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Quick Tip: What each personality type needs during wedding planning

Quick Tip: Convincing other personality types during wedding planning

Quick Tip: Handling wedding planning deadlines by personality type

Quick Tip: Wedding planning innate strengths by personality type

Quick Tip: Wedding planning decision-making by personality type

"...especially during times like Covid, or planning a wedding?" Here's my answer from when I was invited to speak on a panel for Wedding Planning recently - enjoy. :-)

Here's another clip from an interview with a lovely couple. We're talking about what each partner needs in moments of misalignment or disagreement. ⁠ ⁠ People with INFP preferences lead by continually reviewing the universal importance and worth of ...everything. They have a vast range of personal values and need time to match each choice or decision or situation against their internal compass....

In this clip, this lovely person with ENTJ preferences is sharing how sometimes, when his ISFP partner is trying to help, it's disrupting his process and making him feel out of control. ⁠ ⁠ For people with ENTJ preferences, and other In Charge™ Interaction Styles (ESTJ, ESTP, ENFJ), having a measure of control is important to satisfy their drive to go ahead and get things done. ⁠ ⁠ Especially i...

This is a clip from my session with an ENTJ and his ISFP wife (see previous clips on his need for efficiency, and her views on change). ⁠ ⁠ People with ENTJ preferences aren't opposed to change, per se, but they inherently value competence, excellence, and efficiency. Ordering something you know you like off a menu saves time, and it avoids the potential embarrassment of having to send back a d...

This clip is from my session with an ENTJ and ISFP couple. ⁠ ⁠ People with ENTJ preferences have an In-Charge™ Interaction Style. One of the characteristics for In-Charge™ styles is that we like to accomplish many many things. ⁠ ⁠ That means that sometimes, we make decisions so quickly, we'd rather run the risk of having to change course later on, than waste time or back-track.⁠ ⁠ Unless we hav...

Here's a clip from my session with an ISFP and her ENTJ husband. ⁠ ⁠ Openness to change is one of those things that is also influenced by our inborn psychological type preferences. Some people (especially xSxP Types) welcome change for change's sake - it keeps things interesting, new, and exciting. ⁠ ⁠ Others prefer stability, or need at least explanations of why the change needs to happen. ⁠ ⁠...

Here's what one of our participants said about working with me and using Your Love Profiles information.

This clip nicely illustrates some of the many things this lovely couple with INFP and ENFJ preferences have in common. ⁠ ⁠ People with an xNFx preferences have a deep psychological need for meaning, significance, and unique identity. They love personal development and growth, and are interested in people's motivation. They often cheer others on to discover, articulate, and pursue their potentia...

Here's a clip from another couples conversation; he has ENTJ, and she has ISFP preferences. ⁠ ⁠ I think issues of identity and autonomy come up for many partners, and it's not always about extraversion or introversion, it can also be culturally motivated, or have a background in traditional binary gender roles. ⁠ ⁠ Luckily, this couple's communication skills are next level, and they were able t...