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thanks for liking my comment, i need to figure out how to start one of these channels, cause honestly, i'd like to share this, don't care what others think, figure out whom you are and live it. Is this easy, not at all, but its better, i'm not a philosophy nut, but, i did read something by a german philosopher and then by Camus, but stop relying on what others tell you, you should be, cause if you buy into that, you will never be happy because your self then is always based on another, and if they are not there then what do you have to gage yourself on unless you have a sense of yourself for yourself. This shouldn't mean to be a selfish nihilistic unkind individual, but honestly, at this point i really don't care if i pass or pass by someone whom wants to criticize me for being the woman i am, some days i want a dress and a full face of make up, other days its out the door in van, jeans and a T-shirt and not allot of make up, none of that makes me female. And i wear as much or as little as i want, when i first started i put on an hour of make up, yah was sort of slow, but i can do that in thirty, now for the most part its BB cream, a little concealer, eyeliner and mascara and out the door. Life's to precocious and wonderful and while i'm a calm soul, so no, not going sky diving or to raves or what not, i'd much rather swim, walk a park, get a cup of coffee or do yoga. But most importantly, figure out whom you are and be honest, cause you are you, they are they, we share some space, but more importantly in figuring out whom i am i respect all other for whom they are unless they are hurting others, which is not right, no one should feel hurt or ashamed of whom they are or want to be. But, one last, little point, is simply, be respectful to one another, even if a person doesn't pass or you can tell is trying failing, doesn't have to trans, could be someone trying to learn to draw or cook or what ever they want to try to do, be supportive and respectful and help them if you can to succeed. Lets prop one another up instead of keeping one another down. have a wonderful day, make some magic for yourself cause life is to amazing not enjoy it. P.S. to anyone whom is reading this let me say, yes of course i love it when another woman goes hey Mam or hey miss how you doing, but i don't count on it or need, one of the most empowering early moments i had was i was just completely out to all immediate family and made it a point when visiting my brother in oakland that i was not bring a lick of or dressing not as the female i new i was. But, was in an Uniglo with my Sister In-Law and had to pee, i was scared but she said well go to the bathroom, but i want to try on clothes, so i said okay. Clerk said let me get you the door mam, which was awesome, but got in, and with a minute two other woman walked in, i thought, oh god they are going to shame me and make me feel horrible. Had to wait cause another woman for some reason decided to clog one of two toilets with a whole role of unused toilet paper, but, one woman was unkind, she said you know you could just go use the other restroom, but thankfully the other woman behind her said, hey, when she's done going to bathroom if you don't want to go after her i am. and then as finishing up shopping this woman came up to me and said excuse me miss don't let anyone one tell you whom you are, you look fabulous today, love your eyeshadow and be proud to be you. This is what we need to do for one another LGBTQ or what not, raise one another up instead of putting one another down. Oh and Happy Woman's day to ALL woman, don't let your adjective define you, fat-thin-tall-race-cis or straight all woman are woman and all amazing, its our day to day lets show everyone how amazing we as woman our not just for ourselves but in making the world a better place for everyone. lots of love, bye.

Sorry for the late reply Junstina, The holidays were insane for me. I look forward to putting out more videos soon and will definetely touch on this subject :)

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