it's frustrating to witness the narrowmindedness of many black Americans. I worked a long time on my small RUclips channel and my Facebook, which is all about the Africa You Won't See On TV, and SA is featured a lot. I've exposed the beauty and culture of many African countries. Also, I personally, started with amapiano years ago with Paige, Nkosazana Daughter, and just about any and everything under the umbrella of Wanitwa Mos, just to name a few. My friends can't get enough of South African music and culture, so much so till we even started a study group to TRY to learn isiZulu and Xhosa. Many of us are in love with South Africa. I know a lot of South Africans ARE NOT in love with us, but that's alright. Before this gets entirely too long, I'd like again to apologize for our bad behaviour. God bless South Africa and Africa as a whole. enuf said.

I LOVE everything about this video! New subscriber here ! Keep it coming !! Well spoken, and great points💯 why should men have all the fun?! When we do it , we’re villainized. Thank you so much for speaking on this ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

I learnt everything I know about money at 37. I was sick and tired of living paycheck to paycheck. The thing that stands out here is you already feel worthy and enough regardless of your bank balance or investment. I went from - $11k debt to $1.2M in 3 years. It’s doable. A book that might also help is - The Kybalion Hermetic philosophy. Creating and amassing wealth is a Spiritual, Mental and Physical Activity and transformation. You can’t also heal in the same place that makes you sick. For me, I had to relocate. I’ve never rooted more for a stranger. You’re very gifted with things people and things online (this is where your money Maker is).

this is one of the many reasons i'm opting out of dating. i'm losing interest in romantic relationships, and trying my best to prioritize friendships and experiencing life in itself

This is home Sister! This channel is Home😊

Love the content 🎉

Smart 🎯

I love your accent and articulacy

La fin m’a tellement fait rire 😂😂😂. Je ne m’attendais pas à ça.

Yes, proceed with caution

Thank you for the wisdom and encouragement! Also, I love your hair.

8:07 ABSOLUTELY.

3:55

Watching from South Africa. I COMPLETELY relate. Narcissists, karmics surrounded me my whole life... I think Warsan Shire said something like " Nobody leaves home unless home is the teeth of a shark..." in a poem about refugees. Being in toxic family, sis, you can't even be a refugee a lot of the time. Sending you love. May you find lasting peace of mind and healing.❤

I was told ''you are too woke'' just because I said I don't see the importance of changing last names after marriage

It wasn't until a few decades ago that women had the choice to marry or not. We were seen as property, passed on from father to husband. Expected to keep house, have children, stay at home. That was our job. This modern notion of romantic love that women have been sold has totally upended what should have been a clean break from men as more and more women are able to support themselves and no longer needed a man for survival. So, I'm in total agreement. Having a bf, husband is boring to me. It means more work for me. Same if I have children. Women, because of our caring, nurturing nature, are often stuck doing 90%+ of household work, including childcare. While many men view looking after their own children on their own as "babysitting." Ladies, PLEASE, ask yourselves why you want marriage, a bf, a husband, even children. Really ask yourselves WHY. If it's for other reasons than you really, really want these things yourselves, DO NOT do it!

I am a first born daughter as well (heck for my mom I am the only child) and I completely relate with every single thing you said. My dad has constantly told me growing up to never depend on a man and to be careful of men who want me to carry many children. He said, it's a form of control to keep me in the house while he is out and about living in the outside world. He said women go through so much during labor that men need to be more empathetic of what they put women through during child labor. I am 34 now and my parents still don't pressure me to have children or get married. ❤ Not saying I am opposed to ever doing it, but I don't feel it a need.

Such a great video and I love your energy! Just turned 37 and been single most of my life (just dated a few months at a time but always ended up leaving because I prioritize peace) and I've watched all my girlfriends and some guy friends suffer so much in their relationships. Either it has to feel so right or I'm staying single. Love that more people are talking about this. Thank you so much! ❤

I don’t think God is any of the human genders. People give God a gender as a way of trying to relate to him as a creator but just because a being created you, doesn’t mean that being looks like you. Just like we humans create buildings, phones, cars, televisions etc but we look nothing like those gadgets. God probably looks like nothing our minds could even comprehend. Men made God a male deity so they can use God being a male against women and to defend that men are Gods favorite so they can treat women like trash.

I got so depressed when i got 30 after being bullied for not being married by friends and family..... wueeh its not a normal way of thinking

Same here😭

Been there done that, the more encounters I have with others the more drained I feel. I personally enjoy my own company, it's a very liberating feeling😊

From a biblical and traditional perspective, the view of relationships and marriage emphasizes the importance of companionship, family, and mutual support as core values. According to biblical teachings, marriage is designed as a sacred union, offering a foundation for emotional, spiritual, and moral support between a man and a woman. Verses such as Genesis 2:18, which says, “It is not good for the man to be alone,” highlight the value of partnership, while Ephesians 5:22-33 discusses the roles and responsibilities within marriage, portraying it as a reflection of God’s love and unity. Choosing not to pursue a relationship or marriage, as Jepisms advocates, may seem at odds with these values, especially if the stance comes with a dismissive or negative attitude toward relationships in general. The Bible places value on companionship and marriage as essential elements of a fulfilling life. Proverbs 18:22, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord,” expresses that marriage is not only beneficial but also a divine blessing. Encouraging self-discovery and independence can be beneficial, but in a way that does not detract from the value of relationships. The message Jepisms shares could benefit from a balanced viewpoint, respecting both personal growth and the positive impact of meaningful relationships. The focus, ideally, should not be on rejecting the concept of relationships or marriage but on approaching them with a foundation of self-awareness, readiness, and spiritual alignment. If there’s an opportunity to engage respectfully with her content, it might be helpful to share this perspective, pointing out that meaningful relationships can align with personal growth and biblical values. This opens the conversation to discuss the benefits of relationships as fulfilling partnerships rooted in faith and mutual respect.

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ningeweka na rice, kilalo😂❤

Why do you feel the need to tell us this? Just live your life. Women always demand so much attention.

I love your channel! I had to use the springboard comment on my WhatsApp status because I've really cut off people or stopped talking to them for this same reason. Sending you love ❤

You are the love of your life ❤️

Your mind is very rich let me tell you that , and that is everything ❤️you’ll be great girl keep your head up 🙌🏼

Nimeshika kitu atleast.

Try to be yourself gal

Love the red lipstick on you!❤

Bruhhh!! As a first born daughter chileee the pressure is for sure getting worserrr lol little do they know I’m bisexual haha 🤣 chileeee I will be alone for a whileeeee

You are so refreshing. This is the 3rd video that I saw on my feed, after passing the first two times I just thought to click this one and watch and wow, you are so much yourself I love it for you🙌🏾🤗 I am subscribing for sure🎉

Young RUclips's let's gather here 🎉 and vibe🤝🤝

but but but but bu.....who...is ....going...to...take...care...of....us....when we are OLD???RIGHT>??? we going to die alone.....RIGHT???

This 😢😢😢!

I am 18 and I always feel I am too young to think of myself not wanting to live a life in marriage or with a boyfriend . I feel I am yet to grow and discover new things about myself,but the thought of marriage and being a mom just isn’t in the picture for me because I want freedom and I believe there is so MUCH more to life than marriage or living with a partner ! So I am glad I have found this channel ! New SUBSCRIBERRR❤️

Am authentic so haters have nothing on me....shows their are just projecting their hate for themselves

😂😂😂😂oh God,me too girl....since I moved to the village,my phone is for content creation and less of communication...but I love it

Someone told me....don't care about the views and subscribers....just post your videos....that changed everything

You are pretty! And I like your accent..

Me watching your ads without skipping them coz i know the hustle of being a small youtuber....ive been watching you since the days you were at 300 subscribers 😂😂😂😂enjoy your wins❤

I wish you great success 🎉🎉

Relatable :) eldest sisters unite (love from Australia 💖)

. Creating on your phone?? Okay now I'm inspired❤❤

I wish you all the best. May you prosper beyond your imagination

Love ur content, i approach making youtube videos with a "this could be the one that starts my career " mentality for every video i make on my main. And staying true to yourself and YOUR content makes it near impossible to burn out from the lack of views. I be seriously watching my own videos while i eat 😭 thats probably why i like it so much, i make content for myself lol

Being single is such an underrated blessing in this day and age.🎉

Looking so beautiful 🥰