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I clicked on this thinking "oh great I'm a narcissist" but it's given me such relief. And clarity. I now know My mother is a vulnerable narcissist. (Based on the part about rumination)

Omg this is scary how accurate... wow

been there!

I am rarely a victim or a prosecutor, but I am sure a rescuer most of time. My attitude is I know it all, and I can help you to understand your blockages and move them away for you. Argh. How frustration. I annoy myself.

Yea a lot of this is true. Yes the narcissist exaggerates this but in a lot of case as youve said, these feelings are legitimate most of the time. As far as the praise and appreciate and compensation part

Hmm the interesting thing is that these feelings could actually be true and are true in many cases.

yesss 🫶🏼💓

I'm not diagnosed but have upcoming interview I'm obsessed with the perfect outfit I didn't know this was a thing..

💯 Spot on summary 💯

Sugar spikes create a feeling of very tacky glue that slows my processing

This comment section makes me cry. I hate this for all of us.

The audio after the intro is only coming out of the left speaker

this is the worst pain especially when the person moves on to a new relationship it reinforces the rejection and adds to the ongoing pain

Thank you for a very informative and easy to understand teaching. Also, I love the sign in the lower right corner, "Be where you are" Awesome. Blessings, Karl

As the name suggests.... I have learned to sit and stare in silence... The power is unparalleled. Big love 🙏🃏♥️

It's just a symptom of childhood neglect/trauma.

I’ve had such bad stress and anxiety since being a kid I grew up in a stressful and traumatic environment and would always throw up when I would be stressed and it’s boiled over into my adult life and I wish I could get it under control . It’s such a bad feeling. Especially being a parent to , I fear for the future and unknown and that alone makes me sick going places , having party’s big events all get me down . I want to be better for not only myself but my kids. I need to find a doctor who will actually listen and not just medicate me.

I’ve had such bad stress and anxiety since being a kid I grew up in a stressful and traumatic environment and would always throw up when I would be stressed and it’s boiled over into my adult life and I wish I could get it under control . It’s such a bad feeling. Especially being a parent to , I fear for the future and unknown and that alone makes me sick going places , having party’s big events all get me down . I want to be better for not only myself but my kids. I need to find a doctor who will actually listen and not just medicate me.

I’ve had such bad stress and anxiety since being a kid I grew up in a stressful and traumatic environment and would always throw up when I would be stressed and it’s boiled over into my adult life and I wish I could get it under control . It’s such a bad feeling. Especially being a parent to , I fear for the future and unknown and that alone makes me sick going places , having party’s big events all get me down . I want to be better for not only myself but my kids. I need to find a doctor who will actually listen and not just medicate me.

Am I correct that this includes sensitivity to, for example, experiencing discipline or correction from an employer or teacher?

My friend perceived I don’t want to hang out with her because I made a new friend but it’s not like that they are very different and so I dint introduce them the friend with adhd pushed me away and I was wondering what only happened . She has adhd and I was so baffled I want to address adhd with her but wonder how will she take it

Mostly spot on. Sounds very clinical and with the tone of a 60s documentary. Maybe a little less of the expert Spock tone would help to connect with the audience who is not a clinical psychologist

Awww so sad 😢😢. I desperately hope my daughter never feels this about me xxx

I don’t like the second conversation either. I would just accommodate and be chilled about everything. I wouldn’t even ask why change of plans or mention about not seeing eye to eye with new wife etc. just let children enjoy themselves and make their plans for their life and fit in around them if at all possible if you can’t just explain and make other arrangements . She should gave just said have. Lovely time with Dad and Stephanie and I’ll see you later I’ll switch things around can’t wait to see you later. Never make you kids feel bad for their choices

Omg the second conversation is well over the top too.

Brain fog, cant comprehend basics forgetting what your doing

This video perfectly describes me and my experiences. Thanks for this!

What do u think causes dyslexia? I've always known I'm different although I've tried badly to just fit in.exercuse helps me a lot

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Having an ADHD brain is like having two sides coin. You get creativity, out of the box mind, whereas on the other sides you are suffering from too much thinking and hypersensitivity. Your brain often sabotage your daily life and tasks. All my life I'm searching for the button to pause my brain activity. My brain is like a bustling city road in the developing country. I wanna have 'the spotless mind', sometimes.

yeah that's me, thanks

Start taking people off the pedestal and see we are all equal because we are all human we all make mistakes and uniquely different. Work on building that self acceptance, self validation because thats what leaves cuts in the soul they are like wounds that havnt been dressed part of the needs from our parents we didnt get but we can get it from God or ourselfs. Yes God is real and he longs to heal deep wounds of rejection.

Let people say no. Saying no doesnt equal rejection it is about their boundaries. But never reject yourself because thats why it cuts soo deep because you end up rejecting yourself your own emotions you sided with the abuser when you were a child thats why you turned your emotions inside and on you and viewed them as bad. Let other people say no or reject you because its a healthy sense of acceptance. I accept myself first even if people reject me that way i can never lose myself to something of i deeply can accept myself and work on my inner acceptance its the undoing and inbecoming its showing people the real side of you broken sad unperfect cause thats you while healing but that part of you wants to be seen cause its in the seen that you gain acceptance then you start to learn to acceptance yourself by unbecoming and doing what your parents shamed you for doing like crying

Oh the first sentence ❤❤❤

I am intrigued with your statement that 50% of CEOs have ADHD. Any sources for that?

This new word combination is very interesting, but yet again there can be many reasons for many of these. I'd like to know more about differentials, since most of those can be explained by trauma, being sensitive, anxiety as you mentioned and else. I feel like I'm super slow at tings, yet I don't feel too neurodivergent bc I get typical people.

I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. It’s caused so much intense pain throughout my life.

ADHD is a strength. Niger is fleeting. I too busy to argue. Let me go make something. I can accomplish a multitude of things. I love having conversations with ADHD. We can jump from subject to subject and keep up with each other. Typical functioning tell us to focus, I think, they need to catch up.

I'm 58 and this describes my entire life. In my 30s I started therapy 2x/week and went for six years and it helped somewhat. However, a few job layoffs and horrible bosses made me want to retreat and avoid, and I've lived the past decade or more working from home, barely scraping by after being a highly paid management consultant because I felt like a total failure. I teared up listening to this because I have never heard my feelings and reactions described so well. They affect every area of my life and I feel like I constantly live in victim mode. Thanks for this because now I feel like I have a new direction to go in terms of better navigating my life and feeling so much shame because of rejection sensitivity.

very informative!!!

Does people with adhd experience world differently than neurotypical people. Does they feel same about the world or is it just the regulation of emotion and distraction which is hard to control for them?

My wife has RSD; I have my own trauma I work through, so it’s difficult for me too on another level. It’s very disheartening.

Do we have any details on the differences in the patients of the two images in terms of age medication? Is there anywhere I can find the research?

I feel rejected constantly, i make up scenarios in my head and when it happens in real life i see that as proof. My friends are cool but i alwYs make up scenarios as to why they havent messaged me yet or why i havent been invited somewhere when other friends in same social group are invited. Am i crazy? I dont know but i get super anti social during this thoughts and things get progressively worse untill i say something, then i feel guilty for bringing it up feel like an idiot then the cycle begins again after a few months. Hate being like this

This was 100% my narcissistic mother. Accusing me and my dad (the people she abused) of "ganging up" on her, constantly bringing up ancient history - things that happened years, or even *decades* earlier in arguments to prove how much of a "victim" she was, taking issue at tiny changes to schedules. One of her favourite trickes was to deliberately make us late for things, and wait for her- and then turn it around and try to blame us for being late.

Yay I’m not a narcissist! That last quote was chefs kiss 😘

I think many neurodiverse folks experience this.