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When you got to stick up for yourself, don't think about being nice and how your words or your actions hurts people, don't be a coward as I used to be.

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Yes, I am a general manager and empath so when I try to coach or hit them with reality then I feel bad and comfort them. It does no good for both and I want to stop....any tips?

I prefer to swap out the word "better", with "more advanced". I do feel that there are individuals that are more advanced than others, in different fields of, work, study, & knowledge.

Thank you. I feel like I can be myself now that I realize my fear of being authentic comes from the fear of hurting others which only comes from an area of love and care for others, and that makes me feel better about my personality and all the imperfections that come with it! :)

I feel blessed that i found your video. Your knowledge is just what i was looking for. I've been with my bf for 7 years since I was 17. Because of this i never got to know anything else, but i want to live. I love him, but more as a friend and I feel like i'd rather hurt myself than hurt him. At the same time im robbing him of his happiness. Im so stuck in this aweful situation and i cant seem to choose

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Hi thank you so much for this video I struggle to move on from past situations or relationships where I felt like I hurt people . I’m still a teenager but the shame and guilt can be overwhelming sometimes. I have a big fear of being misunderstood or making people uncomfortable. I hope to learn from my mistakes and be my authentic self in the future .Thank you so much ❤

I feel like I can break up with her now, I'm not ready for what she wants

I always forgot how simple it is just say to my self “let it go… you are the observer”. Thank you to reminded myself

Thank you, very comforting. Hope you’re safe and the Hawaii wildfires are subsiding.

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Play is having fun with what you're doing that you loose track of time :D :D :D

I fear hurting someone’s feelings because it just makes me think how dumb and thoughtless I was. I can’t help it. I’ll get angry if I feel someone is taking advantage or trying to making a fool out of me.

Hlo mam,mam I have a fear of hurting someone as I am a student right now I have a fear that if I will come first in exam the other might feel bad, who wants it to. This fear takes place in different situation but Because of this fear my studies are hampering.mam how can i solve it

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Hlo mam,mam I have a fear of hurting someone as I am a student right now I have a fear that if I will come first in exam the other might feel bad, who wants it to. This fear takes place in different situation but Because of this fear my studies are hampering.mam how can i solve it

Hlo mam,mam I have a fear of hurting someone as I am a student right now I have a fear that if I will come first in exam the other might feel bad, who wants it to. This fear takes place in different situation but Because of this fear my studies are hampering.

Maybe it's not that it happened, but that it's something we won't have again in the future and that.. that creates the feeling of missing... May her soul rest in true eternal nature, Angel, ever present

Interesting, I don't think I fear judgement as much anymore as I did in childhood, but it's turned into limiting beliefs in myself because I am avoiding others - e.g. I rarely try to get to know people unless I can see the potential for deeper connection and shared hobbies/interests. This results in me staying isolated and I'm only fully myself with a few people, but when with them I'm chatty and quite extroverted. I'd grown to accept I'm antisocial and reserved but this has made me think it's not my true nature, and it's the strong fear of judgement in childhood which has shaped this side of me. I should learn to shake it off before it limits my life. Thank you 😊

Thanks this got me thinking and I'll make a point of remembering to stay open and engaged, rather than withdrawing into my thoughts. I think fear of judgement is the main difficulty I have, so I am defensive by keeping to myself, then when I open up people can be all the more surprised I can be quite a lively person or have different thoughts to what they assumed. I have just seen your video on that in the suggested list so will watch it soon 😊.

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fear of hurting people?? How come the people in my life dont have this :(??

The Love framework sounds great 😊. Currently overloaded at work and struggling with overwhelm. It's extremely frustrating when things are made more complicated and people think things are quick and simple to do. I want to do things well and can't afford to make mistakes in my work. I end up with these things spinning around in my head which just makes me more frustrated, and I have to know about a huge amount of things which I can't all keep in my head so I feel a bit mentally slow sometimes. Focusing on the now is good but I can see I'm falling further behind and things are going to come to a head. Recruitment of another staff member is taking too long and I'm meant to just hang in there by myself in the meantime. Even when there is another person, getting them trained and work back to how it should be will take ages. It's difficult to accept this and be forced to do an incomplete job. One day at a time I guess.

Very helpful, thank you. Does this also relate to our fear of saying NO to ourself and others?

Thank you Woman of God’s!

People will probably think i’m overreacting or insane when I say this, but I fear hanging out with couples cause either it’s a 3sum or you always end up dying especially if they get into an argument. They always feel hurt at the end but it’s like have common sense 😒

Thank you, felt that hug 😊. I can't help think of her a bit each day even 18 months later, always know it was the right decision, but can't help miss that chapter in my life sometimes.

You are so beautiful, thank you so much for sharing! xo

Some life circumstances make it harder for empathy like ccptsd

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One of my biggest insecurities: I am scared I hurt someone. And that I should stay away. The more steps i make towards people, the more steps they take back. I also dont get up and leave. That's what my old family did. Why would I do this to you? I wanted to you give you and others some space... and I was scared I did sth wrong again. Simple... Just ask me next time... dont assume such things please... i dont withhold love.

Thank you for this, because I’ve been scared dating anyone because I used to have anger problems. I’m sure this helped.

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Thank you ❤Hang so helpful

I love your point about accepting that you care for others, that you might be an empath or highly sensitive person. Accepting yourself is such a great first step to learning to set better boundaries and to let go of the fear of hurting others

Interesting thanks! It's hard to simplify how to feel better because it's individual and comes down to a combination of things. Sometimes I don't feel like doing something in the moment, but I know I will be better for it, so you have to go against your present feelings to feel better in the future.

I can't relate to this one unfortunately

What mbti type are you?

Ism pure light and love and I am a healer and I aI a great mother. I am a great friend .

Excellent thanks Hang

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Wow! Thats was enlightening somehow, i was struggling with alll the sht going on😂🌞