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Ep. 31 - The Drama Triangle
Why is it that even in retirement-a time often imagined as peaceful and free-we find ourselves caught in cycles of conflict, blame, and frustration? Could it be that some dynamics, deeply rooted in our behavior, follow us into this new phase of life?
In this episode of How NOT to Retire, Dr. Richard Himmer unpacks the intriguing concept of the Drama Triangle, a behavioral model that illuminates how we unknowingly play out toxic roles in relationships. Whether you find yourself feeling like the overburdened Victim, the well-meaning Rescuer, or the critical Persecutor, these roles can perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and resentment-even in the so-called golden years.
But here’s the twis...
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Ep. 30 - Grit
Просмотров 19Месяц назад
As retirement approaches, it’s easy to wonder: Is it too late to learn something new, pursue a long-held dream, or change deeply ingrained habits? For some, retirement can bring a sense of freedom; for others, it may feel like an unsettling loss of direction. In this episode, we explore a game-changing idea that cuts across these doubts: grit. Popularized by psychologist Angela Duckworth, grit ...
Ep. 29 - Building Resilience in Your Later Years
Просмотров 27Месяц назад
What if one word could unlock your ability to navigate retirement with confidence, adapt to life’s inevitable changes, and find purpose in every moment? That word is resilience. In this episode of How NOT to Retire, Dr. Richard Himmer dives deep into the art of resilience-what it is, why it’s essential for retirees, and how to cultivate it. Retirement isn’t just a phase of life; it’s a profound...
Ep. 28 - The 5 Components of Permanent Change
Просмотров 122 месяца назад
After decades of hard work, Sarah and Tom finally stepped into the retirement they had dreamed of. The alarms were silenced, the schedules erased, and their days were filled with freedom and possibility. Vacations and hobbies provided an initial thrill, but as the novelty wore off, an unexpected void began to surface. The lives they’d carefully built were gone, and in their absence, one questio...
Ep. 27 - Emotional Intelligence in Action
Просмотров 302 месяца назад
Picture this: a packed airport, an announcement of a last-minute flight cancellation, and you, with everything riding on reaching your destination, find your plans abruptly unraveling. How do you handle it? Host Dr. Richard Himmer invites you into this scenario to explore how emotional intelligence (EI) plays out in real-time challenges-and how mastering EI can create better outcomes, even unde...
Ep. 26 - Making Friends & Dating
Просмотров 252 месяца назад
In Episode 26 of How NOT to Retire, Dr. Richard Himmer sheds light on a crucial yet often neglected truth about retirement: the freedom we work toward for years can reveal unexpected loneliness, especially when the social circles of our working lives fade away. This episode dives into the transformative journey of building new friendships and, for some, re-entering the dating world, exploring h...
Ep. 25 - Thorin Oakenshield
Просмотров 202 месяца назад
In Middle-earth, treasure could transform destinies-but at what cost? In this episode, Dr. Richard Himmer uses the stories of Thorin Oakenshield and Bilbo Baggins to dive into what it really means to be “rich.” Thorin’s unwavering obsession to reclaim the gold and throne of Erebor led him down a path marked by betrayal, destruction, and, ultimately, a lonely grave. His vast wealth blinded him t...
Ep. 23 - Rules of Engagement
Просмотров 694 месяца назад
Phil and Anna have spent over 43 years together, navigating the ups and downs of life. Now, as they sit at their kitchen table surrounded by retirement brochures and financial spreadsheets, they find themselves in familiar territory-at odds over what comes next. Anna dreams of traveling the world, while Phil worries about making the numbers work. Despite decades of shared experiences, they’re s...
Ep. 21 - Fear
Просмотров 165 месяцев назад
In this episode of “How NOT to Retire”, Dr. Richard Himmer dives deep into the often underestimated yet profoundly impactful role fear plays as we navigate the transition into retirement. While fear is a natural human emotion meant to protect us from danger, it can also become a crippling force that stifles our potential and prevents us from living the life we truly desire. Take, for instance, ...
Ep. 20 - Mental Health
Просмотров 75 месяцев назад
Retirement often carries the allure of freedom-no more alarm clocks, no deadlines, no stress. But for many, like John-a dedicated high school teacher of over 40 years-the reality of retirement can bring an unexpected sense of emptiness. The bustling days of mentoring young minds were replaced with long, quiet hours at home, and what was once a dream began to feel like a slow unraveling. In this...
Ep. 19 - The Price of Success
Просмотров 335 месяцев назад
Welcome to "How NOT to Retire: A Psychological Approach to Retiring Healthy and Wealthy," hosted by Dr. Richard Himmer. In this riveting episode, we delve into the untold story of John and Margaret Thompson, who seemed to have it all-financial security, social status, and a life of luxury. But as they step into retirement, they discover that the glittering façade of success hides deeper, more c...
Ep. 18 - Principle of Momentum
Просмотров 196 месяцев назад
Welcome to another transformative episode of "How NOT to Retire: A Psychological Approach to Retiring Healthy and Wealthy," hosted by Dr. Richard Himmer. Today, we embark on an introspective journey with three fundamental questions that could redefine your life: Who am I? Am I the person I aspire to be, and am I where I want to be? If not, what steps must I take to become my best self? In this ...
#4 Tax Planning and Re-Investment Opportunities from the Sale of a Business
Просмотров 337 месяцев назад
The content within this presentation is for educational purposes only and does not represent legal, tax or investment advice. Customers should consult with a legal or tax professional regarding their own personal situation. This presentation is not an offer to purchase, sell, replace, or exchange any product. The firm presenting this information is not affiliated with the Social Security Admini...
#3 How to Value your Business and Evaluate Buyer Qualifications
Просмотров 207 месяцев назад
The content within this presentation is for educational purposes only and does not represent legal, tax or investment advice. Customers should consult with a legal or tax professional regarding their own personal situation. This presentation is not an offer to purchase, sell, replace, or exchange any product. The firm presenting this information is not affiliated with the Social Security Admini...
#1 How to Prepare a Business to Maximize Value
Просмотров 447 месяцев назад
The content within this presentation is for educational purposes only and does not represent legal, tax or investment advice. Customers should consult with a legal or tax professional regarding their own personal situation. This presentation is not an offer to purchase, sell, replace, or exchange any product. The firm presenting this information is not affiliated with the Social Security Admini...
#2 Steps in the Sales Process - Best Practices
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#2 Steps in the Sales Process - Best Practices
Ep. 17 - TED vs. TING
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Ep. 17 - TED vs. TING
Ep. 16 - Building Relationships and Role Awareness
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Ep. 16 - Building Relationships and Role Awareness
Ep. 15 - Maximizing Leisure & Personal
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Ep. 15 - Maximizing Leisure & Personal
Ep. 14 - Unleashing Greatness
Просмотров 178 месяцев назад
Ep. 14 - Unleashing Greatness
Ep. 13 - Living with Intent
Просмотров 138 месяцев назад
Ep. 13 - Living with Intent
Ep. 12 - Communication Hazards
Просмотров 118 месяцев назад
Ep. 12 - Communication Hazards
Ep. 11 - The Vital Role of Social Integration
Просмотров 89 месяцев назад
Ep. 11 - The Vital Role of Social Integration
Ep. 10 - Discovering a Purposeful Path in Retirement
Просмотров 149 месяцев назад
Ep. 10 - Discovering a Purposeful Path in Retirement
Ep. 9 - Identity & Purpose
Просмотров 219 месяцев назад
Ep. 9 - Identity & Purpose
Ep. 8 - Boredom in Retirement
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Ep. 8 - Boredom in Retirement
Ep. 7 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 3)
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Ep. 7 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 3)
Ep. 6 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 2)
Просмотров 49 месяцев назад
Ep. 6 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 2)
Ep. 5 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 1)
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Ep. 5 - The 7 Steps to a Healthy Transition (part 1)
Ep. 4 - The 5 Stages of Retirement
Просмотров 139 месяцев назад
Ep. 4 - The 5 Stages of Retirement

Комментарии

  • @gaildelrosario-q9l
    @gaildelrosario-q9l 15 дней назад

    He is selling an insurance product? Is he a fiduciary?

  • @missouri6014
    @missouri6014 20 дней назад

    Way behind the times

  • @MrRar66
    @MrRar66 Месяц назад

    Ha ha ha ha ha Product salesman

  • @radams871
    @radams871 Месяц назад

    thank you

  • @barbarjinx3802
    @barbarjinx3802 Месяц назад

    $TSLA

  • @ThomasColt
    @ThomasColt Месяц назад

    I’m worried about retirement planning and I want to ensure a comfortable future. I’ve worked hard my entire life and I want to enjoy the fruits of my labor without financial stress. I’m really concerned about whether I’ve saved enough and invested wisely.

    • @MikeHollow-rz5dl
      @MikeHollow-rz5dl Месяц назад

      I completely understand. Ensuring financial security in retirement is crucial. Have you considered consulting a financial advisor?

    • @ThomasColt
      @ThomasColt Месяц назад

      Yes I have. But I don’t know who exactly to trust to provide the right advices and guidance for me.

    • @StaceySouth-e3v
      @StaceySouth-e3v Месяц назад

      True. I have been in contact with a CFA that specializes in retirement planning. His expertise can help optimize your savings and investments.

    • @ThomasColt
      @ThomasColt Месяц назад

      Who’s this CFA? And how can I reach out to him?

    • @StaceySouth-e3v
      @StaceySouth-e3v Месяц назад

      JOSEPH NICK CAHILL

  • @nickwarren3974
    @nickwarren3974 2 месяца назад

    Your understanding of a CRAT is not correct. A CRAT is like a CRUT but a fixed annuity during lifetime (CRUT is a percentage). Both CRUT and CRAT go to charity upon death.

  • @drdontpassone8164
    @drdontpassone8164 2 месяца назад

    buy a low fee vanguard target fund and stay away from dudes like this.........cmon now

  • @Reload77725
    @Reload77725 2 месяца назад

    Blah blah blah. This clown has no clue how to deal with someone with $5M or more.

  • @scoaste
    @scoaste 3 месяца назад

    How do you figure out the tax deduction from funding a CRUT? Can one simultaneously do a backdoor Roth IRA conversion that utilizes this deduction?

  • @ShirlPigram
    @ShirlPigram 3 месяца назад

    Just discovered your channel with this video -- I was able to think about my situation and I'm curious to know best how people split their pay, how much of it goes into savings, spendings or investments, I earn around $90K per year but nothing to show for it yet.

    • @HettieClausenTl
      @HettieClausenTl 3 месяца назад

      It’s important to do your own research and consult with a financial advisor before making any investment decisions.

    • @coryDeshawn
      @coryDeshawn 3 месяца назад

      I think that is a brilliant idea, I tried managing my stock portfolio by myself and I lost 50% of my savings in a very short period. That prompted me to hire a financial advisor. Since then I have made up to $680K in returns.

    • @HettieClausenTl
      @HettieClausenTl 3 месяца назад

      A colleague at work also suggested market experts, Hearing you say the same thing struck me. I think i should give this a try, but how can reach a decent advisor like the one you use?

    • @coryDeshawn
      @coryDeshawn 3 месяца назад

      I have worked with a few financial advisors before now but i ultimately settled for Celia Kathleen Martel. She is SEC regulated and licensed in US. You can easily look her up.

    • @HettieClausenTl
      @HettieClausenTl 3 месяца назад

      I just checked up out of curiosity and i must say i am impressed by her Credentials. i emailed her already, waiting on her response.

  • @robjus1601
    @robjus1601 6 месяцев назад

    So what if you own property in Wa but are a resident of another state? Thanks.

  • @etutlf4176
    @etutlf4176 7 месяцев назад

    Assume my estate is worth 3.2 million and my home is worth 2.2 million say. So of I pass away now, I will owe estate taxes in WA on 3.2 million. If I have made a TOD on my home and it passes to my daughter on my passing. For estate tax purposes, is my estate worth 1 million or still 3.2 million after my passing? In other words, does the TOD reduce the value of my estate for estate tax purposes? Many thanks.

    • @AttorneyFredLong
      @AttorneyFredLong 6 месяцев назад

      I don’t practice in WA, but generally the answer would be no. TOD designations do not avoid estate taxes

  • @etutlf4176
    @etutlf4176 7 месяцев назад

    There is a 3 year claw back period.

  • @pearlrichardson4179
    @pearlrichardson4179 7 месяцев назад

    I really like the quote at the end of the video. I'm in the stage of needing/wanting self improvement. Its not the spending for me. Its getting to a better healthy financial place since being laid off. I'm at a stage of life that I am "semi-retired" at this point due to being unemployed.

  • @georgeduncan8946
    @georgeduncan8946 7 месяцев назад

    I retired With my health intact⚡️after 32 yrs and found meditation ,and library of amazing books....new learning new friends 🫠🫠🫠🫠

  • @factshurt5362
    @factshurt5362 8 месяцев назад

    If you get out of an IUL and into another IUL, will you be charged a large portion of the cash value to start another one…….like the bonus an agent gets. I got trust issues

  • @antoniorezik4072
    @antoniorezik4072 8 месяцев назад

    Can you exchange to and from different products? An insurance contract to annuity or a whole life to variable univeral life?

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    @jasonsouza7003 9 месяцев назад

    I hate Trump!... why? I don't know? oh! Tell me more!

  • @justincase2830
    @justincase2830 9 месяцев назад

    How do you determine the land assignment value of the property? The portion you cannot take depreciation on.

    • @danielsnook5029
      @danielsnook5029 8 месяцев назад

      I used the county's assessed value of the land for the year of purchase.

    • @justincase2830
      @justincase2830 8 месяцев назад

      @@danielsnook5029 thanks !

  • @jerrym2915
    @jerrym2915 10 месяцев назад

    I didn’t know about the 59 1/2 rollover even if you’re still employed there. That s rarely talked about.

  • @jeffreyd508
    @jeffreyd508 11 месяцев назад

    Hi. I'm a US citizen who lost his property in Kyiv Ukraine. 2 years ago Kyiv repossessed the land on which the building was built saying it was obtained illegally through a bribe in 2006. It cant be occupied now I received zero compensation. Can I deduct the full amount? Thanks

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  • @JacobPatrick1
    @JacobPatrick1 Год назад

    More people need to know this.

  • @TheK9Shepherd
    @TheK9Shepherd Год назад

    What about recapturing of depreciation if you just rented a room (not a rental property)? Mother rented a room and the accountant depreciated the sqft of the rooms that were rented (so it wasn't a "rental property") It was her primary home (still is) The house is in a revocable trust, going to my wife (sole beneficiary) So when we go to sell the house once it's passed down in the trust to my wife. Will she had to pay the recapture of depreciation? Don't even have a clue what those numbers are. I just know they depreciated the sqft of the room when I came across some old returns. Thanks

  • @kaisersouze41
    @kaisersouze41 Год назад

    This is not convincing whatsoever. Many 401k plans offer more than enough plan options at a low cost. Certainly if you have enough of a nest egg in there you'll get great advice.

  • @alrocky
    @alrocky Год назад

    0:10 traditional 401(k) -IRA- you do *not* get a tax deduction 0:37 putting $10k in traditional 401(k) in 22% tax bracket you do *not* get $2,200 back

  • @lashawn369
    @lashawn369 Год назад

    Thanks for paying it forward Brian

  • @georgefortlauderdale
    @georgefortlauderdale Год назад

    Isn’t that a charitable lead trust?

    • @mikehundt4263
      @mikehundt4263 Год назад

      Yes, I think this guy is confused, his description of a CRAT appears to be imprecise to put it politely. CRUTs and CRATs are not ‘reversed’ as he says; they use the same general ‘format’ The main difference between a CRAT and a CRUT is that the CRUT payments are not fixed as they are for a CRAT; they vary depending on the value of the trust assets. CRUTs can also be set up for a longer period of time, and provide more freedom (e.g. to add funds to the trust) and control (e.g. distributions)

    • @AttorneyFredLong
      @AttorneyFredLong 10 месяцев назад

      @@mikehundt4263 Spot on. Both are Charitable Remainder Trusts.

  • @gg80108
    @gg80108 Год назад

    Who does the paperwork for the 1035 exchange? Was thinking of rolling MYGAs. Must be some timing to make it work.

  • @onlywenilaugh6589
    @onlywenilaugh6589 2 года назад

    From what I've read, non 401k IRA fees are usually higher than 401k plan fees so if you are still working at same company, it's likely cheaper to leave it in the 401k. The higher fees can negate the more choices in investments.

    • @johngill2853
      @johngill2853 Год назад

      Very rarely true. At best the same price in general

  • @paulbrungardt9823
    @paulbrungardt9823 2 года назад

    Thank you. Concise,clear information.

  • @drewellison
    @drewellison 4 года назад

    Thanks for the update, Brian!