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Wow x congratulations on so many things 🙏💖 I was so sad to hear about how the doctor treated you, how awful, I can relate, when I was in my early 20's (now 44) I was raped & I went to a clinic to talk to someone & she lectured me on how I was dressed and that us girls all ask for it looking the way we do! Needless to say I didn't go further. I have now healed from it & did it myself & have a wonderful hubby now so I'm at peace with it all 💚 so happy for you, I hope you really enjoy your new job x Sam 🙏🌈

Can’t comment on your newest video as comments are turned off but I really randomly thought of you today, went on your channel to see if you’d posted recently and it came up as an update 1 hour ago!! Super weird. Glad to see you’re doing wel and landed your dream job, everything works out in the end 🥰

Hello Nathan. Hope you are well. Will you be doing any more updates. I’ve missed your videos

Very useful thank you.

Beautiful use of positive language "our love doesn't change" that's all children need... Love 💚

This really made me think, thank you so much for your thoughts. Its a topic ive thought a lot about and its nice to hear a really well thought through point of view on it. I have always felt really strongly about the polarisations in toys, the same as you but there really are so many layers, so thank you again x

That’s a man

Oh, my sweet. My heart hurts for you as you struggle through this and wage war against an enemy that you don’t know how to fight. You even said it yourself, those demons are oppressing you. But I know Someone who can set you free and deliver you from those demons. His name is Jesus. He loves you so much and paid a huge price to see you delivered so that He could have a wonderful friendship with you. Seek him out. He loves you and longs to reveal himself to you. ... Hugs and more hugs, my friend. I believe that today is the day of change. Somethings going to happen today and you are going to have a God-encounter. Faith moves mountains and casts out demons!!! Peace to you, my friend.

So sad about the home and birth centre births. 😢

Nice channel, keep it up. I think you should take a look at SMZeus . c o m it will help you get the views you deserve!

Thank you for this Nathan! X

I think you are all incredible and brave and amazing

Very well thought through and explained 👍

Such an interesting video!

Hi Nathan, I was signposted to your vlogs because I was at the MVP meeting you attended today and away from my role as co-chair of that group, I figured that this is the best place for me to dump a comment! Thank you for these videos and the work that you do. My personal story involving trans life is that my sister in law is MTF and going through physical transition. It was all very sudden and not particularly predictable, which made witnessing her life in that euphoric moment feel very shaky, unrelatable and uncomfortable, especially when it came to explaining the sudden transition to our children. I've constantly been seeking more insight into how it feels to be trans and I have to say I find your videos the most helpful. And thank you so much for coming along to our meeting.

I have one daughter and three sons. There is no such thing as gender stereotypical toys in our home! 😆 Buy play dough or drawing pads for other peoples kids! That's what I do!

Yay. It’s been so long. Good to see you again

This video was such a joy to watch

Really summed it up well. I used to bind before top surgery and it was uncomfortable and hot (although less so once I was on T as my chest became less sensitive to pressure). I also used to pack until I started having a relationship with someone who gave me the confidence to be myself, if that makes sense.

Unfortunately, there will always be people like this Nathan. People still have such preconceived notions about trans individuals and you can't please everyone. See it more that she wasn't the client for you rather than you weren't the midwife for her.

Oh dude! You are so bloody strong to be talking about these issues and be so caring and loving. Proof of what an incredible health care professional you are. I hope one day you won’t need to put on a brave face or sacrificing yourself and your identity for others. ❤️ I love you dude

Have seen you post on the group and was so excited to see that you had a RUclips channel!! Loved this video, I'm just so sorry for all the hard moments you've had ❤ as a S/M, it's really great to see someone posting such important content like this!

Don’t you change for anyone! You are Nathan! The families who do not wish to be cared for by you are missing out on having a fantastic, caring and knowledgable midwife. They are choosing to miss out on this! However you should never feel guilty. Women choose different midwives, doctors etc for lots of different reasons, and that’s ok. We are very lucky that we have the right to choose! Keep going! I bet those women that have refused your care will hear from a friend or something about this fantastic trans midwife who cares for them and they will feel sorry that they judged you x

Just be your lovely true self. I really enjoyed listening to your story. I could speak to you for hours. Stay positive. We will all be judged in one way or another regardless. That’s just humans for you. Much love x

I’ve been a ‘lurker’ on your channel for quite some time and I’ve watched every video you’ve made. I just wanted to say thank you for so openly sharing your story with us, you come across as so relatable and likeable. There’s always a smile on your face and you bring energy and enthusiasm to everything you talk about! It’s also really interesting hearing of your experience of being newly qualified as there’s really very little out there on social media about this yet lots about being a student. I qualified last July but only worked two months before having to go off with pregnancy related health issues and by the time I return next April I will have been off 17 months! I am petrified of returning if I’m totally honest haha!

Whoop whoop newly subscribed, Loving the energy!! Ooooo I can’t wait to qualify!!! I start studies in 2 weeks😻😻<< floyd... I love your videos they are so insightful!

Hi Nathan. My maternal instincts are drawing me towards you, maybe it’s compounded by your ginger ness ( two of my children are red headed ) . You are clever and balanced and I wish there was a power or magic to make your Struggles less dysphoric. Excuse me for veering out of my lane but if I Can offer one gift , it would be to transition to plant based foods unprocessed. I am being serious. I say this from a place of admiration.

This is so helpful, thank you so much!

Thank you for doing this work! My husband gave birth to our beautiful daughter 15 months ago and we are just now settling down after the hormonal/emotional/life change turmoil. It was a lot!

Dear people - thank you for fiercely defending me and in effect so many other trans people who do not fit perfectly into the little boxes that certain people cannot see beyond. I have made the decision to block that person mainly because they were being viciously transphobic by the end saying 'men can't have babies' as well as truscum. And I don't want others perhaps more delicate or confused than me to read that and doubt their identity. To clarify, I am not confused about who I am, I am just a complex human with different experiences. The good thing about the commenter is they have got this video like 400 views in a day ;) ahah

Crazy informative! The world needs more of you, many people want to learn but are scared to ask. You however give the answers to some questions we didn't even know we had. Thank you ❤️❤️

YOU GO BABY BOY ❤ YOU'RE MAKING THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE FOR EVERYONE xxxxxxxxxxx

I would just like to say thank you for talking so honest about these feeling and explaining them.

Thank you! So informative and helpful. Are there any other resources you can point me to regarding trans care in maternity? I have my dissertation in mind!

when you said she sometimes says "my other dad" my heart was so full OMG💔

Thanks, I'm still working out what I think about so many transgender-related matters but you are doing a great job of informing and adding to my knowledge. Good videos, very clear. Best wishes.

Oh god I'm so sorry you went through this but it is hilarious when you say things like 'either she thinks trans people don't have sex with their genitals or...' made me lol x

Ahh I know how you feel with the Nebido I started last year and I still get a bit of pain my but cheek just getting used to being stabbed 🤣

I can't believe the doctor who was rubbish about the contraception question!

Thank you Nathan for taking the time to plan and put together this video. I found it very interesting and insightful. Do we know if there is any research being conducted currently?

I don't find it a strange rant. I think it's fantastic to have a resource to be able to learn some of the terminology, and customs, of an aspect of life that I am not familiar with. Thank you for sharing your heart & thoughts. I will be more considerate of how much it matters to "pass", and be more aware of the impact of my curiosity.

Thankyou, so helpful

I am not a birth worker but I found this video extremely cool and interesting!