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David Philbin
Добавлен 23 янв 2020
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Hope everyone's quarantine is going well! Don't know if I made the right decision doing this, but it'll all be good. I am thinking of doing a Q&A for my next video, so drop questions below!
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COMING OUT STORY
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Thought I would share an interesting time period in my life with you guys. I didn't mention coming out to my team or coaches, maybe I can do that another time.
"You won't regret it." My mother's side of the family ghosted me and I regret that. My father's side of the family didn't care because they didn't care about me. My friends didn't care because I didn't have any.
In general life is not black and white - if it helps you to put a label on yourself that improves your life quality - fine. If you do not want to you can just live on. It is about you and not the rest of the world. If it is sexuality, diet, eating habits, interests or what ever. If you want to explain and clear things out - fine - if not - fine. The rest of the world do not really care how you live your life.
Magnific sweaty
Come back and catch us up with your life! You're good on camera!
So stressful.... but it works out in the end❣
Nice comming out story.... best of luck and stay safe. BTW .... keep wearing tanktops .... suits you ... i like it 😏 and youre cute 😉
you are bi....but you prefer guys...but you are bi
I loved ur story I love happy stories and ur a10
Many thanks for sharing!!
Watched a lot of these stories. What is a shame is a lot of wasted youth on worry, stress, depression and missed sexual/romantic opportunities. Most unfair.. hope instead of "It gets better." one day it becomes "Great for you. That's cool." You seem very special and it would be a shame for you to deny yourself to our community.. as a role model and probably one hell of a partner.
it does help
You are so cute and brave Dave; much love!
Thank you David for sharing your experiences and story. That I think will help so many gay boys. Wish you all the best in your life!
I could hear the nerves in your voice, totally can relate. Happy you shared your story! Your voice has been heard.
Being Gay is NOT a choice. Being Bisexual IS a choice, i.e., being attracted to both sexes is a CHOICE. You choose either boy or girl. But being Gay, you're only attracted to the same sex (not a choice). Straight people are only attracted to the opposite sex. If a Straight person argues that it's a choice, all you need to say is the following: "You, who are straight, chose to be with the opposite sex. That means you were attracted to BOTH sexes and CHOSE the opposite sex, right?" You'll then hear a pin drop on the carpet, and he or she will be at a loss for words. God does not make mistakes in his infinite wisdom, i.e., a certain percentage of the population is Gay. Why is a certain percentage of the population left handed, while the majority is right handed? Same analogy. Countless Gay, as well as Straight, are loving, caring, sharing, and productive human beings. Period and end of story.
HOWDY from the lone star state of Texas sending you love, hugs and kisses
Such a babe🔥🔥🔥
I like your arms
We support you bro. You have instagram or any social ?
Thank you, David! Your Video really makes the journey transparent with all its doubts, stress and emotional weight. Earnest in the best way, serious, wholehearted. Respect for that. Thumbs up, best wishes, Martin
Thank you for sharing! You are super cute. I agree with your first sentiment, these videos are super helpful and as a result they helped me make the decision to come out to everyone this year. :) Thank you for being another part of the helpful team that uploaded their stories! As a random side note, the way you have positioned your photographs around your room was very distracting to me. I don't know if that says more about you or me, but there you go.
A good and interesting story. Congrats to you for coming out and freeing your spirit.
If I was your age I would dye my hair too.
NICE ONE BUDDY
Such a cutie!!!!!
David, thank you. Your video reenforces my hope that things in society are changing and gives me renewed hope that, in time, young people will not feel any stress or discomfort about any sexual orientation. Nice going, bro........Ray
How old were you at the time
19
Very cute. When the gayness shows a little (like then you touch your right eyebrow) it's so adorable. I call it breaking down. You speak deep and look macho and then the small things give you away. Best if luck to you and much success and happiness
I am a Penn grad go Quakers! Anyway, I didn't really come out until age 40, even though I always kinda knew. Life is much better after coming out!
This is the mid honest story on RUclips. You’re genuine and informative. 😊
You inspire me :)
Thank you for sharing and being so brave
I have only told a few people (face to face) that I'm gay, the rest, if they can't tell, I'm not going to tell them. I didn't tell my parents because I'm pretty sure, it wouldn't have gone well. Like I said, if they couldn't tell, then I'm not going to tell them. My brother knows, I'm not sure whether my sister knows, but she may have her suspicions. Does telling everyone you are gay, help get along better in life? Does it help you to find a boy friend? Personally, I am interested in relationship first, then if it develops into something more, sexual activities could come up. Realistically, having sex is a very small part of all the things we do during our lives, or in a day. Overall character traits of kindness, compassion, intelligence and being considerate are just as valuable to me as a person's sexual preference. Oh no! I just told everyone, I'm gay ;)
This is so adorable😍
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Pretty cool hair my dude. Also plz upload more regularly. BTW the editing is hilarious. Love that!!! Also.... Your bf is super attractive. Wow.
I went through a very similar depression when I couldn't tell anyone. I started avoiding friends an family. I spiraled to the point of needing medication. It took me 6 months after that before I finally told someone, and continued telling people. This got me thinking that of you and I felt depressed that, what was it like for people back in time, when telling anyone was a no-no. Then having to marry a women and make babies, i mainly just to please the family. And of course that came along with another bag of ugly closet secrets. Unfortunately, this still goes on around the world and even here at home.
Question Everything I’m very happy that you were able to find the happiness to absorb into your heart. And I hope that it’s remain a lasting happiness for you. Stories can have amazing affects to make us happy. I think it’s why I love them so much. <3
I SEE YOU
Full on sex with girls in middle school. Really?? That's 13 or 14 yo. Times have changed for sure!
So inspiring now choke me with them biceps
"I know I look like a douche in this tank top. Just ah- ignore it... or don't *eh ha ah*" quality flirting right there!
So glad your experience was so positive. Looking forward to the Outsports article.
You are really funny. Hope you are happy & well.
Thanks for the video man, currently where you were at, and it’s so nice to just hear someone who’s been in similar shoes
My story is some years in the past. I also was into sports, played some competitively and even gave up spare time to coach, so not only wasn't I a stereotype, but the physical activity helped me to forget. Some might say it's easier if you can "pass" for being straight, but I don't think it was. It only helped to delay the time that I knew I must face up to it, but in the meantime, I put it in a package and left it on a mental shelf, thinking I could deal with it all later. It was tough though, what I thought I could unpackage at my leisure turned out to be like a dam bursting and it overwhelmed me, so there was a period of adjustment, but eventually I started living my life honestly, coming out to friends and loved ones. It's the best feeling when a heavy weight is lifted.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
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Your natural hair is beautiful......please don't dye it again......I enjoyed your coming out video. Walt in Miami
This is so cute!
Please tell me that when you went back to school, you and your roommate became very close.
Your story inspired me that once I get the courage ,things will hopefully change. A lot of people seem to only tolerate but not accept and embrace. My great job is like that ! Thanks for the sharing and encouragement.