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Ekene
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Добавлен 30 ноя 2015
I do a little bit of everything. Expect greatness from me.
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Heartstopper Re-cap & Review
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Welcome to my channel.
Today I'll be discussing the Heartstopper Series!
I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY.
Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Welcome to my channel.
Today I'll be discussing the Heartstopper Series!
I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY.
Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
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Love Island S6 was so good!
Просмотров 54921 день назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing the latest season of Love Island USA. It was my first time watching the show and let's say it was great reality tv! I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Culture Vultures and Appropriation
Просмотров 143Месяц назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing recent issues with prominent culture vultures. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Y'all really just don't like women
Просмотров 101Месяц назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing sexism, hyper-feminity, pick-me's, GTB's, transphobia and toxic gender norms. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
IDPOL Being Weaponized
Просмотров 93 месяца назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing some prominent and recent grifits as well as my opinions on them. My next video will be me ranking and giving opinions on a few. If you'd like, sound off recommendations in the comments! I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Journal guide and self care self love
Просмотров 233 месяца назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing journaling. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
The problem with the pass
Просмотров 1484 месяца назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing why racial passes are problematic and damaging. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Working on accepting pushback and critique
Просмотров 2324 месяца назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing my personal experience working on accepting pushback and critique. I'll discuss this as well as some tips for acclimating and implementing the changes. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Weaponized incompetence and learned helplessness
Просмотров 1865 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing the impact and potential counters to weaponized incompetence and learned helplessness. Sadly there is a boom in toxic relationships at many levels so the internet has shown us the worse of it. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Managing time and planning as a neurodivergent person
Просмотров 2067 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing tips and tricks I know for time management. These have helped me a lot with planning and general punctuality. While it may not be perfect it's so beneficial. Got anymore? Share them in the comments below! I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Stop Defending Abusers
Просмотров 108 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing the obsession that y'all seem to have with defending predators and abusers. This whole topic is draining and makes me angry that there are even 2 "sides" to this. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
How to recover self-esteem, cut people off, and not seek closure.
Просмотров 298 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll be discussing my tips and experiences with recovering self-esteem, ending toxic relationships, and learning that you don't owe anyone closure I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
On Emotionally Stunted Parental Figures and Codependency
Просмотров 1479 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll discuss how many parental figures struggle with their own emotional regulation, leading to negative consequences for themselves and their children. The boundaries that are necessary for individuals struggling to manage the complex and unhealthy dynamics that can arise in codependent families. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to ...
On Intersectionality and Avoiding Radicalization
Просмотров 4449 месяцев назад
OPEN Welcome to my channel. Today I'll discuss the importance of intersectionality, and why it's important. i will also share some pointers on avoiding radicalization. I'm your neighborhood whimsical neurodivergent EBNY. Be sure to subscribe so I can make the munnies on youtube.
Why Does No One Want Blackness From Black People?
Просмотров 10211 месяцев назад
Why Does No One Want Blackness From Black People?
About ITZY, JYPE, and Other KPOP Ramblings
Просмотров 125 лет назад
About ITZY, JYPE, and Other KPOP Ramblings
Swatches Are a Scam | Dishonesty in the Makeup Community
Просмотров 285 лет назад
Swatches Are a Scam | Dishonesty in the Makeup Community
Storytime: My Mom Died (Where I've Been)
Просмотров 2105 лет назад
Storytime: My Mom Died (Where I've Been)
Girl you have me wheezing at the Karen and Aylor! It's Aaron and Kaylor lmaoooooo
I was trying my best at the beginning, but I lost it at some point 😔🤣
Cultures are meant to be shared, not owned. Claiming cultures based on races is racist because it's segregation. Our history has shown that time and time again. Jackie Robertson and Eminem can both speak for that. Culture appropriation is just a fancy word for segregation.
"culture appropriation is just a fancy word for segregation". Congratulations. That sentence that you wrote successfully made me lose a brain cell
this is rly good how do u only have 82 subs
Thanks, I'm hoping to grow this year🤣
You make some pretty great points! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you, I've felt frustrated with the state of it for a while.
Working on this myself
Take your time and be kind to yourself. Is a journey!
N. Also not attractive.
Great perspective. It's important to learn this early.
It is important and a big effort!
Great video. I have had to work on this in my relationship. Why I developed this is very illuminating! Cheers for your insight.
are we blaming stupid ppl for being stupid or smart people for playing stupid?
It has nothing to do with intelligence, in my opinion. The behavior is abusive, and there should be some accountability.
@ekenejae ok I'm understanding your POV, but can I ask what "accountability" looks like in your ideal world? All men as a whole change one accord? The good men learn from the bad ones? Or Fixing the bad ones?
For any partner, not just men. I don't want people to be abused.
@ekenejae ok yeah that's great but what does it look like?
If people are abusive, then obviously, they should not be in a relationship. If they continue the behavior after the first instance, there should be social penalties. First, an intervention. Second, bring in therapy and social work. Third, we should have an institution dedicated to behavioral reform. Not incarnation but a halfway house focusing on integration and social skills/emotional regulation. There can be more serious consequences depending on the severity of the offense. This is pretty bare bones but acceptable. This should be the model for consequences in general
This was super helpful thank you!! You described so many of my life experiences it's like you were inside my head. I'm in need of more structure and patterns in my life, I'm definitely going to try some of these. Btw side note I love how your shirt, hair, and tapestry all are colour coordinated.
Just having grace towards yourself gets you super far! Hopefully, some of these can work for you. I have an (un)healthy obsession with purple 🫣
Ur name sounds Nigerian. Are you Igbo by any chance?
Also, great video btw. Really love how you emphasized a lot of parent's ability to code switch ❤❤❤
Thank you. I did a heritage test a few years ago and made Ekene my chosen name since coming out. It just said Nigerian, but not the tribe. I might be? I'll have to do an African Ancestry test to find out.
It's the biggest pain in the head, have you doubting the whole person lol
This is such a great nuanced take! i definitely do think parents can be codependent, in fact i feel MOST parents are codependent just because of the nature of parenting and their own upbringing. i think it can be really tempting for an adult (of ANY kind, not just parents) to try and micromanage every facet of a child’s life, because we think we only want what’s best for the kid (but more realistically we probably just want the control we can have over another human). It’s tempting to see children about to make a mistake and correct them before it happens, but really the kid learns more through doing than listening. I also think it’s pretty socially acceptable for parents to essentially infantilize their kid forever, which, like you said, accidentally makes their children internalize these feelings and, by the time they get to adulthood, makes them feel totally inferior. Parenting is in my opinion one of the hardest things to do and I totally understand the commitment it takes to parent a child, but some people mistake keeping their kid in line with good parenting.
I completely agree! It's for sure a process that most people don't realize the amount of emotional, financial, and social input. Many parents project your standard onto their children without even realizing it. So as every day calm from the child grows and changes its scares them because it's not the person that they planned the child to be. Honestly, it's really sad because this behavior keeps pushing the kid away, but they don't realize it. Children aren't robots nor dress up dolls they're tiny people. Parents need to recognize that!
"Promo sm"
Huh? 😅
Omg i feel too seen rn 😭 im a queer white woman and you are 100% correct on that read. Also from a self-hating baptist household! I struggle with a lot of internalized sexism, homophobia, racism as that was embedded in the family culture... not to mention the generational trauma lol. I have said some S T U P I D shit in my life trying to prove that i wasnt like my family lol... or to make myself feel more at ease when i didnt understand that it came at cost to others. I didnt realize that things like respectability politics, denegrating other queer or marginalized experiences to make my own feel more legitimate, didnt accomplish that goal and only isolated me from diversity and love that i actually needed! Not only that, but i was isolating others from the love i could give if only i could set aside my own bullshit long enough lol. The reality i came to realize in early adulthood is that being white at least provided some layer between me and the meat grinder that is Other People At Scale, but being neurodivergent and queer and poor made me more exposed. And it would be disingenuous of me to assign pride on myself for the privileges afforded to me by whiteness. I dont know how to be a good person or an ally or anything else really but at least i know better than to stop analyzing at the first "satisfactory" answer, to be comfortable with challenging myself and being challenged. Thanks for ur video ❤
It can be difficult to get out of that mentality, but everything is up from there. Growth is a journey, I'm happy you're in a better place!
Thank you for this breakdown - watched the whole video. Great tips!!
If being a feminine woman wasn't for you, why did you think hypergamy is something you should look to? No shade but I'm genuinely curious. Also I think women need to return to focusing on females again. This inclusivity stuff is setting women's rights back. We can't even fight for abortion rights because we cannot say it's a woman's issue. Males are taking scholarships and prize money(which females only get 1% of anyway) from women and girls. Finally many of those types of women are not interested in helping them out in making more men bisexual but call themselves straight. I think you may be too young to remember how the DL epidemic made BW STD rates double. It's just not as simple as you say. Anyway I really like your hair style.
It's literally just telling women to be scammers. It's the redpill for glorified hookers lmao
which channels? should have listed them ahha. but wow its so weird of these channels to be a minority, talking to a presumed audience of minorities, then to put down and exclude... other minorities.
I was scrolling past a popular black instagram account and they posted a video of someone interacting with an indigenous person- meant to be a post about black + indigenous solidarity in Canada (im canadian myself so it was easy for me to digest), but so many of the comments acted like Indigenous people don't have their own histories and oppression, and were saying things like "black people are the real/only Indigenous ones" and using outdated/racist terminology like :/ It sucks that some people can't understand that other groups face oppression
It's a totally lack of empathy on that end. Oppression is not a competition. That's why solidarity and intersectionality are important. We should support not tear each other down and create echo chambers of hate. Sadly, that's not what's popular nor what wins out.
I don't know how i got here because uh, I'm Caucasian, but you're super cute and I LOVE the figures you have!
some of them where straight up scammers w. mugshots
Oop, I dipped out before knowing that. That's insane and very telling 😳
“Naegaboo” lolz. Nah seriously though, it seems to me that we black people appropriated the n-word from red necks. I don’t say it but it’s ok if others say it; it’s not our word. But that’s also why it benefits us most to get our identity from our ancient Hebrew ancestors. Modern culture is ephemeral and useless. But our identity in the Messiah, as proven by leaders like Harriet Tubman, Ella Baker, etc is our only true source of power. “I am black and beautiful.” - Song of Solomon 1:5 🙏🏾✝️🕎
“I am black and beautiful.” - Song of Solomon 1:5 🙏🏾✝️📖
I really like your hair. I just stumbled upon your channel. I will be subscribing! Fellow Queer Nuerodivergent Naturalista and anime lover! 🥰💁🏿♀️🪮🌈🤓🇯🇵 I cannot wait to see more of your content!!!
Very kind of you, I'll definitely keep uploading 🤗
Hey. Haven’t talked in a while. But I see you moved out. A good video idea could be a house tour. Wish you best of luck in life. Peace
Much appreciated, I like the idea. I'll definitely need to clean up a bit😁
New subbie❤️ loved video I joined the big chop as well and never felt so free
Greatest decision ever! I got talked out of it a ton but I'm so happy with the results😁💜
I'm here for you if you want to talk❤