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Maybe not just no remorse but maybe also playing the victim- guilt tripping so you are less likely to see the manipulation.

This is excellent information. Have you seen Dr KJ Foster's take on PAWS? It's also great.

Never heard there can be remission. I’ve always been under the impression that personality is fixed and that most personality disorders are fairly resistant to treatment.

wow, this is exactly what my ex was like

I do have to love that whenever personality disorders such as this are discussed its always in the context of teaching people how to avoid people with the disorder. So you expect a person with ASPD to consider your "rights" but you are outwardly hostile to their very existence

Anti social people are not the bad ones , they just dont want to be around idiot sheeps

It's just if their goal in fact is to bring you down more,or make you feel worse it feels stupid to say "....Your actions make me feel this,and that".......or say "Thank you for caring"....

I thought I was antisocial. But this doesn't sound like me at all. Lol like 99% doesn't sound like me. BUT I don't like to be around people. I would rather be alone or with a small crowd or with my family.

From somebody with ASPD, I would like to start off with saying that I'm currently in therapy and have always been very self aware with things so bear with me. I was diagnosed with ODD(Oppositional Defiance Disorder) as a child, a possible early sign of ASPD in adulthood. I always had a hard time with making friends, but luckily i had a good few close ones who always just accepted me, and in return i cherished and did everything for them; entirely loyal. We did everything from going outside on random adventures, going to the movies, or just playing video games. That didn't stop my life from being torn to shreds socially because I moved a few counties away when we were still young and so we never went to school together. I was alone for most of my school years because of this and thus never made any friends until I was in 9th grade with all the other emo kids. There we bonded, I had a group I could finally be a part of in school that would accept me. After high school, things plummeted. That group, that support was no longer there, and over time we all went on about our lives as adults do. My mental health degraded more and more over time with the lack of social interaction and increase in hibernation. I began to think about how society's rules on what is considered right and wrong was(pardon my french) bullshit. I was always wrong in life. I was always the bad guy. I was always at fault. I felt villainized because nobody could understand that I wasn't actively trying to hurt anyone, just feelings that are supposed to be there just aren't and I know that cognitively and how I wish they were because I have lost some good friends to this, and ((that)) is where I hurt. So now I choose to self isolate because I don't want to hurt anyone, but that's still hurting the people I care about because they still want to see me. I was diagnosed almost 2 months ago.

Having aspd sort of means you would have had to have harmed people. Having a personality disorder means they have little insight into their behavior.

Met too many passive aggressive people in my life my father being one of them plus he's very narcissistic.

I'm antisocial but wish I wasn't but I find people and social settings draining and every fiber of my body wants to run..then when I'm alone its painful sometimes I self medicate with drugs and the cycle continues. I've done lots of work on myself but it feels like purgatory 😮

Thanks Doctor. What is sad is some people get hated on many times a day. June 2024.

how are you gonna have an ad right in the middle of a 10 minute video you fucking whore

I'm antisocial. I often take my nutsack our and play with it in public. Enjoy pulling on it like taffy when on public transportation.

If I tell my wife “Thanks for the feedback” she’s going to say that I’m insulting her for being so formal in my conversation. I’m at my wits end. It’s tough as a man being immasculated. The only way, it seems, is to eliminate the relationship since it’s been decades of control and abuse…

You know, I keep getting these Narcissism and Antisocial videos pushed to me through the algorithm and I watch them to really consider if I am the problem in my interpersonal relationships. I've had people describe me as antisocial before, but the more I hear about the mannerisms of that disorder, the more I realize I may actually be the victim of one (or a few). I dont really like to hang around folks much and can be very avoidant at times, but whenever possible I like to be of help, sometimes at my own detriment. I now realize that me wanting to be of use to someone, is like being a magnet to others who will take advantage of me and I lack the capacity to enforce boundaries, then internalize that me getting hurt was my own fault. Maybe someone else feels the same here too, I just wanted to put it out there

Everyone who is feeling attacked literally is validating all her points 😂 she is not being mean at all, she simply stating facts and characteristics of borderlines that are challenging to deal with and if you wanna know how to deal with them, go buy her book. She never said people with borderline are not lovable etc. I swear to God these people are so hard to deal with, see things that are not there and always on attack mode. The comments alone are making me not wanna buy her book and actually just run away from them, not her video.

Excellent information!!!

Thank you for good advice 🌹🙏Mam

Borderlines suck

I have some of the traits of an antisocial personality disorder, but not all of them. Some of the situations I get in are ambiguous. There is no law that says I have to find a woman attractive, but you can cause a lot of heartache if you don't. I'm pretty awful in that regard. I can't help it. I have all these passive aggressive mannerisms that nearly always cause pain. I've had this problem for over forty years. It's death on my social life. I'm not trying to make excuses, but I have seen other guys practically tell a girl to her face that she was ugly. I can think of three times I've seen that happen just off the top of my head. For instance, one time I was sitting with this guy in the school cafeteria at college, and this guy pointed at this girl sitting at a table within easy hearing distance and said, "Look at that. Isn't she ugly?" I said, "No, she isn't." But my own involuntary, passive aggressive mannerisms are probably more unforgiveable because they always hit a nerve. It's really hard to screen them out. It seems like something nearly always defeats me in relationships. I've received some attention from this girl I like, and I get the feeling she wants to try out an intimate relationship with me, but, I swear to God, it's like somebody has put salt peter in my meals. My pecker isn't working. I'm sure it seems to her right now that I don't value her, but that isn't the case. I'm staying away from her because my pecker isn't working. ... I can see how some of the things when I was growing up created a lot of this mess I'm in. I've been through it with a psychiatrist, and that didn't seem to help. I've kind of gotten to where I prefer to be alone. I have some ambition to be a writer, and I like to have a lot of time to ruminate.

Im fucking 17 years old and im fucking suffering with this disorder . I do not know where the fuck ill end or is there be somebody who will help me to get out of this . IDK IS THIS A CURSE OR A GIFT ?? but its my fucking personality either ill take this a gift or a unwanted curse

I had boundary issues with a new neighbor. She wanted me to store her stuff l said no. Now she's back off, in talking with me. l told her l need my space, another person from the past refuses psychological therapy do to losses. Blamed me that she was the victim when l pushed her away as well. Both could have BPD? (BPD can be a difficult disorder to manage not manipulate?

this video made me feel worse, like I'm some kind of monster. I'm grateful for the educative information, but it's not compassionate to the people suffering from BPD at all.

A lot of these are overt traits. Many of these folks are very understated. 🎉

My boyfriend has anti social personality disorder and our relationship has been a nightmare. He will never get help because he thinks there's nothing wrong with him. I left him yesterday and have blocked him everywhere, I had to plan for months because he'd been controlling my money. But I'm free from his crazy behaviour.

My next-door neighbor outfitted his Mustang with an aftermarket exhaust system that sounds like a helicopter taking off when he starts the engine and runs the engine. Six days a week at 7 AM he does this noise routine, waking me and other neighbors up out of the sound to sleep, and has done so for three years. Police ticketing and visits and neighbor complaints have had zero impact whatsoever. His behavior will not stop out of his own free will. Too bad outside legal pressure has had no effect either. The impact on our quality of life is extreme.

Good advice! Some advice for your presentation: 1. Break the outline up and show one idea at a time while you speak. 2. Give real life examples. Tell stories. 3. Make the video of you larger than the printed word. 4. Use drawings, cartoons or photos. 5. Ask viewers to comment on their experiences.

These diagnoses are so the doctors can prescribe meds. Codes for insurance companies.

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Superbly put!!?

So clear and concise!

Im currently seeing a therapist for it. My sister in law talked me into it. And told me to tell them the truth. So I’m giving it a shot…

I'd like to see some research on the link between aspd and reactive attachment disorder. The symptomology is SO VERY MUCH THE SAME! This is hugely concerning raising a child with all of the same personality traits. But it's called an attachment disorder. This video is describing the person in my home.

Thanks

The links between ASPD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Conduct Disorder are interesting, and of course the links they have with ADHD. There's some research implying a heavy link in some cases between ASPD and ADHD, which creates a lack of serotonin in the brain.

I can understand why people dislike aspd, I have a friend who has it and he told me he sees nothing wrong with manipulating others nor getting them in trouble if it benefits him, I was just like wtf … I told him it isn’t his fault he lacks the instincts like empathy and morality that the rest of us have but he has a responsibly to keep his behavior in check if he wants to participate in society but he disagreed. I got to say I don’t get the hate (nor why people blend them together) on narcissists though. Like if you look into it narcissism stems from having been neglected, belittled or mistreated growing up thus the people develop an inferiority complex and self hatred and feel a need to prove themselves to others for validation. They don’t lack empathy like aspd people do, they’ve just developed trust issues and internalized self hatred.

As a psychologist this type of disorder a person does not do well in therapy. Because they just mirror the therapist.

The generalization is certainly true. I am diagnosed with ASPD, and I have engaded in criminal behavior, and I have been to prison; in prison there is a wide range of antisocial personality disorders (I'm also quite lazy so my manipulations are slight, and my criminality minor; takes too much energy). My follow through is also awful. But! I have come across certain methods of functionality. I'm in university at the moment and, Ironically (?), I am failing my Interpersonal Communication class, again. My resistance/antagonism to the course I express in the assignments by stating that the methods of communication that we are assigned to work on, I am capable of utilizing for unhealthy purpose. I argue that for those like myself, to do the assignments, say what I'm supposed to say, and perform / conform to class expectations is not a good idea. That is how I put forth a persona. Within that space between where I am, and how you think I am is where the mischief happens, and you'll never know. The appropriate, expected behavior is what I'll abuse, and that has lead to all the let downs, for the people i care about, and who care about me. Anyway, I'm seeing that there is an inverted path for those with ASPD that can lead to positive social outcomes, and that there is also a pernicious... something, I cant put my finger on it yet, but i am certain that there is an appropriate use of an antisocial personality. It is also likely that this is just a narcissistic, grandiose delusion. But hey, you know what my favorite thing about narcissism is? ...ME!!

One of the best videos I’ve seen on this subject and I’ve seen too many. Thank you

Is she reading off a PowerPoint

Can't imagine being this way. My moral code of ethics is strong.

me and my gf quit methadone 4 months ago, I was on 188mg peak and 14 years on methadone,she was on 25mg for 5-6 years, She was 100% better after one month and back to work. me however i still have symptoms daily.

A neutral response like "Hmm" or "That's one view" followed by a redirect or graceful exit is a strategy I am trying with a chronically critical SIL. Luckily, I never see her one on one. Other more direct strategies have occasionally worked, but now I am more interested in minimizing drama. I don't want to take that garbage home with me. Easier said than done, so following up with some EFT tapping helps, too.

There are different subtypes of BPD not all of them display all these symptoms or act just like this so you shouldn't lump all people with BPD into one label like this it's really damaging

Criticism can be challenging to deal with, especially when it comes from critical people who seem to always have something negative to say. However, there are strategies you can use to cope with criticism and navigate interactions with critical individuals: 1. Stay calm and composed: When facing criticism, it's important to stay calm and composed. Take a deep breath and try to remain level-headed, rather than reacting emotionally. 2. Consider the source: Consider who is offering the criticism and their intentions. Is the person a credible source of feedback, or are they known for being overly critical and negative? Understanding where the criticism is coming from can help you decide how to respond. 3. Reflect on the feedback: Take a moment to reflect on the feedback you've received. Is there any validity to the criticism, or is it unfounded? Use this reflection as an opportunity for personal growth and self-improvement. 4. Set boundaries: If you find yourself consistently dealing with critical people, it may be necessary to set boundaries to protect yourself from their negativity. This could include limiting your interactions with them or setting clear expectations for how you will respond to their criticism. 5. Practice self-care: Dealing with criticism can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. Make sure to practice self-care and engage in activities that help you relax and recharge, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with loved ones. 6. Seek support: If you're feeling overwhelmed by criticism, reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist for support. Talking about your feelings and experiences can help you process the criticism and gain a new perspective. 7. Focus on the positive: While it's important to consider and learn from criticism, don't let it overshadow your accomplishments and strengths. Remember to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your achievements, and don't let critical people bring you down.

There’s such thing as criticism with positive reinforcement. Most college classes relating to business and management teach proper criticism. It’s when the criticism becomes harassment when it becomes a problem. I had to recently quit working for someone I considered a friend when it became outright harassment. Nobody should have to tolerate that at work.

I find that its not enough for a person to read off a list of traits and characteristics. But, to understand what the underlying issue is. Otherwise, they tend to misinterpret the traits. Not all psychopathy shows up in childhood as bed wetting, hurting animals, arson. It can. It does. But not always. But it can show up in other ways though. For example, bullying other children, lying a lot more than most kids typically would, etc. Just throwing that out there. Yes they absolutely will tell someone whatever they think that person wants to hear. They don't mind deceiving and lying.

I think its more they do not care about the consequences, than not know them. Pretending to not know them is just what they do to manipulate.