Yok Hon
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4 Need To Know Tips in Dating For Asian Men In 2025
4 Confidence Tips for Asian Australian Men in Relationships (2025)
1️⃣ Understanding Cultural Shifts
From the racism and misrepresentation of Asians in the 90s to the modern integration of Asian culture-Japanese anime, K-pop, Bollywood, and even TikTok memes-Asian men now have more freedom to redefine confidence. Heal from past wounds and embrace the diverse, positive portrayals of Asians today.
2️⃣ Fashion & Presentation
Fashion matters, but it shouldn't define you. Whether you adopt Korean trends or a fitness-focused look, remember to prioritize self-care and effort. Avoid cultural appropriation and focus on presenting yourself with respect-for both you and your potential partner.
3️⃣ Emotio...
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If You're An Australian Born Chinese Man Listen To This
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This is a bit of a vulnerable post about my background but I wanted to reach out to the Australian Born Chinese men out there on an important message. Growing up as an Australian Born Chinese (ABC), I lived through subtle, or "invisible" racism. It caused me and many others out there to shame my roots, and question my identity. Here's my answer to it.
Transforming Your Love Life And Embracing Our Yin And Yang With Hoa Bui
Просмотров 282 месяца назад
Hoa, which means Flower in Vietnamese is 31 from Vietnam, moved to Australia just 3 years ago. She's a - Life Coach / Energy Healer - Mentor at VK Nu mentoring program by EQuest Asia - Ultra trail marathon runner (finished 100km run) - Vipassana meditator She helps driven people reconnect to their inner wisdom, reveal their soul's purpose, transform their shadow into their inner strength to be ...
Top 5 Must Haves For Amazing Relationships (AND Stop Attracting Narcissists)
Просмотров 762 месяца назад
We're often so focused on spotting red flags that we forget about the green flags we should look for in a partner! Traits like humility, kindness, consistency, vulnerability, conflict resolution, and empathy aren’t extras-they're essential for a healthy, safe relationship. Here are the top 5 must-haves when finding the partner for you, creating an amazing relationship, and how to stop attractin...
How To Stop Giving Too Much In the Relationship
Просмотров 233 месяца назад
So many have reached out and worked with me around this challenge: managing your emotions, knowing what to do when there's imbalance and you feel you give so much, yet receive so little. Here's an unpack of what's happening, how to handle things moving forward, and a simple exercise to go from tolerating your resentments and anger for giving too much, to taking courageous steps to effectively c...
SECRET Reason You're Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People and How To Change It
Просмотров 3193 месяца назад
Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people or find yourself pushing away what could be a great relationship? If this sounds like you, you might have trouble trusting your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to relying on others for validation, which is what most are usually taught but is mostly dysfunctional. Here's the secret reason why you could be attracting emot...
Growth Gurus episdode 4 Overcoming Fear part 2
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Growth Gurus episdode 4 Overcoming Fear part 2
Growth Gurus Episode 3: Overcoming Fear part 1
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Growth Gurus Episode 3: Overcoming Fear part 1
Episode 1: Values, Purpose an The Ideal Average Day
Просмотров 23Год назад
Episode 1: Values, Purpose an The Ideal Average Day

Комментарии

  • @thug4lyfe
    @thug4lyfe 24 дня назад

    This is a common occurance in the racist Anglosphere. Here in New Zealand the ray cism from elite wytes are social exclusion. Open ray cism tend to be from other immigrants, especially other Azns.

  • @jejudo3000
    @jejudo3000 29 дней назад

    I’m a Canada born Korean mate. I’m in the the wrong market

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon 27 дней назад

      I think as long as the message resonates in some shape or form with the notion that there's differentiation or people feel a question of identity, this can speak to anyone. It's an emotion market.

  • @peterh7458
    @peterh7458 29 дней назад

    Good advice. For anyone, not just Asian blokes.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon 29 дней назад

      I very much agree. Though I can only be as specific from my own experience. I suppose with enough people to verify this, my reach will change.

  • @SusantoHalim-e5g
    @SusantoHalim-e5g 29 дней назад

    Western society is a rather racist society.

  • @Modgil90
    @Modgil90 29 дней назад

    Dog, just do what you want, but know that we choose our personality/life. Each and every interaction can be played differently.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon 29 дней назад

      @@Modgil90 100% empower ourselves through choice. We can self-advocate or self-abandon.

  • @Sustain_life
    @Sustain_life 29 дней назад

    I am a young Australian of South-East Asian descent (I don't have East Asian features) but I feel young east Asians are very emotionally matured contrary to many in our society and passionate about their loved ones and friends close to them.

  • @jirachan
    @jirachan Месяц назад

    be yourself my guy

  • @SalsaSniper
    @SalsaSniper Месяц назад

    Stop being hard on yourself. You can be your own worse enemy. I've realised you can't please everybody. You need to find your group who appreciates you. Teachers can be pathetic.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      You're 100% correct. Its not anyone's job to like everyone. If you're a friend to everyone, you're an enemy to yourself.

  • @wubbalublub5368
    @wubbalublub5368 Месяц назад

    It's simple. Take pride in our cultural roots and don't be a slave.

  • @tekamer6566
    @tekamer6566 Месяц назад

    Being of mixed race is hard enough for non-Europeans but adding to it a lost connection to one's heritage is truly a generational tragedy. I had experience with this, though my method of combating it was going further into my culture even when my family refused to engage in it. Now more than a decade later only me and my parents know how to speak our native tongue but since they made a rule to not use it at home none of my four siblings speak it. I had many racist experiences but the one that hurt the most was that of my family rejecting me for it. I'm the only one that maintains contact with my extended family outside of the US (they cut contact with them) since I believe in a strong family line connection. But my family see's me as a shameful blot on their perfect "Americanized" family. It caused me an identity crisis that for someone like me shouldn't have ever been a thing. I had a strong identity even though I am mixed. But I really felt you when you talked about the ways the ignorance of society/'s constantly wants to break your knee and make you break down about who you are. The most painful thing about it is that there will never be closure from any of the fools. We will eventually have to accept the incomplete presenting personas that we are. My personal solace is my heritage and my family tree's history which puts a lot of my identity mania to peace.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      @tekamer6566 wow thank you so much for sharing your vulnerable story. I'm deeply touched by how my message mattered and I'm so incredibly sorry by how your family and society treated you. I'm going to make a video dedicated to this to support those out there around reconciling family expectations, the unfairness of discrimination and our own happiness.

  • @noahlenten8360
    @noahlenten8360 Месяц назад

    i appreciate your personal story, its terrible how our identites are used to dehumanise us. as a hopelessly cynical person all i would say is that in "unsubscribing to the model of excellence" you may very well be reconstructing a much more stable model of excellence. for a "white" person like me my identity in this country is kind of like a non-identity, i dont even know what my heritage is and i have a kind of invisibility. there is no internal conflict, there is just an internal silence in terms of my ethno-racial identity. wether you flip the narrative or not you're still subjected to having an identity on those grounds in the first place. you're perfectly free to choose to resist that and reject the imposition of a particular identity whatsoever. you're not asian, not australian, not chinese, not australian born chinese and dont need to be anything. not to say theres anything wrong or bad about what you're talking about, just that theres space to completely reject the identity in the first place

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon 29 дней назад

      I think you're right in regards of being you and not needing to fit into a narrative. I'm sorry to hear the struggle in your journey. It must be hard in another way how absence or lack of acknowledgment of identity affected you. I'd say your identity is created. You take components and parts of what inspires you, what you believe makes you happy, characteristics you want to acquire, and do your best to incorporate it to define you. It's not easy. But it's helped to allow me to be happy with my character and continual growth. I believe that for anyone and for you.

  • @kyle7092
    @kyle7092 Месяц назад

    We asian need to speak up more.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      Definitely, not just to defend ourselves against discrimination, but also to accept ourselves as individuals

    • @SusantoHalim-e5g
      @SusantoHalim-e5g 29 дней назад

      Or Asian in any western country.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon 29 дней назад

      @@SusantoHalim-e5g Very true though I'm not sure what an easy title for that is. Asian Westerners?

  • @scoobydoobydoooo
    @scoobydoobydoooo Месяц назад

    Also, it takes the piss that you receive hostility from whoever it is in Australia. The only true natives of Australia are the aborigine. All the rest can f**k off with this 'you're an outsider' talk

  • @scoobydoobydoooo
    @scoobydoobydoooo Месяц назад

    I've seen it myself. Generally (and I mean going into about 90-95%) of east Asian people are well natured and don't disrespect others. Peace-able people. You might see some hostility in their own countries like China (foreign nurses being spat at by old school Chinese for example). But all the east asians that get discriminated on are for no justifiable reason. I actually really hope you all look out for each other and punish the cowards that do this to you. I've seen blatant racism mostly from fellow Whites but also even more from the blacks. That doesn't seem to get mentioned enough nowadays which really pisses me off

  • @k.vn.k
    @k.vn.k Месяц назад

    Yes 💯

    • @k.vn.k
      @k.vn.k Месяц назад

      But i developed thicc skin and don’t care and just laugh it off along

    • @k.vn.k
      @k.vn.k Месяц назад

      Then make a point never talked to that person anymore.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      ​@@k.vn.kI've got a great video next that will next level beyond thick skin. 😊

  • @Stevechaa-x4z
    @Stevechaa-x4z Месяц назад

    It makes us stronger.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      Exactly, don't box ourselves to an individual quality. But as our human qualities

  • @mohamedgoldstein5565
    @mohamedgoldstein5565 Месяц назад

    Not just Aussies. I thought the same thing about asian men.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      Very much agreed.

  • @zhenzheng5471
    @zhenzheng5471 Месяц назад

    wow Glad you are sharing this, never realised theres so much discrimination towards Asian guys out there.

    • @YokHon
      @YokHon Месяц назад

      Happy to have provided insight. I'm sure ABC women have equally, if not more struggles also.

  • @KBADNER
    @KBADNER Год назад

    Extremely interesting introspective thoughts

  • @denisgirard7467
    @denisgirard7467 Год назад

    60 yrs of working with horses and dogs taught me that if I call them baby,, honey, sweetheart, etc, it's hard to get mad at them. When it deteriorates to 'you sonofabitch', it's time to step back and reassess.