Bob Bordone
Bob Bordone
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How to Handle Office Drama Like a Pro
Is workplace conflict really a bad thing, or can it actually be beneficial? In this video, I explain why conflict is inevitable and share some strategies for managing conflict. What tips do you have for managing workplace conflict? Share them in the comments!
Welcome! I'm Bob Bordone, a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School and the Founder and former Director of Harvard Law Schools Negotiation Mediation Clinical Program. I'm also the Founder and Principal of the Cambridge Negotiation Institute and have written and taught on negotiation, mediation, and conflict resolution for more than 20 years.
00:00 Intro
02:33 Reframing your thinking
4:11 The zero-sum gremlin
05:20 Preparation
09:08 Scheduling
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Видео

When Employees Fight (Negotiation Skills for HR Professionals)
Просмотров 55День назад
Watch this video to learn why all HR activities are forms of negotiation, and hear my key tips for improving your negotiation skills. Have you ever had a great or terrible experience with HR? Share your story in the comments! Welcome! I'm Bob Bordone, a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School and the Founder and former Director of Harvard Law Schools Negotiation Mediation Clinical Program. I'm also...
When the World Meets the Workplace
Просмотров 7114 дней назад
Today, I’m sharing some of my best tips for bringing difficult conversations into the workplace. Are you facing this dilemma in your business? Tell us about it in the comments! Next, watch: The Art of Persuasion and Relationship Building ruclips.net/video/2iRNPxBCMgU/видео.html Welcome! I'm Bob Bordone, a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School and the Founder and former Director of Harvard Law Sch...
Star Wars- Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Let's take a look back on the classic Star Wars movie and see what lessons in negotiation it has hidden in the plot. Watch this video to learn what to do and more importantly, what not to do. Welcome! I'm Bob Bordone, a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School and the Founder and former Director of Harvard Law Schools Negotiation Mediation Clinical Program. I'm also the Founder and Principal of the ...
Should I Go Into Business With a Friend?
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Should I Go Into Business With a Friend?
Should I Prepare for Negotiation?
Просмотров 97Месяц назад
Should I Prepare for Negotiation?
Negotiation Expert Reacts: Biden Ending Bid and Endorsing Kamala
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Negotiation Expert Reacts: Biden Ending Bid and Endorsing Kamala
Friends - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Friends - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
Check Your Privilege at the Door
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Check Your Privilege at the Door
Connecting Through Hard Conversations
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Connecting Through Hard Conversations
When Friendships and Business Collide
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When Friendships and Business Collide
Succession - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Succession - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
How to Quit Without Burning Bridges
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How to Quit Without Burning Bridges
Should You Bring Your Politics to the Office?
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Should You Bring Your Politics to the Office?
The Art and Science of Constructive Feedback
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The Art and Science of Constructive Feedback
Modern Family - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Modern Family - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
Setting up a Winning Process in Negotiation
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Setting up a Winning Process in Negotiation
Persuading Your Superior
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Persuading Your Superior
Ending Conflict at Work
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Ending Conflict at Work
How to Make a Bigger Pie in Negotiation
Просмотров 3184 месяца назад
How to Make a Bigger Pie in Negotiation
Peaky Blinders - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Peaky Blinders - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
How to Manage Your Emotions
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How to Manage Your Emotions
Emotional Intelligence in a Hard Conversation
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Emotional Intelligence in a Hard Conversation
To Zoom or Not to Zoom
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To Zoom or Not to Zoom
Psych - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Psych - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
You Don't Have to Talk Now
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You Don't Have to Talk Now
When Big Differences DIVIDE Families
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When Big Differences DIVIDE Families
Is Conflict Ever Worth It
Просмотров 2636 месяцев назад
Is Conflict Ever Worth It
Suits - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
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Suits - Harvard Law Fellow Reacts
What is The Difference Between Being Nice and Being Kind?
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What is The Difference Between Being Nice and Being Kind?

Комментарии

  • @zildjianjaypandan7620
    @zildjianjaypandan7620 2 дня назад

    Thank you for enlightening me I like your content

  • @mirmir6965
    @mirmir6965 3 дня назад

    awesome video bob my Packback readers are going to love this

  • @ek.mohama
    @ek.mohama 3 дня назад

    you are my hero am from iran in this country people dosent know about resovlve conflect witheout vilence

  • @rose3042
    @rose3042 4 дня назад

    this was very helpful, thank you!

  • @Awanderingavgeek
    @Awanderingavgeek 10 дней назад

    Wasted

  • @gogogg4610
    @gogogg4610 12 дней назад

    However, thank you for this info!! Perfect key words!!

  • @gogogg4610
    @gogogg4610 12 дней назад

    If I can make a suggestion... just speed up this info and make it more concise

  • @blocksandlines3057
    @blocksandlines3057 15 дней назад

    Why do your eyes look like that

  • @imrandom7447
    @imrandom7447 16 дней назад

    Disagree

  • @scalecraft4663
    @scalecraft4663 17 дней назад

    In California. This concept is an extremely difficult sell to a rental property owner/management co. One of the main reasons is because once a tenant has taken possesion of a unit, the owners options for increases are limited and controlled by gov agencies. This limits owners rights .. And makes owners far less flexible. Rent controls out in california only control incomes. never expenses. Not even gov agaency expenses, prop taxes. ect.....

  • @oliver_siegel
    @oliver_siegel 18 дней назад

    Nice one! I really like the technique to build motivation for having that conversation in the first place: contrasting the fears of doing it with the cost of not doing it... Sometimes I also like to amp myself up for difficult tasks by focusing on the potential benefits of the action. This way I'm not just choosing the lesser of two evils, I'm also moving towards the option that's most exciting! All around good tips for being assertive while navigating potential conflict and maintaining a collaborative attitude.

  • @oliver_siegel
    @oliver_siegel 18 дней назад

    Interesting... sounds like it's important to stay grounded and regulate those emotions...

  • @melodysafo5437
    @melodysafo5437 18 дней назад

    Thank you for making this video

  • @kalechips5972
    @kalechips5972 21 день назад

    Whenever you make a deal, you are haggling. Even refusing to haggle is, in and of itself, haggling. You really can't avoid it.

  • @RB-to2tk
    @RB-to2tk 22 дня назад

    I have a question. If my apartment is listed for less (same floor plan and everything) can I get my rent lowered or I'm stuck with what I'm paying for right now because the lease is already signed?

  • @RonaldBass-sh9fj
    @RonaldBass-sh9fj 23 дня назад

    A defendant(s) or plaintiff(s) can be wrongfully identified as a narcissist person(s) by the other person involved in personal and objective reasons to control the out cone of a situation, two honest minded adults openly trying to solve an issue that is confronted with the elephant in the room and not deny it's existence I believe will reach an understanding in mediation

  • @sethfreeman8745
    @sethfreeman8745 29 дней назад

    Excellent advice, Bob

  • @t3tratube
    @t3tratube Месяц назад

    She’s a role model. What hearing is that clip taken from?

  • @andrei1246
    @andrei1246 Месяц назад

    So you are saying that 2 of my dream companies that i want to work for is trying to hire me....at the same time...in this economy? 😂

  • @DemigodDan
    @DemigodDan Месяц назад

    Yea but that implies that more than one company is hiring, and these days thats as easy to believe as me being able to retire

  • @tunatony
    @tunatony Месяц назад

    A great mediation judge can do thise things, artfully calling out how the narcissist behavior is at odds with the law.

  • @mjshehane
    @mjshehane Месяц назад

    Thank you for a clear and concise explanation. Teaching these skills myself, I try to embody them in my own daily life. It feels like I fail more often than I succeed. But I've seen progress over the years! Your video helps spread the word that it is possible. Thanks for sharing!

  • @mjshehane
    @mjshehane Месяц назад

    I like the distinction between appreciative, evaluative, AND coaching feedback because, in my own feedback classes, convincing participants that all feedback conversations are learning conversations has been a hard sell. Thank you!

  • @phil8376
    @phil8376 Месяц назад

    No delegates voted her in

  • @hokufamily3697
    @hokufamily3697 Месяц назад

    Bob has such a nice approach and very easy on the ears…ty :)

  • @BLD82
    @BLD82 Месяц назад

    Hi Bob, I always love learning from you! Keep up the great work ❤

  • @JamesMartello-g6l
    @JamesMartello-g6l Месяц назад

    Dude if you think she had anything to do with being nominated take off the blinders. It was either Doc Jill who tried to give them a lame duck or it was the same people who are calling the shots for our senile president I mean there wasn’t even a nomination WOW where have you been

  • @Marie-xx5oi
    @Marie-xx5oi Месяц назад

    Great video! 13:02

  • @frankmarcovecchio66
    @frankmarcovecchio66 Месяц назад

    The DEBATE should be entertaining at the least !!

  • @bingbong6422
    @bingbong6422 Месяц назад

    No one likes her no matter how much they are trying to prop her up. This will not work people are waking up.

  • @janetkeen8280
    @janetkeen8280 Месяц назад

    No one has felt Kamala is really capable of being the president for sooo many reasons for years! The Demons have another version in the works.

  • @Athenaikos
    @Athenaikos Месяц назад

    Profundo BS.

  • @dagoncalves1986
    @dagoncalves1986 Месяц назад

    Absolutely masterpiece analysis.. I had thought about some of these already. The fact that there was no leaks, just proves only the right people knew about it

  • @sethfreeman8745
    @sethfreeman8745 Месяц назад

    Trenchant, illuminating, valuable. Well done, Bob!

  • @miashalayne4972
    @miashalayne4972 Месяц назад

    Silence as always ended in a no for me...

  • @hokufamily3697
    @hokufamily3697 Месяц назад

    I am training to be a mediator. I happened on your videos. Your presentations are enjoyable. Much mahalo (thank you).

  • @marioprevil1139
    @marioprevil1139 Месяц назад

    First time here, Why this has that look??

  • @Zilero
    @Zilero Месяц назад

    Just realized I’ve been pushing those difficult conversations to Friday afternoons without realizing it, thanks for the perspective!

  • @Morpheusf
    @Morpheusf Месяц назад

    this is complete bullshit

  • @declanshannon8561
    @declanshannon8561 Месяц назад

    Hey bro your clown nose is showing.

  • @johncabral1702
    @johncabral1702 Месяц назад

    awesome: get curious; ask them to say more; make space for others; but be ready to share your own perspective; that's dialogue

  • @johncabral1702
    @johncabral1702 Месяц назад

    hold back and let others speak first--wonderful pause: wait for other people to speak; wonderful; you actually need a lot of self-confidence to do that!

  • @johncabral1702
    @johncabral1702 Месяц назад

    wonderful; very helpful; especially when I'm surrounded by family and extended family who all are ardent supporters of former President Trump: listen; let others talk for a while; be curious; learn; and in fact I am lucky to be able to have gained some knowledge, through reading, through travel, through knowledge of other languages, etc.

  • @wemaeliwilfred624
    @wemaeliwilfred624 2 месяца назад

    Thank you❤❤😊😊

  • @MeTerry-215
    @MeTerry-215 2 месяца назад

    I did conflict coaching and didn’t know.

  • @MeTerry-215
    @MeTerry-215 2 месяца назад

    I am so grateful to find this I am in the middle of

  • @archiee1337
    @archiee1337 2 месяца назад

    Great video, thanks so much

  • @bobapep20
    @bobapep20 2 месяца назад

    A little too much soy you think?

  • @markadams1165
    @markadams1165 2 месяца назад

    Lay off the sauce pink shirt

  • @MarceloGirade
    @MarceloGirade 2 месяца назад

    Clear and constructive content! Thanks Bob!