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Yok Hon
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Hey there, I'm Yok, I’m a specialized dating and relationship coach for Asian Men. I excel in creating confidence, self-acceptance, and attracting long-term relationships.
I empower Asian men raised in Western countries to embrace their identity, overcome racial challenges, build confidence, and attract the relationships they deserve.
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4 Need To Know Tips in Dating For Asian Men In 2025
4 Confidence Tips for Asian Australian Men in Relationships (2025)
1️⃣ Understanding Cultural Shifts
From the racism and misrepresentation of Asians in the 90s to the modern integration of Asian culture-Japanese anime, K-pop, Bollywood, and even TikTok memes-Asian men now have more freedom to redefine confidence. Heal from past wounds and embrace the diverse, positive portrayals of Asians today.
2️⃣ Fashion & Presentation
Fashion matters, but it shouldn't define you. Whether you adopt Korean trends or a fitness-focused look, remember to prioritize self-care and effort. Avoid cultural appropriation and focus on presenting yourself with respect-for both you and your potential partner.
3️⃣ Emotio...
1️⃣ Understanding Cultural Shifts
From the racism and misrepresentation of Asians in the 90s to the modern integration of Asian culture-Japanese anime, K-pop, Bollywood, and even TikTok memes-Asian men now have more freedom to redefine confidence. Heal from past wounds and embrace the diverse, positive portrayals of Asians today.
2️⃣ Fashion & Presentation
Fashion matters, but it shouldn't define you. Whether you adopt Korean trends or a fitness-focused look, remember to prioritize self-care and effort. Avoid cultural appropriation and focus on presenting yourself with respect-for both you and your potential partner.
3️⃣ Emotio...
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If You're An Australian Born Chinese Man Listen To This
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This is a bit of a vulnerable post about my background but I wanted to reach out to the Australian Born Chinese men out there on an important message. Growing up as an Australian Born Chinese (ABC), I lived through subtle, or "invisible" racism. It caused me and many others out there to shame my roots, and question my identity. Here's my answer to it.
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How To Stop Giving Too Much In the Relationship
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So many have reached out and worked with me around this challenge: managing your emotions, knowing what to do when there's imbalance and you feel you give so much, yet receive so little. Here's an unpack of what's happening, how to handle things moving forward, and a simple exercise to go from tolerating your resentments and anger for giving too much, to taking courageous steps to effectively c...
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This is a common occurance in the racist Anglosphere. Here in New Zealand the ray cism from elite wytes are social exclusion. Open ray cism tend to be from other immigrants, especially other Azns.
I’m a Canada born Korean mate. I’m in the the wrong market
I think as long as the message resonates in some shape or form with the notion that there's differentiation or people feel a question of identity, this can speak to anyone. It's an emotion market.
Good advice. For anyone, not just Asian blokes.
I very much agree. Though I can only be as specific from my own experience. I suppose with enough people to verify this, my reach will change.
Western society is a rather racist society.
Dog, just do what you want, but know that we choose our personality/life. Each and every interaction can be played differently.
@@Modgil90 100% empower ourselves through choice. We can self-advocate or self-abandon.
I am a young Australian of South-East Asian descent (I don't have East Asian features) but I feel young east Asians are very emotionally matured contrary to many in our society and passionate about their loved ones and friends close to them.
be yourself my guy
Stop being hard on yourself. You can be your own worse enemy. I've realised you can't please everybody. You need to find your group who appreciates you. Teachers can be pathetic.
You're 100% correct. Its not anyone's job to like everyone. If you're a friend to everyone, you're an enemy to yourself.
It's simple. Take pride in our cultural roots and don't be a slave.
Being of mixed race is hard enough for non-Europeans but adding to it a lost connection to one's heritage is truly a generational tragedy. I had experience with this, though my method of combating it was going further into my culture even when my family refused to engage in it. Now more than a decade later only me and my parents know how to speak our native tongue but since they made a rule to not use it at home none of my four siblings speak it. I had many racist experiences but the one that hurt the most was that of my family rejecting me for it. I'm the only one that maintains contact with my extended family outside of the US (they cut contact with them) since I believe in a strong family line connection. But my family see's me as a shameful blot on their perfect "Americanized" family. It caused me an identity crisis that for someone like me shouldn't have ever been a thing. I had a strong identity even though I am mixed. But I really felt you when you talked about the ways the ignorance of society/'s constantly wants to break your knee and make you break down about who you are. The most painful thing about it is that there will never be closure from any of the fools. We will eventually have to accept the incomplete presenting personas that we are. My personal solace is my heritage and my family tree's history which puts a lot of my identity mania to peace.
@tekamer6566 wow thank you so much for sharing your vulnerable story. I'm deeply touched by how my message mattered and I'm so incredibly sorry by how your family and society treated you. I'm going to make a video dedicated to this to support those out there around reconciling family expectations, the unfairness of discrimination and our own happiness.
i appreciate your personal story, its terrible how our identites are used to dehumanise us. as a hopelessly cynical person all i would say is that in "unsubscribing to the model of excellence" you may very well be reconstructing a much more stable model of excellence. for a "white" person like me my identity in this country is kind of like a non-identity, i dont even know what my heritage is and i have a kind of invisibility. there is no internal conflict, there is just an internal silence in terms of my ethno-racial identity. wether you flip the narrative or not you're still subjected to having an identity on those grounds in the first place. you're perfectly free to choose to resist that and reject the imposition of a particular identity whatsoever. you're not asian, not australian, not chinese, not australian born chinese and dont need to be anything. not to say theres anything wrong or bad about what you're talking about, just that theres space to completely reject the identity in the first place
I think you're right in regards of being you and not needing to fit into a narrative. I'm sorry to hear the struggle in your journey. It must be hard in another way how absence or lack of acknowledgment of identity affected you. I'd say your identity is created. You take components and parts of what inspires you, what you believe makes you happy, characteristics you want to acquire, and do your best to incorporate it to define you. It's not easy. But it's helped to allow me to be happy with my character and continual growth. I believe that for anyone and for you.
We asian need to speak up more.
Definitely, not just to defend ourselves against discrimination, but also to accept ourselves as individuals
Or Asian in any western country.
@@SusantoHalim-e5g Very true though I'm not sure what an easy title for that is. Asian Westerners?
Also, it takes the piss that you receive hostility from whoever it is in Australia. The only true natives of Australia are the aborigine. All the rest can f**k off with this 'you're an outsider' talk
I've seen it myself. Generally (and I mean going into about 90-95%) of east Asian people are well natured and don't disrespect others. Peace-able people. You might see some hostility in their own countries like China (foreign nurses being spat at by old school Chinese for example). But all the east asians that get discriminated on are for no justifiable reason. I actually really hope you all look out for each other and punish the cowards that do this to you. I've seen blatant racism mostly from fellow Whites but also even more from the blacks. That doesn't seem to get mentioned enough nowadays which really pisses me off
Yes 💯
But i developed thicc skin and don’t care and just laugh it off along
Then make a point never talked to that person anymore.
@@k.vn.kI've got a great video next that will next level beyond thick skin. 😊
It makes us stronger.
Exactly, don't box ourselves to an individual quality. But as our human qualities
Not just Aussies. I thought the same thing about asian men.
Very much agreed.
wow Glad you are sharing this, never realised theres so much discrimination towards Asian guys out there.
Happy to have provided insight. I'm sure ABC women have equally, if not more struggles also.
Extremely interesting introspective thoughts
60 yrs of working with horses and dogs taught me that if I call them baby,, honey, sweetheart, etc, it's hard to get mad at them. When it deteriorates to 'you sonofabitch', it's time to step back and reassess.