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Gilmore Girls Romanticized the Wrong Things—and We Let It Slide
On Gilmore Girls, some habits were romanticized and some situations were seen as normal...and they were wrong! Let's talk about them.
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Lorelai Gilmore, Rory Gilmore, Gilmore girls, Richard Gilmore, Luke, Jess, Dean, Logan, Sookie, Kirk
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Chapters
0:00 Intro
0:50 1st Thing
1:34 2nd Thing
3:23 3rd Thing
4:40 4th Thing
Lorelai Gilmore, Rory Gilmore, Gilmore girls, Richard Gilmore, Luke, Jess, Dean, Logan, Sookie, Kirk
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The Daddy Issues We Overlooked in Gilmore Girls
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Gilmore Girls was crawling with absent fathers. It felt like the show literally glossed over how bad this was and the impact it had on most of the characters especially Rory and Lorelai Gilmore. Let's talk about it! Chapters 0:00 Intro 0:40 Rory and Christopher 3:45 The Fill-ins 5:27 Jess's daddy issues 6:37 Lorelai's daddy issues 7:03 Watch this, if you have daddy issues Lorelai Gilmore, Rory ...
Lorelai and Emily Gilmore were basically the SAME PERSON (there... I said it).
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Lorelai and Emily Gilmore had an interesting mother-daughter relationship that impacted Lorelai and Rory, kind of negatively and positively. What was it about this parent-child relationship that was noteworthy? Let's talk about it Emily Gilmore, Lorelai Gilmore, Rory Gilmore, Gilmore Girls, Emily and Lorelai fights, #gilmoregirls #emilygilmore #lorelaigilmore #rorygilmore My *Gilmore girls* pla...
Jess, Dean, Logan - Who was good enough for Rory Gilmore?
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Dean, Jess and Logan were Rory Gilmore's boyfriends and they all had their fair share of drama. Who was the best choice for her? Let's talk about it. Chapters 0:00 Intro 0:38 Rory and Dean 2:33 Jess and Rory 4:26 Logan and Rory 5:33 Why all the relationships were not drama free 6:20 Who was the best for Rory? Lorelai Gilmore, Rory Gilmore Gilmore girls, Jess, Dean, Logan #gilmoregirls #jess #de...
Skyler White Could have Changed Everything in Breaking Bad(… and this is how)
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Skyler White in Breaking bad got a lot of hate for how she behaved when she found out Walter White her husband was a drug Lord. On this video, I go over what could have been Skyler White's life - her alternative endings in Breaking Bad. Let's talk about it Chapters 0:00 Intro 1:17 The Skyler White hate 4:16 Ending 1 5:30 Ending 2 6:57 Ending 3 8:00 Ending 4 Walter White, Skyler White, Jesse Pin...
How Every The Office Character Mastered the Jim Face
Просмотров 83114 дней назад
The "Jim face" was created on The Office by Jim Hapert but it's also been successfully pulled off by other characters like Dwight, Toby, Ryam, Pam and others. Let's talk about how the jim face is different for every character. Chapters 0:00 Intro 1:12 What's the Jim face 2:30 Creed's Jim face 4:05 Ryam's Jim face 6:21 Mike's Jim face 7:58 Pam's Jim face 8:40 Toby's Jim face 9:59 Dwight's Jim fa...
My UNPOPULAR OPINIONS about Lorelai Gilmore's 'Best Friend' Parenting
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Lorelai Gilmore was more of a bestie to Rory Gilmore than a mom and this was a little bit problematic Let's talk about it. Chapters 0:00 Intro 1:10 Lorelai's codependency on Rory 3:54 The role Lorelai's parents played 5:35 The bad examples Lorelai set Lorelai Gilmore, Rory Gilmore Gilmore girls, Jess, Dean, Logan, Video Essay #gilmoregirls #lorelaigilmore #rorygilmore #emilygilmore #videoessay ...
Rory Gilmore: How a Gifted Child Became a Mediocre Adult
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In Gilmore girls, Rory Gilmore was a gifted child but turned out a bit interesting. Being Lorelai's daughter came with a lot of expectations and she did not meet a lot of them, let's talk about it Chapters 0:00 Intro 1:15 About Gilmore Girls 2:03 Rory Gilmore 4:27 Rory's poor decisions 7:15 Reason for Rory's misbehaviors 1 8:18 Reason for Rory's misbehaviour 2 8:57 Reason for Rory's misbehaviou...
Hank’s Cockiness Made Walter White Untouchable.
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Hank did not figure out who Walter white truly was until the last season. Let's talk about how Heisenberg used Hank's weakness to his advantage. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 0:15 About Breaking Bad 1:01 Clue no.1 that Hank missed 1:28 Clue no.2 that Hank missed 1:48 Clue no.3 that Hank missed 2:27 Clue no.4 that Hank missed 2:53 Clue no.5 that Hank missed 4:55 Clue no.6 that Hank missed 6:15 Clue no.7 ...
WALTER WHITE didn’t Break Bad. He was ALWAYS bad.
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Breaking Bad revolves around the story of Walter White - an unassuming "harmless" chemistry teacher who later becomes a tyrant and manipulates every single person around him Let's talk about it CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 0:42 About Walter White 1:09 One of the people WW manipulates 4:47 Another person WW manipulates 8:33 Another person WW manipulates 9:43 Another person WW manipulates 11:05 This is h...
THE OFFICE: So… Who Should Jim Have Chosen? Pam or Karen?
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Jim, Pam, and Karen - The Messiest Love Triangle in TV History Who was at fault? Let's talk about it The Office, Jim Halpert, Pam Beesley, Karen Filippelli, Micheal Scott #theoffice #lovetriangle #pamandjim #jimandkaren My *Gilmore girls* playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLCL3oun6agMd4rV3pK59qRng3jMBwNyT_ My *Suits* playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLCL3oun6agMc7oAClyHN5fUspr5tplrE7 My *The Office playlist: rucl...
you are living in Black Mirror's NOSEDIVE(…and you probably don’t even know)
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Black Mirror's NOSEDIVE is a strong WARNING about the future...and it is scary. On this video, we'll talk about Lacie, the main character, and how many of us are currently living like her. Black Mirror, Nosedive, Season 3, ratings, social media #blackmirror #nosedive #cancelled #socailmedia #cancelculture Copyright Disclaimer: Under section 107 of the Copyright Act of 1976, allowance is made fo...
Everyone talks about Harvey Specter but Louis LITT is the real MVP.
Просмотров 893Месяц назад
Louis Litt from SUITS is one character who drives us crazy and cracks us up with his actions. He did some pretty unthinkable things as a lawyer and he can be quite difficult to understand. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 0:36 Louis's Childhood 1:07 Adult Louis 1:36 Unthinkable things Louis did 5:21 Why Louis was the way he was 5:57 My personal opinions on Louis 7:40 Chitchat Louis Litt, Donna Paulsen, Har...
The ONE THING everyone misses about Harvey Specter
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Harvey Specter(from Suits) was a brilliant lawyer. Master closer but broken inside. Let's talk about it. #suitstvshow #harveyspecter CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 0:41 How Harvey became successful 0:56 What we loved and hated about Harvey 2:11 How Harvey's mommy issues started 3:01 The impact of his mommy issues 1 3:35 The impact of his mommy issues 2 6:23 The impact of his mommy issues 3 8:50 Toxic mas...
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THE MENENDEZ BROTHERS: Why is everyone so conflicted about Erik and Lyle?
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WHAT MOST INTROVERTS MISS IN THEIR LIVES
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Many Christian Women Choose The Wrong Men because of THIS
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From 1M - 0 JOBS!! Here’s What I Would Do If the Tech Job Market Stayed Bad for Another Year
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The 5 People and Habits Holding You Back in 2024
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Great video😃👏🏻
no.
no to what?
I scream at both of them when I watch it! lol!
Lol, I am not even surprised at this😃
okay. so I love how you said, its not between jess, dean, and logan, and its really just between jess and logan. I totally agree with that. The thing is after watching it many times, and watching AYITL, I feel as if, Jess has gotten too good for Rory. And I feel like Logan and Rory deserve each other. She is cheating on Paul, just like Logan is cheating on Odette, or whatever her name is. And then she goes and gets pregnant with some guy that she doesn't even know. So she is acting more like Logan in the original series, and just sleeping around because she can, and doesnt really stop to think about other people's feelings. I don't know. In my opinion, I think Rory and Logan deserve whatever Karma is due to them.
Omg!!, so true. Maybe even Jess didn't deserve Rory for this reason you mentioned. Now I am beginning to wonder - Did Logan also influence Rory to cheat? How exactly were they both ok with cheating on each other and their partners?! Maybe they deserve each other after all
I've always thought they were very similar yet different. I think Lorelai mirrors some of Emily's actions, the easiest example is when Rory herself says it. When Lorelai invited Dean to their house without asking Rory. They're not exactly the same but even if Lorelai would hate it, they are still alike. Many people hate Emily or Lorelai and they fail to notice this. They are complex characters and that's beautiful writing.
Absolutely! They are certainly complex characters who are flawed in different ways, yet more alike than they'd like to admit Thank you for your comment!
I am saying this without watching the video, but it definitely Logan. Despite being my least favorite, i can admit he the perfect man for Rory. Despite being raised by Lorelai, Rory always had more on common with her grandparents and kinda fitted right into their world. The only thing holding back Rory was everyone expectation of her. That and her mother influence (i am not bashing Lorelai here btw). I think if everybody had let her be the upper class woman she could have been, she wouldn't be the mess she is now. That not the only reason why Logan is perfect for her. They both are intellectually and psychologically equa. Which is why Logan doesn't put her in a pedestal since he can see right through her and see that they're both similar. Unlike Dean and Jess who always saw Rory as better than them. This not only forced Rory to be on her toes but also made her work for the relationship. Two things Rory used to not do in her previous relationship. Plus, despite his flaws, Logan loved all of Rory. Including her flaws. Like i said, he never out her in this weird pedestal everyone else in her life did.
It’s an interesting angle🤎
This show was good for the time remember it’s just a show something to watch nothing more funny everyone was disappointed that Rory ended up pregnant and had trouble finding her job I thought it was a good ending making her a real person we all had that smart person in school got into a great school got a degree just to be a stay at home mom
LOGANNNNNNN❤
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I just want to know if the tiktoker got her pjs!!!
finally a someone who uses critical thinking when it comes to gilmore girls. so tired of people loving lorelei but hating on rory blindly. Its a complex relationship, theyre complex characters. Not many maybe understand the nuances of single mother - daughter relationships. Rory had no space to be herself as a teen she had to play a perfect role and no wonder she acted out later.
YEEES!! Agree 100%, I think people chose to forget that Jess was a teen with a lot of baggage. He is in fact one of my favorite characters in the show, and as many others, came to conclude that Rory is not good enough for him.
Yeesss!, Jess was one of my favorite characters too Who would you then say was good enough for Rory? 😊
@@susan-dk Quoting Alexis Bledel, someone else 😅; I do think that Rory not having male friends shows her inhability to relate to a man in a healthy way, and until that is solved (and the show never does), I don't think she will be in a good relationship for her.
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None. Rory is a walking red flag.
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I think there's a big difference between a safety net and a crutch. The point of a safety net is to catch you as a last resort in a high stakes situation. A crutch is something you can lean on on. And is meant to be a short term tool when healing, if otherwise able bodied, or for short distances as need if disabled long term. BUT using or relying on a crutch longterm or long distance when unneeded is likely to hinder or injure you rather than help you. She used her privilege as a crutch. AND was completely in denial about it.
Wow, I never thought about it this way!
I love watching these videos knowing damn well I'm Team Paris
Lol, We truly need to see more content on Paris and Rory
Nobody is good enough for Rory, cause she is too perfect and pure for this horrible horrible world.
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What about paul
Even Rory forgot about Paul, who am I to remember? 😂
I totally agree! I rarely see anyone standing up for Jess. I know he messed up badly , but I also think people were unfair to him. He didn't have a loving and healthy upbringing. Even so, he ended up a decent man. And just like you said, he challenged her and kept up with her cleverness, also respecting and liking her for being the way she was, they had similar interests while having different personalities. Jess will always be my favorite, I also love Milo Ventimiglia lol.
I absolutely agree 🤎
The real question is - Was Rory good enough for them?
It’s a valid question tbh
I'm sorry, but why did you use clips with beauty filters over the actresses' faces? It was so distracting to me that I had to stop the video. I'm sure your input on this topic is interesting, and you put a lot of effort into the video, but I think we shouldn't support the use of these beauty filters. It's just so bizarre and wrong, in my opinion
Maybe it's copyright issues. But yes this filter is weird.
Finally someone did a video for Skyler. Thank you! ♥ My ending would go like this: Walt is dead (like in the show), Skyler sits in this crappy home with her kids (like in the show). She turns the coordinates to the DEA and gets a deal of let's say five years of probation. Of course she's lost the car wash. Maybe she gets back with Ted who has recovered and works as his bookkeeper again, keeping all his stuff together and clean. After a while, she moves in with Marie who has been living in that huge house with four bedrooms all by herself. All this is boring to her as she misses all the adventure she went through with Walt. Meanwhile, Walt jr. has gone to college with the "fund money" from Gretchen and Elliot. He wants to be a scientist. Later he'll get married to Louis. Holly turns out being a smart kid, maybe a piano prodigee or something like that. So here starts the new series. Skyler tells Marie about the White Supremacists (which she learned about in her trial) and the money they kept hidden. Both startsearchingand stumble over.... SURPRISE! .... Kim Wexler. The trio will eventually find the money (after lots of twists and turns). They do not get caught (because they are careful and no narcisissts), and at the end, each of them goes their own way. Skyler and Holly move to New York so Holly can attend Juillard School. Marie stays in Albuquerque and remarries. Kim takes an attempt to get Saul out of prison and succeeds. 🤣
Thank you! This is so well thought out! How long have you been thinking of this ending?😄
Not you bringing in Kim Wexler 😅👌
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This might get controversial but hear me out: I blame Chris for some of it. How Rory acts with Dean and Logan is learned behavior from how Chris treats Lorelai. Like Chris was definitely around enough for Rory to see that as normal. She also has abandonmemt/daddy issues and seeks the approval of people in authority, which is why Logan's dads words affect her so much, I think. I think we're quick to blame Lorelai or Emily for Rory but imo Rory is also a whole adult for a lot of this and never really takes responsibility for her actions. She can always blame someone else or be the victim because it fits the narrative she wants to spin for herself. She never has to look inward or reflect on her actions because she sees herself as in the right and (in a lot of circumstances) better than other people. So she will justify hurting other people because she literally doesnt see a problem with it. "I want this so it must be the right thing to do." She's also a bad friend and treats Lane poorly 😅 but that's for a different comment.
Honestly, I don’t think it’s controversial at all. I definitely see how Chris might be responsible as well. And Rory and Lane is a whole new topic🤦♀️
She was the worst character!!
lol, really?
I like your take on this I always felt bad for Karen I just didn’t know why. Now I do.
Yesss, I felt the same way the first time I saw The Office too😅
I'm currently rewatching GG after 10 years, I did not remember Lorelai being this unsufferable. I can't stand her at all!!! Yes, she's witty and funny sometimes, but so immature, and it reflects in the way she raised Rory - which made Rory more and more annoying and spoiled as the show goes on. Most times I find myself agreeing with Emily. It is clear Lorelai's parents were and are still very controlling, and Lorelai has the right to be upset and distance herself, but GOD. She will always do whatever is the opposite to what Emily is saying. That episode where she needs to get a loan to fix her house, she refuses Emily's help over and over again for pure pride. Lorelai didn't even have savings. As a parent - especially since she had a decent job - should have a fair amount saved for emergencies!!!!!!!! In the end she got the loan with Emily's help, but her fighting it was so annoying. Let's not even get started on her childish taste and making fun of people for liking things that she thought was stupid. Also, her being jealous of Luke when he's seeing someone is so stupid to me. Mind your own business lol, she dated many guys and that's fine, but when Luke meets someone nice she acts like a freak. She goes nuts when Luke didn't tell her before about moving in with Nicole. It's ridiculous. Nicole didn't like Lorelai much, and honestly, if I were her I probably wouldn't either. Similar thing happened with Sherry. I swear I could go on and on and on about this lol. Anyways, great video!
Lol! Lorelai was definitely a handful 😄 Thank you for the kind words
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Thank you for visiting our country but as a point of correction, the number of Tutsi victims that were killed during 1994 Genocide Against Tutsi is not 800,000 rather it is more than one million (1000,000 plus) but everyday people discover other victims in different areas of the country and there are some families that wiped out completely whereby you cannot get information of where they threw their bodies. But all in all Rwanda is a peaceful country with the best leader PAUL KAGAME who strive for the prosperity of the citizens at large.
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I watched this so long ago but yes I see some faults in their relationship. It was really a friend - friend relationship between them which was helpful in some areas but mostly harmful. I think it’s a case of over correcting and then missing the mark completely
Yesss, it felt like she prioritized being a friend over being her mom.
yes that's true! I feel like every time she had a ''parent'' reaction she automatically associated that with her parents and thought of it as something negative just like her reaction when her mom agreed with her with jess you could see the physical disgust it was enough for her to change her opinion entirely! it's like she does'nt have her own opinion her parenting style like everything was based off the opposite of what her mom would do 😂
Loool! So true I wonder why she’d do that. Did she dislike her mum that bad?
Yes this exactly! I understand that Emily was a horrible mother, but even a broken clock is right twice a day, and Lorelai not being able to agree with Emily even when she's correct was weird. That being said, with the Rory leaving Yale thing later on I can see why after that she wouldn't trust Emily even if they agreed, but before that happened it's just odd.
Thanks for this take, I actually can't even watch the show anymore because of this dynamic. The problem isn't that Lorelei is close to Rory, it is that she expects Rory to help deal with her emotions while never taking it seriously when Rory feels differently. She brings Rory around to her parents but rejects her not hating them the same she does, she makes Rory believe Dean is the greatest boyfriend there is (he is not) and she was wrong in choosing Jess but then leaves her alone when hurt by Jess leaving. Also the silent treatment after she wants to drop out of Yale: Rory was hurt because she felt all her work was not good enough, and instead of taking her seriously she stops talking to her for not doing what she wants. It seems like everyone says Rory becoming more distant from Lorelai in season 6 was the problem but I think she didn't have enough before. Lorelei didn't like it when Rory developed interests different from her, like when she liked cooking and going to the gym with Logan she made fun of her. That is also controlling and not allowing jer daughter to be an independent person, even though it may not have been as obvious or as extreme as Emily. It is understandable where Lorelai is coming from but that doesn't mean she could do no wrong.
This is such an interesting angle(her not being ok with Rory developing different interests). I think she was doing this because she just wanted so badly for Rory not to make the same choices as she did and ultimately end up like her.
I stopped watching for this exact reason. I couldn’t get past season 1
Will you marry me?? Thank you! This is exactly what I've been saying for years now to anyone who hates on Rory but not on Lorelai. Why do they think Rory ends up how she ends up? Why do they think one little criticism sends Rory down a spiral?
A great example, like you said, is the love triangle. I truly believe the main reason it got to the point that it did was because Rory was so desperate not to disappoint her mom. Lorelai never exactly hid how much she disliked Jess and LOVED Dean.
Lorelai’s relationship with men and the example she set really influenced Rory moving forward and led to a lot of the stuff you discussed. Also the fact that they constantly berate Lorelai for getting pregnant at 16, it puts a lot of pressure on Rory to be better. That feels true. That’s why Rory always aims to get the highest grades and do the best academically. Rory has been under a lot of pressure as the one in the family labeled “most likely to succeed”.
Yes, exactly!
I disagree. It’s evident that Rory was damaged by her paternal relationship. She graduated from Yale and is publishing a Novel. She struggles with romantic relationships and trust due to her father’s absence. This is evidenced by her confrontation with her father at the end of the series “A Year in the Life.” She was also damaged by the way she was treated by her paternal grandparents and cannot commit to Logan bc of Mitchum’s abuse. I love that Rory is a deep character with flaws. She was certainly gifted and talented.
You really think Mitcham wasn't trying to destabilise Rory? Don't get me wrong I think Rory handled it horribly... but I do not believe Mitcham had Rory's best interest at heart.
You know what? - I was initially conflicted about how Mitcham told her but what he actually said settled it for me. Rory was only doing what was expected of her, she wasn’t going out of her way to get good at journalism(or so it seemed) Now, I don’t think Mitcham’s criticism was necessarily constructive but I think he might just be direct(let’s not forget, he was in the newspaper industry 😂). They literally get paid for being direct. Thank you for your comment!
@susan-dk yea I disagree with this. If you've been hired as an INTERN to do a specific job... it doesn't mean you aren't or won't be a good journalist. Some people aren't comfortable with stepping outside the bounds of what they have been told to do. We could see that investigative journalism might not come easy for Rory when she tutored Jess and he questioned her ability to go outside her comfort zone... but she was growing in it... we could see that from when Logan invited her to the Life and Death Brigade event. What she needed was time and to be taught that sometimes as an investigative journalist you have to go where you're not welcome. I'm sure Lorelai asked her, when she said she was quitting Yale... did he read any of your stuff... and I'm sure Rory said no. Now I could be misremembering that so double check. But how can you be genuinely critiquing someone's journalistic work without reading any of their stuff and how can you assess whether someone can grow into a role when not having actually tried to help them grow into said role... again... that tells me that his intention was to always make her feel bad about herself... and it worked. Again not taking away responsibility from Rory who believed the sh*t Mitcham was feeding her... because again Lorelai asked... why are you so quick yo believe this man. Rory was a fool but Mitcham was an a$$
Also can I add... this is why I'm team Jess. Logan was happy for her to waste her life but Jess actually saw that she should be working towards writing in some capacity and challenged her bs-ing. Team Jess all day.
Hi did, but is it a surprise for a girl who reads a lot of books (as it is told to us) that a person (especially smart and pretty one, which causes jealousy of others) will meet in her life not once (!) someone who would try to put her down? Of course Mitchem was trying to destabilise her, but 1) was he so wrong? 2) it was her own choice to react in this way. 🤷🏼♀️
@@dablackangelyou are probably right about his intention to make Rory feel inconfident, but! She made it so easy for him, it took ONE damn conversation! He did not even fire her or threaten that he will give her a bad recommendation letter. And the way she reacted just has proven his point. I guess he has seen people that would not give up that easily. Even some other characters in the same movie could do it better (Incl. Her mother and her best friend)
I think you are generally right about the negative role of the safety net. I will just add here, that Rory's personality was overall forming in the circumstances that she never felt any real consequences of her bad decisions. Safety net was a large part of it, but also these "gifted child" vibes did contributed too. E.g. Logan or Paris - they are much more in touch with reality simply because in their childhood and youth there was no the whole town kissing them on the forehead all the time
Not the whole town kissing them on the forehead 😅 Thanks for the comment!
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I agree 100%. I remember when she disapproved of jess, and thinking this is the first time (that I can recall now at least) she's behaved/had the reaction of a parent. The main problem was she had Rory, as a naive child herself and in the aim to not end up like her own parents she overcorrected. I don't think she was worse than Emily and Richard, but there were definitely boundaries that should've been in place.
@@cece28860 Thank you for your comment! Yes I totally forgot about her reaction with Jess as well.
Lorelei even being a teen parent came out a more responsible adult than Rory at her age!
@@TheRachag Hard agreed, however, Lorelai is at least partially responsible, as Rory was so coddled. That being said the grandparents started the cycle and continued it by never changing.
Please do Lorelei.
@@suzyrunninghawk7870 Lol, Sure, My latest video is actually on Lorelai but let me know if you’d like to see something else/more about her.
I blame the Dad HAHAHA but then again they were young when they became parents
Lool! Which of the dads? Chris or Richard?
@@susan-dk I think she means Chris.
@@suzyrunninghawk7870 yea, that makes sense
What are your thoughts about Lorelai's "best-friend" style of parenting? I really want to know, please share here 👇
I feel like for the affair and bad relationships there is no one else to blame but Rory. Loreali didn’t set the best example of how to be in a relationship but she certainly didn’t such a horrible example that it should have rubbed-off on Rory. I however do like the slow decent of Rory becoming like her mother. Rory didn’t break any patterns she just changed the pattern timeline.
You’re right. At the end of the day, she’s primarily responsible for her own actions!
What character in Gilmore Girls would you like to see a video on?
Jess
She was not gifted. She was treated like that gifted because she liked doing things other people didn't...in a small town. She was regular from the beginning, only liked to read a lot...that's it.
Yeah, I get it. Her uniqueness was more about circumstance than any exceptional talent.
Rory made valedictorian at Chilton even though she didn’t attend all 4 years which doesn’t happen in real life. It wasn’t until Yale that she started to struggle and no matter how intense Prep Schools are they don’t prepare for how CRAZY Ivy League can be
@@sheyannev2757 If Paris hadn't gotten rejected from Harvard I don't think Rory would've been valedictorian. By 11th grade Paris got an A - on one assignment and freaked out because she never got a grade below a solid A.
I agree that Rory was set to be a hard working young woman, until she spent more time with her rich grandparents (Friday night dinners). She brushed off the expense of Chilton, saved no money for her Ivy league college goals, not sure where the money for the three month Europe trip came from, and has a trust fund to fall back on. She assumed everything would be handed to her since she had the "right" last name and had come from money. Loved the video.
Thank you, I appreciate the kind words! It's so interesting to watch how it seemed like she didn't see the bubble she was in for the longest time
I loved Karen, but Pam is Jim's soulmate. 😂😂
Lool! I hate that I agree with this😅
@@susan-dk 😂😂
Agree. Donna was the most annoying character. Didn't deserve COO title. Especially because all of her decisions and actions taken as a COO were bad decisions. Holier-than-thou attitude. Always meddling and causing mess ups with her involvement. Can't even do Doc Review. After so many years of being in the legal industry, didn't even know that you have to put up your own money on the table to become a Partner. Being Sassy and taking Alex's clients documents along with her in the process causing Alex to lose a client and Gretchen to mess up. The whole Thomas Kessler goof up. Told Steve Buzzini to do shitty stuff. The whole "Donna" gadget episode. Malik put her in her place and revealed her true colors, where every other character on Suits and the audience have just been letting all these facts slip buy and just buying into her sassy, red-head charm and BS
I'm literally Rory. I remember even getting "Most Likely to Succeed" in the school yearbook. Now, I'm at a job that has no prospects for growth. I feel like I'm just coasting through life.
I feel you! Rory’s journey resonates with anyone who’s been labeled "gifted" or "most likely to succeed" and life has a funny way of challenging those expectations, right? I guess It’s all part of the growth journey. Thanks for sharing and being here!
Same experience here with the Most Likely to Succeed.✋Finding ways to be okay with being average or “behind” my expectations of what personal achievements should be.
Oh no 😢 I’ve been in the same boat. Hold on and keep remembering what you want in life. Reignite your goals! Make small steps, not overwhelming. Get your foot in the door you want, for you, for peace of mind and fulfillment. 🩵 And work your way up, for success.
And some times, you start a little more towards the “bottom” at another place, because that’s where you’re supposed to be. Somewhere you can also enjoy the process. And at the top, there’s everything 🩷
@@xiehdnckfidbsk Thank you for sharing! I trust you'll find ways to navigate through this 🤎