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So this has been a huge issue for me, because I was raised to be completely logical. I have made many logical decisions that have made my life very unsatisfying. I have been learning to use my intuition for years, but what's really confusing now is that my heart tells me different things. Then, I'm a Christian, and I'm trying to figure out how God is leading me. That seems to be through my intuition, or my intuition seems to be the thing that is almost always correct. I'm currently theorizing that my intuition actually takes my heart into account. My latest experiment is trying to feel into why my intuition is telling me what it is. It seems that sometimes if I figure out why my intuition is telling me what it is and deal with it, the intuition changes.

I find my heart and my intuition are different

You have the same last name as me..

it was an amazing video thank you so much for sharing it with us

I absolutely feel the same Rebecca! Thanks for making these videos, and leaving them up for us to watch! They were extremely helpful to me three years ago, and I'm enjoying them again and receiving benefit from re-watching some as a refresher!

I am an enfp and artist, trying to decorate for my infps(nieces) bday. I had the inspiration to take a cute childhood photo of her and coral, black and white colors!😀😍😘 i had this whole easy but beautiful theme for her my gift, and i was totally snubbed by her mom! No explanation, parties stress her the F out. It really pissed me off as i cleaned her house for this party!!😂😂😂 we have had our issues! She told me i was her favorite person, i do not want her stupid gifts, just so she xan use me for her slave. I know whats going on, i am just so fascinated by her oddness that i keep thinking that inner child will come out and play and that perfectionism will go the f'ck away!!😂😂😂 Oh, do not be her crying shoulder on your own or your arm will fall off, meanwhile they do not even notice!! More than many times has this scenario played out! Keeping real!

Isfj: if something needs to be done, I'm not particularly happy with letting it go if it's not done, I need to see it to the end. Enfp: "interesting.."

Very helpful thanks! I have both ENF and ENF friends. This helps me distinguish between them.

this is cool, but don't stop at the 8 letter dichotomies only. Look at the cognitive functions too. You might just end up being a different type completely.

Im an enfp and my husband is an isfj..

great video guys x

Found out I was an ENFP yesterday. A lot of thoughts and actions are now making sense although I feel I get down more so. I like the positive circle advice. I'm going to strive for that as I feel like I do get back up quicker around that energy ✌

Enfp gang my best friend is an istj and we GET ALONG SOMEHOW in classes, it's very clear who is who

ENFP here. My ISFJ is so sweet, though I’m struggling how to truly get her to open up. Me being so social and wanting to serve and discover what makes her happy, but it seems she doesn’t want open up to me and it has me questioning everything about us. We have been talking for a month, and she has expressed that she cares but I can’t seem to get her to just let me know what’s important to her. It’s frustrating because she wants to “think” but nothing happens as far as a decision being made. Is there anything I can do as an ENFP to cause my ISFJ to explain more to me and opening up? *any and all ISFJ please sound off* I’m 27 she’s 23 just for context

Rebecca, who do you think is our dual aka vest match, istj or istp.

These talks are SO good. Please keep them coming. As an ENFP, these feelings you’ve described are identical to mine. I really appreciate you taking time to talk about it and being open and bold enough to post your videos. Your transparency is refreshing. ❤️

I’m an ENFP with an ISTJ husband!! Hahaha :)

Anyone ENFP here dating ISTJ?

The ISFJ in this video is so adorable and reminds me of all the lovely thing I see in my ISFJ friends <3 I'm an ENFP by the way.

So great the advice about doing mindless physical tasks, like laundry or skimming the pool with a timer set. I find if I don't set a timer, I can spend a near infinite amount of time doing something, or get massively distracted or caught up in some other way. I think the timer helps with this because I am competitive and I want to beat the clock. I have been using a visual timer (time timer) which helps also give me a better sense of time. My perspective of 10 minutes vs. an actual 10 minutes are usually way off. Great video! Thank you for sharing.

It all makes sense, actually. I also feel sick if I don't follow my intuition. And the thing about fear is true for me too.

what's ur enneagram both ?!

Thanks for posting this. You're really great.

The difference between ENFP and ENFJ is not just the P & the J. You girls overlooked the dominant functions of Fe, Extroverted Feeling and Ne, Extroverted INtuition. A video about this would be even more informative and would truly explain the differences in a more realistic manner.

this helped a lot!! this is exacly what happens to me....i try to live in the "to do list-organization" mode and its just make me overwhelmed and i never finish the tasks....i will try to just go do things and stop organizing so much

You look a bit like Candice Swanepoel, love the video though! im an enfp its been about a year or two since i turned my life around and started having positive mindset, definitely changed things!

Hey there! Another Christian ENFP here, just wanted to let you know these videos are great. Blessings!

Thanks for this!

cool guys i love the relationship isfj enfp

great video guys thanks for sharing

I agree with that statement so much 2:30

great video nice advice

Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm an ENFP and one of my best friends is an ISFJ and this is our dynamic in a nutshell. This is so relatable and really shines a light on why we act the way we do and why we may have conflicting opinions.

A good friend and I have these same experiences. My friend being the ENFJ and myself the ENFP. Like Long Ho was getting at, our biggest differences are his Fe (firstly expressively sharing his emotions, in an almost pushy way) guided by his secondary function of Ni, which plans, aligns, and assembles a plan. I lead first with Ne, which constantly scans for new possibilities, information, that generate ideas to my central beliefs or Fi. Fi being the introverted, "I'm not going to push my feelings on you, I'm not really sure how I even feel about this" function. For example, my friend and I work together. I was given a new task. In order to accommodate for completing this task, I pull my friend over to help me. (I size up the time, what it takes to complete, seeing the whole picture) My friend , the ENFJ wants to know the exact play by play, what we are doing, what he needs to do, and asks about 10,000 different questions. And in my Ne sort of way reach across the car and pull him in. "We'll figure it out!" Bottom line, ENFPs l-o-v-e-s a blank canvas whereas the ENFJ can't function unless they have a coloring book with colors designated to certain spaces. ;-)

Im an ENFP and my best friend is an ISTJ its interesting to say the least haha

I'm an ENFP myself, ISFJs and I run into brick walls so much in conversation! Do you guys ever feel that way? Running out of things to talk about? Or not seeing eye to eye? Or conversations suddenly dying?

thanks rebecca for posting this... I am an ENFP and suffer & enjoy at the same time being a dreamer and not getting to do things.. staying focussed is the key

I'm an INFP, and I HATE HATE HATE ISTJs

wow so much sense in this :) ive recently found out that im enfp, so happy to se others :) thought for 24 years it was only me and my dad :D

ISFj as in Fi,Se, etc. Or ISFJ as in Si, Fe, etc.?

thank you for the video! very helpful in finding where i can improve!

Talking about stress while lying on the beach.. Oh the irony :P

Interesting dynamic.

Do you have infp friends?

I got a lot more assertive when starting to listen more to my intuition even if I didn't have the right reason. I think it is kind of an Te/Si grip where you find yourself being afraid of having to 'explain' yourself to others when making a decision...

This may help some people: www.talentspotters.org/downloads/enfp%20career.pdf For following through: Steven Pressfield-The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles I am currently looking for work success stories of ENFPs, or biographies, if you know any please comment back! Because my feelings always get in the way of Te (that does want to finish the task) and I can not show GRIT and GRIT you need to finish shit, and be successful. By the way I am currently drawing a short comic for two years now and still have not completed it. Just recently I set my Deadline on the 7.01.15 . This deadline is for real, if I do not complete this artwork, I will destroy it. I will rip it to pieces like it never existed. So that is my pressure. I am often sad about not finish something I loved or lose the love for it somehow magically. How can it be that it meant so much to me and now does not mean anything? That scares me. That scares my future. Its like loving nothing. Because everything "you love" you do not "love" till the end. Its like the artwork never existed if I do not finish it. So it is the same as ripping it off. But only now it is not destroyed in my head but in reality, if I do not meet the deadline. I think we should thinking about the possible consequences ;-).

Thank you! I will!! Thanks so much for the kind comment :)

Yes I toyally agree with you :) thanks for your comment! are you an ENFP too? I actually say the same as you in my video how to be productive as an enfp in this closing the gap series.

Thanks so much!! :) glad you liked it.