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@@hmq9052 came back mostly clean, a bit high cholesterol tho

@@mattbrick1246 No I mean do you fancy a pint?

@@hmq9052 no sir

Unlike him you are just unaware of what you need to work on and unwilling to take on the challenge.

@@333Ulysses unwilling? I tried for 20 years to be the best I can be

@@joshb7326 sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine what that feels like. Why do you think no one wants to date you?

@@retrocessionworks Because I tried my best for 20 years and it was always a mixture of the girl liking someone else imstead or the girl saying "youre a nice guy but just not my type". Every experience I've had has always been rejection

@@joshb7326 Understood. I don't know you, so nothing I'm saying or asking is a judgment. Also, I'm not bragging. Seriously trying to help. I was extremely skinny, shy, and awkward for my first 27 years of life. I've definitely gotten better looking with age, which isn't saying much! But even during my least attractive, least secure phases, I was able to date because I was interesting. Being passionate about life and constantly improving my communication skills was what helped the most, I believe. And I'm not talking about putting on airs of confidence and trying to dominate conversations. It's about active listening most of all. Asking questions, being genuinely interested in the response. Not thinking about what I'm going to say when someone else is talking. But it's also about not being passive and trying to ingratiate myself with women. Women aren't looking for a "nice guy" first. "Nice" is the bare minimum. It can't be the focus, and it doesn't win any brownie points. Being interesting is the key, but not faking it. Being deeply passionate is what it's about. Can't fake that for long. Sorry to go on for so long, but I really feel for you. Of course, you're free to ignore, and I don't know you, but I believe you can find your match. You've probably just been going about it the wrong way.

He is here under my bed in Tadzikistan.

The problem with that statement is the idea that drinking brings happiness at all

@@badgerd327 well it does but it's fleeting hence it's addictive.

You are aware that rock bottom is not a physical destination right? Meaning, each individual CHOOSES their rock bottom. It can always get worse than where you’re at. But if you’re tryna say he’s not at rock bottom cuz a roof over his head and a camera, you are ignorant my friend. You’re projecting so strongly it’s visible thru a comment thread.

Sold the house for a bottle of vodka.

That's one person's rock bottom. Not everyone's. This shouldn't need to be said. Use your head.

@@twassell25 There are psychological differences and subjective interpretations but there is most definitely an objective rock bottom. Hopefully this is as far as he’ll go. However, I’ve seen far worse and known people that continue to degenerate. Use your head pal.

@@Gordy-fj1jytbh I agree with you. I think his fiancé gave him an ultimatum. He can only do it for himself not because someone else is attempting to “force” him. I wish him the best.

Sounds like an informed response from a real genuine person lmao. Alcoholics are fully aware who out it in their mouth you absolute idiot. What a dumb comment this is. Just woke up and decided to attack a guy suffering… top notch human for sure.

You clearly have zero understanding of Alcohol Use Disorder. Even though the reams and reams of research that completely contradicts your ‘advice’ is literally at your fingertips. Such ignorance is a thing of the past my friend, maybe it’s time for you to catch up? Or shut up. One or the other.

@@pennyfleming3006 Catch up? How does one "catch up" to ones self? As a recovering alcoholic, it wasn't until I learned about Buddhism and it's philosophy about our existence that I realized that we are the authors of our own life story. Getting to know your true self is, I admit, very difficult but doable. After that, the rest is easy. I have the utmost compassion for those addicted to anything, be it harmful or benign. Addictions are merely the worst manifestation of desire. When you say "such ignorance is a thing of the past", I think it's self contradictory.

@@niemi5858 It seems that your compassion isnt well worded. It ultimately doesn’t matter what philosophy aids a person to recover from addiction. Its the recovery that matters and I commend you on yours. It’s certainly a process that’s not easy. My disagreement with your response is that you are using what works for you as a tool that will work for all and, as the last decade of multidisciplinary research clearly shows, is that that is simply not the case. You would know that traditional ‘rehabs’ have an abysmal success rate. Still only 2-4% after only one year. AA also has similar success rates over time. I would not be surprised if that knowledge is what drove you further afield in your own journey to sobriety. But in addiction we now know that one size does not fit all and it’s clear that its more than helpful to not try to show any addict their way to sobriety. It’s clear that a myriad of options, of paths if you will, is showing far greater statistically outcomes.

​@@niemi5858Get outta here with that garbage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

he dead

He died. RIP.

Do you not understand everyone has a different rock bottom. I think making a personal video for his own therapeutic purposes (not for you, me, or anyone else), to try and grow and improve one-self to become a better person is an admirable thing.

I wish my boyfriend would think like that 😢💔

@@vixter28 Frankly...how low can you go from there?? I still have mine Thank God

Everyone's rock bottom is different but the feelings are the same , nobody is lucky to reach their rock bottom. Have some empathy this guy is at his personal bottom he doesn't need strangers saying he should be worse to be validated. Shame on you

@@adamkenny1705 Shame on you. I disagree. I don’t think a guy hitting rock bottom should be sending strangers videos so he can “make money.” Also, I didn’t say he was lucky to hit rock bottom. I commented that I didn’t think his was that bad. Come on, “my gf that broke up with me who still talks to me,” is a pretty good scenario. You are a dunce.

Too hard to acquire.