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Jax Anderson, LPC
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This channel is informational and NOT a substitute, replacement or in conjunction with individual, family, couples’ and group psychotherapy. If you or someone you know is in need or seeking mental health services please contact your local mental health service provider. For more resources pertaining to mental health please visit www.nami.org/"
Jax Anderson, LPC
IG @emotionalvigilante
*Disclosure*
This channel is informational and NOT a substitute, replacement or in conjunction with individual, family, couples’ and group psychotherapy. If you or someone you know is in need or seeking mental health services please contact your local mental health service provider. For more resources pertaining to mental health please visit www.nami.org/"
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School District Ticketing Students
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School District Ticketing Students
Addressing APPLETON AREA SCHOOL BOARD re: a new ticketing procedure
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Addressing APPLETON AREA SCHOOL BOARD re: a new ticketing procedure
Appleton North High School teacher VS student
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Appleton North High School teacher VS student
Safer School Zones during Active School Zone Times
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Safer School Zones during Active School Zone Times
Safe School Zones and Crosswalks for Students
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Safe School Zones and Crosswalks for Students
Questions to Ask A Mental Health Clinic/Professional
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Questions to Ask A Mental Health Clinic/Professional
How to Identify an Emotionally Immature Parent
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How to Identify an Emotionally Immature Parent
How To Talk To Your Kids About What Happened At The Capital 01/06/2021
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How To Talk To Your Kids About What Happened At The Capital 01/06/2021
How To Guarantee Your Teen Doesn't Tell You Anything
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How To Guarantee Your Teen Doesn't Tell You Anything
How To Burn Out Your Teen Academically
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How To Burn Out Your Teen Academically
How To Give Your Teen Debilitating Decision Making Anxiety
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How To Give Your Teen Debilitating Decision Making Anxiety
The Amygdala’s Response to A Fear of Dogs
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The Amygdala’s Response to A Fear of Dogs
3 Life Skills That Will Keep Your Teen Busy This Summer
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3 Life Skills That Will Keep Your Teen Busy This Summer
The Power of Profanity - Healing Emotional Constipation
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The Power of Profanity - Healing Emotional Constipation
The Promposal - An Overdramatic, Indulged, Extravagant Criticism
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The Promposal - An Overdramatic, Indulged, Extravagant Criticism
College Reveal Parties Are Over - Stop It
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College Reveal Parties Are Over - Stop It
This is actually retarted.
YUP !!! My ex, who was ABOUT TO BE MY MIL , i signed her mothersday card, or birthday card, idk wich, Doesnt matter, but i signed it, with my babys potentiol names, Ans she really , she like really huffed and puffed, She said Uh, ugh, well, ugh, tsk, i i just dont know what this is, I look over at her and am like wtf is wrong with herbis she ok ??? Did my ex ( her son ) do somwthing ?? And she says " well, i i dont know why she signed it, when i havent seen her ugh, in like 3 years, she doesnt come over , tsk she doesnt spwnd timw aith our family, tsk, why would she ugh. Sign my card ??? " And im like wait..... is she tslking abojt ME ,signing her CARD ?????? shes really having a heart attack over THAT !?!?!?!? she was studdering and all that and i said okay, rhis women is unstable, And her PERFECT persona of her LOVING ME is our the window. She hates me . And she was complaining how i dont go to GREAT GRANDMAS HOUSE for holidays when I HAVE MY OWN FSMILY !!!!
My german grandmothet always want to tell me what to do, dont respected any borders and just thaught to teach whats good for the others and what they have to do in her opinion. So exhausting.
I got the “really you’re not gonna talk to me, show some respect”… I think I won though, I responded with “ you only get to speak so many words in a lifetime, didn’t plan on wasting any” then I smiled, which I saw made the steam come out of their ears.
I'm a therapist and this is one of the few videos I found that gives actual techniques teens can use
@@richardrash4586 I appreciate that! Thank you!!
Why is it a problem? We as humans make up words, and then decide we should be offended by some of the words. Why? That's stupid. The least stable people I know are super offended by words. The most stable people I know dgaf.
I agree!!!
@Alex-sr3ez You think successful people don't cuss? I promise you, they definitely do. They know when and where to cuss. Her daughter probably doesn't cuss at school. I cuss like a sailor, but I don't cuss at work. If your kid comes home pissed and cussing, and the first thing you do is scold them for cussing, you're the bad parent because you think not cussing is more important than whatever your kid is going through. And if you would cuss in the same situation, you're a hypocrite.
Stop teaching your kids to say curse would before they pick their teeth up off the ground because someone heard the wrong thing. This is America you know how people are when some one runs their mouth.
They are just words. I taught my daughter that they were adult words when she was little so she wouldn’t show up at school swearing. When SHE felt mature enough she asked if she could start to swear. I said yes and told her that there were times it was appropriate, like w friends. And times it wasn’t like at a job interview.
What do you mean by that?
NOT cussing isn’t going to make your intelligent daughter dumber. If she’s smart she’ll be smart regardless of whether she cusses or not so why not insist she don’t curse? Most ridiculous argument to justify lazy parenting I’ve ever heard.
You sound like someone who's parents didn't let them cuss....
Because she wants to. And if she wants to she can. It’s a bonus it makes her smarter. You’re welcome!
@@psyko_therapy “it’s a bonus if cussing makes her smarter” Good grief, that’s just absurd. Saying certain words doesn’t actually DO anything and it certainly doesn’t make you smarter. You’re acting like you’re in a Harry Potter movie where saying certain chants or rhymes turns your friend into a frog. Real life doesn’t work that way.
@@Alex-sr3ezyes. It does. Makes people much more scintillating as well.
@@psyko_therapy cussing doesn’t make you smarter.
Do it my aunt did with her teenage daughter during stressful situations..who was barely 16 give her a cigarette and a wine cooler and that’s a true story !
@@Alex-sr3ezresearch proves it.
That's a bunch of bull. You tell that child that this phone is a privilege and can be taken away at the snap of a finger. Go ahead and let them know you will be watching and periodically checking. If the child has a problem with that, the child does get a phone. People, we need to get a handle on our children. These younger generations have been spoon-fed everything and have lost all sense of value and morality because we are not teaching them properly.
This only works with unruly kids... I was a good kid, always did what inwas told, had good friends, etc. If you give your kids the opportunity to be independent and they fail, then I understand. But do this to a good kid, and you'll make them hide stuff from you and rebel. Not everything is black and white.
Be angry. Cool. Don't be angry about getting treated like men treat eachother...while demanding equality.
in theory its a slay - in reality - you would get expelled or at the very least sent home. assuming these kinds of teachers follow the same logic as us is a mistake. I would however come to school with a shirt entirely made of bra straps tho...
As a former boy, trust me even a curvy piece of wood is distracting, but not like that, you act like they're animals and rapists, this kind of people distract you more, so I've come to the conclusion that anyone that claims "it is distracting to the boys" is actually talking about himself.
The best response that I've ever heard to someone saying this is "well someone call Victoria! Her secret is out. Women wear bras" 😂
If a man’s underwear was showing he’d be charged for indecent exposure 🤯
Not true
Oh fuck tell every school boy in the 00s who had their boxers sticking way above their belt line
That has to be a joke. So many guy wear their pants to you can permanently see their underwear.
Lmao what are you talking about?? Guys sag constantly
Some of this hit close to home I appreciate the prospective.
Im not a girl but it do be like that IN FRONT OF THE CLASS BRO
This helped me alot thanks
No one ever complained about a girl adjusting her bra, get real 🙄😅
Nah it’s the opposite women will wear a sports bra and baggy pants and get mad at men for having itches
It’ll get a lot more distracting and inappropriate if they pop out, I assure you
Cap as warnings were given if a dude took his shirt off or doing any prolonged odd sitting/movement the real double standard is rn wearing less clothes then the dudes or less requirements for PE this short feels more like made up frustration at make believe situation or rage bait
Bullshit
The double standards against men are way fucking harsher
This comment section is awful man, all these men getting offended because someone pointed out sexist double standards🤦♀️
They always expose themselves. It’s easy to take trash out.
Y'all are the only ones getting offended and it is at something that doesn't even exist lmao if someone has an issue with what I'm doing then say it to my face and maybe even then I ain gon do shit about it, if y'all got a problem with it than do it anyway anyway it ain't even yalls body to tell us what to do. I don't let people tell me what to do with my body. Idk why I'm rambling about a dubble standard that doesn't even apply 🤣. Shi my studyhall teacher tells me to take my damn chain off cuz its too distracting. Every mfr is different bro
Like the draft 🥶 has been for how many years? But yall can still vote the person in office to send us young men to die🥶 there’s a bunch of double standards stop bitching an live on with your life.
fr 😭 Everything she put in the vid is so true
It's literally not true though 😂
If only men and women were different or something... wait a minute. We are!
Smh nah
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Boys and girls are not the same. When one of you can make it in the Navy Seals we will talk.
Does physical strength have any relevance here
@@eyaph I didn't say anything about physical strength.
@@stinkwink695 it's clearly implied however. Subtext is very obvious
@@stinkwink695Wait... So if I join the navy seals I can adjust my bra? That just sounds stupid.
@@toastymarshh5159 Yep, if you "join" 🤣 the navy seals you can do whatever you want with your bra.
Lmao oh look another liberal mad posting a video
Same logic as "let the kid do whatever they want, I'm here to support not guide"
Simpleton thinking. Thanks for boosting my vid with it!
@psyko_therapy correcting your childs speech helps ensure they can actually speak properly and know the difference between formal and informal ways of speaking. Teasing helps build character and resilience because guess what? The worlds not all sunshine and rainbows, unfortunately. And no problem, I'm sure you'll need all the boosts you can get right?
What?! I got trashed every time I tried to adjust in class.
showing underwear is really not that big of a deal though. with boys you get like a solid black strip with a bit of branding and not a thin string with skin showing underneath
You think thongs are the only underwear women wear?
@@toastymarshh5159 ikr?? Just shows how this guy thinks of women
They make sexy underwear for both genders and it a choice too so chill out all of you people sexist
Fr that what happens at my school
Iv never seen anything like this, your also exagerating, every guy in this chat knows we dont scratch, we pintch and roll which looks nothing like this
Did she say all men?
Young Christians, I hope you understand this: "Let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil." Matt. 5: 37. One of Satan's most insidious snares for the defeat of a Christian's teaching and influence is carelessness in the use of language, and allowing slang words to find a place in the vocabulary. I pray you become a different generation. Remember in the last days, people will call evil; good, and good; evil.
Taylor Swift is really one of the most famous beings on earth yet so many people love to act like its revolutionary to hate her Its funny really No, they cant just admit her music is not for them, no, they have to announce loudly that they hate her. Its very interesting.
That's wonderful, love it!!
yeah maybe boys that where raised wrong 💀 corny ah vid
Thanks for boosting it with your comment!
I’m having a hard time following your logic here…
I get your point but ya can’t blame the kids, gotta blame the parents for putting this kind of stuff in their heads, respect for your kid for stranding up though, taught her well
I hate swiftes
Thanks for boosting my video with your hate!
I hate swiftes more 🤣
Omg tell me about it! Taylor swift ain’t my thing but the HATE IS INSANE! She’s not that bad, she’s alright you can just not be into pop music and get on with your life. I always complement any of the kids who come in the art store I work at who ware a Taylor swift shirt because I know they get hate for it and I want them to be happy about there interests and not hide it like I did. Biggest red flag for any person is whether they hate Taylor swift and will bring it up because someone is wearing something with it or out of fuckn nowhere. Fuck those people
Half of this is right, the other half that is sometimes different is that it not the teen that is being pushed away but that they just can't say stuff without already knowing what will happen. No hate to the post just wanted to get it out there
expert lol
Thanks for the boost!
THANK YOU! I constantly fight with my mom and this helps SO much to have a parent themselves be on my side!
I never had any issue doing things like that. I always loved the fact that I could get to know the group of kids - the good ones and more importantly, the bad... The groceries never spoiled. But to each their own because I know my way certainly isn't always the right/best way. Just sharing a contrasting opinion.
Omg no one cares
I think to many parents post way to many pictures of there kids but i do think kids should take a first day of school picture but not post it online
100% especially now in college I love showing photos to friends but I actually don't have that many of myself
The best response to the situation isn't to intimidate your children. Separate both parties, get both sides of the story, and get to the root of the problem. Most of the time, children aren't upset with you. They're just overwhelmed with their day-to-day or dont feel like they're being heard. How would you like to be treated? Would you like people to use fear tactics to get the outcome they want or would you rather them treat you like they care about you and your feelings? I mean dont allow kids to act out with no repercussions, sure. But it isn't necessary to be in their face and aggressive with them at every turn just to "teach them respect" you can teach respect without an angry tone and you can teach them how to handle situations properly. We're all human, maybe try some compassion and always use the "put yourself in their shoes" rule.