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5. Is true 😢

4. Depends on whether the actions of other people are not hurtful or harmful, then as a friend if you don't consider these negative actions done toward your friend, then you are not a good friend. So, 4. can go both ways.

Idk what to do 😔

Why was my ex friend literally all of these

FACTS!!!! 😂😂😂

Some people dont understand how HARD it is to go to bed crying every night because of how drained that "friend" can make you feel. I hate it so much.

Wow.... what a beautiful woman!!!!

literally my gf and idk how to deal with it man 😭😭

I don’t enjoy being checked in 😅 when I’m trying to get myself together. Then again I’m an introvert

Stopped being a doormat For them and suddenly I'm toxic Edit I just found that they talked shit abt me

Thanks for the advice! I don’t usually have this problem because I seem to have a lot of bandwidth for heavy emotions. I often find it energizing to have deep dark conversations, but I’ve recently been struggling because a friend with BPD is going through a rough time and I think I’m his favorite person.

Absolutely true

I’m consistently inconsistent with treating my ADHD. When work is going good, my marriage starts falling apart. When my marriage is going good, my finances start suffering. I only address stuff when it starts approaching “crisis” territory. It makes me live in long states of stress on my sympathetic system. Then I eventually crash and have long periods of depression, feeling ashamed and no productivity. This lasts until the next “crisis” and I start to be “productive” again. I know what I’m doing, but I still let it happen. Any pointers, anyone. Tired of living like this…

Nah fuk family , I need them as far as possible. I need talk to a therapist or something

Chair and hand twiching is not a good look .who are you ?

This is so accurate

This is a good video. I like the topics. I am a 5 :)

I am not happiest when i am with them, i feel stressed

6. They make fun of you and when you call them out they say it's a ''joke''

When my mother starts yelling etc I just pack up and leave.i can do that because I don't live with her and I'm an adult. Just leave any situation that is violating your respectful space.

They expect you to drop everything at their slightest ailment, but you could be suicidal and they would act like you're being dramatic.

Your journaling tip at the end made me genuinely tear up. Thank you for a great video

Literally my ex friend. But now she has tried to sexually harass my friends

Sounds like me. Ima 6 with a 5.

omg the first one is so tru i cannot

5. It feels impossible to make peace with the past recalling all I put up with and taking it out on those I love, especially because the past is the reason my life looks as it does 6. Why is it so fucking impossible to succeed in my life? The reality of my life is hell. Most often I'm just being buried alive, and trying desperately to escape

I don't know which is more toxic abt number 4, someone with empathy or someone without empathy

_(❤Free huges here❤)_ . May god bless you and guaid u to the write friendship that leads you to the write path which is paradise 💖🤲🏼ameen 🤲🏼💖

My friend hits me a lot and more stuff like that that is normal right?

6#They drain the shit out of you. 7#They push or bully you infront of your crush. 8#They accuse you for no reason. 9#They uninvite you to things and leave you left out. 10#they ask you for money or if you could buy something for you and pay you back. 11#they shut you down and degrade you on a boy. 12#They disrespect you 13#they act with you one way in public and one way when your alone. And lastly 14#They ask you to drink or go to parties with them and pressure you.

Idk how I never thought of this... Probably because I was too focused on what I did wrong. Every date was memorable, sex was on fire (told me I was the best she ever had multiple times), we were probably a date or 2 from becoming exclusive. Then poof. This is the best mentally healthy explanation.

I cut her off once, but we got back on terms and she hasn't changed at all. It's getting worse tbh🤷🏻‍♀️ and I have no idea what to do anymore.. I'm literally seated next to her in class.

I overthink everything in every second of my life

#5 - in the video Plus these: 1. You stress out any time you see them, hear their name, or think about them. 2. They drain you, and purposely scare/stress you out. 3. They only talk/interact with you when they’re other friends aren’t there and there’s no one they know around. 4. They ignore your opinions and roll they’re eyes at you when you laugh at thing they don’t find funny 5. They make (not on purpose, just you FEEL/do this) you nervous-laugh (idk what it’s called) everytime you try to talk or go near them

Had to have this convo with a friend recently. Came to the same conclusion!

SSRIs have been shown to be Neurotoxic, if you’re taking them you should come off after recovery trying to take them no longer than a year. You can recover without meds, you’ll come back stronger if you can recover correctly without them

44... Male .. a woman will never experience the level of loneliness a man will encounter. She may not be happy with her certain suitor but she can always go out to a bar or anywhere and find temporary companionship something that doesn't come around for years and years and years. Debating on if I want to live to 45

They make fun of your insecurity

Can you help me out with number 5? How can I assign meaning to those thoughts? In what way?

NOPE . PHSYCIATRIC MEDICATIONS PUT A BANDAGE ON DEEPER PHSYCOLOGICAL WOUNDS

Beware the manipulator who will feign “celebration” with you.

This is a video for people with ADHD at three minutes in and I still don’t know what you’re on about. You’ve lost me.

Number 2 is what my friend does to and also number 5 happens to me

You won't believe how this white big is treating me

Well imm I'm in one

I really liked this video girlie. It helped confirmed my suspicions 🥺*I shared many times even emailed, and saved! Just subscribed also, excited to see what your gonna post ❤

Also when their toxic towards their other friends or romantic partners

The people I allow into my circle was cultivated after years of going from being a people pleaser, to not giving a shit about how other people felt about what I had to share. I suddenly became an "asshole" when I stopped letting them walk all over me. I used to be generous, helping above and beyond what I was capable of. I began to realize I was wasting my time, and I sat back and observed how they were around other people, how honest they were, and whether they kept their word. I now have a small group of friends and it keeps getting smaller. I sit back and let their "masks" fall off so I can see who they truly are. Very few people have kept their integrity, honesty, loyalty, trust, and respect. I have reciprocated those same qualities. For them, I have given unconditionally because they have proven to be true friends through everything. Solid people who I love and respect, and would not hesitate to be by their side, even if we annoy the hell out of each other from time to time. If they need me, I'm there; and vice versa.

Every Monday without fail, I have to answer the dreaded question: "so... how was your weekend?" and i always answer with, "It was good. Fine weather. Thanks for asking. How was yours?" or I start listing activities in an awkward, robotic way like "We went camping. There were wasps. I went to the library. It was a good library." I can never tell if they genuinely just want to know or are they just asking as a societal obligation? Am I giving too much information or too little? Then they start telling me about their weekend and now I have to figure out how to react. After that I have to figure out how to transition to the real reason for the meeting without sounding dismissive. But when that transition happens, I can finally breathe. Now I can talk about work. The obligatory small talk is over.

Anti psy