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I’ve just come across your channel and I absolutely love it! Thank you for this unique and insightful content

Nah, I don't think it's a pattern.

Hey, new sub here. I appreciate what you guys do here, it’s comforting. I want to start by saying, I’m 23 and I feel I’ve had similar experiences to the person with the dilemma, in terms of feeling like the common denominator. At the time when I was going through everything, it resulted to a lot of avoiding people or isolating myself, it was really hard to see the clear picture of what was really going on, because I chose to remain in that victim mindset, It took some time and it dawned on me that I had some things I needed to work on. Part of What I had to learn was that people are different from me with different experiences and I wasn’t giving people grace the way I gave myself, I wanted to people to be “perfect” in my own egoistic way, basically I wanted to control their behaviours and I resulted in looking out for or rather what I perceived was right or wrong behaviours (subconsciously) and nitpicking. It took a toll on my friendships and almost cost me my romantic relationship. I lost everyone literally, but I’m glad it happened because it made me grow and not take people in my life for granted and let them be humans too just like I am. Fast forward to about a year later, I’m applying what I’ve learnt to my current relationships, I made new friends and it feels so fulfilling. Also I want to point out that tbh it was just me that had issues or did something wrong, those people did as well but what I was and will always be able to control is my own behaviour and how I choose to respond to people. I also became closer to people that are more like minded and have the same values as me. I don’t know if this would help but just wanted to share my story❤

New subscriber here 👋🏾 I love a therapy friendship podcast✨

Just found you guys, on a short. Liked what i see, so come to find out who you guys are ❤ I'm about to make my way from this first vid and go though in them order! You've got a new sub too ❤ can't wait to watch your videos and to have found you guys so early in the RUclips space! ❤❤❤

Just stumbled on your channel. Loved this discussion and your voices are so ASMR 😍. You have a new subscriber.

Really nice session😊

It's awesome session😊

Can you ladies answer this question? What should I do if someone is trying to control me? Example-Getting mad if I don't want to talk on the phone 24 hrs a day. Saying, I don't love them because I don't agree with them. Projecting, saying that they are having dreams that I'm doing something with someone else. Being too emotional about petty things. Example. I was in another state burying my niece, and I got a complaint that I wasn't paying her enough attention, because I was doing a lot of things with family and friends. Their Dad passed away about three weeks before my niece, I was there every step of the way. I live in one state and they live in another, my money was funny so I didn't fly in. I stayed in constant communication, because I knew their family was not going to support them emotionally. I stated to them that there is nothing wrong with having emotions, but not while I'm out of town handling family loss. I stopped all communication because I just couldn't take it anymore. How would you guys have handled it. Thanks.

We all need therapy. Thanks.

We all need therapy. Thanks.

I'm glad you ladies are here on RUclips. Keep going. Get into the subject matter more quickly though.

I really liked when you said “ life is not a race “. Some of my friends got married before me and I don’t care cause i believe that everyone has their own time zone .

Grief is personal everyone processes it differently in their own ways

You don’t. Goodbye is never really said when you love someone deeply you just fold them neatly in your heart and they still live on in the memories you’ve shared together so then you never really say goodbye

❤love overcomes grief.......RIP Rudeboy Sweetly I will grieve until we are together❤