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Life Coaching by Feltes
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Are you a gay man who’s been hurt by religious shame, struggling to feel confident, find joy, or connect with like-minded friends? You’re not alone-and you’re in the right place.
I’m Eric Feltes, a Life Coach, actor, and advocate who helps gay men free themselves from the shame the church has placed on them. My mission is to empower you to live your best shame-free gay life.
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I’m Eric Feltes, a Life Coach, actor, and advocate who helps gay men free themselves from the shame the church has placed on them. My mission is to empower you to live your best shame-free gay life.
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The Power of Self Love for Gay Men
For many gay men, self-love doesn’t come easy. Years of religious shame, societal rejection, and internalized homophobia can make us believe we’re not enough. But here’s the truth-you are worthy of love, exactly as you are. In this video, we’re breaking down what self-love really means, why it’s essential for your happiness, and how to build it step by step. When you stop seeking validation from people who don’t deserve your energy and start embracing your true self, everything changes.
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7 Harmful Phrases Christians Use With the Gay Community (And Why They Hurt)
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Have you ever been told, "I’ll pray for you," or "I don’t hate you, I just hate your sin"? These may seem harmless or even loving, but for LGBT individuals, they can feel dismissive, invalidating, and deeply hurtful. In this video, I unpack 7 harmful microaggressions Christians use against the LGBT community, why they hurt, and how we can work toward truly inclusive and loving conversations. ✨ ...
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There are so many ways to help homophobics to repent. I tell them, I will pray for you and your demonic lifestyle choice.
Great to hear someone covering micro aggressions , well said. Wrote about them in my podcast "Two Teddies And Some Dreams!"
I am queer and catholic. Though I go the agnostic way when catholics "relatives, friends" etc become unbearable. I just cant stand the hypocrisy from their side. I agree with everything you have said completely. Just one bit, when we say "we are all sinners", christians try to equate queer folks with criminals etc who need earthly redemption and its just the biggest bull crap they sell. On the contrary we are all sinners in the eyes of god (Biblical), means we are all children of adam who have the original sin (this is faith), they twist it around to exclude you.
I would love to add how patronising and irritating they get, but also in their defense I am an Indian, and in urban india like Delhi, Pune, mumbai bangalore catholics come across "progressive".
I am so glad I found.your channel. I am tired of hearing Christians comparing homosexuality with stealing, adultery and even paedophilia. Is so gross and so hurtful for gay people. And I hate hearing them saying that homosexuality is a lifestyle and is chosen while their heterosexuality is just real love and real life. When did they choose to be heterosexual?
Nah man. Its okay to be gay, it just takes away from your own relationship with him if you act on it. Thats how it works, your sexuality itself is not the sin it is if you believe that no matter what you do it is not a sin in his eyes. Im happy that you have a relationshipnwith the lord but the bible is gods word.
Ill pray for you is like, "Bless your heart.
Yep! Almost like it gives someone permission to follow it with something extremely hurtful without holding themselves accountable for the damage.
I have an answer to this: "If you go out of your way to tell me you will pray for me, pleas specify HOW and WHEN are you going to make good on that promise.
The Bible says that “ if a man ever has been in intorcorse” (or in relationship) “ with man, they shall be killed”. But God loves everyone not their actions.
Not disagreeing with you, just your argument. A person that does not know the gospel will not know Jesus. This man is doing a bad job by telling you this insted of just telling you who Jesus is.
Yes!!!!!
Your basic assumption is that LGBT activity is not sinful. That is a difficult assertion to uphold based on the biblical text and its unsurprising that any assertion of Christian truth would be offensive in that context. Christianity is not inclusive. The offer of eternal life is open to everyone, but it is conditional on repentance. If you find these "microaggressions" difficult to deal with, you will struggle so much more with the animosity directed at you for being a Christian.
Obviously we aren't reading the same bible or going to the same Church. And Why oh Why are you watching this video?
There's a lot to dig into here, but I made a video that breaks down the 6 clobber passages here: ruclips.net/video/oNbDB3ZsRYY/видео.htmlsi=C-qcIICzxX3z-epX
"We can disagree and still be friends, right?" This is what a disagreement is: "I like pineapple on pizza" "Haha, I hate pineapple on pizza, let's just get separate pizzas" This is not what a disagreement is: "I like pineapple on pizza" "In this book it says that people who like pineapple on pizza will be tortured for all eternity and if you don't want to be tortured for all eternity you will stop eating pineapple on pizza" "What?"
100%!!!!!
Yup , I have heard many conservative people and their mentality towards LGBTQ community . Abrahamic religions are man made . They only know two gender, this is all their one book knowledge that's why they are like this. They know nothing about nature and univers knowledge. Because according to abrahamic religions Earth is flat which is funny thing 😂😂. Am proudly saying this because am belonging to sanatan hindu dharma. Which is literally means eternal knowledge. In our dharma Karma is important not human sexuality. I also understand western especially american LGBTQ community mentality because they hate trump but he's following Christianity just like them because I have seen many LGBTQ people marry with Christian values. They celebrate Christmas, christmas eve and visit church, i mean what's this your god already hates you . I don't understand why they're still following Christianity.
"Can we just agree to disagree?" is so horrible. As a trans woman, it sounds like "can we just agree to be ok with the fact I'll always see you as a man?"
YES!! And you, as a human being worthy of love, respect, and belonging, have every right to walk away from anyone who would use phrases like this to undermine your power.
Beautifully said and so very true!!
Thank you!
Homosexuality is an abomination to the lord you quite literally just arguing with the Bible. You can have your sins and you can fall short God still loves you. But you cannot justify your sin and mold the Bible to your world view to make your sins acceptable
Amen - keep up the great work!
Thanks, you too!
American problems, if they tried this anywhere else in the world they be told to F@&k off!
As a bisexual agnostic the “I’ll pray for you” one is kinda funny. It’s like I don’t understand why you’re praying for other peoples sexuality. It’s funny. But like if it was like “oh I’ll pray for your sickness.” Or something like that I’d be alr w that.
I think the issue is that some of them actually think queerness IS a sickness, which is where it can feel so incredibly belittling.
@ mhm, I got told to “be normal” and that “God created only two genders” I was like “babes I like both of them-“ 😭
I'm trans, close enough.
Yep, 100%. As a trans person, is there anything you'd like to add to the list?
Thank you for your addressing these phrases. It helps me realize why these things have bothered me so much when people bring them up.
Glad it was helpful!
If your ego and beliefs are so fragile that Edith from the knitting circle at First Baptist Church can wreck you with "I'll pray for you", you don't need a support group or life coach. You need extreme amounts off medication and probably should be considered a ward of the state. You're not helping anyone by loading unstable people's minds up with real aggression and a victim mentality.
God is agender! Well thats my headcannon at least
Domt agree with your perspectives
Nobody asked
Gotcha! Is that all? Would you like to expand on that in any way, and if not, what were you hoping to gain from leaving this comment?
Religion is a mental illness.
I am sick and tired of religious bigotry and cannot stop myself from stridently calling out such insults from religious people in my circle of acquaintances. Yes, religions are an insult to humanity blocking and lately attempting to turn back the clock on social progress!!! That is why I have been not only an atheist, but an anti-theist for years!
What happened to "Love thy neighbour" "Go the second mile" "Turn the other cheek"??? That preacher totally fails to understand the fundal message of LOVE Jesus preached.
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You are right 100%....but Christians still think gays are rebels and they want to be gay!
I'm a straight woman but have definitely heard these phrases thrown around by family when talking about gay people 😓 so I still found this video helpful
Good explanations, been there so many times.
You can’t have a conservation with a cannibal. All they want to do is eat human flesh and drink human blood.
You can coach me anyway you want
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That preacher may be misguided but christenanity is still constantly being attacked a judged for are beliefs Which are an amendment wright homosexuality is a sin weather you like it of not and christens should be aloud to share there opinion
Is man with female sex a sin outside of marriage? If yes go fucking preach this to 98% of straight people and leave gay people alone. Save those souls, they are more than gay people. You all are focused only on homosexuality as a sin
Well I completely disagree in the bible in states mulitible times that homosexuality is a sin (Leviticus 18:22) and (Romans 1:26-27) The devil is lying to you .
Do we really though?
Thank you! It’s like they always bring up those tories to shame gay people for who they are. ❤
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I think people should communicate better tbh I don't think god wants us yo share his beliefs by forcing it on people. They should have talked in a calm tone and just informed you about god rather then forceing it. God bless 🙏
On point!
They like to say it’s unnatural. But how can it be unnatural when it’s so prevalent in nature?
Thank u ❤
thank YOU! :)
Most of us dont want to be associated with that part of the community 😂 i had a good friend and neighbor my whole life growing up, as soon as he came out he was not welcome amongst us ( his friends and family) i wouldn't give up my family for any self righteous feeling, thats stupidity.
I'm confused - are you telling me that your friend came out as gay, and you disowned him?
@lifecoachingbyfeltes yes not just me but everyone did, he ended up moving to Florida to a gay community fell for some guy when the guy didn't want him he offed himself with pills is what I heard,
As a 50 plus gay bear i dont feel as if I fit in. Im ignored when i walk into a place that is suppose to be gay friendly. Im sorry but I don't exist only to pick up other guys. So when I talk to a person it is not for the sole intent of having sex with them. So stop writing me off because I dont look like your dream date for the night. The gay community is a very judgy and clickish community. So I dont go out much. I cant change how people act so I have not done much to change it.
I would've interpretted his words differently: "Are you sure this is the healthy thing for you to do?" At that point, you already knew he was cheating. He knew he was cheating. He knew that you knew he was cheating. It was established that he had already crossed that line and you both knew it was essentially over. At that point, why torture yourself even more and hurt your own feelings unnessesarily by looking through his phone? Intuitively, you already knew you were only going to find something that would cut you even deeper. So when he asked you if what you were about to do was a healthy decision, he might have meant those words purely at face value... Or not. I wasn't there.
100% the argument that life matters only when it’s in womb but then same people don’t care about once it’s born.
Yep!!
Great Point man!! Thanks for shedding light ln this!
Don't group all Christians together
We’re in my video do I group Christians? I’m a Christian myself.
I like how you blatantly ignore the many verses in the Bible that condemn it as a sin. We Christians dont hate you, we care for you. If we believe in a hell, then we will try to help you. If you cast us away, then the second death is no longer blood on my hands.
Do you though? I mean to you really like it? Here's a video I made that explains how the verses you're referring to actually have nothing to do with homosexuality: ruclips.net/video/oNbDB3ZsRYY/видео.htmlsi=rpFtnvrF5DcS0UKc
Nobody's hate is stronger than Christians' "LoVe".