Видео

INFJ actually

Although I have yet to read the entirety of it myself, I was recommended to look into "Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking when Stakes are High" and "How to win friends and influence people" by some former managers. Maybe these would be helpful for you! I also want to share some insight with you I learned from some colleagues and managers (I am also still practicing myself): 1. You know your skills the best and what you can/cannot do, so you have to practice being your own self advocate. No one else can do it for you unless you start doing it yourself. 2. The workplace may often feel like a very hierarchal place, but everyone is just a regular person just like you. Try not to feel intimidated and talk to them as you would a regular person.

@@em.Giselle Insightful 😊 How do you deal with toxic people or clients at workplace who cannot be avoided daily ? How to deal with know it all people who brag too much and are annoying to the core..

@@mohibquadri4053 I'd love to discuss more about this in a future video! There's so much to say. To share now, this can be pretty tough for me as well because I am very sensitive. I've worked in a lot of different roles, dealing with a lot of different toxic people. It's weird to say, but it does get easier where you build thicker skin. The best thing to do also is to counter the negative experiences with positive ones whether it be at work or outside work. It helps balance you out and see that there are good people in the world and around you as well!

@@em.Giselle Thanks for valuable input 🎯 would love to see you making video about this subject !

I am sorry to hear that. I am sure that you didn't do anything wrong. Parents are a whole different topic on their own. I definitely know the feeling. It can be very tough and frustrating when our parents don't put in much effort to really listen to our voices. It's confusing especially when we're their kids, and they can make such a big difference for us if they just listened. Even if you don't know who you are quite yet, just know everyday is a new day to learn more about yourself! You learn more as you find your joys! Be excited for all the things out there you have yet to see and discover that you will one day love. Also, it's ok to reach out. Give yourself opportunities to reach out with reasonable time in between as you reflect and also give them time to help you again - I hope I made sense there and best of luck!

Really glad you think so!

It takes time for sure - it can be very uncomfortable

Aw thank you!

Thank you so much!!

I think I would really like to discuss the topic of looks one day. I know it might sound cliché, but I really do believe that we are our own worst enemy/critic sometimes. We live in a society where looks seem to be the most important things, so we have no choice but to compare ourselves to what we see and hear are attractive. It can be so hard to ignore society's standards, but we just need to remember we are all meant to be different. You might not like how you look, but someone else might! You never know. I have also always struggled with how I looked. I definitely have never found myself attractive, but as I got older, I realized that as long as I am comfortable/happy and that I am having a good time, that's the most important thing in life. You can also do things that make YOU feel good rather than focusing how you look. For example, you can buy yourself nice clothes, get a haircut, go on a quick outdoor run, hang out with friends, etc. and your happiness makes you naturally attractive. A smile never looks bad on anyone! :) Please don't forget to capture your happy moments

I work as an analyst, and unsurprisingly, I have analysis paralysis a lot. I freeze up when I am unfamiliar with the situation, setting, people, etc. It definitely is very hindering and can be very annoying, but I am working on practicing to overcome my anxieties!

Thank you for subbing and for your detailed comment! I think it's very interesting you say that. I definitely agree and find that there can be a lot of expectations for guys to be more extroverted, which is frustrating because like you said, being an introvert can just be who you are. When there's that heavy expectation, it feels like you're doing something wrong or you're not good enough, which is not true. We are also doing the best that we can everyday; it's just different than how extroverts approach things. Although there's nothing wrong with being an extrovert, there needs to be more understanding that introverts exist and that there also isn't anything wrong with us being an introvert either, whether we are male or female. It definitely does feel nice to meet introverted people, but it's funny that it can be hard to find them because they don't always show themselves haha.