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I was 24 until I was 40! Now that I can no longer be 20 forever I’m 500 and about to die in a minute and half…. I did SO MUCH with my life before I was even 30,,, now that I am a slow degen, I’ll lean into it and be the amalgamation of everything I believe it is to be a “proper adult” the reflection of my inner projections of what I believe it is to be a wholesome and substantive 40 year old man. Goodbye childish ways, it was good, but it’s time for something new and I’ll take everything I learned with me along the way. The two phrases I lived by have been “Live The Dream” as in start right now without anything if you must. And ‘Live Life or Die Trying’

Monday 😭

Hi bro....post more please please please

Nice talk man

Relatable

I don’t take vacation because I am afraid my job will be gone when I get back. Haven’t taken one in 5 or 6 years. HR gets after me once in a while for so many unused vacation days piled up but if I ignore it they quit bugging me.

I only went to a hospital during my vacation but im good so cant complaint

When attactive and popular people hit 40 its more of a tragedy for them than it is for me..I was ignored 20 years ago and i'm ignored today..soo nothing has changed..I've lost nothing

For me it’s the anxiety of not getting hired back for the job itself. However once I get the call and the ok. It’s ok just a bit stressful at first adjusting to starting to wake up very early every day to get ready etc.

Im turning 40 in two months and i feel old. My body is tired. Brain foggy. I sleep at 7pm. I dont eat as much as i was in my 20s. Im starting to dislike pizza. I get bored easily. My back hurts more. Young people make me feel old and out of the loop.

What's the song playing in the background?

I feel depressed already. And i need to come back to work tomorrow :(

Love these experiences

We need a reason to live

I’m turning 40 in about six month. I just can’t stop thinking about it, morning, noon and even during my (almost sleepless) nights. The very thought of this upcoming birthday and the reach of such an age are like an everlasting nightmare to me. For several reasons I completely failed my 20s and 30s and missed ALL the goals which were meaningful to me, despite all my best efforts. I tried and I tried all the way to the best of my ability, still getting nowhere. My last attempt to fix the situation has been ultimately shattered by the pandemic. And now turning 40 sounds like a death warrant to me (and believe me, in my case it truly is). Everything about this age is appalling and disgusting to me…EVERYTHING…it’s such an unbearable situation. I go to bed every night hoping not to get up in the morning. But then morning comes and it’s one day less to my 40’s. I am praying every single day begging the Lord to bless me with the best birthday present he could give me in the next 6 months: to quickly take my own life and give it to someone else. I really hope that, at least for this one and last time, He will listen to me and finally end it all

i am 18 and i really feel like i am 40 what does that mean guys>?\

Thanks man! You are true inpsiration

I’ll be 40 in 10 days-still anxious and annoyed and stressed but I’m slowly breaking away from that energy and seeing the beauty in my milestone. I’m not aging-I’m evolving!!

I’m 38 and it’s all so Precious! Was a Good Talk! Subscribed ***

Because of my health turning thirty was the best in my life, it was a new chapter with everything that had happened like waves of chaos in my teens and 20’s, I had a new chance and I embraced it. I suppose the next decade will be much the same as I move toward it. Sure I have moments where I feel less accomplished, but as I do things now for myself I feel there is so much deeper meaning and understanding now. A true appreciation.

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Nina Simone is terrible, tho

Me too, I turned 40 in April 2019.

Hi Martin 👋. I know this video is nearly 4 years old now, but I needed to leave you a comment anyway. I used to avidly watch your other channel (apologies I've not done so in a while! 😮) but I never knew you were a fellow fan! I'm in Scotland and have been a diehard fan of Per and Marie's since The Look in 1989, when I was 13. I was lucky enough to finally come to Sweden and go to a Gyllene Tider concert recently, and met Per and Micke-Syd 😊. However, Marie's music is my overall favourite out of everything they have done. I've just been listening to her album The Change, and was crying over her yet again, and then your video popped up on my youtube. And you've shocked me and made me cry even more! That was such a heartfelt tribute to her. I wish I'd seen it at the time, although I probably wouldn't have been able to type a coherent message. I would be interested to know what your favourite albums are? Mine are Efter Stormen and Den Ständiga Resan. Anyway, you don't have to reply, I just wanted to say something. (I'm going to go and resubscribe to you again! 😄).

You look older than 40

I have been off because of a car wreck I go back tomorrow. I’m only 20 but I’m not able to return to my old field of work because of the injury to my neck. I’ll be starting from square one at a restaurant I worked at as a kid. Here we go. The advice about the pressure is helpful

Just found this video. I'm 38 and I dread getting to the 40 line wiithout anything to my name. Depression and anxiety don't help. They aggravate my sense of time and scale when it comes to age. But watching this video game me a little hope. My two takeaways: 1. Stay healthy, coz that's how I will be able to see this life til the end. 2. Don't be afraid of the uncertain future. Instead, be happy becauae there's a lot waiting to be done though still unknown. Thank you for the video. Will watch this again on my 40th.

As i turn 40 in one hour i reflect on regrets, but also mistakes that put me in a great spot im in,but also consider if i could have done better or im blessed with what i have,😢 mid life crisis i quess? I love what i have am regretful for what i didn't do and also which i could talk to my 18 year old self❤i care about people more than ever and if that increases as i get older! All for it! If i knew now what i thought then i might still be human😮

Dreading 'the office' tommorow. As an introvert with high anxiety levels its pure dread at the moment. in terms of how to approach it I feel as though i just have to tough it out and recondition myself into the crank world of work by being at work and after a week or so i will toughen up. I think what is hard about coming back is that on holiday we are temporarily freed from the constraints of obligation Plus the creative mind opens up on holiday that there are more possibilities for a different or better life so when we come back there is a feeling of oppression from our very own routines and 'working life''. This i believe is the existential crisis that every holiday creates. In turn, we have to make peace with the fact that it was just a break and that for most of us we just need to accept it. However, for the more highly evolved beings maybe the holiday can be used as platform for change.

I turned 40 around the same time and now only RUclips showed me this video lol. Now I am 43. Well the first thought when I reached 40 was, Damn now I might probably live less years than what I have lived, I sort of hit the midpoint and from here it's all downhill. It was depressing. Your Elton John quote is awesome, pretty much sums it up, we can never have everything. I always had friends and acquaintances older than me.. These years after 40 I tend to notice younger people around me and many times want to tell them when they are making mistakes, I want to tell them but then I restrict myself because I hated when people advice. Before 40 I wasnt having too many distractions but now at home and in public people seem to depend on me and I have to take care of children, family, coworkers etc. My time every day seem to run very fast. I didn't feel like this before 40. While my mental resilience may have increased but my physical is not.

I'm 41 feeling like 27, always. Exercise, keep fit, Keep on going. Never regret. Let's make use of these coming years...

At least u get to live till sun wish they could live that long

Yes can you relax ❤❤😊😊😊

I came back from Thailand yesterday and tomorrow is my first day after vacation, and im really feelin bad and depressed 😢

Such a common issue! It's something I struggled with myself for a long time. There's a few things I've learned to do, but one of them is to blur the boundaries a bit by doing a bit of soft preparation just before I go back, and doing a couple of more evenings-based, holiday-like things the first two days back.

I know this was awhile ago but it popped up and I am turning 60 this year and I can't believe that I am going to be that old. When I was in my 40 I thought 60 was really old. I don't feel that old and that is part of the reason why this year I am doing what I want instead of thinking I will always have time to do it. We need to take and the make the best of each day and take each opportunity that comes along. 😊

I realize that this happened awhile ago and just started following you this year. So, I am checking out your videos. I like to say that you when I started following you on Instagram you gave me hope and encouraged with your videos to try to learn Swedish for when I visit. I am better at reading it.☺️ I have been trying to get in better shape by walking. I came across this video and now I feel encouraged to challenge myself to make sure than I walk everyday. Thank you posting your videos and being inspiration to those of us that need it, Martin. Tack så mycket! Have a wonderful day!

Anybody from us dont to be afraid age that is a part your life.

For 20 years I have tried, got back up and failed again x 30+ . I have nothing to show for it but a disappointed, self-hating heart. I have no accomplishments, hobbies or goals. I just can't get over my last failure it was devastating

I enjoyed this! Thank you :)

Good talk

I notice that your forehead keeps suddenly wrinkling and unwrinkling, except that a small amount of the wrinkles are still there in your relaxed state. Shouldn't you try become hyper aware of this and learn to keep your face relaxed all the time. Because the wrinkles are due to hyper expression of surprise or emotion, not age.

bro you actually look 40 lol

Congratulations 🎉

Nice farewell words

Hello Martin! Thank you so much for keeping me company. I really like the way introduce yourself and how you explain what exchanging sincere positive energy is like. I do appreciate your sincerity, your attitude is very comforting to many people around the world. All the best to you and to your loved ones!

People enter and leave your life.. it doesn't have to mean anything. Maybe a pitfall could be interpreting this as rejection which it's not

Yea if I was this charismatic and comfortable, I'd probably not worry as much. But with my midlife crisis which I thought would be over within months of some realisations, it's still continuing 4 years later. It's a long process, perhaps with no end. Throw in an emigration to a high cost of living country and therefore zero friends, family, and support.. doesn't make it easy.

Literally watching this before I go back to work tomorrow 😢😂

Why is this channel not more popular, its a great channel 🤔