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the (worst) opening line men use ALL the time
men fail with approaching because they use this opening line and it only ever leads to rejection. check out this video where i run you through the opening line keeping men single and alone in 2024.
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The truth about COLD APPROACH...(1324 attempts later)
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.4 часа назад
i've approached over 1000 women and this has taken me over 10 years and a lot of pain and effort, want to know if it was all worth it? check out this video where i walk you through the whether i would do it all again Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingadvice #masculini...
Stop talking to her…until you’ve seen this
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.14 часов назад
dont make my mistake learning HOW to talk to women is an essential skill in being able to get a girlfriend. if you want to know the biggest difference between the guy who gets the girl or the one who ends up alone check out this video. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdati...
the worst mistake i've seen in 1687 hours of Dating Coaching
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.21 час назад
if you're finding it difficult to get a girlfriend you're likely making this big mistake. i've completed over 1000 hours of dating coaching and i can say time and time again the men that struggle to make progress always fall down due to the same mistake. check out this video where you can discover the dangers of "that's not very me". Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6month...
12 weird things women (secretly) love
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.День назад
have you ever asked yourself, what do women want? well if you want to get a girlfriend and really become an attractive man you should be asking yourself this question. fortunately i've got you covered and distilled 10 years of dating knowledge to pick out 12 weird things women secretly love. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check o...
4,524,321,932 women...here’s how you meet the ONE
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.14 дней назад
looking to find the one? it's easier than you might expect. and you only have to focus on 3 things. in this video i talk through how to find the one out of 4.5billion and get a girlfriend in the age of dating apps and social media. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingad...
the most TOXIC emotion for men.
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.14 дней назад
one emotion ruins mens dating chances above all others. every attractive man has learned this and in this video i discuss the importance for every man to put in the work and remove this emotion from taking over his life. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingadvice #mascu...
If i had 24hrs to get a date (here's what i'd do)
Просмотров 3,7 тыс.21 день назад
getting a date in 24 hours is easier than you think. for most men they'll spend hours swiping on dating apps and never meeting women in real life. instead if you follow these simple steps you could be on a date with a beautiful woman in just a few hours. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimproveme...
How i’d get a girlfriend asap, if i had to start again
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.21 день назад
getting a girlfriend is easier than you think, even for someone who like me struggles with relationships. In this video i detail the 3 key steps i would take to get a girlfriend fast if i had to start again. (a position i have had to come from many times lol) Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimpr...
5 Dirt Cheap Dates women (weirdly) love
Просмотров 3,1 тыс.28 дней назад
dating doesnt need to be expensive, you can win over the beautiful girl without showering her with gifts or spending big on dates. here are 5 cheap dates women love which i used to amazing effect with girls i have dated. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingadvice #mascu...
The fastest way to make a woman fall in love with you asap
Просмотров 2,1 тыс.28 дней назад
do you wish she'd fall in love with you? well it's closer than you'd think. in this video i talk throught the 2 key elements to a girl falling in love with you. if you want a girlfriend and to build a relationship filling with true connection this is the video for you. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www....
4 ways tinder INFECTED your dating life
Просмотров 320Месяц назад
dating apps caused more damage than we realised to modern dating. in this video i run through the 4 major ways dating apps like tinder have infected modern dating causing people to struggle to get and maintain relationships Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingadvice #ma...
why intelligent men struggle to find good women…
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.Месяц назад
intelligent men fail in dating, and its caused by one big problem that keeps them single. check out this video where i show the change they need to make to get the girlfriend they truly deserve. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatingadvice #masculinity #approach #approaching
how to meet non-loser women...(consistently)
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.Месяц назад
meeting women in 2024 can be challenging and one of the ways men fail is they try once or twice and then give up. but like any skill to master it requires consistency. here are my 3 best tools to unlock consistency in meeting women. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co.uk/ #mensdatinga...
I helped 3 guys do their 1st EVER approach...
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.Месяц назад
learning how to meet women through cold approach is BEST WAY you can find your next girlfriend, but it all starts with getting that first approach. in this video i run you through the tools that will help you walk over and say hi for the first time. Are you struggling with relationships? been single for 6months ? It doesn’t have to be this way, check out the link below… www.honestimprovement.co...
she'll never forget you, with one simple trick...
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.Месяц назад
she'll never forget you, with one simple trick...
starting to cold approach? YOU need to see this…
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.Месяц назад
starting to cold approach? YOU need to see this…
"good guys" can still WIN in modern dating
Просмотров 997Месяц назад
"good guys" can still WIN in modern dating
how to get EVERYTHING you want in RELATIONSHIPS.
Просмотров 491Месяц назад
how to get EVERYTHING you want in RELATIONSHIPS.
5 Signs TINDER is keeping you SINGLE...
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.Месяц назад
5 Signs TINDER is keeping you SINGLE...
she was interested...then i started speaking.
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.Месяц назад
she was interested...then i started speaking.
the *real* male privilege in dating...
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.2 месяца назад
the *real* male privilege in dating...
bullied people stay SINGLE…science says.
Просмотров 8092 месяца назад
bullied people stay SINGLE…science says.
Please stop making videos, this was horrible
warming up by commenting this video - Well done, I like your unique style of filming while on a casual stroll.
I highly advice the bottom 80% of dudes to just leave the west behind and date in third world countries like the Philippines etc. it will actually work out there.
Ukraine was for me the best country for dating
Was
Only works if you are well put together or happen to fit criteria ❤
great video. All the things that I need to remember and act upon but I keep on forgetting again and again. Worth several views. Instant subscribe. Thanks
Interesting. For me, doing cold approach didn't change anything. I was able to talk to strangers already before I started cold approach. It also didn't do anything for my relationships. Why? Because I didn't had any. Third, as point 2 hints at, it never worked. I never got a relationship out of cold approach, and I talked to thousands and thousands of women. So, was it worth it for me? No. Nothing ever came out of it. The attractive women were always taken, usually married, so the thousands of hours invested were essentially wasted. Nowadays, I teach cold approach, because most normal guys who look for normal women will be successful. I am not normal, it seems, so it doesn't work for me, and I assume it is also not working for other men who look for attractive, high quality women. These women are NEVER single ; it is a fact, unfortunately, unless you go for the very young women, age 18-19.
I get what you are saying but statistically, 60% of men between 18 and 30 years old's haven't had sex. Therefore, statistically, there's plenty of single attractive women out there. I've had a similar experience though, most "high-maintenance" girls are taken
@pedrocarvalho-db3ot In the dating market the good are separated from the bad. For me, most women are undateable. The few who are, those women are NEVER on the market. Yes, there are lots of young women who are single, but those are not attractive. And it gets worse when getting older and for better educated people. A woman who is cute, feminine and educated, the chances that she is single is pretty much zero ; maybe 1 in 1000, estimated. So, it's basically impossible to find such a woman.
@@pedrocarvalho-db3ot that's an error, a study has show that 5x more woman under 30 say they are in a relationship than men, which means that either those woman are dating older guys or one guy dates several girls at the same time. However both means that if you will approach her on the street she will say she is taken
@@marudelel Interesting. Cool to know But hey, nothing to win if you don't try at least.
It only works for Chad. 70% of women are taken and over 90% sexually active, 99%+ have guys in the friendzone or options they could just call and start a relationship with today. There are literally no women who are actually alone. Dating apps are unironically better for dating even with a super low successrate because the women on there are actually somewhat desperate to find a boyfriend and actually looking + the insane quantity they offer. It's just too difficult to approach a couple hundred women logisticswise when your rejectionrate is 99% or more.
Cracking vid mate. Keep it up.
I love your videos so much, you show people how to be attractive while being yourself... I just think a bunch of people are kind of a-holes anyway, so they just go for the bad boy persona, and it also works, but I don't think any good person would want to be with someone they only have because of mind tricks and hiding their love
dude this feels like me no joke
Love your videos!
The thing about "intention" is that I hear women don't like it when you're simply direct to them. I could approach a girl and be upfront, but then it comes off too strong (atleast that's what I hear). Still annoyed how talking is apparently 7% of communication. My understanding was all you need to talk to someone is mouth, ears, eyes, and a spoken language. Now I wonder how many times people wrote me off just because I don't think about body language and my neutral voice is deep in an "angry" way.
I was thinking about that Hitch quote for the entire video 😂
3 minutes in and all the talk is "Yeah i got rejected by another girl when i said the exact same thing to another girl that got horny, because people cant have different types they like"
Good video.
Good point and delivery man😁👍
Good points. Women run on emotions. Women dont lie. Women have no loyalty and no principles. Believe womans actions. Dont believe womans words. You on the other hand are the Man. Just be a male. Male do not complain. Male lead. Male solve. Your male must always forever be out. Never display emotion in presence of woman. Man must keep straight face, demonstrate attention engagement, demonstrate that you man is listening to woman, straight face never display emotion to woman, straight face never offer solution to woman, straight face keeps steady tone and keep conversation simple grounded. Woman need this energy from you man that you dont need her that you already are happy in your life before you talked to her. Maintain this energy zone all your life -- proof will show women will keep coming to you.
Needed to see this, thanks.
Excellent work! I see it more as a result of disempowerment. Check out the old movie "Wizard of Oz". It's about becoming who we really are.
Man I needed to hear this. Fantastic advice. Thank you!
Honestly a great video. I was completely drawn in by how you present the topic and the way you talk. Will definitely stick around for more of your content.
Nice video!
Thank you for making these videos for free for anyone out there trying to improve upon themselves. To me, it's amazing how openly and genuinely you talk about all kinds of subjects through your own personal experiences. I really respect that! Last december my first and (to this day) only relationship ended. We'd been together for ten years, since we were 16 year olds. The breakup was out of mutual agreement because we felt like our lives and our hopes and dreams for the future were going in such different directions. Despite all that, my world was devastated. It's been such a hard year for me but through my suffering and reflection I've learned alot about myself and can now see how I was a coward in many ways in my relationship. I feared to upset her so I tried to bend the reality and lied to her about really important things and feelings. That obviously just made everything worse but I just couldn't bring myself to really open up and be honest about difficult things. I couldn't really commit to her because I was so afraid of all the ways I would f**k things up. I've also realised that at some point I started to take her for granted and I didn't make sure I was a man of my word as I always thought I had some valid reasoning to not keep my word or hold on to a promise or agreement we'd made about something. At this point I'm just rambling. I just want you to know that your videos really make a difference out there and I hope you get more attention and traffic on this channel because you certainly deserve it! Have a nice weekend and greetings from Finland!
You know, it’s a solid video and I’m sure this stuff is going to work for most people but for me it simply won’t. I’m autistic so I tend to fuck these situations up in the most diabolical ways. My first relationship of 3,5 years I fucked up the same way you did. I just really want to participate but when I do it costs me almost my sanity so at that point I question whether or not it’s even worth trying to get dates and approaching girls. It’s all too taxing on me. And to be honest it does make me depressed sometimes. I just wish I could participate as easily as normal people but alas that’s not the reality we live in. 12:39 at this point in your video you have me questioning whether or not I should even try because this is literally how I communicate when I do, otherwise I just don’t talk at all
3:16 it should also know that stoicism shouldn’t be known as the inability to be vulnerable, but knowing the time and place.
They’re not going to clock it as a lie if you convince yourself that it is true
I think these things all basically go both ways
11:45 They were onto you haha. It looked like perfectly setup with what you were saying.
I have aproached beautyfull girls ,but then is no in my city
This is an insanly good video. Pretty much all of these are spot on. You explain the nuance most men often get wrong so good. Great job!
Also just like classic youtube, engaging to watch without hundreds of cuts to kep your attention
would've been an interesting video if you were a short bald Indian guy with glasses. alas, it isn't.
Yes! Also i loved that movie
5:35 that dog walking the path on his own just like me lol
The issue on dating apps is that women are focused on top 5% of men - most of them hook up with those guys - relying only on photos and height. Dating apps are waste of time for men in general.
word, if you don't want to meet with people in real life look for a penpal or AI conversation, not a relationship.
.... It's all robots and spam I don't think there's even any real people on there
U are a cretive guy. I haven't ever think go a date to an airport. 😂 But I saw a girl on TikTok who was raging about a guy who invited her for a coffee date, not a dinner date. 😂
Hello! From watching your channel I started approaching girls, which Id never done before. The results are amazing, I get the numbers, and since I'm a very social person its easy for me to keep them intertained and start conversations. But whenever I get their number after some chatting online, I figure out that theyre not kinda interested, i find most of them just boring, they put simple answers, being very late on reply etc. Whenever Im trying to invite them to take a walk they say theyre busy, so after a few invitations I just loose interest. Is thah bcz theyre just boring and not my type of person or thats my problem that I cannot have them interested? I find myself good looking, with a great sense of humor, but most women are just boring af, is that because social media has gotten them lazy? Since they have a lot of men around available theyre not ready to contribute, I'm confused. If you're reading our comments please give an explanation from your experience why so?
So getting a number is not a rocket sciense but having them to go to a date with you is the big issue 🎉
@Ярослав-э8ш3о Agree. Taking a number is not mean a serious desire todays. Especially from women in their 20s.
It’s important to set a specific day to call her by the end of your first conversation if you've the sensed the attraction and relationship was there. This way getting her number feels intentional, for her. For instance, you might say "Great, I'll call you on Thursday so we can talk more then." Indecisiveness has always been a turn-off for women, and with a clear plan, theyre less likely to flake. Another tip is to make small suggestions during your first meeting, such as moving to a quieter spot. This subtle relocation makes it psychologically easier for her to agree to bigger suggestions later, like a second date, coming over to your place, traveling to Prague, etc etc.
Nah dude, theres no specific planning, just if shes not ready or wasting your time, dump her and go to another one. Nowadays ladies have a big variety of man, so do u. Just for you its a touch easier bcz unlike women, you can approach any girl so u choose. I text them for a couple of days and if I see, no convo is happening, I just ask her out. If shes not willing - shes not interested, start the game over. Hate talking online it sucks @@mangomight7938
hey all love the discussion going on my answer to the question of how to avoid numbers which flake is two fold 1. Master the skill of connection. Women are attracted to men and find men interesting all the time but they don't date them. To be the man she turns up for comes down to the level of emotional connection you make. check out this video for further detail 2. go for dates not numbers. you can save yourself a lot of time by finding out if she's interested by leading with a date plan rather than getting a number which is minimal commitment in the modern day
The point you brought up about "don't hate the player, hate the game": I could make an argument that in this case, the player makes the game, so you can blame men for lowering their standards for women. If more men had standards for women beyond physical appearance, women would also have to work on themselves to be better (as it should be, in my opinion). We're long past the ooga booga times where the only thing a woman has to do is be pretty and a good housewife. Unfortunately many people are still stuck in the past, where that's the case. Trad guys with boomer mentality.
Thats all because of these men who are actively using the social media for dating and are totally boot lickers, for girls theres not much difference between men online and men in real life so they know if not you then someone else, its a trade, and we're loosing it. Thanks to all these who are sucking up, now we have a lot of women with a big huge robast ego
nice comment i like your view point, to me men raise their standards when they improve themselves a lot of men are willing to settle for less because they don't think they can get anything better for men a collective raise in standards is downstream from a collective "got our sh*t together". as your watching content like this i appreciate you rising the tide of male standards with me
@HonestImprovementYT It also comes down to life experience, I think. As I was younger, I didn't really mind hooking up with girls just because I found them attractive on a superficial level. I still had a type, though. Like any girl that's kind of "alt" or "different". I hadn't experienced love and heartbreaks and I just wanted to have fun. It took one special girl to change my perspective on dating forever.
So I have checked your method. It worked out for me since I'm talkative and overall social person. It's a pleasure to see how women get shocked by the fact that you approached them. But what goes next? Your talking online so its not any different for me, when I asked her out she says shes busy, well, I have never met a woman in my life whod be socially as active as me, its always a one player game, how do we make a woman be more active and prone to going on a date? Im being myself. Just noted, women nowadays are very spiled with mens attention. So its easy to get a number after talking, but theyre not active when chatting even tho I met them on the street. That makes me feel I wanna just end the conversation
I've no one interest in becoming Chad or making more money for my communist government to steal so I keep what little money I have away from women and live with the false hope your generation will overthrow my communist government.
Healthy and educated people from the developed part of the world - does not have any apps at all.. We do have a life, a purpose and a plan to full fill it.. Apps are for the ones who cannot handle life themselfes and/or does not know any better and therefor is easy to manipulate. ;)
Being diagnosed with dyslexia at 38 helped a huge amount with my shame. Before then I thought I was just dumb.
hey Tim I'm glad to hear this, i had trouble with dyslexia as it runs in my family. now i've incorporated into my personality and am able to easily joke about how bad my spelling is and reading words that aren't there. hope you continue to overcome anything that holds you back. is there anything else that comes to mind?
@@HonestImprovementYT The trouble with my dyslexia is the not knowing and thinking I was dumb for 38 years, I failed school so badly and that's not a good start in life. I'm happy for you that you've found your piece with it. :) Feeling like someone could love me is the last big problem I have, I really don't have much to on. It's such an abstract idea that I can't seem to fit it in my head.
"Just don't be ashamed lol"
Great video! Plovvy's looking nice too
This channel totally deserves a lot more people ❤
I appreciate it bro!
I partially agree with this dude even tho he's suspiciously looking like on of these sick nfluencers. Don't do cold approaches. Bring up other parts of your life, hit the gym, get a nice ride, focus more on yourself and women will become a good bonus to your sucess. If you're terribly insecure, cold approaching will never make you more secure and deep inside you know it. Don't chase chaotic women, let yourself grow, thats my point
Play the game well and the score will take care lf itself don't fall into a trap of becoming a pointless dater
Disagree with the sick influencer comment, I've only seen good things from this guy.. honesty, transparency, realistic points and expectations and a genuine desire to help others Pretty fucking sick if you ask me
Dang it man, I was just walking in my downtown, and went in a cafe, I approached the girl who was working there as a cashier or someone, and she has amazing blue eyes, I told her, hey u have beatiful eyes, and I saw she was like struck by a lighting, I asked if she would like to talk a bit more later, but there was a big line of people next to me waiting so I sat, and waited untill the space cleared up, I thought she'd be busy so I asked her name and gave her a scratch of paper with my number, so I guess I'm wrong and this stuff is legit, still nervously shaking from what I just realized @@adammeade2045
@@adammeade2045Imma keep my comment as a reminder
Sick as in the ImAlex guy?
This ASAP thing does not like me. Ok, my phone dies, I go to the shop ASAP to buy a new one. But I think dating is not similar. Or, what do you think about dating. Ok, for me dating I not hookup. You can chacht a girl for ONS from a bar or festival, but she is not your girlfriend. I think you look for an eligible person, but that costs time, or you must decide what do you want. A pussy for next weekend or something more.
to me asap simply mean as fast as possible and for dating thats probably still a journey that takes time. and dating apps will take men significantly longer forever being at the mercy of the algorithm