RJ Hen
RJ Hen
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RJ Hen on Mental Health - Welcome
This is RJ Hen and I want to welcome you to my channel which is all things the mind with a heavy focus and emphasis on mental health. I have mental health disabilities myself and one of the things I've wanted to do and I've made my goal is to spread as much information, news, and awareness as possible.
As always...
Be Dumb, Be Crazy, Be You
RJ Hen
[Resources]
suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ (US 1-800-273-8255)
www.7cups.com/
www.betterhelp.com
[Follow]
Instagram: iamrjhen
Facebook: iamrjhen
Snapchat: iamrjhen
[Music]
Composition: First Light
Composed by: Kisnou
Composer Contact: soundcloud.com/kisnoumusic
Composer RUclips: ruclips.net/user/KisnouMusic
Link: ruclips.net/video/R48DexAXyrY/видео.html
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Видео

RJ Hen Mental Health - BTS.001
Просмотров 1665 лет назад
RJ Hen Mental Health - BTS.001 This is RJ Hen and this is my first BTS, Behind the Scenes Episode in which I'm giving all an update on what I'm doing, working on, on or simply just the behind the scenes on projects I'm working on and stories I'm gathering. As always... Be Dumb, Be Crazy, Be You RJ Hen [Contact] Instagram @iamrjhen [Resources] www.7cups.com/ www.betterhelp.com [Follow] Instagram...
Social Anxiety Disorder - My Not So Funny Comedy Story
Просмотров 33 тыс.6 лет назад
Social Anxiety Disorder - My Not So Funny Comedy Story This is RJ Hen and many don't know that I used to do stand up comedy when I was in my teen years but unfortunately, my dreams of becoming a great comedian were shattered due to Social Anxiety Disorder. I dropped the mic at the age of 18 to never pick it back up again. Ironically, 18 years later picking the mic back up became very real. I sp...
What Suicide Feels Like by Bipolar Major Depression - World Suicide Prevention Day
Просмотров 89 тыс.6 лет назад
This is RJ Hen and today September 10th is World Suicide Prevention Day, so in honor, I'm sharing one of my stories of suicide. In my story of suicide, I'm focusing more on what triggered it, going from 0-10, to how the mind can go from no plan to a plan in a split second. I'm also giving some key statistics concerning suicide rates globally while also offering a peek into my mind as I go throu...
Bipolar Disorder, Social Anxiety & Major Depression - Coming Out
Просмотров 40 тыс.6 лет назад
This is RJ Hen and I'm choosing today to come out and let everyone know that for more than 20 years I've been living with, dealing with, and most importantly surviving with Mental Health Disabilities from ADD, to Social Anxiety Disorder, to the most severe, Bipolar Disorder. Surviving multiple suicide battles three of which were near fatal is no easy thing to go through let alone put it out in ...

Комментарии

  • @latoryswanson9825
    @latoryswanson9825 10 дней назад

    I had the cops show this week for a wellness check on me. I just stayed quiet because I don’t want to go back to the mental hospital. I just don’t know why I keep living. Why is life so painful? Why are we here ….just to suffer? I’ve been sad most of my life. 😢I don’t think I’ll make it the rest of this year. I’m glad to know I’m not alone. I love god but I’m just too tired. And this video is very relatable!

  • @livelife6214
    @livelife6214 13 дней назад

    Thank you 🙏

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 10 дней назад

      You’re welcome 😊

  • @Sowanpasquel
    @Sowanpasquel 21 день назад

    Been thinking about it more lately. Not sure if i can fight it much longer

  • @tl4472
    @tl4472 27 дней назад

    hey RJ: I just watched this today. Tomorrow is 6 years since this video was published and I noticed that you haven't made any new content for years. Just curious how you're doing and if you'll be doing more here?

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 27 дней назад

      Hey there. Yeah it’s been a minute. A loooong minute. And yes. I’m literally gearing up to shoot more content of which I’ve been saying for years but this time it’s happening. Should be posting something in the next couple of weeks maybe sooner.

    • @tl4472
      @tl4472 27 дней назад

      @@RJHen I'm so glad! Your video was incredibly moving and important. I've dealt with major depression for years and have been there myself. Like you said, it can go from 0-10 in a short period of time. I'm certain there's a genetic component in my family tree. My Grandma ended her life in 1951 on my dad's 17th birthday; and my sister in 2015 at the age of 56 (she had classic and severe BPD). My entire family has had mental health struggles (addiction, PTSD, alcoholism, hoarding, etc). Then my precious daughter developed schizophrenia in 2013 right after graduating high school. She had just started Bible college, but came home after 2 mos. and it has been devastating ever since. I worry about her constantly. As a Christian, my faith is everything to me and has sustained me in my darkest hours, but that doesn't mean it's easy. We must remain vigilant. Videos like yours will change lives and give others hope. So glad you survived. Keep on going.

    • @ginamahoney-wilson1356
      @ginamahoney-wilson1356 24 дня назад

      Hi RJ, I came across your video tonight as I search, like most nights to find out about suicide. You see my husband of 18 wonderful yrs committed suicide July 28,23. I found him and I have been devastated ever since. I want to understand what happened, why he didn’t talk to me. I often wonder if it was my fault,something I said or did? It is horrific for me to realize that he actually took his own life and is no longer here with me and our family. Thank you for speaking out and reaching others in need who struggle with suicide!!

  • @ALP992
    @ALP992 28 дней назад

    That took so much courage! Thank u!

  • @karinread5490
    @karinread5490 Месяц назад

    🤦‍♀️🙄🤬

  • @Paula-pr1bo
    @Paula-pr1bo Месяц назад

    I want to die 😢

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 28 дней назад

      Please don’t. It’s gets better. For certain.

    • @h.nicolejorgensen2077
      @h.nicolejorgensen2077 23 дня назад

      Why do you feel this? I genuinely want to know what hurts you? ❤

    • @Paula-pr1bo
      @Paula-pr1bo 23 дня назад

      Hi guys I have a daughter in addiction and feel so lost to help her , apologies for writing this it was at the time I was low in mood . IV found a support group with people with similar issues so that's helpful ❤️

    • @Paula-pr1bo
      @Paula-pr1bo 23 дня назад

      @@h.nicolejorgensen2077 ❤️

    • @Paula-pr1bo
      @Paula-pr1bo 23 дня назад

      @@RJHen ❤️

  • @sushillagovender3384
    @sushillagovender3384 Месяц назад

    To all - you are wonderfully created for greatness. Love yourself to live. Find your purpose in life and that should give you a reason to go on for sure.Blessings to all 🙏🙏🙌🙌

  • @marissagraham4298
    @marissagraham4298 2 месяца назад

    You are not alone please pray 🙏🏻

  • @marissagraham4298
    @marissagraham4298 2 месяца назад

    My son didn't survive h just decided to took his own life .we are all in limbo until why ? Question when he starts thinking, why he look happy very talented, I'm with him 3 months ago our last holiday as a mother I blamed myself I wish I speak to him heart to heart I think wISH I asked how he feels I thought he was happy with his partner he have a plan to celebrate his birthday 2 days before he took his life ..I'm broken 💔 no happiness inside of me I don't know he have those burden maybe because why he done it😭😭😭

  • @renaelynn6376
    @renaelynn6376 2 месяца назад

    My whole family hates me, my 2 old bros shunned me from the whole family the day my Dad died. I feel like I want to die soooo bad. How could my own flesh & blood beat the spirit right out of me?

    • @nerselaydin911
      @nerselaydin911 Месяц назад

      it not you dear it them what the meaning of their birthday?

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 2 месяца назад

    Through depression I’ve wanted to do away with myself but I had two small kids at the time they stopped me acting on it

  • @RJ-hm9gi
    @RJ-hm9gi 2 месяца назад

    I think a doctor would be all like um sorry. Think about if you lived. Many unsuccessful attempts? You could end up like all craggily? You dont want to be a craggy craggle now right? Please I like you...dont....im sorry i wasnt thinking...i got angry and im sorry...its my fault. Its probably a like idk...i wont say i know exactly...i kinda idk....well 😞 please we could get some milkshakes..

  • @jillrouton4097
    @jillrouton4097 2 месяца назад

    I could do without the music.

  • @mariascott9101
    @mariascott9101 3 месяца назад

    People never care people are alive but once someone dies your loved

    • @HELPforPain
      @HELPforPain 2 месяца назад

      I gave this information to every authority in the H-U-M-A-Ns Carnivores family worldwide, nobody home too busy being proud of themselves trying to make money-toxic poison. you have a birthright to receive FREE food water shelter clothing tender loving care, Womb to the Tomb for lifetime!!! all we have to do is be nice kind and share and cooperate with the motherhood. 1950s group of humans, 1st time in history we figured out how to treat mental illness as effectively as humanly possible. You have to be your own personal unique healer helper for FREE taking care of yourself helping and assisting Mothers be charming never harming creating harmony. there are only a handful of thousands poisons that benefit mental illness without poisoning you to death making you feel worse actually promoting suicide frightening. Mental Health 7; Marijuana Tobacco SSRIs SNRIs Tricyclics Antiseizures Tranquilize readily available for you to use personally being your own healer helper for free ... So healthcare must be free, your life depends on free healthcare for free for eternity, you have a birthright to be your own Doctor healer helper!

    • @mojo_joju
      @mojo_joju 2 месяца назад

      I care. Can i be your friend?

    • @h.nicolejorgensen2077
      @h.nicolejorgensen2077 23 дня назад

      It can feel like this. I often feel like that. What makes you feel loved? ❤❤ Share what you feel ❤❤

  • @ritishroypatroo7075
    @ritishroypatroo7075 3 месяца назад

    For me depression/bipolar or any other debilitating mental illness is like a Cancer, but one in the mind. Eating up the cells of our soul.

  • @stevenm6453
    @stevenm6453 3 месяца назад

    The background music was very annoying in my opinion it wasn’t needed but a heartfelt message!

    • @PaulFlint-po9jl
      @PaulFlint-po9jl 2 месяца назад

      Agreed

    • @catherinekeane1901
      @catherinekeane1901 12 дней назад

      So brave you are. Keep living. Sending you a big massive hug ❤

    • @latoryswanson9825
      @latoryswanson9825 10 дней назад

      Maybe it helped him to express how he was feeling

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 10 дней назад

      That sums it up. 😉

  • @dzhettblek5615
    @dzhettblek5615 3 месяца назад

    It's lonely, painful & misunderstood disorder. I hate my life, I'm rarely happy, I put on a facade that I am just to fit in.

  • @HeavenlyDivineTaro
    @HeavenlyDivineTaro 3 месяца назад

    Those r not the people who r sick I feel they're sad. I feel similar sometimes

  • @hayleymcevoy4405
    @hayleymcevoy4405 3 месяца назад

    My mum.died of suicide and my partner I sure and now I am in a dark place I hope I can see the light . I pray ro god ro show me

  • @Jay_Segoviano_WC
    @Jay_Segoviano_WC 3 месяца назад

    Sad that it’s been 5 years since an upload. This man understands.

  • @heather-vs9qe
    @heather-vs9qe 4 месяца назад

    Yes not wanting to be a burden 😢

  • @heather-vs9qe
    @heather-vs9qe 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing 😢

  • @Beswift1989
    @Beswift1989 4 месяца назад

    I feel like this now :(

  • @Beswift1989
    @Beswift1989 4 месяца назад

    Sad as a black man that's a reality you can act like a madman and get fatally shot. Why do coos shoot to kill? All I know is I'm glad he is here. ❤

  • @b_o_k_o_m_a_r_u
    @b_o_k_o_m_a_r_u 4 месяца назад

    Thank you 💐. I’m proud of you. I have all three and it sure hasn’t been easy. But look at you 😊. Making a difference in peoples lives. Trophy

  • @b_o_k_o_m_a_r_u
    @b_o_k_o_m_a_r_u 4 месяца назад

    Thank you 🥺💜🥹

  • @christopherleubner6633
    @christopherleubner6633 4 месяца назад

    Having known a few people that did it, it's haunting. You wonder if there was something you could have done or should of done. On the other side the attempt felt strange. It's a combination of numbness and a feeling of relief. The act itself was surreal, almost like a robot taking the pills and washing them down one by one with liquor. Then jabbing a whole pen of insulin at the end. Then waiting for the end. There was no feeling of instant regret or sudden desire to save myself. Then blacked out and woke up in the bed covered in 💩 with a horrible hang over. The embarrassment and the feeling of failing at the attempt made me dead inside and feeling completely lost. I did everything possible to ensure sucess, told no one, made sure i was alone, the note was placed so it would be found during the clean up but not immediately 😢

  • @JoinLiparini
    @JoinLiparini 4 месяца назад

    😢 Thanks for letting me share my thoughts

  • @JoinLiparini
    @JoinLiparini 4 месяца назад

    😢 Thanks for letting me share my thoughts

  • @JoinLiparini
    @JoinLiparini 4 месяца назад

    This is a great message. I have been struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts daily for the past 3 months. Nobody understands

    • @ChefB1618
      @ChefB1618 4 месяца назад

      I also have been struggling with extreme depression and suicidal thoughts and I attempted suicide in March 2024. Hope you know that I actually know how you feel. Good luck 👍.

    • @Akiodio
      @Akiodio 4 месяца назад

      Stay strong guys 🙏

    • @lynnkay133
      @lynnkay133 3 месяца назад

      It's not so much that they don't understand but Ive learned that they do not care about those of us who are struggling and sick

    • @Skye75
      @Skye75 3 месяца назад

      I understand

    • @ChefB1618
      @ChefB1618 3 месяца назад

      @Skye75 Thank you for understanding. Life is a struggle right now and hearing your heart felt comment is appreciated. It's nice to know that I'm not alone.

  • @ace6285
    @ace6285 4 месяца назад

    Life is actually very short. Then it will all be over. Whatever your beliefs, for sure we will not be on earth in these particular circumstances again. May as well stick around for a few days more, because it will soon be over whether you like it or not. observe the misery.

    • @dahunkisuchiang9108
      @dahunkisuchiang9108 2 месяца назад

      Yes absolutely why take your own life just to reincarnate here on earth again rather just be patient cuz sometimes suicide thoughts is temporary until things get better again remember life is short and everyone will pass sooner or later .just hang on

  • @wendyshoowaiching4161
    @wendyshoowaiching4161 4 месяца назад

    Feed The Poor. One will eliminate depression.

  • @FlexxG103
    @FlexxG103 4 месяца назад

    Trying my best not to give up on life😢

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 4 месяца назад

      Ugh. Flexx! You got this! Survive survive survive. I know I know I know… easier said than done. As much as I know and as many ways as I’ve learned to get bk happy again it all mostly still goes out the window when I’m in that dark place. Please try to find that light, that thing that reduces the “funk” and “cloud” and use it to come out of that low place. Hit me up on Instagram if you want to connect and share.

    • @ScaryScared-sq9si
      @ScaryScared-sq9si 3 месяца назад

      please don't give up...if you need to talk, I'm here

  • @bush2571
    @bush2571 5 месяцев назад

    I am struggling bad with mental health and suicidal thoughts. People around us try to help but they don't understand. If I don't make it through this at least after watching this I know I'm not alone in these thoughts and feelings. Thank you for opening up

    • @kelseymathias3881
      @kelseymathias3881 4 месяца назад

      you are not alone....it hurts a lot....I know

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 4 месяца назад

      You absolutely will make it through it. Very tough for our loved ones to truly get it. Thank you for the kind words and please hit me up on instagram to connect and share more.

  • @hadi20233
    @hadi20233 5 месяцев назад

    Hello, I watched your video with tears streaming down my face. I'm a mature woman who has always suffered with mental health, suicidal thoughts & have twice gone down that road. I'm still suffering. There's more to this but I don't want to expose everything on RUclips. I'm alone & I'm struggling. I wanted to say what a lovely person you are.

    • @joegeekohler
      @joegeekohler 4 месяца назад

      You are not alone… breathe. You are worthy ❤

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 4 месяца назад

      Hey there Hadi. I’m glad my video resonated with you. Really helps to know you’re not alone and that others are surviving. Gives hope that we all can survive and continue surviving. I’m sorry that you’re alone and struggling. Feel free to hit me up on instagram at iamrjhen if you want to share more.

    • @RJHen
      @RJHen 4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing this.

    • @SSuinn-mg5es
      @SSuinn-mg5es 4 месяца назад

      A friend mentioned ect treatments worked n meds didn't

  • @colinwee9981
    @colinwee9981 5 месяцев назад

    Its nothing to do with divine...its urself

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 5 месяцев назад

      True. It's about human emotions and brains. I have strong depressed feelings from certain area's or locations. Pretty weird but it suddenly overwhelms me. Same feeling when I think of office buildings. Rationally I know it's in my head, my brains, my feelings about a location but it's very intense.

    • @colinwee9981
      @colinwee9981 5 месяцев назад

      @@peaceofmindofpeace1650 i share the same feelings...even smell,certain words too

  • @Goodideame
    @Goodideame 5 месяцев назад

    I'm so sorry if anyone reading this feels like ending their life. I know what it's like when things feel unbearable. I'm trying to accept that 'doing my best' is just surviving another day at the moment. What's the reason to survive? I suppose it's because we never know how things will turn out - we might even find ourselves in a future where it was worth sticking around.

    • @OtterOsita
      @OtterOsita 5 месяцев назад

      You might be right. - Thank you.

  • @redgereges-dl2el
    @redgereges-dl2el 6 месяцев назад

    Love yourself, Jesus loves us❤

  • @rob5034
    @rob5034 6 месяцев назад

    Hey , I caught your post. I m praying for you to know the Love and constant companionship of Jesus Christ. Please ask him into your life. God bless Robert

    • @weaverdreams
      @weaverdreams 6 месяцев назад

      I did many years ago but no difference. I set a final exit date of May 31 2024.

    • @redgereges-dl2el
      @redgereges-dl2el 6 месяцев назад

      Love yourself because ,Jesus loves you❤

    • @DewtbArenatsiz
      @DewtbArenatsiz 2 месяца назад

      God is deaf to suffering

  • @BrookeRoss-v9y
    @BrookeRoss-v9y 6 месяцев назад

    BRO IF I DON"T DIE SOON IMA JUST SELL MY SOUL....Even though it'll be all fake love I'll have people around. Being alone for years at a time. It takes a toll. I just want to die man.....ASAP. I pray every night that I don't wake up.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 5 месяцев назад

      I relate. I really need ppl. If only a few. I have been alone to many days. We need love. We all need love like deserts need water Sending you a hug ❤ stay around.

    • @SSuinn-mg5es
      @SSuinn-mg5es 4 месяца назад

      Hope a miracle meds can help

  • @Thefuturedosentexsist
    @Thefuturedosentexsist 6 месяцев назад

    I hate my fucking life i think about suicide every day...

    • @paulkenney4021
      @paulkenney4021 5 месяцев назад

      always find a good project to do, I suffered deep depression and turned to drink. I then found gardening and it turned my world round. Nights are hard for me!

    • @Jay_Segoviano_WC
      @Jay_Segoviano_WC 3 месяца назад

      Im with you bud. It’s the first thing that comes to mind when I wake up. Everyday is a fight to stay alive.

    • @ScaryScared-sq9si
      @ScaryScared-sq9si 3 месяца назад

      😢😢😢...I can't believe there are so many people that suffer with this. oh my God!!!

    • @ScaryScared-sq9si
      @ScaryScared-sq9si 3 месяца назад

      don't bro...give me shout

  • @sGamester
    @sGamester 6 месяцев назад

    How does every 15 seconds corollate to 800 a year? Starting off the video lying with questionable statistics is weird

    • @Saffron-sugar
      @Saffron-sugar 6 месяцев назад

      He said 800,000 per year. Not 800. Listen again 0:31

    • @ScaryScared-sq9si
      @ScaryScared-sq9si 3 месяца назад

      bro, even if he said 800, why is that a bother compared to all that is happening to people...people like you unfortunately make people think the worse. Please, bro, don't be like that, let's help each other, because people are dying, bro.

    • @lizbits9339
      @lizbits9339 3 месяца назад

      Please listen to what he said.

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 7 месяцев назад

    It’s the most terrifying thing to see what is happening to yourself and not being able to stop it. I’m 49 and just so tired of the pain and self loathing. Im scared, yet I’ve already been in a psychiatric ward for 3 weeks recently. I felt worse in there. Im long term unemployed and have people who care about me including my 18 year old son who lives with his mum. Sadly I can’t hold on to that to pull me through. I crave peace of mind and proper sleep

    • @crownmae9834
      @crownmae9834 7 месяцев назад

      I pray you get the peace you desire ❤

  • @oldbear7892
    @oldbear7892 7 месяцев назад

    How can i kill myself??? I don't want to live anymore. Have nothing. What is your advice please?

    • @ThomDion
      @ThomDion 7 месяцев назад

      Time heals. I wanted to kill myself around 25 years old... I'm now 38 and left a girlfriend of 6 years because I don't think I'm strong enough to have kids down the road. I loved her and she loved me deeply... she was giving me all the signs of wanting to live with me until death... and beyond. I regret my decision of leaving her, but I can't stand hurting her. I think I have to let go, but the pain is so strong that I thought about killing myself again... You are not alone, but because of my last suicidal period, I know there is more. I would have never seen her face, seen her laugh, her dance, her studying, her playing games with me... I don't know your situation but there is more coming to you, some bad, but a lot of good. There always is, no matter how hard it is right now. Hold on a bit more. Summer is coming. From my heart to yours, I understand.

    • @BrookeRoss-v9y
      @BrookeRoss-v9y 6 месяцев назад

      @@ThomDion Time heals. It's been 44 years and time ain't healed shit. Time just makes the wound hurt less.....then someone triggers you and the wound opens up with a newly acquired wound. Can't tell me that shit. I'm living the contrary.

    • @weaverdreams
      @weaverdreams 6 месяцев назад

      @@ThomDion you should choose love over fear of “not being strong enough.” isolation kills. Call your girlfriend back and get back together. The other thing I wanted to tell you is that sometimes the children you bring into the world HELP you and it doesn’t have anything to do with you “being strong enough;” they are gifts from God. So, please rethink your decision to break up with your girlfriend of six years. You broke her heart and now you’re breaking your own, and ours 😢 by reading about it. Please make up with her and choose love. ❤️ 💕 😢

  • @jaysantanaofficialmusic
    @jaysantanaofficialmusic 7 месяцев назад

    I held so much of this in I think I’m doing the world good

  • @jaysantanaofficialmusic
    @jaysantanaofficialmusic 7 месяцев назад

    How am I suppose to speak to my parents about how much I want to die I’m their child …their child hates their life and feels he needs to take his life to do the world better

    • @Allen77x
      @Allen77x 7 месяцев назад

      I know what youre feeling and trust me ive been there, bit you have to remeber that god loves you and theres hope in youre future. Your life matters and if you feel like you have no one just turn to jesus in prayer, fasting and reading the word and let him transform you. Youre life matters, dont do it

    • @weaverdreams
      @weaverdreams 6 месяцев назад

      Reach out to anyone you trust. Try TMS Therapy. 83% success rate in conquering depression.

  • @HectorToscano-fx6ro
    @HectorToscano-fx6ro 7 месяцев назад

    Who!

  • @Sophia.tawaji
    @Sophia.tawaji 7 месяцев назад

    I feel u but u did the right thing nor acted on your thoughts My story is so very different I m suffering from depression & anxiety which led me to self harming & having suicidal thoughts. Lots of love&support 💜

  • @OptimizingSpirit
    @OptimizingSpirit 7 месяцев назад

    🙏