Stella O'Malley
Stella O'Malley
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Trans Kids: It’s Time To Talk
A documentary by Ollie Lambert where Stella O'Malley considers the huge rise in numbers of young people embarking on gender transition, through the prism of the gender identity issues that she experienced when she was a child. The programme aired on Channel 4 on November 21 2018.
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The CRAZY Gender Policies in Ireland | Laoise de Brún, Graham Linehan & Stella O' Malley
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I recently joined Laoise de Brún BL, a barrister and CEO of The Countess and Graham Linehan, Irish comedy writer and memoirist of 'Tough Crowd' for a panel at the Ireland Free Speech Summit on June 18. We discussed 'Speaking Truth on Gender,' with Laoise chairing the panel and introducing her important work at The Countess. The event was hosted by Free Speech Ireland and supported by ADF Intern...
The HORRIFYING Reality of Porn Exposure on Kids
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The impact of porn on young people these days is vastly underestimated. In my work I see an awful lot of young people who've been really badly impacted by porn and we have to kind of address what's going on. When you look at the history of porn you'll realise we've always had erotica. You go back as far as 35,000 years where they found erotic drawings on a cave wall in Germany and you go back t...
The Drama Triangle EXPLAINED
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Often when we have children with our partners, we have these great dreamy days when the mother is pregnant and the baby arrives and then often a bit of conflict comes, because we have different parenting styles. And generally, it's fine. There might be a few rows, there might be a few kinds of disagreements, but we jog along. By the time the kid gets into the teenage years, it can get a lot mor...
What is ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria)?
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Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD), a term used to describe a sudden identification with transgender identity among teenagers, particularly females. Dr. Lisa Littman's research highlights a significant increase in adolescent girls identifying as trans, sparking debates on the influences of social media and peer dynamics. Please subscribe, comment, like and share! Social Media: X: s...
Why Drastic Action Is Needed Against Ideological Influences
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When a kid gets wrapped up in a kind of fixation on medical transition, it can be very frightening for the family, but it could also feel like the parent is losing the child. And so while the child is upstairs just kind of nurturing their persona, they don't actually know that they're at the very same time nurturing an anti-family, anti-parent doctrine. But on another level, I'd say if you don'...
Being Gay is a Relationship with Other People
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A lot of people who are speaking about trans issues and who are trying to understand the young people who are identifying as trans, they think it's kind of something similar to being gay. An awful lot of people know the history, the dreadful history of gay people. They remember how they were subjected to barbaric treatments and how people forced them to try to be straight and there were some aw...
When Siblings Affirm the Trans Identity
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Some siblings are extremely supportive of their trans-identified sibling; they use the correct pronouns and become their greatest advocate. Often, these siblings are involved in social justice causes and engage in online discourse, taking pride in their sibling's trans identity. They see their role as affirming the identity and can become very angry alongside the trans-identified sibling at the...
When Siblings Are Uneasy About Trans Identification
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When Siblings Are Uneasy About Trans Identification
Three Stories of Trans Rejection
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Three Stories of Trans Rejection
Why 'Trans' Kids Are OBSESSED With Hair
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Why 'Trans' Kids Are OBSESSED With Hair
There is a Fixation on Language
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There is a Fixation on Language
The Link Between Transition, Medication And Euthanasia
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The Link Between Transition, Medication And Euthanasia
When to Help Your Kids and When to Step Back
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When to Help Your Kids and When to Step Back
Parents and Detransitioners Describe It as a Cult
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Parents and Detransitioners Describe It as a Cult
The Dangers of Therapeutic Parenting
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The Dangers of Therapeutic Parenting
Why the Myers-Briggs Personality Test Could Help Your Kid
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Why the Myers-Briggs Personality Test Could Help Your Kid
What To Do When Kids Are Over-diagnosed And Over-prescribed
Просмотров 2429 месяцев назад
What To Do When Kids Are Over-diagnosed And Over-prescribed
Why Bad Therapy Is Worse Than No Therapy
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Why Bad Therapy Is Worse Than No Therapy
Don't Breathe Life Into The Monsters Under The Bed.
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Don't Breathe Life Into The Monsters Under The Bed.
The WPATH Files - A Clinical Medical Scandal
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The WPATH Files - A Clinical Medical Scandal
Fanfiction's Influence and Online Grooming Risks
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Fanfiction's Influence and Online Grooming Risks
Crisis management and self harm
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Crisis management and self harm
Finding a therapist for your ROGD kid
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Finding a therapist for your ROGD kid
Why your child might need some ceremonies in their life
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Why your child might need some ceremonies in their life
Bigger Picture Denver: The Psychological Roots of Gender-Related Distress Panel Discussion
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Bigger Picture Denver: The Psychological Roots of Gender-Related Distress Panel Discussion
Teenage girls and gender issues
Просмотров 162Год назад
Teenage girls and gender issues
Managing tech with teenagers
Просмотров 137Год назад
Managing tech with teenagers
Talking about sex and gender with your kid
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Talking about sex and gender with your kid
The Four Types of Males With Gender Issues
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The Four Types of Males With Gender Issues

Комментарии

  • @susanhill833
    @susanhill833 22 часа назад

    Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING that comes from stella is NOTHING but NAZI FASCIST FEARMONGERING HATEMONGERING GASLIGHTING PROPAGANDA BULLSHIT said to illicit FEAR in you to INDOCTRINATE, GROOM, and MANIPULATE you to the NAZI FASCIST IDEOLOGY of HATE and VIOLENCE, she is LYING through her TEETH to you.

  • @Bellamammal
    @Bellamammal 5 дней назад

    This REALLY needs cc. I can’t understand most of it.

  • @emmafogarty3212
    @emmafogarty3212 17 дней назад

    Not sure is this listing is still taking comments , I'm 38, I have lived and I can confirm that even though when I was younger I was never interested in material that was TOO explicit and I was too scared to look at anything that wasn't drawn , I realize as I get older that even the most mild titillating scenario could have been a terrible influence on a 12-15 year old brain , thats already a couple of years of brainrot and unrealistic expectations before someone starts getting to the age they start considering dating. It can render it very difficult to form a proper intimate relationship for ages later on. Its important that the brain is intellectually stimulated often rather than ONLY consuming trashy material. Just leads to ineptness, sense of guilt and decay and getting so tired/bored.

  • @Libertarian606
    @Libertarian606 23 дня назад

    If I had young kids I would help them by pointing out your ignorance, arrogance, complete lack of understanding or desire to understand, and ultimately extremely harmful ultra conservative views on the subject of the increasingly redundant gender binary. As the oldest of my kids is around your age I’ve no need to do that - all three of them have figured that out for themselves.

  • @AmazingRebel23
    @AmazingRebel23 24 дня назад

    As a trans guy it’s important for people to talk about this instead of pretending nothing happened

  • @Libertarian606
    @Libertarian606 25 дней назад

    I blame porn on the trans. Speaking of the trans, I stubbed my toe on the doorstep this morning - that was undoubtedly their fault as well, right Stella?

  • @Libertarian606
    @Libertarian606 29 дней назад

    I’ll tell you one way in which the experience of gay and trans people is similar - they both have ignorant and arrogant people who have never had the experience themselves and have no idea what it is like telling them what’s going on with them and what they need to do. The narrative you are peddling here is utterly drivelling.

  • @InterviewsWithAvita
    @InterviewsWithAvita Месяц назад

    Alot of this is form social media, learned from others online and claim to be this or that to fit in. I was MTF trans at age 11 there was no other kids like me in middle school or high school nor was there any options to do anything about it before age 18. I grew up in the 1980s now almost 50 and done with my transition. I have no regrets and there was no LGBTQ anything the internet was not how it is today no fast connections, no google, no amazon nothing! the ancient web crawler node hopping from a BBS dial up service at most LOL. We went to the library to look up things.

  • @HamilcarBarca-jm3ey
    @HamilcarBarca-jm3ey Месяц назад

    Tomboy's are not boys. Girls are not boys. Boys are not girls.

  • @ReadJohn1421
    @ReadJohn1421 Месяц назад

    John 14:21-23 ESV Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him." [22] Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, "Lord, how is it that you will manifest yourself to us, and not to the world?" [23] Jesus answered him, "If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.

  • @badamson
    @badamson Месяц назад

    it’s not unreasonable nor unsurprising to be unhappy with the random metaphysical coin toss we are all assigned and that dictates the course of our life.

  • @saundersjade5877
    @saundersjade5877 Месяц назад

    Wow . I am transexual 45 years old, brillant well balanced documentaire. Changed my opinion of you. Its à shame bothe side can not talk.

  • @Jdjustsaying
    @Jdjustsaying Месяц назад

    100%

  • @Anna-h-f4h
    @Anna-h-f4h 2 месяца назад

    Does anyone else think that this stopped being about gender a long time ago? and there's a lot more serious issues underneath this that need to be undercovered

  • @Anna-h-f4h
    @Anna-h-f4h 2 месяца назад

    Here's to the "would of been trans" people whose voices aren't being heard

    • @Bthe312
      @Bthe312 21 день назад

      Would HAVE

  • @elishevak.8637
    @elishevak.8637 2 месяца назад

    In Israel many people hold on to Jewish ceremonies even if they don't consider themselves "religious" . Mothers and daughters light candles on Fridays just before the sun sets to welcome the Sabbath. Passover night is a big hit... almost everyone celebrates the night of commemorating our redemption from slavery in Egypt. I remeber seeing a secular politician saying on TV.: I don't believe in the Bible but the message of redemption from slavery is so beautiful... It's really interesting how you explained that ceremonies contribute to our mental well-being.

  • @elishevak.8637
    @elishevak.8637 2 месяца назад

    I've been teaching adolescents for almost 4 decades and I think this film is very important. Stella, thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts.

  • @Knuck_Knucks
    @Knuck_Knucks 2 месяца назад

    Stella, you're such a compassionate, humble, and touching soul. Thank you for all that you do. 🐿

  • @porgguy4962
    @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

    So well done Stella. Thank you for doing this.

  • @porgguy4962
    @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

    Why is the 13 year old on their own laptop alone in their room? Confirmation bias from all the pro-trans social media is all he's looking at all day along with all the rhetoric that says anyone who doesnt support transitioning are evil fascist and bigots. Get the kids off the internet!

  • @BellaCarmezia
    @BellaCarmezia 2 месяца назад

    What an incredible and balanced documentary! Thank you!

  • @jcimsn8464
    @jcimsn8464 2 месяца назад

    Trans women are trans women. It's transphobic to say otherwise.

    • @porgguy4962
      @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

      Do you believe there exists in everyone an innate gender identity?

  • @edithofr.i.emeraldisle5042
    @edithofr.i.emeraldisle5042 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for this documentary. I so relate to your story.....

  • @jamiesiple7703
    @jamiesiple7703 2 месяца назад

    yes i disagree with this, i still support this side of the issue to be out too.

  • @Jdjustsaying
    @Jdjustsaying 2 месяца назад

    NO matter what, the I’m Jewish therefore…🙄

  • @Jdjustsaying
    @Jdjustsaying 2 месяца назад

    The wives are heartbroken everyday 😢

  • @KramRemin
    @KramRemin 2 месяца назад

    This is the video "WELL DONE! WELL DONE!" that KJK was mocking.

  • @KramRemin
    @KramRemin 2 месяца назад

    As usual, the father sits there like a figure on Mt Rushmore, not saying anything. Good to hear how this works out in a WELSH cultural context.

  • @mks9469
    @mks9469 2 месяца назад

    GET YOUR KIDS OFF OF THE INTERNET!!!!

  • @mks9469
    @mks9469 2 месяца назад

    There is what you ARE….and then your personality. You ARE a human, and you ARE a male or female. Your personality is fluid and every male and female has a unique blend of masculinity and femininity. That is not a “gender” and how you feel does not determine what you are. You are a mean in a dress or a woman who is more masculine.

    • @porgguy4962
      @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

      Exactly! Gender identity is just a tiny part of something we all have called a personality. It's not innate and it's not fixed. Men can be feminine and women can be masc.

  • @mks9469
    @mks9469 2 месяца назад

    There is what you ARE….and then your personality. You ARE a human, and you ARE a male or female. Your personality is fluid and every male and female has a unique blend of masculinity and femininity. That is not a “gender” and how you feel does not determine what you are. You are a mean in a dress or a woman who is more masculine.

  • @JRSS06
    @JRSS06 2 месяца назад

    Yeah are trans people your identified patient you POS.

  • @Gargamel19
    @Gargamel19 2 месяца назад

    They could still do all thise things you list without joining the gay community i dont get this?? Lol.

  • @Gargamel19
    @Gargamel19 2 месяца назад

    Every young person goes through some type of identity crisis at dome point because your teen years and even preteen years are the HARDEST to go through. This is when its easiest to lead young kids astray. Of COURSE if your a tom boy and not fomfortable in your body right now, your going to feel awkward and not natural....that makes sense, but to steer young kids towards chemicals when they are so so vulnerable, i just cannot get behind. Great video!

  • @xcape2usa
    @xcape2usa 2 месяца назад

    I was a tomboy in the 70's 80's. 'Boy' am i glad i grew up in that era. Now I'm a tomwife and tomother of 3. I cook and bake with my daughter. Drive tractors on the farm and shoot guns with my sons and husband. I couldn't be a happier woman.

  • @beartrapperkc
    @beartrapperkc 2 месяца назад

    Stella's outlook has REALLY changed since this was made.

  • @Bostronix
    @Bostronix 2 месяца назад

    The evidence supporting cross sex hormones doesn’t exist.

  • @HappyValleyGuy
    @HappyValleyGuy 2 месяца назад

    Dear Trans kids , Like the rest of the inclusive world , you can do what you want when you are 18 years old..

    • @youtube_username_
      @youtube_username_ 2 месяца назад

      That age should be raised to 25, in my opinion - I mean 25 years of maturing without medical insurance interference.

    • @MTx485
      @MTx485 2 месяца назад

      @@youtube_username_or we can meet halfway. They can start therapy etc at 18, then by 20 they can make the decision. 25 is pushing it a bit since 18 is considered legal adulthood

    • @matthewatwood8641
      @matthewatwood8641 Месяц назад

      Affirmative therapy is completely illegitimate and should be banned, & the surgical procedures & hormone prescription should be outlawed. None of it is medically or scientifically based, and it is all exploitative and abusive.

    • @Bthe312
      @Bthe312 21 день назад

      ​@@MTx485Nothing wrong with therapy as a child. It's the medical intervention that is problematic.

  • @wendyschnitzer3231
    @wendyschnitzer3231 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for making this Stella!

  • @jamesboekbinder3967
    @jamesboekbinder3967 2 месяца назад

    Good film. Thx.

  • @morsea-8767
    @morsea-8767 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Stella.

  • @moodrahkamite818
    @moodrahkamite818 2 месяца назад

    The MOST terrifying vector of attack comes from minors influence over other minors. When considering that a few years difference in age corresponds with stages in cognitive maturation. The issue of influence is...[ insert sentiments of doom here].

  • @aresmars2003
    @aresmars2003 2 месяца назад

    6+ years ago. So sad. “I think they are bring lead. I think they are lost.” There are no “trans kids”. There are just indoctrinated kids (and adults) caught in a social contagion. Gender nonconformity is all of us. There’s no wrong way to be a boy or a girl. Sex is real, immutable. There is no wrong puberty, just regressive stereotypes that dismiss diversity. We are our bodies, nothing more nor less, ideally healthy and whole.

    • @aresmars2003
      @aresmars2003 2 месяца назад

      ChatGPT: Stella O'Malley's closing words in the documentary, "I think they are being led. I think they are lost," reflect a profound concern about the societal and cultural forces influencing vulnerable children. Her perspective conveys a belief that some children struggling with gender dysphoria may be swayed by external narratives rather than being supported to explore and understand their feelings in a broader, more open-ended context. The sadness you express seems to resonate with the sense of loss-not only for the children who may be hurried into life-altering decisions but also for a society that might be failing to embrace a richer diversity of expression without medicalizing or pathologizing it. O'Malley's words suggest a need for careful guidance and safeguarding, prioritizing exploration, patience, and support over irreversible interventions driven by social trends. This issue remains deeply polarizing, but it's clear that the stakes-children's health, identity, and future well-being-demand thoughtful and compassionate dialogue. How do you think society can better address these complexities, especially to protect those who feel "lost" while resisting pressures that may inadvertently lead them further astray? Me: After this documentary, Stella helped originate Genspect an organization to not encourage medicalization of children. ChatGPT: Stella O'Malley's involvement in the creation of **Genspect** reflects her commitment to addressing what she sees as the risks of prematurely medicalizing children, particularly those experiencing gender dysphoria. The organization focuses on providing guidance, support, and information to help parents and professionals make thoughtful, evidence-based decisions, without rushing into medical interventions that may not be in the best interest of the child in the long term. By not encouraging the immediate medicalization of children, Genspect advocates for a more cautious approach, emphasizing the importance of taking time to understand a child's feelings and needs as they mature. It is grounded in the belief that children, especially during their formative years, need the freedom to explore their identities without being pressured into irreversible decisions, particularly when many aspects of gender identity may evolve over time. This perspective, especially in the context of growing medical and social discussions about transgender issues, aligns with O'Malley's broader message: supporting children in a way that allows them to fully explore who they are, while also offering protection from potentially harmful or hasty decisions.

  • @winros
    @winros 2 месяца назад

    I'm just curious about how everyone's doing in 2024...

  • @winros
    @winros 2 месяца назад

    I'm a straight woman. I never thought or felt whether I was a woman or a man. I'm just me!✌🏻

    • @aresmars2003
      @aresmars2003 2 месяца назад

      I’ve been more comfortable saying “I am male” over “I am a man”, the second seems to suggest I’m supposed to live up to some standard. If I became a father, I suppose it would be more necessary to claim “manhood”, but now I’m just an adult human male, also just me!

    • @winros
      @winros 2 месяца назад

      @aresmars2003 Just you... how beautiful is that 😍 ✌🏻🫶

    • @bbh3617
      @bbh3617 2 месяца назад

      useless comment

    • @porgguy4962
      @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

      ​@@aresmars2003 Who told you, you can't be a man and also live however you want? Men can be feminine. Embrace and use the the word "Man" so you can help change the associations.

    • @aresmars2003
      @aresmars2003 2 месяца назад

      @@porgguy4962 sure, that’s the point. If the definition is “a man is an adult human male”, I qualify, but if someone says “men like to hunt and kill things”, I’ll say no, unless via my kitchen mousetraps.

  • @MixedTake
    @MixedTake 2 месяца назад

    That ended beautifully. Thank you for posting this Stella.

  • @M00nGlitz
    @M00nGlitz 2 месяца назад

    My niece grew up as a lesbian then at age 21 she fell into this cult. So sad.

    • @porgguy4962
      @porgguy4962 2 месяца назад

      Mine too at 14 or so. Very sad to watch them damaging their minds and body by transitioning.

  • @user-rv7ph1jl5y
    @user-rv7ph1jl5y 2 месяца назад

    "I think they're lost and they're being led! " wow! Stella..so heartbreaking for so many of us parents, families and children under this curse. And here we are in 2024 with so many more young kids and adult women.

    • @xcape2usa
      @xcape2usa 2 месяца назад

      They are lost and being led.

  • @azsunburns
    @azsunburns 2 месяца назад

    Listen to all the detrans finding the courage to speak out against the atrocities they were convinced to partake in. There's nothing ethical about this movement

  • @AndyJarman
    @AndyJarman 2 месяца назад

    This is pretty old now? Lupron "pausing" puberty is such a misnomer. It stunts puberty, it doesn't resume later, not a pause a cancelation.

    • @jcimsn8464
      @jcimsn8464 2 месяца назад

      Most of the clinicians in my state have no idea

    • @Bthe312
      @Bthe312 21 день назад

      It causes cancer.