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38:35 "No matter where you go, there you are." Lovely. I also found this out about myself when I moved away. So enlightening and also a bit frustrating. Lol. At least it gives a clear thread to pull on and work with.

Hello dear ❤❤

You're doing ground breaking work here. Having been in this body for 61 years as an INFJ/HSP, I don't understand why I haven't figured some of this stuff out myself. And I don't understand what kind of mind it takes to come to the realizations that you're expressing. Very enlightened. I recently destroyed another relationship as a result of overthinking. This is the first time it's really sunk in that my overthinking is a big part of the problem in so many of my relationships.

THANKS GOD SOMEBODY MADE A PROPER VIDEO ABOUT THIS, THANK Y O U!!💙💙💙🙏

What does INFJ stand for?

Working on this now, after decades of outward focus working on coming back in. (INFJ too). Pozdrawiam serdecznie.

Starting? 😶😰😨

Or people on Autism spectrum

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Thank you❤🎉

As an INFJ, HSP and empath I have always hated being treated like a child even when I was a child. My parents wanted me to go to Sunday School but I could not stomach the thought of some stupid sky daddy looking down on everyone so I didn't go. My biggest problem with this reality is dealing with immaturity. Most people are manipulated and exploited by religion or political parties because they are unconscious robots conditioned by group think. However my greatest teacher was my mother who suffered from paranoid schizophrenia and was an alcoholic. I learned indirectly from her the greatest lesson "people behave the way they do for a reason". The sad part for me is realizing I can't do anything about how people behave even when they are self-destructive or extremely manipulated by power structures within this reality.

As an Infj I can say all you say is true. Thank you for making me realize I use too much energy in my head not in action because of fear of hurting. I hope your channel gets more attention. You deserve more of love and happiness😊

Hello, thank you and hope you are very well. Your video making is very good. Your content ideas are very good. If you give me permission, I will share some information with you to increase the channel. You get lots of subscribe and views. Can I suggest growing your RUclips channel?

Interesting. Thank you 🙏

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Hola! Sending lots of good vibes from Mexico ❤

You put so much if yourself into your videos. It is easy to see/ feel that you really care about the subject and about helping us hdp's/ infj's. .. thank you 🪷

Life is especially *hard* when you're being an Empath/HSP & INFJ all into once. And especially, you can never *ever* switch off the sense, the look for details - into anything, everything. All your life.

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Excellent, wholeheartedly support this assessment of what is happening

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INFJ is not straightforward and confuses people too. Hurt goes both ways.

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OK, I'll give this channel a chance! I'm not sure about some of your ideas such as "not being fully incarnated" for example, but I do sense your intentions and you mean well. Thank you for your work!

Thank you for your presence and generousity ❤

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This video resonated with me too much🥺

Yes! INFJ here. This resonates.

Thanks for this. Clearly stated and helpful to my own experience. I love the insights and teachings of INFJs. Grace flow into your day

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Tell me why does our life has to be so hard. Why can't we just enjoy life and be normal. We constantly have to try and figure ourselves out, our childhood, our parents, our trauma, why we do this, and that. Why we never feel good enough...etc. we're always researching digging, trying to slove ourselves and learn about ourselves and others or their behaviors towards us. Why can't we have peace. Why can't we live in harmony. Ppl ask me what I want in life, and my answer has always been to be at peace with me. I'm 50. I'm so frekin tire. I just want to go and live off the grid and be by myself.

Thank God I found this channel. Its hard to find anything that even begins to explain the things that happen to me. I have become afraid to develop feelings for people the past few years due to an intense awakening i experienced. I can't really share my experience with other people because they simply can't believe the truth I deal with everyday. Science doesn't explain everything. You need to add spirituality to science to really begin to explain somethings.

Brilliant! This is so helpful. So much to consider. Thank you!

Dear Gosia, you are saying that what you are sharing, is what you have not read anywhere, and that it is based on your personal experiences. I can absolutely validate from my side that every point that you shared here, is so spot on. It actually takes courage to call out onto the demerits and limitations of the left-brained "modern psychology". Absolutely loved your realizations and insights. i have no idea how come i have come across your channel, but i have immediately subscribed! Take care!

Wonderfully interesting and engaging topic. INFP here. Gratitude for letting me know I am not alone in this life and how I see things. Lots of love to you both xx

Hi Gosia. This might not be the place to talk from a Human Design point of view but I think it crosses over with what you’re explaining here. Last night I dreamt that my scalp pulled apart down the middle (sorry if this is sounding a bit ‘horror movie’). It wasn’t frightening in any way but it left my head exposed. It took me a while to realise it was referring to my HD Open Mind and how thoughts that may not even be my own come into the Mind and kind of get caught there, buzzing around unable to get out or settle and for sure I make other people’s problems my own. I can see how the strength of my unexpressed emotions as a child would have pushed me to find a mental solution, even though there is none. I know when this gets ‘bad’ because I talk out loud to myself, repeating over and again the same problem and why it’s not fair on me. Appreciating my emotions and their process is helping me to balance this. 🙏❤️

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for all those who need to hear this: Be who you are. that is our strength. We as Hsp's or Infj/infps adapt to the standards of the masses that don't suit us. This not only makes us unhappy but also prevents us from using our genuine self to change the world for the better. Thanks for the great video, always great content on your channel Gosia.

Thanks 🙏

Thanks!

Very very well said and so helpful. Thanks!

Hi. I don’t know if this relates to me but I find it interesting. Someone called me an Empath and I thought, Oh no! I don’t want that 😂. I have convinced myself that I lean towards selfishness and yet I’ve often been supportive in different ways and yet feel guilty and sometimes ashamed when I do things for myself. Sometimes it’s been financial support and recently someone said I’m good for “holding space” for those I care about. This was a compliment for sure but I can’t tell if I’ve overdone this and overlooked what I want. For an Empath finding the balance between care for ourselves and for ‘the Other’. I know my ‘status’ as a ‘guilt sponge’. If someone is unhappy it’s either my fault, or it’s my job to make things good for them. A Selfish Empath!? 😅 Huh. What do you know, there is something here for me. Thank you 🙏 Insecure and yet I have a Defined Will Centre

I’m an INFJ/HSP/Empath too and could really resonate with what you said. I have always had trouble with setting boundaries. Dealing with people always feels really stimulating for me in a way that I feel the need to make myself small or withdraw back into my shell. Being an INFJ, my first tendency was to figure it out in my mind and change my mindset, and as you said that has definitely helped but it’s not the complete solution. How my mind and body reacts in these situations is still something I’m working on. Thank you for the insights! ❤

Your extremely cute ;). ENFJ here.

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🤯 Thank you for connecting these dots between disembodiment and the tendency to retreat into the mind. This is spot on of my own experience with being an HSP/INFJ/Empath. I have been working towards trying to set boundaries and am still struggling with social anxiety in large groups. So much so that I have been prescribed beta blockers to avoid fight/flight symptoms in my body like racing heart, changes in how my voice sounds, shaking hands, etc. I thought that I knew what it meant to have self awareness, but after watching your video, I can finally see that I am stuck in my mind and ignoring my physicality/physical aspect while I'm in these situations. I'm looking forward to bringing this new knowledge with me into my next group experience. I'm interested to see what changes I can make and if I'll be more skilled at setting boundaries in the moment with more difficult/intrusive individuals.

Thank you for this excellent video 😮😊❤