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@@angelalealkarim2697 yoooo t'as aimé la vidéo or what 👀👀👀❤️❤️❤️

@@Shale240 Hi Shale!! I've missed you! I hope everything is going well for you! Thank you for the birthday wishes! I did have fun!! I went to a kbbq hehe (buffet). To answer your question, first of all, it's normal to relate to all cognitive functions since we use them all but to different degrees/they impact us differently! What I meant to say about the long term goal vs achieving things is that for someone with high Ni, they need a long term goal to be able to stay consistent and focus in the long run. But they don't need to actively work on their goal to keep their Ni happy (Except maybe INTJs who have high Ni Te so they need to work on their long term goals). For someone with high Te, they need to achieve things regardless of having a long term goal. Achieving things is already their goal. Basically , Te gets pleasure out of checking things off their list as done. So if your goal is to be healthier, why not add a healthy walk or workout in your routine, more things to check off your list meaning more things done, meaning happy Te! (For someone like you, an ESTJ, you don't need a long term plan to be motivated, you basically just need a plan and you can take action right away) Also, something that I didn't mention, but you did it for me ;) is that Te (in the description of being a Te user, they want facts). So like you've said about the oxygen flowing and all that, since that's a fact, you'll more likely want to go to the gym because you know the beneficial facts associated to it! Making you a professional Te user 😎 About your other question, I guess it depends why you want to learn body based skills. To me it sounds like Te Si (if you're doing it for a specific goal like being a boxer, that could be Ni, if you're doing it to fight people for fun that could be Se lmao). Te because you're actively doing the work and because you know that by training you'll be able to strengthen your body (and achieve things by so ) Si because you want to learn something. What makes you a better intp? 👀 Is it because you think your inner logic makes more sense? I feel like my explanations are a bit iffy but I'm gonna wait for a follow up question of yours to expand on it if needed 👀

@@AnikaTheINFP I missed you too! Thanks and np, that sounds good. What was the main meat there? Pork? Thanks for explaining, that makes perfect sense, I get a thrill checking things off my to-do list, it's better than eating a good meal or petting a animal. I'm glad to have the title of professional Te user now lmao. For me it's because I have a few different goals that require me to build up my strength and agility. The first goal is, I want to backpack across the USA, so I need to build up stamina, and also my strength for if I encounter any dangers. My second goal is, I want to become a clown, to do that, I need tumbling skills and the know how to ride a unicycle, and how to juggle, so I need to gain strength and balance to be able to do those things. Speaking of working on goals, I planted some winter radishes and lettuce a couple of days ago, this is going to be the last planting until March. The tomato plant is doing great it has about 20 tomatoes on it. No, it's because they seem to have worse Ne than me. They jump to conclusions without considering other factors, I have lower Ne than them, but I'm better at it than they are. I thought your explanations were great. Have you discovered anymore about your enneagram type or whether your dad is an entj or estj?

@@elisep9481 hahah the "checking in on the workers, making sure they're helping and not killing anyone" is such an ENTJ thing to say imo 🤣🤣 I feel like ENFJs would be like "Checking in on the workers to make sure they're not overworking 🥰🥰" 🤣 Oh hell yeah I'll worship you , my ceo! 🤣🫡🙇‍♀️

@@elisep9481 aww thank you haha 🤩🤭 glad you liked em! Which one was your favorite 👀

@@shena5360 haha thank you for watching until the end 😆😆❤️❤️ you've unlocked the special ending!!

@@runningupthathill7 Hii! I believe I am an INFP 4w5 🤗

And another awesome comment ! 😎 I always look forward to your comments, so thank you Shale!! You being an ESTJ 1w2 makes total sense actually haha I can definitely see that! I am an INFP 4w5 on my end hehe 😆 I can spiritually connect with that 5 y/o hahaha Your ENTJs sound cool! My ENTJs too seem to be into programming servers and what not! ENTJs brains are great!! My ISFJ friend loves animals too! It's her second option. Her first option is being an optometrist! You definitely sound perfect as my right hand man , I don't even need to interview you! 🤣 You can supervise ESFPs fabrics haha afterall they are your fabrics too as a manager , you're probably the one ordering them!🤣 I'll make sure to put all the high Si in one section altogether so you don't have to clean the mess of everyone else 🤣❤

​@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks and np, they're fun to comment on lol. That's cool, do you know the other types in your tritype? I'm a 163, which are the most common ESTJ enneagram types, so that's pretty funny. Hahaha They are, they're very similar to my brain, but I think mine is better because I have Si, but the ENTJ brain is still amazing too. Ni < Si. Those are two pretty different things, why does she want to be an optometrist? I mean, it makes sense, I have a friend whose two career prospects are being a musician in a orchestra or being a zookeeper, which are drastically different, but they're also jobs a lot of people want to do, an optometrist is so random, so I'm curious. Thanks! Awesome, I think we could expand the company and produce more jobs if we start making our own fabrics, but if this fails, we'll blame the ESFPs and never mention it again. I appreciate that lol Si supremacy.

@@Shale240 Aw thanks! Regarding the enneagram, maybe I should make a video about me doing the test haha since I know about enneagrams but not as much as MBTI haha. I would say 4,8,9! I think for me I love Si. I feel like with Ni, you're bound to be an overthinker or something haha so Si can be more useful on a daily basis. But I tend to hold high Ni in high regards. I think it's a N thing. Si is good but boring to me. Like I don't think I would want a partner who has high Si except ESTJs because I feel like they would be able to understand me the best amongst all high Si users Optometrist because it's a stable and reputable job. She's an ISFJ after all, she wants something stable and she knows someone in her family who's an optometrist. But she studies biology and such so taking care of animals/nature is like her second choice. I don't think something overly chaotic would fit her. I like your plan with ESFPs hahaha it's a deal partner 🤣😎

​@@AnikaTheINFP That'd be a really cool video idea. It's impossible to be both an 8 and a 9, it goes like this: Heart types (2, 3, 4), Head types (5, 6, 7), Gut types (1, 8, 9) People have 1 heart type, one head type, and one gut type, and out of those three, they have one they default to most. I don't really know much about enneagram either, but I'll learn more one day, it's just not high on my list of priorities. That makes sense, Ni does seem like an overthinking function, and they're overthinking about things that aren't even happening which seems like a waste of time to me. I'll be honest, I'm not sure if I could make it work with a high Si user either, I need someone who is willing to try new things, because it's annoying when someone won't even try something new when it's free and not deadly, what do you have to lose? Since I'm also a pretty high Si user, I don't think we'd help each other grow much, unless it's an SFJ, but I'm going to have to decline, high Fe users just rub me the wrong way, and it's because when they're mad at you, they're not mean to you, they act condescendingly nice and I hate that, I'd rather them call me a stupid piece of crap than talk to me like I'm 5 years old. I know they're trying to be nice and spare my feelings but ew. That's cool, I get that. I'm actually glad she's level headed instead of being like a lot of people who spend all this time, energy, and money, getting a degree to get some awesome dream job, except there's no job, or there's extra things you have to do, like I knew someone who went to flight school, after he finished, he still needed x amount of flight hours before he could get a job, it's been like 8 years now, he's still no further than he was, because he has no plane and no motivation. I just think it's important for people to fully understand what they're getting into, the requirements, the job outlook, etc, before they dive head first into it. Thanks haha, alright, let's get down to business. First thing's first, we need to make covers for the cars to keep them cool in the summer, and warm in the winter, with these car covers, people will never have to waste time scraping ice off their windshields.

@@Shale240 OMG!! I love learning new things about stuff that I am passionate about! Thank you for being the teacher haha I really love it! I'm definitely gonna learn more about enneagram! I feel like I need to study MBTI a bit more tho, so many things and possibilities! But that makes so much sense if it's separated into 3 categories! Because I feel like 4w5 is the definition of INFPs. Most INFPs I know give me 4w5 vibes (traumatic childhood vibes haha). So I feel like by default I am 4w5 but I REALLY relate to type 8 as well so I guess I would be (4,7,8). I feel like people think I am extroverted when it's really about me having a high inner confidence (?) which would be linked to me being type 8(?) I'm not sure if it makes sense or if that's possible haha I'm not too familiar with enneagrams yet but I do think it would make sense in my situation and would explain me not being like the typical shy INFP? (As well as you thinking I could be an ENTJ haha because I feel like type 8 would fit a lot of ENTJs naturally). Definitely what you feel is valid and I think it would be valid for most types with someone else who shares their dom function. Like I'm not sure if I would help FPs as much as other types because we are already so similar. I feel like ISFJs are pretty adventurous. Most ISFJs I know are down to try new things, make new friends and love to explore nature. Do you know any ISFJs? For my part, it's all about passion. I don't care how much or little money I can make, I want to follow my passion which is script writing. I don't care how long it'll take, if I know it's meant for me, I know I'll be able to make great things happen. Then again with my personality, I know I'm a hard worker , enthusiastic and motivated individual. Sadly not everyone is like that tho. And it does make sad and low-key disappoint when someone gives up or keeps changing their program every year without much thought. Then again, that's their path, I just hope they will feel fulfilled one day. Thankfully I am "lucky" to know what my dream is and it is so evident to me while so many people are still questioning themselves. Sorry for the long wait haha school just restarted for me 👀💃

@@Shale240 aw thank you Shale! I didn't know about it too , so I had to mention it 👀👁️📿💕

as of now I am an ISxP

@@Uteria_888 you should watch my latest video on cognitive functions! If you're hesitating between ISFP and ISTP. Then that means that if you're an ISFP here are your cognitive functions in order : Fi, Se, Ni, Te ISTP: Ti, Se, Ni, Fe (If goes from strongest to weakest) You'll understand once you watch my video 😉 hope that helped

@@AnikaTheINFP i already knew the functions... I was just commenting 😶

@@Uteria_888 so what's making you still hesitate? 🤔

@@Uteria_888 maybe you're crushing on yourself hihi 🤭❤️ thank you for watching!

@@AnikaTheINFP maybe... 😵‍💫

@@Shale240 How come?

@@AnikaTheINFP I actually don't know, I just know that I'd try to impress them by showing off my epic Te skills, which are as awesome as theirs, but they just see right through me and become obsessed with xNTPs like you said lol. I figure they probably think I'm boring and they know everything there is to know about me, and ENTJs probably like mysteries.

@@Shale240 I'm not sure because I'm not sure if there's a big difference between male and female ENTJs, but I've noticed that ENTJs always preferred someone "weaker" than them. Let me explain haha. ENTJs love to explain things to someone, so if you already know everything and if you're better than them at the things, yes they'll probably want to hire you because they know how hardworking you are, but relationship wise.. ENTJs need a sense of superiority. It's not necessarily toxic, I mean it could be, but it mostly means they need someone with a non-overpowering personality? But if you do want to impress them with your skills, I would suggest baking them a cake or any kind of food. Because of Blindspot Si and Dom Te, ENTJs don't often care about taking care of themselves properly. So if you want to use your skills to your advantage here's what you could try doing : - Make their favorite food (I feel like ENTJs are easy to please, they always act like I've made them the best food on earth when I cook haha) - Take some tasks off their load. I'm not sure what kind of setting you've met your ENTJ at. But being able to reduce their workload so they can relax will make them happy. Ofc, don't YOU overwork yourself in return. - Maybe knit them something. Like I said, they just want the things to be done and working and don't care about the rest. Maybe knit them a scarf, gloves for winter or anything like that, ENTJs will see your potential shine in something that you're good at. Fyi I've met a lot of ENTJs who are into gardening! a lil cactus as a gift could be cute or sharing knowledge. - Defend them. I know both ENTJs and ESTJs hate humiliation, especially public humiliation . Even if it's in a heated debate or straight up someone trying to bully them, ENTJs will be able to defend themselves, but I think someone protecting their ego will also go a long way. - Don't forget to ask for help! You can even pretend haha. Don't ask them something technology related tho haha I think Ni struggles with that for some reason. For me it would be like opening a jar 🤣 but ig you're the guy so I don't know, but you'll come up with something! ENTJs love to teach so let them teach you something. - It's surprising you're saying it seems like they like ENTPs because I thought ENTJs didn't like people with a confrontational personality. Can't say much about that, but from my experience, if you listen well to ENTJs, give them encouragement and advice for their dreams and "act cute", like a helpless little kitty who was left in the rain outside , they will come pick you up and help you. Hope that helps a little ❤️

And yeah, I'm like a little bunny who keeps running away and the ENTJ is like a wolf chasing after me 😆 I don't think ENTJs are necessarily into mystery types, because I'm not a mystery🤣 I might be elusive, but I think ENTJs want a little minion. As an INFP I am that. They are the boss and I'm their little minion who makes them drawings and cookies while they plan world destruction LOL. But I think when ENTJs are immature, they want someone fun and sexy (sex positive), but I think someone cute, laid back and hardworking fits them more. And you know INFPs are yappers, so don't try to change yourself by trying to make yourself more mysterious or what not, I know you have a lot of charm!

@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks, this does help a lot. I'm actually the same way where I want to feel like the superior one in the relationship or equal, it usually doesn't work out if the person I'm dating is better than me at the things I'm good at because I'm insecure and I'll always feel like I'm not good enough for them, I also like being more so the leader in the relationship, and ENTJs probably feel the same way, and like you said, they love explaining stuff to people, well, so do I lol. You're absolutely right about me hating public humiliation, especially if it's unfounded, and I always like and appreciate when people stand up for me, and I like standing up for other people too when I know people are being incorrect in their assumptions, but I've even defended people I dislike so I'm not sure if that would do much if they were aware of that. In my experience it's true that ENTJs are bad with technology, so am I though lmao, my mindset is, if I can turn it on and open the internet browser, I don't really care to learn more than that, and if something does go wrong I've always had tech savvy people around me, so I just get them to deal with it lol. I was actually glad when I met that ENTJ who was bad at typology, because I thought that Te doms were supposed to be good at technology, so this really helped to clarify my type for me. We actually have a lot in common, he reminds me of myself except I'm better at doing the day to ay stuff like remembering to eat, shower, etc, something I like to do in his server is tell everyone what I've eaten, and ask them what they've eaten, that way I can subtly remind him (and other forgetful people) to eat without being overtly naggy about it. Honestly, with a lot of things I don't ask for help with, because I just do them myself, but despite being a guy, I struggle to open jars, I have a jar opener though so I'd have to lose that, but why would I lose a perfectly good jar opener? I think this is why ENTJs and I would probably be better as co-workers or brunch time friends, brunch time friends are the friends who you go out to eat with, but only during the day time, you don't really hang out with them to do things with them afterwards, you have your brunch, then you disperse and everyone goes and runs their errands of the day. Then you have your dinner time friends, who you eat dinner with and then after you hang out a bit, maybe go bowling or something, ESxPs usually make good dinner time friends. I'd like the whole thing of doing tasks for ENTJs but when it comes down to it, I think we're just too similar to be the best fit for each other.

@@Shale240 I feel the same way but it's also because I wouldn't be able to handle an ESFJ personality haha it feels too overwhelming. 🤣

@@AnikaTheINFP Same lmao. ExFJs are bossy AF and I hate being bossed around, that's my job.

@@Shale240 🤣 they are too conform to society for me haha

@@Shale240 Hahaha it's so funny because I feel like I'm the one getting rejected that's why I know they like the chase 🤣 but I also know our personalities wouldn't be really compatible 🤣 Why do you reject them? Not compatible?

@@AnikaTheINFP I'm apt to reject anyone first off because dating someone would be a big life change and I see the concept of dating as having to be responsible for someone else's feelings, and then having to deal with the fact that they'll eventually leave so dating isn't something I'm big on. However, ESxPs can be really pushy and I thought what's the worst that could happen? It ended up not working out because they're reckless idiots and I'm uptight and intolerant with some things, such as I didn't approve of the ESTP's friends or how he kept making stupid choices because these choices led to him getting hurt.

@@Shale240 hahahahah it's literally prison guard x prisoner type relationship 🤣 What about ISFPs & ISTPs? Apparently ESTJs are the most compatible with ISFPs and ISTPs

@@AnikaTheINFP Is that an actual typology term because I've heard of stuff like "bronze pair" and "golden pair" or is it just a general comparison? Either way it's accurate lmao. I'm not sure, I think my roommate might be an ISxP and we're not as good of friend as he is with my brother and other roommate, but he seems to have a pretty high opinion of me, there have been times where he's been upset and actually stormed off crying because I've said something negative to him, like one time I told him he was being an asshole because he was being really mean to someone to the point of making them cry. I've also noticed that he's adopted some of my methods which is honestly flattering, I thought he disliked me and thought I was dumb before that. However, I'm not sure how I feel about him, he's a slob, he makes the worst most inefficient decisions, not listening to better ones because he struggles to admit when he's wrong. I kinda feel guilty for not having as high opinion of him but there are just so many things. I'm pretty sure he has VERY bad Ne, I'm just not sure if he's Ti or Fi.

@@Shale240 hahah it seems like you only have good experiences with high Ne and Si users 😆 I've never heard of bronze & golden pair but based on mbti ISTPs are supposed to be your soulmates (you share similar values) and ISFPs are supposed to be your perfect pair, they are supposed to be ones to bring the most change in your life and vice versa

Aww I literally started my MBTI journey with Frank James!! I am so happy you're putting me in the same sentence as him haha I feel a great sense of accomplishment haha. Thanks for watching sweetheart!!!🤟

@@foroblivion Awww well thank YOU for watching sweetheart 😚🥹❤️

Wow wow wow! Crazy how a single opinion can impact someone! I'm not saying your life changed obviously 🤣but that's great to hear! Honestly ESTJs are my favorite! Like I said, I highly look up to you guys! I think ESTJs are so crucial in this world, fast learners, rational, efficient, *actually* open-minded and so much more 😂 literal goals! Esfjs are great. Because I actually think ESFJs compared to ENFJs can make quicker decisions. ESFJs are also HIGHLY underrated great workers! And ofc, your Blindspot is Ni, so of course you don't care ! 🤣 I wonder how having a Ni Blindspot affects you in your everyday life🤔would you mind elaborating on that if you know? LMAO not the esfp and ugly shoes 🤣🤣 the way you said it was so funny, felt like you were the real Regina George. And for ISTJs, I literally don't know any ISTJs that's why I had nothing to say 😂😭 but ISTJs in movies in such seem like total sweethearts. Like I want to protect them and make them smile haha

​@@AnikaTheINFP My opinion can easily change on things based on the information I take in, is it the opposite for you where your opinion is set in stone and nothing can change it? I have some things I won't budge on though, but those are things I don't really think about unless I'm observing them or I have a reason to, like now. I'm not sure how Ni blindspot affects me in my day to day life, but I can think of some instances that have happened that may have been Ni blindness. - My brother gets a pet, I complain about it because he is terrible at taking care of things, living and non-living, with the non-living things, if I notice them lying around, I'll pick them up and put them back where they go, and tell him that he should take better care of his things. With the living things, I'll try to get him to do what he signed up for, but he'll refuse and say he will in a minute, and I know his minute is usually like two hours, and I think it'll just be easier for me to go ahead and take the dog out rather than waiting for him, and plus holding in urine can be unhealthy, why would I risk the health of a living creature when I could easily not? The animals always end up liking me and following me around everywhere, which is kind of annoying, I don't really understand the hype around animals, they're stubborn, loud, and they won't stop following me around everywhere, just now one of the cats jumped up to lay beside me, there's a house full of people, yet they always choose me. I realized recently that I'm the problem, if I didn't continue to pick up the slack for my brother, he might actually learn to stop doing this, if I didn't take care of the animals, they might not be so attached to me, however, I did get a comment about someone about this who told me that animals are attracted to certain pheromones, so it could be that as well, either way, I was caught in a web that I'd spun myself. - The next example is I have a really hard time keeping friends, I'm not good at bein sympathetic or lying to make people feel better, and if things seem odd, like, someone saying they ran a mile in x time but the world record is a bit slower than that time, or someone saying they're 9'10" a normal human female, not like a mythical creature, but apparently she had a growth/bone disorder and the reason she wasn't in any world record books was because she wanted to keep her privacy, but there's no way that's not getting out, in no world under the sun, no way, then I'll question them about it. There's also people who claim to be able to do magic, and also that they can read emotions and people's pasts, I don't call them out as much as I try to get them to prove their abilities. I can also be bossy and kinda harsh if someone is doing something that to me seems wrong, for example, I had a friend who kept going on multiple random hook up dates, and I told him he was being stupid and about all the dangers that could happen, apparently there were other situations where I was like this because ultimately my friendships usually end because they think I'm a controlling jerk and they're not going to let me push them around any longer, and I never see it coming, and I never learn my lesson because I always think that if they have a problem with me, then they should tell me, I'm not a mind reader, and besides, I'm right. I still think I'm right, but it's another example of getting caught in a pattern I didn't even know was happening. I hope that explains a bit, I'll try to think of more day to day things that might be blindspot Ni. How does blindspot Se show up in your life? Lmao so the thing about ugly shoes is that I'm extremely shallow and particular about the appearance of things. Sometimes things can be hurtful to the eyes, such as glitter, I saw people wear full glitter dresses before, it was almost blinding. In the case of using it for group building, it's a common thing for ESTJs to notice one thing about someone and make a quick decision about them based on their appearance. For example: In the case of a job interview, if someone comes in covered head to toe in piercings and tattoos, the chances of them being hired are extremely low, not necessarily because the person doing the hiring dislikes piercings and tattoos, because it's pretty common knowledge how hard it is to get hired looking like that, so it could show someone that this person lacks foresight and makes poor choices and may not be the best fit for the company. It may not be true, but we're sensors, we usually don't think deeper than that. I'll accept if I'm wrong about judgements I make about people, like when I was 11, I didn't have a very high opinion of this girl because she head a stain on her sweater and she also thought Mickey Mouse was a bear, but then she let me borrow her pencil during youth group in church when we were doing assignments, and then we started talking more, and I realized she was pretty cool, and we ended up becoming friends. I feel the same way about ISTJs lol, my ISTJ friend is very precious to me, I actually feel it in my heart when I think about her, I love her to death, not in a romantic way, but just as a person, she's extremely knowledgeable, organized, and kind, maybe one downside is that she can be a bit too sensitive with some things, but I don't see that as a downside. As for ISTJs in shows and stuff, it depends on the ISTJ, they can be the bitter snarky brats, they're not as bad as INTJs but they can be annoying compared to other types. What tends to be your favorite/least favorite types in anime? Here's maybe a more N leaning question, if you were to make a show, what would the genre be and how do you imagine the first scene?

@@Shale240 I would say regarding the opinion thing, it depends. Because if it's about something I absolutely don't know about such as politics 🤣 I'm open to hear people's opinions and then I'll make an opinion based off my values. I would be terrible at debates when it comes to "Se" things 🤣 but when it's a more opinion/feeling based debate, that! I can debate! (Let's say "are you for or against abortion" , it's more of a personal question I guess so it's easier to come up with something. But! My opinion can be set in stone when it's about ME. (JustFiThings lolol). So, "fun fact" (not so fun). I had a very toxic childhood growing up (no wonder I'm now Se blind, I didn't wanna see reality 🤣😭) so let's say someone is like "Aw but I'm sure your mom loves you". Like thank you but hell no. I HATE when people do that. I'm ok knowing I don't have the best mom, it is what it is sadly. If I didn't feel loved growing up, that's how it is. I take it as a fact and it pisses me off when someone is trying to "make me feel better" that way. Because what WOULD make me feel better, is acknowledging my feelings and telling me that despite it all, I turned out great BECAUSE ME MYSELF AND I AM GREAT. I always believed in my potential which is my greatest strength. Ni is also about being "future oriented". So let's say with your friends, do you care about keeping all of your friends? Would you be upset if you were to lose them? Or it is what it is type thing? And about your career or life path, is there ONE long-term goal you would like to accomplish or you don't really care? And awww I'm sure if I was a little kitty I would go to you as well haha 😆🥰. But what you said made sense tho! Like instead of waiting for your brother to do something (Ni might not care right away , as they would go with the flow, or trust your brother), I guess it might be your Si being like "Hey I know for a fact this is not how you take care of animals" and your Te making things work right away haha. I wonder, what type is your brother? He sounds like a P type to me haha. Maybe after hearing his type we can find solutions based off his type that could help 🤣. But hey you're keeping the animals alive, thank you haha! About the friend part, that sucks, I guess being right is not always what people care sadly haha. Some people prefer being handed out solutions, while others want their feelings to be acknowledged. But that's not always your fault. I mean people SHOULD talk to you about it. So I guess next time someone asks you for your opinions, give them a choice. "You want a solution, or do you want me to hear you out?" "What kind of reaction are you expecting?" (That one can sound condescending so watch your tone if you ask that one 🤣) As for me, for my Se. Well first of all, it's no wonders as I mentioned that growing up, Se turned out to be my blindpost. If my reality is bad, I'm not gonna want to focus on it. That's why I am a hyper creative person. I would rather live in my head than irl 😅. I would say it can be good tho, why? Because since I am Se blind that means I am typically not a shallow person. But it depends. Like for a job setting, I personally always try to dress up to make a good impression so if someone didn't do that, I would also be like "🤨mhhh". Anyways, I also don't care about social status. I couldn't give more fucks 🤣. Like I don't care if people think I'm a loser or the coolest person, if my job is good or not, I don't care about money that much (sadly, I should 🤣). That also stems from my childhood where everyone felt like a bunch of hypocrites, so because of that, I try not to judge a book by its cover , because that's what people used to do with me. I hate assuming things about people. Why would I do that, when people did that to me right? But Se blind can be "bad" too. I highly struggle with taking proper care of my household. Like cleaning and stuff is SOOO hard for me 😭 I have inferior Te, I'm Se blind and I'm thinking I could potentially have ADHD, so when it comes to my real life and real things I need to do, I slack so hard 😭. And because I'm Se blind + inferior Te, I'm sadly not motivated by money which is a shame because of my Se blindness, I don't wanna end up on the streets one day because I haven't been focusing on my reality 🤣(don't worry, I try to keep myself alive as much as I can haha). And your story about your childhood friend is so adorable!! I would definitely be that person 🤣 I'm sure that person must have been an ENFP or something haha. Are y'all still friends?!? On my part, I'm pretty sure I've met ISTJs at work (with my super big brain I'm guessing they were ISTJs haha) and they were really sweet haha so lucky me! I'm not sure if you've watched the show "OUTLAWS" on Amazon Prime (you should) but there's a character named "Greg Dillard" whom I'm guessing is either ISTJ or ISFJ and I love this sweetheart haha. He's sadly being taking advantage of, probably just like istjs and isfjs irl, but the show is really great! There's another character named "John Halloran" whom I'm guessing is 99% an ESTJ and I like him too!! 😉 I haven't watched many animes lately. I would say ENFPs are great (Naruto). I also love love ENTJs and ESTJs. I sadly HATE most INFPs because they are ALWAYS (or often) the loser, the pathetic and lame characters and it annooooys me😭. I'm not sure if you've watched "THE BOYS" another freaking amazing show on Prime. But "Hughie" is an INFP and for fucks sake, I hate the way they wrote him. I mean he's a very sweet and honest guy, but sadly the show didn't do him justice 😭 people are taking advantage of him, making him a wuss basically. When in reality, if that was me, I WOULD NEVER allow someone to talk down to me. What about you tho! Which characters do you like and dislike? AND OMG! I literally study cinema, you asked the right question! My goal in life is to WRITE animated movies such as Pixar! I want to talk about psychology and mental health in my movies, stuff that aren't talked about. Like having a toxic family.. In so many Disney movies particularly, we always see them being like "Family is the most important thing, yayyy family!" But I sadly wasn't able to relate to that as a kid. That's why when I saw the movie "Inside Out", that's when it clicked, "I can talk about psychology and still entertain both kids and adults, while passing a beautiful message". I'll give you a little resume of a short film that I wanna make. It's going to be about Christmas. All Christmas movies are about Christmas magic and about how beautiful Christmas is right? Well, when I was a kid, at school I got told that Santa existed and we even wrote letters to Santa, I even received a letter back from Santa! I wrote that I wanted a poney. And in my house I was looking for apples and carrots to feed this "potential poney". We didn't have a chimney nor a Christmas tree. But we made cardboard Christmas trees at school so I thought it would work. I swear I even looked outside my window and I SWEAR I thought I saw Santa on his sleigh passing over the moon (I was high as a kid or what lmao). The thing is... My parents are Muslims. And Muslims don't celebrate Christmas. My parents had no clue who tf Santa was 🤣. I even left cookies and milk and I even opened the window in cold winter to let Santa in🤣 My mom surely thought her daughter was crazy . And guess what.. well Santa never came. I thought it was because I wanted something too big or it was because I didn't have a chimney nor a Christmas tree. Or "worse" I might have thought I was a bad kid. Turns out I got lied to! 🤣 Anyways, I love happy endings so I do want to write a Christmas story about another perspective but with a happy ending. I can still experience Christmas magic right? That's the moral I want to pass ✨

@@AnikaTheINFP This is a lot of text, not a bad thing, just a fact, I'm going to sleep soon so I'm not going to respond to this in depth right now, but I just wanted to validate your feelings about hating when people say generic cookie cutter things like "I'm sure your mom loves you" without even knowing the situation, and even worse, when they do know the situation, they still invalidate your feelings and everything you went through. I wasn't able to relate to movies about happy families either, they'd always make me feel bitter rather than warm and fuzzy like they were supposed to, it sucks so I'm sorry you had to deal with that too, how are you in regards to it now?

@@Shale240 Haha no worries, I need you to have maximum energy so I can get the best replies out of you 😆! Thank you for this first reply tho! It's very sweet of you to want to acknowledge my feelings first. There's a lot and a lot to unload but I'll give you good news, I was able to move out! Although when I first moved out 2-3 years ago, I moved in to my boyfriend at the time (who was an Intj). And I was SOOOO depressed (again lolol). Because I lived with his grandma (who lived upstairs) and we lived downstairs. And his grandma is a total bitch 😭. She reminded me of my terrible mother so it was like everything restarted but this time was even *worse* in some ways because I was now in complete unknown territory. I believe both my mom and the grandma are ENTPs. And I have a terrible relationship with ENTPs 😭 they always bully me for no reason lol And as you may or not know, INTJs have a hard time with empathy. So my INTJ boyfriend at the time was not able to take proper care of my feelings so I felt so alone. The only upside is that my boyfriend at the time had a dog 🐶. The sweetest most lively dog. Taking care of the dog made me feel so much better since I wasn't allowed pets growing up. I think the dog was an ENFP haha. I stayed with them for a year. Anyways now I do live completely alone. I moved into my new apartment maybe 1-2 years ago. It's hard for me to handle being an adult on my own ( I am 22 almost 23!) , but I definitely feel better. At times I even felt "scared" (scared is not the right word) because I started forgetting my past. Which is normal when you experience trauma, but for me, it's important to remember every detail, to know what I've been through, reflect on it and get better. That's why I don't like "cookie cutter" answers like you've said such as "Your past doesn't define you!" But what if it does? I literally wouldn't be the person today if it wasn't because of my past. I don't wish to stay in the past, I wish to move forward, but remembering the past is important. After 1-2 years of complete no contact with my parents, I tried to reconnect with them. Sadly my parents have the same old habits of being immature. They love to say "Because of you ....!" Like listen, you guys are the parents. Why the fuck are you blaming your own kid for your shortcomings 😂😭. At least I'm proud for always being hyper self aware and even at the age of 4, I knew I wasn't the problem, I knew I was a girl full of potential. But at least since I'm away from them, my sense of hate towards them is slowly fading away. I'm still mad at them, but I'm growing up and I'm trying to be the bigger person for some reason 😂 If you don't mind, what are some struggles you had to go through ?

Omg that's so fun to hear! I'm not surprised since we are each other's opposite. 😇😈 It's probably why we share similar views. How would you describe your relationships with infjs and enfjs? 👀Lemme see if we can relate about that too

@@AnikaTheINFP That's true lmao. I don't really have much of a relationship with any INFJs and ENFJs, they tend to make me feel uneasy, they're among the hardest types for me to read, I never know what they're thinking, especially INFJs, I never know what they're really thinking. ENFJs can be bossy and mean, and I can be bossy and mean too so I get it, but I don't like when people are like that towards me especially about things I'm insecure about.

@@Shale240 Oh that's interesting! I've never met any bossy ENFJs, then again, I'm the bossy one 🤣 I boss around my ENFJs LOL. I channel my inner ESTJ 🤣. For my part, one of the reasons I would not date an INFJ, is because it feels like I need to entertain them. Like it feels I need to heavily rely on my Ne to make them laugh and such which I don't mind, but at the same time.. I wanna be entertained as well 🤣 it's a problem with Ni dom ig (INTjs too I need to entertain them..). Sorry to hear that you had bad experiences with ENFJs.. if I was there, I would have defended you 😤😤😤

@@AnikaTheINFP I think ENFJs and I clash over our Te vs Fe, they shame me for not considering the feelings of other people more and that's annoying to me because that's not the priority right now, I also get called out on doing things that seem rude to them but not to me, I hope I make them feel as uneasy as they make me feel lol. I'm joking, I know they're coming from a good place, but I don't like being shamed. High Ni users needing entertainment makes a lot of sense why we don't talk often and how this ENTP managed to entertain my ENTJ friend so much. I'm not the most interesting or entertaining person, I'm not putting myself down, it's just a fact and I'm fine with it. Thanks, even if it was over something you agreed with them about?

@@Shale240 I know we're just talking over text and we don't know each other irl, but you seem like such a sweet and honest person! For my part, the way I gage if someone is being nice or not, is by knowing their intentions! So, if you didn't mean to be rude on purpose, then you're good in my book. Something I don't like about ENFJs (there's a lot of good stuff but) , it kinda feels like they are sheep. Sheep are cute but.. they don't have their own opinions, they just follow along. And it can be frustrating. As you said, if you need to make a decision, yes it's best if EVERYONE agrees on the decision, but is it ENFJ who's going to step forward and make the final call.. Probably not. It feels like ENFJs are too scared to voice out their opinions, sometimes I even wonder if they do have an opinion to begin with... But can't really blame them, they have Ti inferior. And you guys are each other's demon functions (Fe vs Te).. I understand why you guys don't go along haha. One thing I'll say tho, is that because of my ENFJ bestie, I've definitely become more empathetic towards others and when there's a conflict, I try to be open minded, present and understanding. Because I used to be the "Ugh, well it's not MY fault if YOU got your feelings hurt". But hearing people out and giving them a simple "Hey, my intentions weren't to hurt you, but thanks for reaching out, since I do care about you, I will try to be more mindful". Instead of making things about me 😴. I'm obviously not talking about you or your situation, just sharing a piece of information about myself haha.

@@Shale240 omg you are so sweet, never stop with the comments honestly they make me feel so proud 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️ It feels great to be recognized for your hard work! (My inferior Te thanks you 🤣)

@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks! And Np, I'm glad I was worried that I was commenting a bit too much so it's good to see that's not the case.

​@@Shale240 haha why would that ever be a bad thing haha 😆

@@AnikaTheINFP That's what I thought too until my friend got accused of being a stalker by this guy because he commented on like 4/10 of his community posts on youtube. Imagine that, making a post with the intention of getting people to see it, and then calling them a stalker when they comment on it, and THEN complaining that introverts can't gain a following, hmm I wonder why.... Inferior Ti logic. He has himself listed as an INTP but this guy had such a lack of Ne it was like going out on a row boat with no oars, an INTP with no Ne doesn't work right.

@@Shale240 That's crazy 😂 I mean if the person kept repeating "You're so pretty" x10 every video maybe then I would understand. But comments like yours are literally what everyone should be looking forward to haha. Respectful, encouraging and of course, at the end of the day, it boosts the algorithm so it's a win win 🤣 so don't ever worry about that. Unless you start asking for my address and social security number 🤣

@@Shale240 and this is probably the best comment I've received ❤️😭 Seriously!! Omg getting back on RUclips and seeing all of your comments made me so surprised and happy 🤣🤣 I'm glad I was able to be helpful! Once again, my inferior Te thanks you haha Let's make a deal, I'm gonna keep working hard and you're gonna keep on relaxing! Alright? 🤣❤️

@@Shale240 About the Si part, even if it's a lower function, I can somehow totally relate😆. Like whether it's in a dream or if I'm just thinking about let's say a chocolate cake, it's as if I can feel the imaginary chocolate cake in my mouth! 😵‍💫😵

@@Shale240 honestly I think I'm gonna print your replies and frame it, I don't have a choice at this point 😔☝️

​@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks, not to like overdo the niceness or anything but you're also nice as well as being smart and funny at least from this limited information I have, you could be some secret evil puppy eater in your free time lmao. That sounds like a good plan, deal <3 Before I begin though, I'll tell you what helps me stuff done and if you want, you can tell me what helps you relax. - I tend to multi-task, I'll knit while catching up on things I'm watching, I walk around my house while keeping up my online social life, I listen to music while cleaning, and while gardening I also take pictures of plants, bugs, and birds to learn more about those things to help me have more to talk about with people, I'm not that great at conversations if it's not a topic I know a bit about, and besides it never hurts to know things that could be useful and beneficial, such as purslane, a common garden succulent, is edible and a high source of iron. I could go on but like this comment would be way too long. - I think of how if I don't do this thing, it won't magically do itself, and it'll just keep building up until I do it, in fact, if I procrastinate on something, I can't stop thinking about it or worrying about it until I do it. I know your mind is different than mine, so that wont be helpful for you, but what might be is put your Ne to work and for example if you have to clean, imagine you're working for some evil rich person and the way you put together an escape/revenge plan is by working for them, cleaning for them, getting close to their personal stuff, I know this is getting into the realm of wtf-ness but I figure an INFP might be open too the idea and it might help. Also another thing I like to think with regards to difficult conversations is, a few moments of discomfort is better than a lifetime of pain and regret. It's like getting a shot, it sucks, but once it's over, it's over and you may feel not that great afterwards, but in the long term, you'll only grow stronger and more resilient. - I love the thrill of accomplishing things and creating things that can be used. I mentioned gardening earlier in this comment, and I feel accomplished that I cleared out a bunch of grass, weeds, etc from a flowerbed that hadn't been touched in over a year, that I grew plants from the time they were seeds to the time they were food, they weren't very big, but they tasted like they should so I'll call it a success. I also mentioned knitting, this skill has so many uses, not only can many useful things be knitted ranging from cleaning cloths to clean your dishes, all the way to full outfits, but it's also a good conversation topic, and I like simplifying different knit stitches for people. Making videos like this is a great start. - Another thing I think is, I come this far, if I stop now, it'll all be for nothing, what an annoying waste of time. - I think it's cool that you want to improve your quality of life as a person, but it's okay to be how you are as well, I'll admit that I get annoyed when people don't just do what they're supposed to do, and what to me seems like would be the most efficient way of doing things, it seems like people overcomplicate things and worry about things they shouldn't, and that's kind of annoying. However, you're you for a reason, just how I'm me for a reason, we have our strengths and weaknesses and they're both useful. Here is how I see INFPs as being useful, it's stereotypical but their passion and how they bring it into writing and art can in turn strike passion and hope in the hearts of other people, giving them the strength they need to carry on, sometimes when hope is lost, hope is all someone has, and that's how I see INFPs, as being the representative of hope. ISFPs are willpower if you were curious what I thought of the other Fi dom, if you weren't whatever, I'm an extroverted thinker, I love extroverting my thoughts lmao. This last point was less of an advice and more of an, even if you don't succeed don't feel bad about how you are as a person because as annoying as they can be sometimes, INFPs are actually really smart, dedicated, and not sensitive little babies that people think they are. They're open minded, stick to what they believe, even if it can be irrational, I still admire that they stand by their principles, I might sometimes go against them, and they might sometimes go against me, but at the end of the day, I probably should have added a lot of this in the comment asking my opinion on INFPs, but I didn't think about that at the time. I guess your first big task is reading this long af comment lmao, good luck.

@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks I'm flattered lmao

@@MrYevelnad aww haha I love it when a Ti Dom says something illogical 😆it's adorable 💝 thank you for watching!!

@@Esyueleyef Aww I'm glad I was able to be useful to you hehe 🥰🥰 thank you for your kinds words! With some dedication, hard work and my creativity, numbers will be way up one day 😤😤😤😤🔥

@@arrozzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz3843 HAHAHHA that's how I want to be complimented 🤣🤣🤣 love you! Thank you for watching !! Were you able to guess your dominant and inferior function 👀?

@@vasizzlenilla AWWWW well that's what I'm here for babe 😚 you're the sweetest!!!! Next video will probably be about how to differentiate each type with examples (sketch) hihi. Were you able to guess what's your dominant and inferior function? 👀

@@AnikaTheINFPThis video dragged me down the MBTI function rabbit hole internet search 2 months before now, new obsession 😭

@@vasizzlenilla omg that's so cute!! More content coming up I promise 😍😍🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ you're gonna like my next one 👀🤭 What do you know? And Is there anything you would like to know ? 👀📝

​@@AnikaTheINFP Thanks for asking, but I think I'm pretty much fine! I watched your previous video and I LOVED it! It's MAD interesting and I would like to wish you a happy happy birthday :D! From and INxP, to an INxP! Love your content and wish you an advanced Merry Christmas :3

@@vasizzlenilla aww thank you so much !! I'm glad you're enjoying my content! I will definitely keep on working hard! And wtf do you mean merry Christmas?! HAPPY HALLOWEEN GIRLY THE BEST HOLIDAY HAHAH 🎃👻

Are you an ENTJ or do you have an ENTJ father? I totally agree btw haha they are called the commander for a reason >.< . But good thing they cannot resist INFPs hehe I am daddy's princess.

je parle francais aussi hihiii

@@chestercobblepot7839 It is a "clown edition" maybe I'm planning to make more 😋

you totally should! These were great!

@@chestercobblepot7839 omg thank god 😭 I thought you were my first hater 😆 I'm glad you liked it ! Next time I'll make a video I'll put in paratheses or in the thumbnail what edition it is 😊😘

Nah, didn’t mean to be rude! You keep doing your thing!

@@chestercobblepot7839 hehe thank you sweetheart! ☺️ Your comments made me happy!

@@SaeedSanjar hehe thank you 😋🤭

@@SaeedSanjar I'm glad you saw the secret ending 😆

@@SaeedSanjar oh yeah do I look like a typical infp? 😆

@@kskskksks3045 no what 🤔

@@theghoulash Aww glad it was helpful🥰🥰 thank you for watching cutie 🫶

@@vasizzlenilla AWWW I live for these comments 🥺🥺🫶🫶 I'm so glad it was helpful. Thank you thank you 🙏

@@Amy_atardisThat is SOO SOO SWEET. I'm so glad you liked it, thank you sweetie 🥺🥺🫶🫶

Omg I'm so happy to hear that!! You made my day thank you ❤️❤️ I'll work harder 😭✨✨

I'll answer this as an extrovert with an extrovert brother and an extrovert friend. I tried pineapple on pizza because I'm not going to say I like or dislike something without trying it, it wasn't bad, but I also wouldn't get it again, the warm pineapples weren't for me. My brother wasn't even willing to try them because he hates pineapples, despite sometimes things that are gross alone tasting good with other things. My roommate likes it.

@@Shale240 that is EXACTLY how I felt when I tried pineapple on pizza 🤣🤣 it's definitely not a winner for me, but like it's alright, I guess? The warm pineapple definitely throws me off, I actually wonder if people prefer their pineapple warm or if it's because they just like everything pineapple 🍍🤣

@@AnikaTheINFP Haha I'll have to ask my friend what he likes about it, but this makes me think of upside down pineapple cake, which I really liked even warm, so it has warm pineapples. Maybe it was the warm pineapples with the tomato sauce that I didn't like. As for people who liked it, there are people who like demented foods like pickled pigs feet, some tastes are interesting.

@@Shale240 wait I've actually never heard of upside down pineapple cake I had to google it 😂 looks.. pretty I guess! Hahah my dad always told me not to drink milk while eating pineapple. He would legit be concerned for me 🤣 I guess eating it in a cake form should be ok right?

@@AnikaTheINFP Yeah, my grandpa ate it all the time and died in his 80s and not from upside down pineapple cake lmao. I looked up the pineapple milk thing, and while there is some science behind it, it's usually not enough to cause concern except maybe if someone has sensitivities. It's pretty interesting though, I never knew about that lol.

I made another video on my channel about infjs! Go check it out 😘

Hehe I have an ENTJ dad! It's not always easy but I am his princess😋👸

I have one luckilyyy

I'll mention you guys as much as I can 😤😤❤️❤️you guys are not the villain but the hero!!!

Why do you ask 👀👀

Yay! I'm glad you agree, I feel less crazy 🤣😋

INTJs are so handsome!! 😍😍

@@AnikaTheINFPIKR They're so pretty ✨💗😍

Hahaha thank you sweetie 🥰

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Damn I didn't fly lucky you

My friends all voted for pineapple on pizza 😂😭

Oh really , care to explain? 😂

@@AnikaTheINFP You have explained pretty much already. We're cats. Plus we can get direct and honest and that can come off as mean. Not very diplomatic. Sometimes I got mean on purpose because that person had been annoying for long and had it coming. There was this girl whom I told to lose weight and she still kept being flirty with me (despite having a boyfriend) and asked me if I don't find her pretty despite being fat. I coldly reply that I was never attracted to her in the first place (which is actually true, I don't hit on taken folks). I despise those with princess syndrome and would keep it real and make them cry on a perfect opportunity. Although these days I just don't interact with them at all as I can't withstand the drama anymore.

@@AnikaTheINFP That being said, we aren't loyal only because it would be a waste of time. I mean there's some truth to it in the initial phase but we (at least me) would become loyal because I want to be loyal. That's true not just for romantic bonds but also for other kinds of bonds. I have my best buddy and I find him valuable enough to put my life on line for him without hesitation. If you make it to an INTJ's heart, you'll find an INFP within 😉

@@hidum5779 that's cute! Thanks for the explanation! I actually dated an INTJ and I feel like all INTJs are mostly the same for some reason 😂 I did like how my INTJ was comfortable being vulnerable with me and when they like you, they are like a cat bringing you a gift 😂

​@@AnikaTheINFP really, we become infp to people comfortable with. like we'll express our feelings, but still our face will be like 😐 , dont worry intj born with a face like that.

Haha I had bad experiences in the past with entps 😂😅glad you like em!