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Gay Love Journey
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Welcome to the Gay Love Journey! 🌈
Here, we dive into dating, relationships, situationships, spirituality, communication, self-discovery, sex, coming out stories, childhood trauma and more. ❤️🩹
Let's go under the surface, get vulnerable and find our true selves and desires along the way. ⭐
Nowadays dating and love can be a wild ride, but no worries, I've got your back! 🌹
Coming out? I'll be your biggest cheerleader! You're about to step into the light! 🎉
Childhood trauma sucks and this channel aims to be a source of growth and healing! 💪
Let's slay our monsters 🐉 with humor, compassion, and unconditional support!
Embrace Your Journey, Find Your Love. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Hit that subscribe button, and let the good times roll! 🔥
Here, we dive into dating, relationships, situationships, spirituality, communication, self-discovery, sex, coming out stories, childhood trauma and more. ❤️🩹
Let's go under the surface, get vulnerable and find our true selves and desires along the way. ⭐
Nowadays dating and love can be a wild ride, but no worries, I've got your back! 🌹
Coming out? I'll be your biggest cheerleader! You're about to step into the light! 🎉
Childhood trauma sucks and this channel aims to be a source of growth and healing! 💪
Let's slay our monsters 🐉 with humor, compassion, and unconditional support!
Embrace Your Journey, Find Your Love. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Hit that subscribe button, and let the good times roll! 🔥
Why You’re Hardwired to Date the Wrong Guy—The Truth Will Shock You!
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Ever wonder why you keep dating the wrong guy? It’s not just bad luck-it’s deeper than that! In this video, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re often drawn to the wrong people in relationships. Discover the real reasons why you might be wired to choose the wrong guy and how you can break free from this pattern! Don’t miss out on this eye-opening discussion.
🏳️🌈 Embrace your true self, shine brightly, and let's create a supportive community of love and growth together!
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Ever wonder why you keep dating the wrong guy? It’s not just bad luck-it’s deeper than that! In this video, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re often drawn to the wrong people in relationships. Discover the real reasons why you might be wired to choose the wrong guy and how you can break free from this pattern! Don’t miss out on this eye-opening discussion.
🏳️🌈 Embrace your true self, shine brightly, and let's create a supportive community of love and growth together!
Embrace Your Journey, Find Your Love. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
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Thanks 😊
My parents surrounded me with Hans Christian Anderson books, rather than Disney.
many THANKS!!!
You better have good answers yourselves when she says ‘and what about you? ‘
3:52 shoudl've been verbally bleeped out, because that's real shocking in public.
Agreed, be it Disney, Hallmark, romcoms, romantic movies, or books (and many other examples). Point is this. Generally, they show the start of a relationship up to the point of "I love you," then roll credits, or the book ends. It doesn't show a realistic relationship or how people actually fall in love (romance novels are hit or miss on this one). It tells a story with a romantic plot. That's it. But, yes, people see this and perceive it as having some accurate depiction of romance. At some point, I do think we lose our disillusioned ideas about them with age and/or real-life experience. But, there are some who don't. But, personally, those are the type of people who are in love with love itself. Not understanding the dynamics of an actual relationship or caring to learn. Just moving from one honeymoon phase to the next. Leaving when the going gets tough.
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I recently saw I guy that ghosted me on a dating app. I just moved on to the next guy. When the guy stopped texting me after I saw him. I did not know why he did not respond. He sent one text and I sent many. It took my months to realize that he was done with me. I wish I knew about your advice years ago.
At least he has a variety of interests . . . A little judy and questionable, but a variety. Baby steps.😁
Relationships are work. But when you're with the right person. You enjoy putting in the extra effort to the point it doesn't feel like work (for the majority). Soul mates don't just happen, a higher sense of compatability doesn't mean less effort on anyone's part. Trust is earned, just like a bank, don't give more than you receive. Communication is key to a healthy relationship. But, you need to understand what that means for yourself and them. Talking is moot if you don't know how to listen or resolve the issue.
Been there, done that, and tossed the t-shirt. 😁
When is it too soon to tell the other about your own needs? Currently in a situationship for only a month. On our 4th date we did have sexual relations and he said he wasnt going to look for anyone else after wards. Then I get short 2 word texts. I've often initiated text conversations since the 2nd date.we do have plans for a 5th date though.
Heyyy, thanks for sharing and trusting me with this! So, what does it really mean when he says he’s 'not looking for someone else'? Is he already wanting to be exclusive? In my opinion, that’s way too soon to be exclusive, especially after just a month. The fact that he’s saying he doesn’t want to look for anyone else is his choice, but be careful-actions speak louder than words. Those short, two-word texts don’t exactly scream interest, right? It’s possible this could be a form of manipulation. He’s saying he’s not going to look for anyone else, but he’s also not giving you the attention you deserve. It’s worth considering that he might be trying to keep you from looking elsewhere while he keeps his options open. Just be cautious-saying he’s exclusive could be a total lie. Watch for his actions, not just his words.
God loves you no matter what
Great video, straight to the point. Keep it up!
To be fair he has to message all the guys he's in a "relationship" with . . . Tends to happen when they treat a dating app like a fan club.😁
There’s a big difference between narcissism and arrogance and I don’t think you’ve had the right education to make that distinction.
Great advice . . . Unrelated, but your multilingual gift is awesome.😁
What if this guy acts gay and sounds like gay, I have been approaching him, one day he told me that he does not like guys and had dated girl before. I then asked him straight out "why did you not reject me if you are not gay ? ". He responded "There's no reason why I have to reject you. We can keep talking and be just like we have been." Is he really gay but self denies his sexuality ?
Hey! Thanks for sharing, it sounds like a confusing situation. As for whether he's in denial about his sexuality, that's something only he can truly know and understand. Sexuality can be complex, and people sometimes need time to figure it out. It’s important to respect his boundaries and take his words at face value. You deserve someone who’s fully open and honest with you, so maybe consider where you want to go from here. Keep your heart open, but also protect it. 😊
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Unrealistic expectations . . . Feeds into the "ideal" body type or social standard. To the point they expect you to do the same. Not from a place of sharing an interest or concern. But, because you are an object of desire and how good you look reflects on them.
You’ve hit the nail on the head. Unrealistic expectations and the pressure to fit into an 'ideal' body type or social standard can be incredibly damaging. It’s frustrating when someone sees you as an object of desire rather than a whole person with your own values and interests. Being valued only for how you look and how that reflects on them isn’t a foundation for a healthy relationship. True connection comes from mutual respect and appreciation for each other’s individuality, not just appearances. Thanks for bringing this up-it’s a reminder that we should all strive for more genuine and authentic connections.
Why is this on my feed? Maybe im gay, maybe my dog is gay or maybe you are gay. But at the end of the day, all I can say is Sup
If you see this video you're probably gay.
Yes, but either it means you haven't had the coversation about where you two stand. Or you have, but they're in "limbo" about things. Which if that's the case. You know they're not likely to change their mind and you're playing a losing game if you stay.
But then u still know
In all fairness, he promised . . . He didn't think he'd have to follow through.😁
I love how these are basic, normal first date questions. But gays are so oversexualized they only have the concept of asking if the other is top or bottom or if they like groups or open relationships.
That´s so true, like i´m afraid one day when i start dating that i´ll have no choice but to start the date by saying "There won´t be any sex today, tomorrow or anytime soon and i´m also strictly monogamous. Are you interested or should i go home because i have no intentions to waste my time and energy on sex addict morons" which will most likely result in most of my dates ending in like 5 minutes which means i´ll die alone.
In addition, make sure to try to follow up with a question based on their response when applicable. They say they enjoy reading, what's their favorite book is, who's their favorite author, and which genre they enjoy reading the most. Obviously, you are not trying to give them the third degree, but by following up on their responses, you show your listening and interest. Also, you can interject little tidbits about yourself. This way their not fully dominating the conversation or feel like they're in a job interview. The best thing to also do, as is implied here, use open-ended questions. Try to minimize or avoid "yes or no" questions. It doesn't give you much information or anything to build on. So, instead of focusing on their answer, you're scrambling for something else to talk about. Another good question that I enjoy is: 8)What do you want to be remembered for? Also, when it comes to "texting" assuming this started on a dating app. Look at their profile. Don't go full stalker (boundaries) but, you can get a lot of information from posted images or what tidbits they offer about themselves. So instead of an opener like "Hi, I liked your picture," or "I thought you were cute," get the ball rolling straight from the gate, "Hi, I really liked your profile pictures, especially the one at Disney Land. I've never been myself, what was your favorite ride there?" Or something along those lines. People love talking about themselves, and by showing interest in the information they posted, it shows that you actually took time to look at their profile. Implying you are looking for a good match and not just some random guy on an app.
Lol i just say crazy things or test their humor levels. Like ill tell em to put props on their junk, or photoshop their unsolicited nudes n send them back as mine
Thanks for the video, information, and advice. Here are the 7 questions: 1. What's something you're passionate about? 2. How do you like to spend your free time? 3. What's a dream or ambition you have? 4. What do you like to do on your weekends? 5. What's something that made laugh recently? 6. Is there a cause or belief you feel strongly about? 7. What's a lesson you've learned from a past relationship?
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You are gay
It's definitely a compatability issue. I can see both perspectives. But, I agree that only replying to messages at a certain time generally shows someone who prioritizes their time first. Which is their choice and unstable. But, it seems very limiting. Imagine trying to carry multiple conversations for an hour. Then going radio silent again.
That's too positive 😅
It's just like making a mistake. We live , we learn, and we move on.
Agreed . . . While I'm glad I've broken out of my shell through posting comments. It's definitely added to the dopamine hit desire. I am currently learning to decrease my phone time. Reminding myself, likes, and content creator stamps don't mean anything. We're all just strangers on the internet. Just leave a kind word, and that's enough. Strangers approval doesn't add value to myself. I do that.
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Find Jesus bro, save yourself while you can. Stay blessed! Have a great day.
Seriously though, you were going to say, "I'd have two dollars, which isn't a lot, but it's weird it happened twice." 😁
hahaha, two dollars is still something :D
No argument . . . But, actually getting to the dating part. It's surprising how some people expect an immediate spark to determine if they want to give someone a chance. Where in the real world, people, not a romance or romcom.😁
Beware of covert narcissists. Rife in this community.
I’m a Gay man in middle age. I think you are well meaning. But your video is merely a lot of obvious bromides.
Matthew 19 12 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way. Male or female is determined by gender located in the soul not sex characteristics. I am Elijah of Malachi 4, the forerunner to the return of Jesus. JESUS was TRANSGENDER 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️, a female man returning as a female woman in a lesbian relationship with a male woman. The wedding is already paid for and will be broadcasted all over the world. Fake ministers all know Malachi 3 8 is telling THEM to return the money. Fake ministers all over the world know the natural disasters, shootings, wars, diseases, famines, etc will get worse until THEY repent by returning the money and tell everyone they have known God prefers same-sex marriage. World peace is coming for those that remain and God's real people will soon transfigure and never pass on again.
Question: No argument to each of the points you made. But, it there a way to tell if they're being sincere with their intentions or just going through the motions? Does that make sense? Like, clear enthusiasm over just hitting "expected" milestones.
Let God guide you. There's no one answer to the question you asked. I think it also comes with experience. And I think you will know by someone else's actions. If things don't seem to be adding up then there's a reason. Matthew 19 12 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way. JESUS was TRANSGENDER 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️, a female man returning as a female woman in a lesbian relationship with a male woman.
Very good question!! In the beginning it's always hard to know whether people have sincere intentions. I think it's a matter of time and looking at their actions. Don't believe what they say, believe what they do and observe how they treat you :). That would be a bit of my take away from what I've experienced. Guys can come off really strong and not be interested at you all in you as a person, sometimes people just want you because they have emotional lacks so they use you as a tool to feel better, that to me is not real love. Anyways, these are things that little by little you can observe by the way they speak and you can also ask them open questions to discover more about their intentions, again, they might just tell you what you want to hear, but this way you see what happens :D
@gaylovejourney Fair. Good starting point, at least. Thank you.
I'm bi, and the coming out part was never something hard for me. My dad had already said when we had talked about sexuality that if I ever found a man attractive, I could tell him. My family is non-religious, so yeah coming was nothing hard for me.
Scientifically proven: you can't fix that. Their brain is just wired wrong. GTFO before they do real and lasting damage to you or someone else you care about, because they will. And they won't be sorry about it, won't feel any regret at all, and won't even accept that it's their fault because narcissism is a disease not just a state of mind.
No shortage of narcissists. I’ve had the misfortune of meeting downlow narcs, bi narcs and married narcs both open and down low not to mention pan narcs.
No argument . . . I also wonder if he wanted you to offer "more" physical affection. I brought this up to some of my guy friends, they're each married (and straight) for context. I said how I feel that most men focus on physical first (specifically sex) than if that experience is enjoyable they begin to invest emotionally. To which they agreed. Like that was pretty standard. I watched another channel, Dr. Tyler Hendrx, who mentioned 4 intimacies: Physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual. And how when he grew up, for a varity of reasons, he didn't really get those met through family (intimacy beimg a type of connection either platonic or romantic). So around 15 plus he would meet try and make that lacking intimacy up with just physical intamacy with hookups (didn't work). Point is, it's intresting how men are taught, expected, or belive that physical intimacy is the most important relationship factor. Obviously sex falls under the physical intimacy umbrella it's not the only physical intimacy. Nor is it wrong for anyone to intentionally hold that particular physical intimacy as a main qualifier. But, as your story shows, when those of us don't feel as strongly about that being the most important intimacy and instead look for the emotional or intellectual intamacy first. We find ourselves questioning our own perspectives, because of constant rejection. But, guess that just means we have a dating koy pond rather than a pool.
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This is what I find so weird about "low" effort. Like I get its limited images and info based on their profile. So I understand you won't have a plethora of things to ask. But, I would think you could come up with two to three things. Based on something from their profile. Plus maybe have a couple "deep" questions, nothing too personal, but that requires some introspective thought. Like what do you want to be remembered for? This way you can answer their questions and then hit back with your own. It's called a conversation for a reason.
This is definitely a problem with a lot of hot guys! Gotta be careful their ego is in check. Not worth chasing them.
I feel there's a certian irony to scorpio being water. Do the the fable of the frog (or fox) and the scorpion. (I'm scorpio) I respect astrology. But, as you said it's but one piece of a larger puzzle. There are a number of things utilized to discover our personalities. Which is great. But, when you get right down to it, compatability comes from shared core values, morals, and relationship expectations. Yes, similar personalities or "opposites attract" may each play a part in the initial attraction phase. But, mutual connection based on our core being is going to forge a far stronger bond as/if things progress forward over time.
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