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Amy's Angle
Добавлен 30 сен 2024
Hi, I'm Amy from China . My husband is from England . We met In Hang Zhou in China ,We get married around 11 years , and we have a 9 years old girl . I would like to share some videos about my own views on intercultural marriage and differences between my husband's, and my own culture .
why can not learn english well
Chinese people are famous over the world about their '' poor English '' even though we tried hard and worked very hard on it , but the main reason is we use the wrong method ,and from my observation , the way we learn English have not been changed in the past 20-30 years ! I am really shocked and feel pity about this .
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Do you believe sign star ? I believe it .
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This is a funny family story about why I married my husband It is because of his sign star and mine are perfect match . this is kind of joke abut part of it is truth , I am really kind of believe sign star ? How about you ?
I do not think this kind of behaviour is discriminatory
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I heard some kids been '' discriminated'' of their Chinese food . these kids are Chinese and they study in western countries , they take lunch to school and other kids complained about the smell . at the beginning I heard it , seems the kids were discriminated , but after I thought about , I do not think so . the Chinese kids have not been treated differently , they just been complained of some...
I do not know why there have so many numb people nowadays ? maybe our society is sick .
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I felt very low and emotional these days , because lots of little things happened around me ( here ) . and I read an article from a famous professor said our society is sick now ... Because of most our people are numb , careless , unconcerned to each other nowadays... and we do not have a faith , we do not believe God or Ghost , I have to admit and I guess he is right .
A very embarrassed question
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We have been asked some strange questions before , but this one really shocked me , and thanks my husband , he gave the perfect answer.
I guess I lost one friend because I use I phone
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Most of my friends use Chinese brand , I respect them , that is their rights , everyone has the right to choose the things they like . but one of my friend really insist me changing a phone like hers . I did not feel comfortable about it , so I said something back .
Our police and government are too nice to us , that is why we are what we are now
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My husband's opinion about something he really could not understand , China is our another home , we both hope it can get better . butt after 10 years we have seen lots of daily things getting worse not better here .
I AM NOT PERFECT , BUT I AM A BRITISH !
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I AM NOT PERFECT , BUT I AM A BRITISH !
Why lots of people complain about British food . I do like them .
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Why lots of people complain about British food . I do like them .
How much can a little girl love her Dad
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How much can a little girl love her Dad
I do not want to speak English anymore , I make mistakes in every sentence .
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I do not want to speak English anymore , I make mistakes in every sentence .
My daughter overcame the judgement about her body shape
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My daughter overcame the judgement about her body shape
My husband has good reasons do not give me flower
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My husband has good reasons do not give me flower
bride price has changed it's meaning In china nowadays
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bride price has changed it's meaning In china nowadays
The best homework my husband gave to his students
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The best homework my husband gave to his students
a dog or a child ? this is a family joke .
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a dog or a child ? this is a family joke .
How is interracial marriage like in reality ?
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How is interracial marriage like in reality ?
The ''rules '' for the women After childbirth in China
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The ''rules '' for the women After childbirth in China
You will never know why my husband married me
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You will never know why my husband married me
My husband feels he is an outsider here
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My husband feels he is an outsider here
my husband's wonderful all -purpose answer
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my husband's wonderful all -purpose answer
the difference I found between UK and China
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the difference I found between UK and China
the differences I found between UK and China
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the differences I found between UK and China
My husband wants to change A special driving license in China
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My husband wants to change A special driving license in China
The moments my husband drive me crazy
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The moments my husband drive me crazy
Your pronunciation is very good and there are no problems with grammar. However, like many native Chinese speakers, you lack fluency and coherence. You tend to speak in separate, isolated words, which creates a serious problem - it becomes difficult and uncomfortable for us to follow your speech.I know some highly qualified Chinese professionals who were turned down for jobs specifically because of this, even though their technical skills were excellent. The additional challenge is that English speakers typically won't point out these issues in your speech. If no one mentions the problem, it’s hard to address and solve it.
I really appreciate your comments and suggestion . I am working hard to improve .
🤣🤣🤣 my Chinese wife did the same, she checked our star signs and Chinese birth year signs, and told me we are not a good match in either! And for some reason she still agreed to marry me! Well 14 years later and im still reminding her that the star signs are a load of bullshit!😊
Ha I have to say Chinese women has lots on common . and I can feel you are happy in the marriage , so the sign star really do not matter .
most of the times its just kids picking on anything different
Chinese parents should switch to Surströmming for their kids to bring to school.
I once searched for bus-related information on the Internet, and I read that on the bus, people should eat foods on the bus that wouldn't have strong smells. So, stuff like garlic and onions would be bad on the bus. Everyone would know when a person had eaten garlic or onions because that person would have garlic breath or onion breath. There was one Korean-American RUclipsr who grew up mostly in Korea but went to America during her teen years, and she admitted that kimchi stunk. Her mother was also mindful of that, and so the mom would wrap the kimchi in layers and layers of wrapping and the daughter had to uncover all the layers of wrapping to get to the kimchi that her mom sent her. And she would do this when she became a parent of a daughter. She was the one working as a dentist in real life, before she became a full-time RUclipsr. The Korean Vegan RUclipsr doesn't like her mother's own reaction to white people who say kimchi is stinky, because she views her mother's reaction as submissiveness. From her point of view, she is not apologizing for the stinkiness, and people have to deal with it. She is the woman who works as a lawyer in real life and RUclipsr by night. I think Asians in general are more mindful of others because they grow up in a collectivist society, and in the society, it is important to be mindful of others and be aware of others. Asian Americans tend to grow up in a more individualist society so it is more important to stand up for individual traits and ideas and thoughts, even if it means to offend others. Break the harmony and conformity and all that.
And stay out of the sun!
I just noticed how nice the music is in this video. Thanks!
Thank you too! let me know .
i agree with you the parents should be more mindful and think about others, give the kid smelly food at home an less smelly when eating in public.
I’d like to give a third perspective. My perspective is that the complaints from those kids about the food are probably not *serious*. In the American culture, and to a lesser extent other western cultures, there is a tendency for people to make a big fuss about things, bc people think it is funny or entertaining. Or….something like that…. In truth, white people like Asian food (we like all cuisines). We like stinky foods, too. I do not like this over-expressiveness and over-emotionality. And I do not like the sarcasm and ribbing that is so common in our culture. I think it causes people to become anxious (this is a perfect example). However, sometimes, if you can learn that this ribbing is not a *serious* thing, you will be free to not be offended when white people say these things. The problem is that sometimes the ribbing *is* serious….so you can never know. You can only know if somebody tells you, directly, when it is serious or not. Like I am doing now. Which is rather awkward….so people often do not do it…
I hear you, Amy-it's frustrating. But you did the right thing by speaking up, and even small actions like yours can make a difference in a world that needs more thoughtfulness.
thank you so much and what you said really touched me
Why would any man pay for a bride? That is not marriage no matter what the customs are.
As a grown man from the U.S. I find the "bride price" to be financially backwards, and somewhat distasteful. I say financially backwards because in western culture a "dowry" was presented by the bride's family to the groom and his family... the reason being that after marriage the groom would be financially responsible for taking care of the bride and any children for the rest of their lives. I say distasteful because at amounts like 200,000 RMB or higher... I feel like I'm either "buying" the bride, or bribing her parents. I make over 30,000 RMB per month, but the bride prices that some women are asking for just seems like highway robbery.
My husband said so , In UK the bride pays a ''dowry '' . In China , long time ago , the bride pays a dowry , the groom provide a ''bride price '' , both are just for the new family . Nowadays its totally changed . Lots of girls 's families would like to get lots from the groom . so lots of men do not want to could not to get married .
@AmysAngle I paid no dowry, but my wedding and 1 month honeymoon cost less than $10K USD or about $75K RMB. I now average about $50K RMB/ month and the wife $32K RMB. Both houses paid off.
I agree with your husband, but also i think after a while these uncaring people grind you down an its tears of anger as well that you cant teach stupid!
I am trying to convince myself its not their fault . The society do not ''teach '' them . I am just lucky to know this .
hey no worries, it’s called an embarrassing question haha
My wife got stopped by someone, and they asked her where i was from, she said Scotland, they asked if i hated USA and Japan! And another time a old women stopped us in winter time and my wife was wearing a big padded winter jacket, the women told her well done for being pregnant with a mix baby, when she said no she was not, the women said good, send him home and find a good Chinese boy!
Don't worry, I agree with you! It's just a phone and whoever decides their friends based on what brand they use is definitely not worth your time. :)
It is unfortunate the cultural revolution and now the CCP have destroyed the great Chinese tradition before the 1960's. Most of the older generation who came to America are very honorable and respectful. They learned and follow the rules. Maybe you can leave and move to another country someday.
I understand what you said . and yes we are not we were , but I still have a hope .
@@AmysAngle Much luck to you and your family. Best wishes.
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Beautiful women can stay young by marrying me!
😂😂 I've heard you can stay young by always saying yes to your wife!
No bride price should be paid if the woman marries is a divorced woman or has married before.
Its funny my wife and her friends all used to be I phone or Samsung girls, which ever one released a new model or bigger screen they had to have it. Now my wife is thinking of getting a new Samsung and all her friends now have changed to chinese brands and are telling her to get one to support the country, but she is like you we both have Samsung she is used to it and only taking one charging lead when away from home is better.
Good video Amy, I found it interesting at the end where you say you do you best not to break the rules, i think more women in China, care about the rule than men, my wife hates when we are walking down the street an i see a gap in the traffic and will cross the road, and she always moans at me that we should wait and go to cross at the traffic lights. Her and her sister and there girl friends are all careful about not rule breaking where as there husbands/boyfriends dont mind breaking the rules. Of course its a generalisation and there will be women who dont care and men that do care
yes , with a high possibility , men break or do not care the rules or laws more than women . and we have lots of cameras on the big crossroad to catch the people and show their ID information on the big screen ...even this can not stop some people .Maybe low self-esteem and no principle are the main reasons . so My husband says , staying at home is a happy thing , he does not need to see or feel something ......he does not like and could not change .
Your daughter must be beautiful because she has a very beautiful mother.
thank you , she looks more like her Daddy .
Haha !!! Your husband is very funny.
IDK if it is ok for him to correct these things...they do not seem like a problem to me.
Not all men can marry, so allowing polygyny for rich men is one of the solutions, or 4 employees women for example friends or cousins or neighbors give an offer of marriage to an employee man (living together in one house and costs are divided equally) or export more men and import more women to the country not by force of course, but through scholarships, student exchange programs, job offers and investment opportunities.
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我想学中文。
你这句中文说得很好。
This is nothing that supply and demand market principles will not resolve. There is nothing that prevents a man of means from traveling and getting a much better deal. A jade gate is a jade gate.
me love you long time 🤣
I'm not sure if having a British chef for the night was a win lol I hope you two made fun of it.
I really hope he didn't actually say noisy s**t to your daughter...
you just don't understand the humour, it's a joke, they know it's a joke and that he is messing with them, he can say it in a light way and she wont be hurt by it, but it didn't end well for him because he had to make dinner that night lol. I hope they also complained about the food "Oh no tonight we have a British chef"
Yes , we all know he is joking , very British way ...get used to it ...
thanks for your concern , My daughter knew her Daddy is joking with her ... And she has a Strong heart Ha ha
I love this story on so many levels, the comeback was just perfect.
he shouldn't be so mean with his daughter, that was a good opportunity to boost her confidence and he missed
He wasn't being mean, he was being british
Absolutely Right , It costed me several years to understand British humour.
Nice this was funny
🤣🤣 poo guy having you both gang up on him and then he has to cook dinner!😂
Brilliant 😂Thank you!
That was a nice comeback from your side . I must say your husband is witty !
Don't give in. Let him do shopping and make dinner, Then he will know where the money goes.
You tell em’ Amy! It’s a myth our food isn’t good!
LOL
Thank you for being so nice. Our food is not bad. I think students may come with pre conceptions and may try some English food at perhaps the most worst place to go Its important to ask for the best choice to go . Locals will tell you.
😂😂😂 one of the main issue that "most" of the world (as the vast majority of the world population reside closer to the equator) has against food in the UK or any food from northern countries, is the lack of "exotic" ingredients. Have you ever noticed that uk, Scandinavian countries, Russian, northern canada, Mongolia & inner Mongolia have never been recognized as offering world renowned dishes/foods. While all have distinctive specialities, their common cooking styles is arguably their strength. They all have amazing stews, roasted meats and their variety of salted fish. As a professional consultant in the food industry possessing various culinary (trades) specialities. To fully appreciate the distinctiveness is to also understand why these habits where necessary. I don't know where you come from in china but the similarities are uncanny to europe. Food from Jiangxi, Guangdong , Shenzhen and Fujian are similar in cooking styles as the south of Europe and the north Xinjiang, inner Mongolia, Heilongjiang, Jilin, Liaoning and northern parts of Gansu & heibei share similar type of dishes with the north of europe. Of course the fact that most of northern china is land locked removes many fish/seafood similar dishes. As i said, alongside all the various stews available there is that one dish that is pervasive in all of these northern jurisdictions. While it's name will change and it's vessel...we all know it as a meat pie. In China, its a Xian bing, in 🇲🇶🇨🇦 Québec Canada, (where i originate) we call it a tourtière/pâté à la viande/cipaille (English loan word of sea pie) and our meat only cipate. spicetrekkers.com/recipes/quebec-cipate One of the main reason why our foods are marvelous is most require long cooking period, thus including, bone marrow, cartilage and umami rich ingredients such as tomato (paste), garlic, peas and mushrooms.
thanks very much of your long comments , and you really are a professional consultant . you know food around the world so well . I come from the middle of China , we eat wheaten food ( noodles and steamed bun ) lots including what you mentioned all kinds of Pies . could I ask one question: are bones and fats ,skins of the animal ok to eat ? As I know , they are not good for health , In China we eat lots , but these years I have been influence by my husband , I stopped to eat them for years .
@AmysAngle may I assume you are originally from Xi'an China? Or in the vicinity? As it is renowned for it's noodles and so many other (wheat) things. Everything is fine if you keep it within "reason". I myself eat liver, brain, tongue, "Prairie oysters" (testicules), kidney, heart (adore chicken hearts), intestines, sheep lung's (as the Scott's use for Haggis). Moderation is always best, one or two portions per week as for offals, pork belly while being tender (fattier vs protein) and full of heart healthy fatty acids and omega 3s is high it is naturally high in saturated fats, high in calories. I always recommend people to go for the mid range cut aka the shoulder. If chicken or duck feet are things you enjoy, just continue they provide exclusively good things, duck tongues are also great food ingredients as cow/pig tongues (as they are extremely lean). This might surprise you but growing up in Canada, I have had the opportunity to enjoy several delicacies (which are banned or not well perceived around the world). It was quite common to purchase dog meat at the butchers until it's ban (from resale) in 1995. What most don't realize is while it may illegal to purchase to eat, it is still legal to raise and eat. There is only one type of meat which is illegal to eat here (gov't regulations) is human. Everything else is authorized. We are legally privileged (by our govt) as we eat seal meat. The only natural meat that provides the highest % of protein than any other on the planet. Chicken breast is ~25gr/100gr of meat vs seal meat ~51gr/100gr. Before continuing to eat what you are used to, I recommend that a general health evaluation is taken as to not cause more problems over time.
Hey Amy, love the videos. Always very interesting. I just watched this one with my friend! Please keep them up
Glad you like them! Thanks lots .
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Next time you come to the uk you need to come to Scotland, and try our food, we have the Scottish breakfast, square sausage, Haggis ant tunock tea cakes to name a few, if you like English food you'll like Scottish food.
sounds lovely , I must go one day . Last time we were on the boarder of England and Scotland. It was a little pity could been because of the time was too rush .
sorry ...border not boarder
Its okay I understood 👍
It's important to remember that many people are stupid and speak without experience or knowledge of the subject they claim to be expert in.
It is amazing the way you guys give clarity to your daughter on this topic. And your daughter is so beautiful and innocent by heart. God bless you and your family sister !😊
You are so kind
😊👍 spot on
Thank you for this information. 👍