Rajen and Afiya: Our Life, Our Love
Rajen and Afiya: Our Life, Our Love
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Marriage vs Independence Which is Better for MEN?
In this episode, we’re diving into a controversial topic: Marriage vs Independence which is better for men?
We explore the perspectives of those who believe marriage leaves men exposed and vulnerable to painful divorces, emotional strain, and financial loss. Rajen shares his unique insights as a married man, reflecting on the challenges and rewards of being in a committed partnership.
Is marriage a trap for men, or is it society’s skewed perception of relationships that’s fueling this narrative? Join us as we unpack this thought-provoking topic with honesty, humor, and a sprinkle of love.
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What's the Secret to My Indian Husband's Mouthwatering Jamaican Soup?
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.19 часов назад
In this video, watch my Indian husband, Rajen step into the kitchen to cook a mouthwatering Jamaican dish. We take you through the ingredients needed to make this hearty and flavourful soup, blending traditional Caribbean flavours with Rajen’s own style. From fresh ground provisions to perfectly seasoned dumplings, this soup is the ultimate comfort food. Join us as we share laughter, cooking ti...
Saying Goodbye to Canada: The Last Vlog Before Our Flight!
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.14 дней назад
In our final Canada vlog, we bid farewell to Toronto with an unforgettable day of adventures. Join us as we try ice skating for the first time (with a few slips and laughs!), explore the vibrant streets of downtown, and indulge in some delicious local bites. From iconic landmarks to hidden gems, we soak up every last bit of this incredible city before saying our goodbyes. Thank you for coming a...
6 Things We Did in Canada as Tourists in Winter
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.21 день назад
Welcome back to Part 2 of our Canada trip! In this episode, we take you along as we show you the 6 things we did in Canada as tourists for the first time Explore with the freedom of a rental car, making stops at iconic spots. Witness the breathtaking beauty of Niagara Falls. Ring in the New Year with a cozy meal and a lively countdown at a club. Visit the stunning Blue Mountain and try Canadian...
Can You Really Get a Fresh Start After a Near Death Experience?
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.21 день назад
In this special New Year’s Eve episode, we discuss whether you can really get a fresh start after a near death experience. We reflect on what it means to be human, evaluating how far we’ve come and the steps we can take to make the coming year even better. We dive into the powerful topic of second chances-those rare opportunities to reset, grow, and redefine our paths. Rajen opens up about a co...
Celebrating Christmas in Canada! 🇨🇦
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.28 дней назад
This year, we celebrated Christmas in Canada with Afiya's family, and it was an unforgettable experience! 🎁❄️ This trip was totally spur-of-the-moment-we scored a last-minute deal that we just couldn’t pass up. From cozy moments with family to soaking in the festive vibes, we’re excited to share it all with you. Stay tuned for Part 2 because the holiday fun isn’t over yet-more vlogs are coming ...
Christmas Special - Hated Christmas Growing Up
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.Месяц назад
In this Christmas special episode of Our Life, Our Love podcast, we talk about what Christmas means to us and reflect on some of our favorite holiday movies and songs. It's a special episode from us to you beautiful people who have supported us along the way. We also dive into the pressure that can come with celebrating the season, sharing our thoughts on balancing joy and expectations. While i...
Our Magical Day at Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.Месяц назад
We spent a magical day at Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park and had an unforgettable time! From indulging in delicious churros and donuts to stepping into the stunning ice bar filled with intricate ice sculptures, music, and drinks served in icy cups-it was an adventure to remember. Afiya also faced her fear of heights on the Ferris wheel (spoiler: she instantly regretted it, and we couldn’t stop ...
How Race Shaped Our Love Story || Blindian Couple || Interracial
Просмотров 6 тыс.Месяц назад
In this video, titled "How Race Shaped Our Love Story," we open up about how being in an interracial relationship has profoundly influenced our lives and experiences. From unexpected reactions while traveling to deeply personal moments, we discuss how race has impacted the way people perceive us. We share encounters we’ve had on holidays, including some memorable moments during our trip to Barb...
Chill with us in DR 🇩🇴 Last day Uber Soca Cruise + Miami
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.2 месяца назад
Chill with us in DR 🇩🇴 Last day Uber Soca Cruise Miami
What St. Croix US Virgin Islands is really like
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.2 месяца назад
What St. Croix US Virgin Islands is really like
First Cruise Adventures as a Married Interracial Couple!
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.2 месяца назад
First Cruise Adventures as a Married Interracial Couple!
The trouble we had getting into America - Almost denied!
Просмотров 3,8 тыс.2 месяца назад
The trouble we had getting into America - Almost denied!
NAVRATRI VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 8 тыс.3 месяца назад
NAVRATRI VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Our Reactions (and Experience) Monsters: Erik and Lyle Story
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.3 месяца назад
Our Reactions (and Experience) Monsters: Erik and Lyle Story
REACTIONS AND COMMENTS || WOULD YOU RATHER #discrimination #podcast
Просмотров 2,1 тыс.4 месяца назад
REACTIONS AND COMMENTS || WOULD YOU RATHER #discrimination #podcast
DISCRIMINATION || OUR EXPERIENCES
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.4 месяца назад
DISCRIMINATION || OUR EXPERIENCES
INSECURITIES, SHARING EXPERIENCES || INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP
Просмотров 3,4 тыс.4 месяца назад
INSECURITIES, SHARING EXPERIENCES || INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP
NOTTING HILL CARNIVAL 2024 + KES || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 6 тыс.4 месяца назад
NOTTING HILL CARNIVAL 2024 KES || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
BEACH DAY AND INDIAN FESTIVAL VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 3,5 тыс.5 месяцев назад
BEACH DAY AND INDIAN FESTIVAL VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
How We Spent Under 24 Hours in Paris
Просмотров 3,1 тыс.5 месяцев назад
How We Spent Under 24 Hours in Paris
STAYCATION MADNESS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 4,6 тыс.5 месяцев назад
STAYCATION MADNESS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
LONDON CHAOS VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.5 месяцев назад
LONDON CHAOS VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
TELLING YOUR PARENTS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 3,7 тыс.5 месяцев назад
TELLING YOUR PARENTS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
SPILLING THE TEA PAST RELATIONSHIPS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 3,8 тыс.6 месяцев назад
SPILLING THE TEA PAST RELATIONSHIPS || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Q&A CHILLED WEEKEND WITH US VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 4 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Q&A CHILLED WEEKEND WITH US VLOG || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
OUR FIRST EVER VLOG! || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 4,7 тыс.6 месяцев назад
OUR FIRST EVER VLOG! || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
NAVIGATING PUBLIC STARES: OUR INTERRACIAL STORY || BLINDIAN
Просмотров 9 тыс.6 месяцев назад
NAVIGATING PUBLIC STARES: OUR INTERRACIAL STORY || BLINDIAN
HEARING LOSS + MENTAL HEALTH || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 11 тыс.7 месяцев назад
HEARING LOSS MENTAL HEALTH || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
HONEYMOON + TV ADVERT || INTERRACIAL COUPLE
Просмотров 8 тыс.7 месяцев назад
HONEYMOON TV ADVERT || INTERRACIAL COUPLE

Комментарии

  • @sumairshirazi
    @sumairshirazi 57 минут назад

    I would say independence

  • @denisehazlewood5192
    @denisehazlewood5192 4 часа назад

    Thanks Rajen and Afiya for tackling these hard but important topics. You will never know who you are helping to navigate through life with exposing all possible perspectives. Thanks again for your great podcast.

  • @seraphinecharles5623
    @seraphinecharles5623 5 часов назад

    Any body who married for material reasons and not for love it just won’t last 😢

  • @Reborn2h2o
    @Reborn2h2o 5 часов назад

    Hope it isn't the flu. It's rampant in the States. My husband and I both got it and we have never had it before.

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow 5 часов назад

    Great ep! Learn from past relationships, yes. Also Rajen raised a good point about pre nups being made to ensure both people are okay should anything happen. I love the wisdom between you two. Def among my fav couples online.

  • @ang3956
    @ang3956 10 часов назад

    Love this one guys great topic 😊 Firstly I'm suspicious what's Afiya hiding underneath that cushion 😂 you know I'm ready for beautiful nephew or niece 🥰😃 don't tease me 😅 I loved the way you broke it down about marriage and commitment and I can see you are both on the same page with your future goals for a successful marriage ❤ As for the lack of black Caribbean marriages unfortunately this has worsened since early 2000s for black women in particular when it comes to being 'chosen' by a black Caribbean male especially in the UK they prefer to date non black women which we have no control over, however I noticed that the black African community are not affected with such low numbers as they tend to marry within their culture. Anyway guys keep up the great work and even at my old age thanks for inspiring me to not give up on finding a loving caring husband ❤️

  • @Rosemoon.5
    @Rosemoon.5 12 часов назад

    I always wonder about marriage. Like I wonder if one partner is more more in love with other partner when in marriage! And I wonder what does it look like when in marriage? Does that person’s heart loves more and more for that partner? Because sometime I have thought of where this person love the partner but then when get married, this person become I guess resentment toward this person. Is that the case? Sorry if I’m not making any sense or doesn’t make sense. Hopefully it make sense!

  • @rhondarhonda9688
    @rhondarhonda9688 13 часов назад

    😊Hello Mr & Mrs Rajen&Afiya; This is grrrrreat, & very thought provoking. Hence Prenup is a synonymous to business transaction & a form of customer receipt. - Hmm, might try that vanilla in dumplings-that's innovation. Good morning! Happy Monday! 27/1/2025 🇬🇧

  • @mapledaleguy
    @mapledaleguy 14 часов назад

    Great topic guys. Totally enjoyed this one!!!

  • @GinaGeeILuvu
    @GinaGeeILuvu 14 часов назад

    You guys are one of my favorite couples. I do want to point out that there are a lot of wealthy women who get taken for a ride and lose a lot of money in divorce too because of no prenup, like, Whoopi Goldberg, Sherry Shepherd, Halle Berry, and many more! These women had to pay out huge sums of money for alimony! It's not just a man thing, Rajen!

  • @naisimar22
    @naisimar22 14 часов назад

    Guys you actually speak about good stuff and different topics which is good, ALSO STARTED CREASING WITH AFIYA WHEN SHE SAID 'LINKING WITH GYAL FOR 15 YEARS' LOOOOOOOOOL

  • @Flwr1203
    @Flwr1203 19 часов назад

    Great episode. I definitely agree with Afiya. I like a more traditional style. Here in the states, it seems like cheating or some form of infidelity is the root of relationships/ marriages ending. Also relating to Rajen, I can’t remember if I read this in an article or saw it on another podcast but apparently single people have shorter life spans too on top of the depression.

  • @ritchieb1612
    @ritchieb1612 19 часов назад

    Wise beyond your years... 🥰

  • @purpleness64
    @purpleness64 19 часов назад

    Very shady....

  • @purpleness64
    @purpleness64 19 часов назад

    What a cozy corner and set up!!

  • @yvonnegordon7125
    @yvonnegordon7125 20 часов назад

    HW Atlanta Todd & Kandy Burruss

  • @roserussellperry1719
    @roserussellperry1719 20 часов назад

    I don't care how long or short you date or live together. Once you get married a lot of people change because of that piece of paper. Longevity it about the give and take in a relationship, mutual respect. Rarely is a relationship fifty fifty. As we go through life we are constantly evolving but not necessarily at the same pace. Then is when cracks in relationships start to show and how you handle those is a determining factor on whether you will survive in this relationship or not.

  • @LEEHTNMANLET
    @LEEHTNMANLET День назад

    Indian

  • @nevertoooldtolearn1928
    @nevertoooldtolearn1928 День назад

    Congratulations!!!

  • @patokonta5036
    @patokonta5036 2 дня назад

    Vanilla in the soup dimplings😮 The soup looks delish tho

  • @velmabrookes8567
    @velmabrookes8567 3 дня назад

    Congratulations on your wedding! May God bless your union! 🙏🏽❤️👏🏽🎂🎁🍾🍷😃

  • @velmabrookes8567
    @velmabrookes8567 3 дня назад

    Just happened to come across your video and was so clued to it! Love your videos! I’ve been watching them. Love how you two laugh so much. Just have me smiling through out! I’ve subscribed! Looking forward to more interesting contents! 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️

  • @kayveea4534
    @kayveea4534 3 дня назад

    Yummy

  • @kayveea4534
    @kayveea4534 3 дня назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @kcbruno1564
    @kcbruno1564 4 дня назад

    really proud of the approach you guys have taken and the manner in which you have addressed the issues you were having. Is that a Trinidad and Tobago necklace your wearing ?

  • @VARMOT123
    @VARMOT123 4 дня назад

    Rajen needs to understand how chinese bank robber fallacy works with regards to crime in big countries and how big and diverse india is . Most Indian states are super safe for a developing country

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      No I understand what you mean. My fear can be irrational but at the same time I do feel it's valid given that there will be language barrier issue and general fear of safety. That's not to say I would never go, we will definitely go. Maybe feel more comfortable with a group, at least for the first time. I've also had friends that went just a small group of females and I was told they actually feared for their safety at times in tourist places.

  • @VARMOT123
    @VARMOT123 4 дня назад

    Is that holi ?

  • @paulachin9130
    @paulachin9130 5 дней назад

    Guys, I literally made this soup 5 days ago and had not done so for a long time, that's bad as a Jamaican to not do this often. I'm on it, and yours looks amazing. I can literally taste it by looking at you guys eating it.

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Haha no it's okay to not make it for a while. Makes cooking more fun and definitely more enjoyable if you don't have it too frequently! Thank you for watching and commenting!

  • @michellebarrett9597
    @michellebarrett9597 5 дней назад

    Loved the vlog, hi from Miami Beach ⛱️

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Aww thank you! Miami Beach! We were there a few months ago!

  • @Shahanara-m3e
    @Shahanara-m3e 6 дней назад

    I saw you both on the tube last year and was so excited! I was too shy to say come over and say hello and i. Sure you would have appreciated your privacy too. Hope youre both well, I enjoy your videos and stories!

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Haha no way!! Bless you! You should definitely have said hello! No we love socialising. Thank you for watching and supporting us ❤️

  • @Flwr1203
    @Flwr1203 6 дней назад

    I started dating an Indian guy from Haryana about 7 months ago. I’ve been listening and seeing so many things on RUclips/reddit to prepare myself for the best and worst case scenarios. Researching is how I found this channel. I never really see a similar interracial pairing. He told me his older brother had a love marriage (with an Indian woman), so he feels his family will accept me. I still have my doubts as a Christian black woman who eats meat and knows only one word of Hindi! 😂They still don’t know he’s even dating me. Only time will tell. But hopefully he’s willing to stand up for me in any scenario.

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Hey!! Thank you for sharing and commenting! We have heard of stories where the guy's family is from India and he lives in the States and the parents are accepting of the relationship. You will be fine ☺️. As long as you both stand strong together no matter what. Keep us posted. We would love to hear an update. We wish you both the best ❤️

    • @Flwr1203
      @Flwr1203 4 дня назад

      ⁠@RajenandAfiya I appreciate you guys. 😊

  • @Flwr1203
    @Flwr1203 6 дней назад

    Just came across this video after subscribing. I rarely comment but, Love watching your videos from the U.S. Thank you for sharing your story. I can definitely relate. My mom was also a single mom of three and i’m the eldest. My mom was everything to me. She battled lupus majority of my life, but I was never prepared for her to go. She was so strong and brave. She passed in 2022 she was 43 and I was 23. I cry so often, missing her and just feeling incomplete really. Im learning to understand God released her from pain. They still live within us, blessing and peace to you and your family. 💕

  • @yanni_yann
    @yanni_yann 6 дней назад

    You guys are beautiful and strong. Afiya, you’re my namesake, and Rajen, you’re wearing my country’s pendant on your chain which makes me love you guys more and more. All my love to you both. ❤❤❤

  • @gloriathomas1071
    @gloriathomas1071 7 дней назад

    You guys crack me up! Wish you the best. You are so good together.

  • @jullainehardinge8811
    @jullainehardinge8811 7 дней назад

    Looks perfect. Great job. Try using salmon. Do everything the same just add the salmon last. I notice you did not have to mash up the squash to give the soup colour, it looked like it dissolve on it’s own. Looks really nice. And I see you both really enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Thank you! Yes, butternut squash dissolves quickly when you add it earlier on. That sounds interesting. We will definitely try with Salmon 😁

  • @jullainehardinge8811
    @jullainehardinge8811 7 дней назад

    Looks perfect. Great job. Try using salmon. Do everything the same just add the salmon last. I notice you did not have to mash up the squash to give the soup colour, it looked like it dissolve on it’s own. Looks really nice. And I see you both really enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Samantha-f8d3q
    @Samantha-f8d3q 7 дней назад

    I hope that. The men doing this trend understand that they were just fine and quite attractive before

  • @judithwilliams174
    @judithwilliams174 7 дней назад

    Nice seeing you cooking. Looking forward to see another dish👍🏽🥳 Rajen's " Don't come at us"😂😂 Take no notice if they do👍🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Haha thank you!! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @ssonkogarvey
    @ssonkogarvey 7 дней назад

    I was like whereee is the soup mix, was added at the end 😅. Beautiful, must try with some king prawns next.

  • @B.K-w4o
    @B.K-w4o 7 дней назад

    Hello Rajen and Afiya! Sorry to hear that you are not feelling well! 😔 Please get well soon! The soup looks amazing and delicious! 🥘😋 This is hysterical as I just made a big pot of Jamacian curry chicken soup this week as we are in the midst of a below zero bone-chillng Polor Vortex!!🥶😰 This beautiful soup for the soul is right on time!♥♥♥♥ Rajen, you are a skilled cook👨‍🍳♥♥ and I love that you do a fair share of the cooking. I was trying not to laugh as you were stealling the bowl from Afiya! LOL! Very cute!♥♥♥ I will try this soup recipe next week, except for the Scotch Bonnet (too hot for me!). It would be great if you could share more cooking videos of the different foods including soups that you love. I would love to try new recipes! I love garlic and actually grow my own garlic, so any soup that features garlic (lots), I would love to try! Thank you again for sharing! Sending love from the USA!♥🥰♥

  • @ritchieb1612
    @ritchieb1612 7 дней назад

    The thing is my wife was making soup as well not your soup but soup never the lest, both looked delicious. You two can burn some pots😋😋

    • @RajenandAfiya
      @RajenandAfiya 4 дня назад

      Haha the soup always goes quick!! Probably last 2 days for us! Haha!

  • @gwendee5070
    @gwendee5070 8 дней назад

    Love it! Great video, I can smell the soup via my screen lol. I was wondering if you both do movie reactions? There's a movie called "Golden Child" with Eddie Murphy that I would love to hear your take or reaction on it.

  • @rhondarhonda9688
    @rhondarhonda9688 8 дней назад

    👋🏽 Helloooow Mr & Mrs Rajen & Afiya; Happy Sunday! 7:35pm 19/1/2025 🇬🇧

  • @iahmeniah1love
    @iahmeniah1love 8 дней назад

    That is not a Jamaican soup, that is a JamIndia soup 😂😂😂 Did you say vanilla in the dumplings? Looks good though……you’ll put your own twist on it, Stay well and Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂❤

  • @deni8688
    @deni8688 8 дней назад

    Beautiful people, beautiful food. 👍🏽👍🏽

  • @purpleness64
    @purpleness64 8 дней назад

    Saturday soup 🍲