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Simply Selina
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Добавлен 14 мар 2024
I’m Selina, a recovering overachiever and people pleaser with an MSc. in Psychology 🧠 After years in the academic world, I realized it’s a bit removed from the challenges of everyday life. That’s why I started this channel-to share what I’ve learned and help you (and me!) grow into a better version of ourselves, enjoy life, and figure out this whole adulting thing along the way 🌱.
Stick around if you want:
- Practical tips for personal growth (no overwhelming theory, just things that work) 💪🤓
- Honest conversations about failure, self-doubt, and the messy side of improvement 🔥
- A dose of positivity as we navigate this journey together ✨
This is a place to learn from each other, build a supportive community, and make progress-without the pressure to be perfect.
Let’s grow, stumble, and laugh through it all! ❤️
Stick around if you want:
- Practical tips for personal growth (no overwhelming theory, just things that work) 💪🤓
- Honest conversations about failure, self-doubt, and the messy side of improvement 🔥
- A dose of positivity as we navigate this journey together ✨
This is a place to learn from each other, build a supportive community, and make progress-without the pressure to be perfect.
Let’s grow, stumble, and laugh through it all! ❤️
How Friends Affect Your Life (And How to Build a Better Social Circle)
Did you know that the people in your social circle might be either holding you back or lifting you higher? Your friends influence more than just your mood; they shape your goals, habits, and even your self-perception. In this video, I'll reveal:
- How your social circle impacts you and your personal growth & success
- The importance of re-evaluating your friendships for effective self-improvement
- Strategies for attracting individuals who truly inspire and support you.
This isn't about cutting ties; it's about surrounding yourself with positive energy that fosters growth. Let's build a supportive network that makes success, positivity, and self-development infectious 💪
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- How your social circle impacts you and your personal growth & success
- The importance of re-evaluating your friendships for effective self-improvement
- Strategies for attracting individuals who truly inspire and support you.
This isn't about cutting ties; it's about surrounding yourself with positive energy that fosters growth. Let's build a supportive network that makes success, positivity, and self-development infectious 💪
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watch this if you feel like a failure
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Are you failing at the goals you set for yourself? Are you afraid of failure because you've been there so often? It's time to shift your mindset and start failing better! 🔥 Embracing setbacks and obstacles is a crucial part of growth and self improvement. In this video, we'll explore the importance of developing the right mindset building resilience, and finding your purpose despite the failure...
Goal Settings for Beginners: How to know YOUR goals, to finally stay consistent!
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Are you feeling lost or overwhelmed by self-improvement? 🌱 You don't know how to find goals that ACTUALLY matter? Here are easy methods and simple steps (for beginners) to learn how find goals that really matter, so you know where to start your self-improvement :). In this video, I'll guide you through four simple, practical steps to find goals that truly matter to you. Whether you're a persona...
You said 1 long sentence thats - not true - poorly told - poorly wrote - poorly recorded Like whats the fking reason for this video. More you listen to it, funnier it gets. Kid with 0 expirience talking about life. Yop. We dont care. Give us someone smarter/older.
Thats not the only thing (that u have to go somewhere, even if you dont have to) cause those ppl can just dont like you, or you can be a bad person.
3. I dont have to go anywere to connect with amazing people. Like fr i can be looking at my phone at my home and find some.
2. No i dont have to make first step, cause i can be amazig person, someone else will find.
There's so many places. Places you give: -none
You know why u got such a lame views? Cause what you say is true, but how you say it makes me wanna hit you. Like for real. You talk very hard, agressively, you give any anwser, you just act like a person with a lots of wisdom, when you are young, prob. around 20 years old girl. If you wanna make that type of content, at least wear something when you won't look like a pato gang girl who's being pounded by drug dealer. Damn girl. You are posting on YT. Its not ur twitter wall, nor your fb friends list. You talk to real people. They wanna learn or be entertained. You give what? Mad mommy vibes. Shouting for no reson, senseless. But to make it clear. I do wanna help. 1. At least give some knowledge. You look and talk like its easy to meet nice people. And you tell us we should go to interesting places. But you dont give any. It shows us, the viewers, that you know nothing or you are liar, cause its not so easy to find nice people. 2. Talk calmly. Your sharp voice makes me wanna stop hearing you. The words you say are sharp like a blade. You are young kid. Talk like a kid. Not entertaing or smth, but funny places. Nice places. Valuable people? Rly? Talk like a girl you are ffs.q 3. Dont be such a bighead. You look like only one book you read was napkin's brand name. Like for real. And you try to act like you are a proffesor. You are not. Its fake. You give us chance to hate you more. 4. Dont do videos without context. Like fr girl you talk about finding new people or that its hard, but.. bruh, who tf asked. You show no context. Give us some start, give us some ending of the story, cause i feel like i've been sleeping and suddenly woke up in the middle of a conversation. Hope you will get better, cause that video is sh1t.
What is a community that you were first hesitant to join but now are very grateful that you did? 🥰
New friends in my school
What was one boundary you set for in the past? What helped you to keep those boundaries?
Failure is a necessary part of success. Failure is feedback. It's how you learn. A baby doesn't fail each time he falls down. It's the most important part of the process.
I love the perspective of seeing failure as feedback! I feel like, at some point, we often become people who focus so much on how 'successful' others are that we forget they likely 'failed' many times along the way-and those failures were key to their success.
nice video
Thank you! 🙏 what’s your favourite part? 😊
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Thank you for the work you put in to check my videos! Currently I’m using VidIQ for SEO. Any tips on what I could improve? 🤗
What insight did you gain from past failure? For me it's definitely that I've different priorities depending on where I am 😊
When I realized I outgrew some of my friends, it was really devastating. Honestly, it felt like a breakup... So I don't want you to think this might be easy, just give you a bit of hope that despite it feeling awful, something good will result from it! 🤗 Realizing how certain friends really supported me, while others held me back was tough, but helped me to set my priorities and become a better person down the line 🔥 When did you realize that you outgrew a friendship? Have you had a similar experience?
I know this is a young & small channel, but let's build a community where we support each other in our goals right here! 🔥 What is something you would like to improve in?
I'm trying to improve my sleeping habits. I stay up way too late.
Great video. Keep it up! You earned a sub!
Thank you! 🥰
Oh that is a good one! My sleeping patterns got a bit out of hand lately as well. I've a video in planning about how to break habits/get into new habits a bit easier and without a lot of willpower involved. Maybe that approach is also something for you! Stay tuned 🤗
@Simply_Selina Looking forward to it!
What keeps you going after a failure? 🔥
I don't believe in failure.
❤ love this what a lovey energy you have ☀️
Aww thank you! 🙏❤️
Some people say self-criticism is necessary for growth - do you agree, or do you think it does more harm than good? 🤔
When did you fail the last time? And what are you going to try next? 💪🔥
Another Excellent video! Loved everything you said here! Nobody's perfect. And nobody's a finished product. We're all works in progress. I hope I continue failing a ton in the future! That means I'm actually stretching myself and growing.
I love your voice❤❤
Awww thank you so much 🥺
@ I really do, it was soothing to listen to. My spirit likes calm, soothing voices telling their story or educating me. 🙏🏾🩷😍👍🏾
How do you make this wheel?
There are different ways, depending on how personalized you want to make it. The easiest way: Google "wheel of life" and take one of the blank versions you see. The middle way: Take one of the the google versions as a base and customize it a bit more (e.g., the google version shows "health", but you break it further down in "mental health" or "physical health"). The cool way: You think about what different categories there are in life and you write them down. Then you draw a circle with 10 smaller circles inside (so that there are rings). You divide the "main-circle" into little equal pieces (like a pie chart), one for each category you set. Afterwards, you rate for yourself how satisfied you are in each category by filling out the corresponding inner circle. The more satisfied, the further outside the ring you're filling out. Repeat that for all the different categories you chose and DONE 🥳 I hope this was somewhat clear 😅 Let me know if you have any questions about it! I might make a video about it in the future if you're interested 🤗
@ omggggg THANK YOU.. gotta screen shot this and try and make one. I will hv to be honest about scoring where i am in life. ButI want to do it… you are amazing and kind. Thank you again. Keep posting. 🙏🏾🩷😍👍🏾😃
Good luck! I know it can be hard sometimes to really be honest to oneself, but that’s the only way to make progress 🔥
This is interesting..❤❤❤ new sub luv❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏻 More (hopefully) interesting stuff is coming up soon! 💪
What do you want to work on next and why does it matter to you? 🤗
I used to be really big on setting goals and writing them down. But as I've gotten older I've stopped living life by trying to reach a goal, instead I focus on the process of becoming the person that can reach that goal. For example: instead of having a goal of losing 20lbs instead it's become a healthy eater who exercises. It's an identity shift. Instead of a goal of having a thousand subscribers it's to be a person who tries to get better with every video. Starts with identity. Instead of asking What do I want to achieve, ask who do I want to become. Hope that made sense.
Good video. Great tips. Looking forward to your upcoming videos.
That makes perfect sense! Shifting your perceived identity will help you to become that person. For me personally, it helps to "set goals" to see what kind of person I actually want to be. Let's say I use the wheel of life and I see that I feel really unsatisfied with my relationships with others (e.g., with friends). Then I can set simply the goal to meet more people/reach out more often, but I use it also to inform the picture of myself/the identity I want to have (i.e., a person who has fulfilling relationships with her friends). So I think it always depends on how you frame it and what works best for you 🔥
Thank you! The next one is coming up this Sunday 🥰
@@Simply_Selina Looking forward to it!
Have you ever tried out the wheel of life? How was it or why not? 🤔
I've done it before. It's a great exercise! Thanks! Great video!
Happy to hear! Did it help you?
@@Simply_Selina It was a fun exercise but not something I do on the regular.