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SAHEL
Добавлен 1 апр 2012
Graphic designer & content creator.
a video for men
hello friends! I will post a video soon about how I absolutely failed the July post every day challenge 💖😭 but until then! have this video straight from my chest. I've been wanting to make a video for men forever now because I genuinely love them so much. I think men offer so much value to the world and I truly wish we didn't misunderstand each other so we could all get along because at the root of who we are, these connections come pretty naturally, actually.
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you can't shame someone into changing
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Links: Insta: officiallysahel Byron Katie's The Work: thework.com
i talk about everything ever
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hello guys! if you were ever skeptic about whether adhd exists, today you will be convinced. I just really wanted to talk about some lighter things, although I guess the video didn't exactly go lightly, haha. but anyway, enough about me. how have you been? Links ✨ Instagram: officiallysahel Cruel World Happy Mind's channel: www.youtube.com/@cruelworldhappymind
how to feel like a woman
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hello friends! today was such a busy day, I'm sorry for the late upload. I hope you enjoy this video about being a woman! Links: My instagram: officiallysahel
boundaries 101
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how to set and enforce boundaries but approached from a more intuitive place. learning how to set boundaries is a life changer because it truly helps prevent wasting your time, which is the most precious thing you have in this lifetime. I hope you enjoyed this video xo
how to actually implement shadow work
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this video is about shadow work and how to do it so that it actually works! I spent 3/4 of my healing journey zooming in on all the things that were 'wrong' and 'broken' about me, until I learned about the real reason why I always felt broken: shame. it was literally never anything to do with me. it was the conditioning I received, the social world I was born into. but now I had a choice - to u...
how to radiate true confidence
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in this video I'm going to be sharing how I got from a place of having crippling social anxiety to a point where I truly, truly could care less if others hold judgement of me and their ideas of how I should live my life has absolutely no bearing on my decisions. sounds like a pretty great life, right? it's also not lonely, because confidence allows you to draw boundaries and be selective with w...
when you feel sad, hurt, and disappointed
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this video explores practical methods to feel your feelings and be able to move through them so that you can integrate them instead of suppressing them. I have found that practicing this adds to self-compassion, self-trust, and actually allows you to learn how to be there for other people as well. I really hope you take something away from this one! all my love Links: My instagram: instagram.co...
girl, take your power back
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good morning my loves I am creating this video for the ✨girlies✨ specifically because im tired of all the rhetoric out there and advice and just things that don't actually empower any of us. what's paradoxical and kind of funny is that we need to tune out the external world to be in our power as women. I really hope you enjoy this video xo
the easiest way to get a job
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hi there friends! you may think this is a random topic to cover. but getting a job can actually help establish a sense of independence and build self-trust. at a time (especially here in Ontario) where jobs may not be as common and we are constantly undervalued as workers, it's important to build your skillset and have a resilient mentality so you can begin to understand your worth. having a jo...
your ego is your best friend, actually
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dear friends, here is a video about your ego! I hope this helps as having this realization and taking this approach helped me much more than trying to 'overcome' or 'transcend' my very natural ego. thank you for listening, as always 💖
why you don’t love yourself | how to start
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hello friends! this video is about self-love. as I mention multiple times in the video - this is one of the most important videos I will ever make. I hope I did it justice, and I really truly hope you enjoy watching it and that you can take something from it. with love, Sahel Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:26 - Shame 04:54 - Self Love 07:01 - Step 1 - Connect with Your Body 09:46 - Step 2 - Heal...
how to befriend other girls
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today I'm talking about the wonders of female friendship. Yes, this is coming from a chronically lonely girl so if you're sitting there thinking is this the first time this girl has had a friend? basically! I'm just kidding. this friendship at this stage in my life is just... so different. the capacity to be honest with myself has really changed how I relate to others and how honest I am with t...
trust yourself to GET what you WANT
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hey guys!!! I'm on a roll with these, huh? I bet that kind of makes up for my years of absence, right? 😏 in this video I'm covering the topic of chasing your dreams and not getting stuck in your comfort zone. I'm not trying to be some kind of guru here or tell you how to manage your time or money - this video is literally just about limiting beliefs and my own journey through them. I hope you f...
former atheist | opening up about my relationship with god now
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hello guys! this video is an homage to my roots and honestly a pretty important topic in my opinion. our relationship with the world and what is external to us that we don't understand actually really impacts how we view life and expect to be treated. if we see the world to be cruel, unyielding, unforgiving, and void of love and abandoned by its creator, that is exactly the life we will live th...
we are so much more powerful than we realize
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we are so much more powerful than we realize
are women a little crazy these days?
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are women a little crazy these days?
keep the kids out of it | stop pushing gender and sexuality labels on the younger generation
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keep the kids out of it | stop pushing gender and sexuality labels on the younger generation
immigrating to Canada at 10 years old
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immigrating to Canada at 10 years old
why our world is broken + how we can fix it
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why our world is broken how we can fix it
I was a Christian once, for twenty years. The idea of worship is gross! Eew! In your case, maybe obsess is a better word. Fyi, RUclips isn't letting me like this video.
I agree with you but i truly think the world is made to confuse you So i dont see a way out of this worldly bullshit except refining ourselves like you said the way of the buddhas to be honest
Your compassion is on point Keep it going ❤❤❤❤❤
Btw you are very beautiful ❤❤
I think all societies are kinda wrong in living Or if there is inequality The shit is not working because i believe all humans are good This for me is a fact Those that lose this perspective ... Seem wrong to me But life is messy Cant judge too much lols Im wrong too in many ways
Hi sahel ! Love your channel Look i dont see you got much views and this bothers me But i support you girl You are in the right lane Keep going ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, feminism learned at the university was freeing women/the feminine within the system. True feminism is to free the woman/the feminine from the system.
Well said.
Man here. Ladies, hit the thumbs up button on this comment and give me a nice emoji.
0:23 - unfortunately, the "red pill" stuff that you don't like has an honest examination of the dynamic that's existed between men + women for thousands of years, from old patriarchal times, up to today. it's honestly a deep rabbit hole. The use of the "red pill" illustration is apt, because the nature of the knowledge IS uncompassionate, and uncomfortable. but that's it's power. It IS honest, uncompassionate TRUTH. it's a splash of cold water to bring your senses to reality. you may not like it, SAHEL, but it's important to examine it, because that uncompassionate knowledge is going to teach you more about male - female relations than anything else. If you truly want to understand why there is so much anger, hate, and venom in both directions, please put aside any feelings you may have towards RP content makers, and absorb the MESSAGE and facts they present. i would suggest starting with OG mgtow channels, and older MRA channels ( barbarossaa, stardusk aka " thinking ape" , "John the other" and his videos from 2017 backward, Sandman, Paul Elam )
Hello! Thank you for your comment! Maybe I should dive deeper into this and maybe I’ll do it in a video. It’s not that I don’t agree with everything - it’s more the nature of the movement and the mental state of the people having the conversations that throw me off. But I’m not one to shy away from something I don’t like, so I’ll most likely do a video diving into it deeper. Thank you for the video idea!
today we are gona love people. Amen
I'm sorry but I can't really believe any woman mainly a woman in my generation gen Z cares about men unless he is 6'2+ has a super model face.Also you speak about women no being safe unironically men are more likely to be victims of violent crime and tend to be more victims of violent bullying. I never want thr men vs women thing want everyone to get along but redpill and blackpill are right about women nature. How many good men are ignored and no one even knows they exist men that are average looking young men in their 20s get no attention from women and no love mean while a girl who might be overweight and below average still think shes too good for you cause every girl gets attention just from being a woman. Then I see women saying men aren't emotionally available this and that when we are most dudes just get ignored or are never appreciated when women say these things they are only talking about a super good looking guy who is with multiple girls at once, like ofc he's not gonna commit. I've tried getting to know people especially women I'm respectful and such just trying to talknand have a convo they just ignore you unless youre a chad or have a lot of clout women dont care about rwal connections. You seem like you mean well and all but i don't buy it I just don't believe most women think of the average man in his 20s as a sexual option farless a human being to connect with we always get brought down no body will compliment a man or even says he looks good unless he's a legit 8/10 that looks like henry cavill meanwhile women who are 300lbs and like 2/10 get told theyre beautiful all the time and can still get a man and the average 5/10 man is struggling to even get a girl to talk to him. Tldr: I'm skeptical when women say they care about men and also most men are invisible and most women's egos are gassed up they think they're above
No one is focusing on peace and good behavior or making other people happy. The agenda today focuses on creating hatred between people based on different sex and skin color. Religion is destroyed, the educational system is polluted where no real values are taught.
I know :(
great video
@@marvellous.mind.podcast thank you
Human history... a life full of problems...why do we do this? Is there a problem before we are born?…why bring people into existence then? Ecclesiastes 4:2- And I declared that the dead, are happier than the living… But better is to never have been born… ruclips.net/video/CqUiOCOSXcg/видео.html ruclips.net/video/ivUMiPq1-Qo/видео.html
Stop the cap
Life is pointless, kys, thats the solution for all problems!
Don't make this viewpoint of yours dialectical.
Sadly many refuse to acknowledge reality...makes improvements in any way impossible.
@Sahel. Nice sentiment but i invite you to inform yourself about things before you post opinions about said things. Red pill is a cultural adaptation to an exploitative gynocentric society and legal reality. Sorry you "dont like it" but its not going away as long as the legal system continues to be catered to women and weaponized by women.
Your response reads very much like the polar opposite of feminism which in this video… I talk about why polarized viewpoints are detrimental. But thank you for watching and for the comment
i'm not bashing red pill, since I do believe some things of it; however, it's easy for us men to say: "women have it so easy because they can sell their nudes or feet for millions of dollars and men can't do that" yeah and you know why? it's because US MEN are fueling that market, so we have no one to blame but ourselves! essentially what i'm saying is, life is hard for all genders. as we grow as men, we're taught to not be emotional, to always be strong, to provide, etc. and you wonder why some grow up so resentful of everyone! my mom literally told me "men don't cry" and it has been engrained in me to not do so. I can't speak for women since I'm not a woman, but the bottom line is: life is hard for everyone. arguing who has it harder than who is pointless and a waste of time as both sides can come up with a million different things, which are all most likely correct. the best we can do is be understanding of each other and try to (in a romantic relationship) be the strength in the other's weakness. men and women work just as hard in their respective fields, and so we should all treat each other with respect. all this sexism shit needs to go. I do believe in some traditional gender roles such as the man protecting the women and doing the physically hard stuff for her as we cannot refute biology, but there is no need to look down or even view other's on a pedestal.
For some reason I connect more with women than I do other men because I have learned to get in touch with my feminine, emotional side of my personality. So it's somehow easier for me to relate to women than other men even if we are biologically and psychologically different. The competitive masculinity in me is not as attractive as the femininity of women, and I would rather everyone just get along and hang out together. We all have so much in common and I wanna focus on our similarities over our differences and debate ideas to discover more about ourselves.
You connect more because they think you're effeminate. Silly sausage
are you Lebanese? Can I do an astrological reading for you?
here is the truth my lady, the people who run the world dont want famillies or kids, LGBTQ, feminism, toxic masculinity, equality ... all these are weapons used to destroy famillies, to prevent you, women, from getting married. having kids and living a normal life. stop talking about men like we are alien, we are a part of you and you are a part of us. we complete each other and life without US together is not worth living.
But that’s what I said in the video!
absolute drivel, I tire of these videos, turn those feelings of pity into action and deal with your own gender's bullshit first. We men have to rebuild the next generation of men to not be stupid behind chasing women and then these videos do nothing but stroke the male ego. BAH
Sad take. I hope you heal!
Im shaming myself into changing
@@losi696 noooo!!!! Stop ✋
I wonder what will happen over time in the long term. Will people just have relationships with their robots when those are widely available at affordable prices?
@@dbimprove1847 probably. That would be the easier answer to overpopulation and the tendency to get together, connect and realize we’re being exploited. Buuuuut I also see people starting to turn away from this online culture we’ve created towards authentic human connection. And that’s why I make these videos… I want so badly for us to remember how important connecting with each other is.
@@SahelSaraigenuine authentic human connection 👍🏻👍🏻
@@wLBlue What is that?
@DeepInsideZettaiRyouiki very rare...but ohhh so amazing
All the conflict between men and women is rooted in this horribly exploitative economic system. It has brainwashed a lot of women to want to be like those dominant men. So called “boss babe”. It’s so wrong. Men and women need to see who the true enemy is…capitalism
I'm a sub par 5ft 7in tall male and I'm struggling to make it through each day, being constantly told "you're not good or enough" or "you're nothing as man" has completely crushed any part of a soul i had left. As people in the comments have pointed out, alot of us men just want to show our love to someone we care about and be loved in return, most of us never get that chance and are thrown out before anyone even knows us.
I’m so sorry for how you’ve been feeling and the messaging you’re receiving from society. I think we don’t understand sometimes how similar we are, how we have an insane amount of expectation put on us regardless of our gender. I’m sure you’re wonderful. Love and accept yourself, I really believe and have found that focusing on just yourself and your values, goals, how you see your life looking… it will do wonders in attracting others to us. I really wish you all the best and all the love in the world!
@@SahelSarai couldn't agree more. I appreciate the genuine reponse, take care and all the best!
No offence but this video was completely pointless to men in every regard. I tried watching through it a second time to make certain but this video is literally devoid of any substance. Based on my own observations, the sudden shift of priorities of the general female population in the west from home making and childbearing to career women is the sole cause of the problem(s). While it's great women make more money and are independent of men financially, this directly causes large corporations to pay less in wages due to a larger workforce and also causes women to demand higher income from a potential partner (not to mention all of the other things like 6 feet tall and 6 pack abs). Again no offence and honestly, most girls would never make a video like this one so I suppose not all hope is lost!
Well it sounds like I wasn’t successful in breaking through and that’s fine! Thanks for watching :)
We're living in interesting times. We have all this freedom, all this knowledge and technology, and yet so many of us are unhappy. I guess being free and prosperous means we have the luxiry to worry about meaning, purpose and fulfillment. As a man, I will admit the current discourse surrounding men has soured my outloook on dating and relationships. The juice doesn't seem worth the squeeze. I don't blame all women or think all women dislike men, but I see the challenges and risks associated with getting into a relationship these days. I do also understand that women have their own challenges and I can't blame women for feeling vulnerable and insecure, given all the potential risks and messages you get through media. While men are often expected to hide their emotions and be the work horses/providers of society, women are often expected to look and act a certain way or else they're undesirable.
Heres the catch and what you might be missing. ***Women were never unsafe. That was a lie in order to bring in feminism*** I know its hard for you to wrap your mind around because youve been so brainwashed to think a certain way. And a lie told enough becomes the truth. Were there bad, abusive relationships? Of course, but id say theres more violence and emotional abuse now, today, compared to 100 years ago
Ummm… not quite sure I agree. Treating women like an accessory was a global phenomenon historically and this is coming from someone that doesn’t trust popular discourse about history. I think there’s a fine line in being skeptic and critical and outright denying that women were unsafe and still are and probably always will be, physically, and even emotionally. But a woman’s strength and journey comes from learning how to be resilient anyway and use this vulnerability as strength. So inherently, women are vulnerable.
@@SahelSarai History is written by the winners. History isnt necessarily fact, its a story and a perception written from one individuals perspective. When you came into this world you were a blank slate and you have never ever ever experienced some kind of oppressive patriarchy. Why? Because it doesnt exist. That blank slate (you) had to be taught these things. IOW the only understanding of what you speak of is because someone else told/taught you this. Try this thought experiment: Why is the abusive, dangerous patriarchy only prevalent in the USA? If you go abroad no other countries have this. They laugh at us. Why they werent propagandized with it. The truth is you, personally, have zero evidence of this. Its a small part of the brainwashing this country has gone though, but its just that, propaganda, brainwashing. it takes a strong person to put it all together. "You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. Morpheus, The Matrix”
@@SahelSarai If you go to "newest comments first", here on this thread, and scroll down to find our convo, I replied to you, but youtube censors me all the time so they hide it under the newest comment section.
@@DonTrump-sv1siI’m from Iran. It’s very much also a narrative in other countries… they absolutely would not laugh at us. I understand what you’re saying and I agree, history is distorted. But this is fact.
We all just lack purpose. Nobody feels like life is fun or worth living. We attach a human beings worth to their instagram followers. We all see the same shit from algos. Apps have destroyed what made us human. Nobody knows math, there’s an app for that. Nobody knows directions, there’s an app for that. Nobody knows how to form companionship, there’s an app for that. I just pray future generations detach from the toxicity that is social media, lifestyle podcasts, doom scrolling.
I agree.
feminism has to end and it will end, you will have no choice in the matter, get back to feminine roles or see all the men in the west abandoning women completely or moving to traditional nations, and we'll watch this feminist society implode on itself. You have no solutoins, but we for sure do and we don't have to put up with it anymore. Feminism is from Satan. Patriarchy is from God.
I can understand why men feel this way. But I really, really don't think it's the solution. Thank you for watching and commenting!
@@SahelSarai no problem we can agree to disagree. Both genders must do what's best for their own interests.
I appreciate you gang but life is what it is. I can't support feminist if they gonna blame all men for everything. It best the we keep each other at a distance as men and women.
@@caesarprice3252 I honestly don’t even think feminism should exist. We should all just enact basic human compassion towards one another without any kind of movement. I think keeping a distance is a response that could make everything worse… make us lonelier, more divided, leave this world so much worse for our children. Coming together, seeing eye to eye without an expectation of sameness… that’s what I really want…
It doubled the tax base and destroyed the family unit.
hrmm... gratitude to men!? I'm listening! "...the system is inherently driving an agenda of oppression.., making both sexes work all the time and selling it as an equality, actually hurt us in the long run." (I have also said this 20 years ago, and not a single woman listened.). When women do not listen, they self sabotage, then learn it the hard way, then come back to ask for forgiveness. Well, its too late. Let the world run its course - you will do 60-80 hours of work every week and own nothing and you will be happy. You will be childless and single. Not this life-time baby! Men know that women will try to adapt, then go back to their old ways... we are done with modern western women. No man should ever commit, just pump and dump.
This is a very sad comment! Sending healing!
@@SahelSarai no no... men are not the victims here. Women are. You've all done this to yourselves.
Worst part is that good men truthfully love and respect women, it just sucks that societies make us seem like we dont , or that we dont value them
@@codnerd1234 it really does suck. Men will put their lives on the line and get gratification from it, they’ll provide, they’ll respect… Men are and have been truly wonderful. It sucks that human transgressions can be turned into mainstream narratives to the point where we believe all kinds of bs about the other gender when none of it is true. The majority of us are literally just people trying to be loved and do our best.
You make me wish I was twenty years younger. Maybe then I'd have a chance at finding love. As it is, I really just want to go to sleep and not wake up.
It’s never too late to find love, as long as you are still here you have an essence unique to you and you never know who has been spending their life wishing they knew someone with it 💜 love yourself
women can be just as cut-throat towards each other when vying for competitive positions, social status or men. Competition is built into the algorithm called organic life. "Being ourselves" is probably one of the most difficult things in the modern world one can do in a social environment programmed for social acceptance (assimilation), celebrity and profit-making.
You’re right, competitiveness is an inherently human or perhaps earthling trait. Being ourselves… oh man, to even untangle that web. I can only hope with learning ourselves we will slowly learn to take our own side instead of being swayed towards insecurity, fear, and violence so easily
@@SahelSarai I hope so too🙏
Competition is as natural as wearing clothing is natural. It’s not. Human values are derived from the environment and the social contract we create. Lots of historical data on societies that were not competitive. Capitalism has polluted our minds with false information
equal in value but different roles to play IMHO.
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Ramble on. It's a song by, "Led Zepplin". I agree with you. But,...here we are. Why? "They" set the system up. Who, exactly, are "they"? You sound like you may be interested in Karl Marx. Why do you think they "monetized" labor? When did time become "money"? That IS the belief. Isn't it? That your time and your money are EQUIVALENT. Are they? Why is money so important? Look around. There are PLENTY of reasons that money is important. Why would they LIE to themselves about it? They would like to "pretend" that money isn't their "game". That creates "pretentious" people. I have two eyes. I SEE lots of pretentious people running around. Do you? I have no phone. No car. No insurance. I live in a leaky trailer I call home. My ex-wife "pretends" that she did not put me here. She is correct. I DID. I married the wrong woman. I ADMIT it. She cared for nothing but money. Then...I had a child with this women...and now. I am ruined. Completely. And i'm not looking for your pity. She was brainwashed by "them". I am looking for "them". You just happened to pass by my virtual windshield. Why aren't there MORE women like you? You tell me. Better yet, ask GOD. I do. All the time. I have nothing better to do. Trust me. I do know this...God didn't set it up this way. Time is not money to God. God has PLENTY of time. The Alpha-male. The OMEGA-man. God. Anyway, nice to see there are sane people out there. I support your efforts. vaya con Dios.
Thank you for this video. I'm a queer man and I've been struggling with my masculinity for a long time now. I have a lot of traits traditionally considered "feminine" but at the same time I really like to embrace my "masculine" side sometimes. Because of that I've had a pretty hard time building relationships with men and women. Although I do not identify as non-binary I feel a bit trapped in this constant swinging between femininity and masculinity. I'm still trying to find my own identity and your channel really helps me so thank you, don't stop I appreciate your work. What you said about equality of the sexes is actually quite interesting. I think it is largely the cause of patriarchy as a whole. The system really damages all of genders, especially queer folks (in my opinion). It puts unrealistic and toxic pressure on men and gives them unhealthy amount of power, it diminishes and humiliates women and it discriminates and persecutes non-heteronormativity. I don't know I really would love to hear more of your thoughts about this. Love you, I hope you have a magnificent day <3
@@jakub.roszkowski thank you so much for this comment Jakub. It sounds like you’re on a profound journey and I wish you all the love and space in the world as you figure it all out on this crazy ride! I’m so honoured to hear you have been finding value in my content. Please stay in touch!
@@SahelSarai Thank you, I will!
I did enjoy this video:)
Thank you ❤
This popped up at a perfect time 🙌🏾 thanks for the words. I’m subscribing!
Wow am I really watching this?
Well why not??
When I saw the title, i felt SO heavily compelled to check it out and it freaked me out, like a significant part of me found it absurd that I felt such a strong need for it. It's weird, but primarily sad, to realize how much this society has literally shaped me, and many other women, to a point where we need this type of content. I AM A WOMAN, i should know how to feel like one. it's kinda heartbreaking really. I didn't even know this was something that i wanted to watch, but im genuinely glad i did watch it
so spot on
We are all here but for a while on this tiny blue blip called earth. It is our prime responsibility to tend our own garden: that of the inner self, while tempering the ego. You're starting to sound like that pre-Socratic philosopher, Heraclitus with your point on things being in flux, changing; the illusion of stability. Heraclitus was the first to articulate what we now call moral relativism. As much as I would like to think self-healing is essential, it is, I also know not all wounds heal. And that's ok, if you're willing to live with the costs and consequences. Funny, this lesson is born out of Frodo in the LOTR, carrying a stab wound for the rest of his life. It's called reality.
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