Helen Amery
Helen Amery
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3 Requirements to Get The Most from The Mace Energy Method - Video 4 of 4
The forth in a 4 part series - originally being released for the 12 days of Christmas!
If you're feeling the love for Mace too, book your Foundation Sessions with me here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/
If you've had your Foundation Sessions, I have 2 options for you -
1. Book a Subsequent Session (30 mins or 1 hour) - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/09/25/the-mace-energy-method-subsequent-sessions/
2. Join the Wild Fig Community where there are sessions available every week (15 mins or 30 mins) - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/09/24/the-wild-fig-community-mace-energy-method/
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3 Reasons to Choose The Mace Energy Method - Video 3 of 4
Просмотров 1612 часов назад
The third in a 4 part series - originally being released for the 12 days of Christmas! If these three reasons resonate for you, then Mace is an amazing choice to make. Book your Foundation Sessions with me here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ If you've had your Foundation Sessions, I have 2 options for you - 1. Book a Subsequent Session (30 mins or 1 hour) - wildfigs...
3 Signs You're Ready to Change - Video 2 of 4
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The second in a 4 part series - originally being released for the 12 days of Christmas! If you're ready to change, book your Foundation Sessions with me here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ If you've had your Foundation Sessions, I have 2 options for you - 1. Book a Subsequent Session (30 mins or 1 hour) - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/09/25/the-mace-energy-method-subs...
3 Things I Love About The Mace Energy Method - Video 1 of 4
Просмотров 31День назад
The first in a 4 part series - originally being released for the 12 days of Christmas! If you're feeling the love for Mace too, book your Foundation Sessions with me here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ If you've had your Foundation Sessions, I have 2 options for you - 1. Book a Subsequent Session (30 mins or 1 hour) - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/09/25/the-mace-energ...
Merry Christmas and Thank You!!
Просмотров 1814 дней назад
A video of celebration and gratitude to all of you for being hear listening, watching, reading and - now - engaging with the Mace Energy Method! And gratitude for everything I've experienced this year, all the transformation that's led me to here. If you're ready to start 2025 with a clean up of your emotional baggage, I look forward to it! Book Your Foundation Sessions here - wildfigsolutions....
Part 2 - Jacquie's Experience of The Mace Energy Method - 6 Months On
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After sharing her experience just a few weeks after her Foundation Sessions in June (ruclips.net/video/4CMe2AKC1vw/видео.htmlsi=FBq0CVrZfRIEovD6) Jacquie came back to share what it's like for her now - 6 months on. If you want the space, capacity, and real self feelings that Jacquie's experiencing, book your Foundation Sessions - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ Had you...
Healing Trauma with Caprice Thorsen and Helen Amery
Просмотров 6121 день назад
Mace Energy Method practitioners, Helen Amery and Caprice Thorsen talk about how The Mace Energy Method is the most successful way they've ever found to heal trauma. And the fact that unfortunately everyone experienced trauma in childhood, no matter how normal their childhood might have seemed. Connect with them here: Helen Amery: wildfigsolutions.co.uk/my-services/ Caprice Thorsen: capricethor...
What should I take to my first Mace Energy Method session?
Просмотров 55Месяц назад
The good news with the Mace Energy Method is that you can take ANYTHING that's bothering you, bugging you, upsetting you or frustrating you. Anything you do not like and would like to change. Because anything that ticks those boxes is not the real you, and is exactly what the Mace Energy Method is designed to handle. In this video I tell you more about that, and share the raw, honest truth of w...
Do you really only need two Mace Energy Method sessions?
Просмотров 73Месяц назад
Maybe you will. Maybe you won't. Either way - the result is you feeling free of negativity, self doubt, uncertainty, reactivity, frustration, that shrinking feeling...all the stuff you don't like and wish you could change. Then you get to enjoy your life! Here are all the links - Start here - Foundation Sessions - Had your Foundation Sessions? Get more free with - 1. Subsequent Sessions (one ho...
Do You Live With Lurking Doubt?
Просмотров 35Месяц назад
Although very normal - so many people live with lurking doubt in their lives - it's not natural. It's not the real you. And you can get free of it so you can enjoy your life! Book Your Foundation Sessions with me here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ Or choose another practitioner here - www.causisminstitute.com/therapy/directory/ Had your Foundation Sessions? For a p...
Jacquie's Experience of the Mace Energy Method
Просмотров 150Месяц назад
Jacquie went to another practitioner for her Foundation Sessions because I wasn't trained yet, but I wanted you to hear about her experience - because all of us practitioners are using the same process. So find the person who resonates for you and get cleaned out of negativity like Jacquie did. All the practitioners are listed in the directory here - www.causisminstitute.com//therapy/directory/...
This Question Changed My Life
Просмотров 912 месяца назад
This question changed my life. It shifted my world from understanding the reactions and problems in my life - 'bringing things into awareness' - to actually doing something to get rid of it all! Be honest with your spiritual practices, or personal development activities - with everything you're doing - is your life actually changing? Book your Mace Energy Method Foundation Sessions here - wildf...
Is "Causism" by John Mace Bugging You?
Просмотров 1042 месяца назад
The reaction people are having to John Mace's book "Causism" - is the symptom of the very problem that Causism and the Mace Energy Method are designed to solve. Want to bypass the book and just clear negative reactions? Book your Foundation Sessions with me - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ Want to read the book and see how it is for you? Buy the downloadable version d...
Why the Mace Energy Method is still valuable after awakening
Просмотров 862 месяца назад
Book your Foundations Sessions here - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/10/01/the-mace-energy-method/ In my world, Awakening is not the same as Enlightenment. Awakening is amazing - I define it as the recognition of the truth of our nondual nature. This can have a huge impact on how much better we feel. It can - in and of itself - enlighten some of our human conditioning. But - in my experience - Enl...
Why Are You Still Seeking?!!!
Просмотров 502 месяца назад
Why are you still seeking? One of my connections was really quite upset when I announced I was trained as a Mace Energy Method practitioner. She didn't understand why I could have awakened to our true nature, and written a book about it, and still be seeking. In this video, I tell you exactly why I was still seeking. How Mace has deleted the problem from my system. And what life is like now ins...
What is The Mace Energy Method
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What is The Mace Energy Method
A Guided Process for Enlightenment
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A Guided Process for Enlightenment
Why your life isn't changing
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Why your life isn't changing
Three Ways to Enlighten Your Experience
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Three Ways to Enlighten Your Experience
Are You One of These Three Types of People?
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Are You One of These Three Types of People?
Lighting the fire of wholeness within
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Lighting the fire of wholeness within
Do you want to experience yourself as divine light energy?
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Do you want to experience yourself as divine light energy?
Our Whole Journey
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Our Whole Journey
Do You Feel Whole?
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Do You Feel Whole?
What do you mean by stabilising awakening?
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What do you mean by stabilising awakening?
Do you love to feel source energy?
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Do you love to feel source energy?
Do you want a stable, embodied awakening?
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Do you want a stable, embodied awakening?
Do you want reliable happiness?
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Do you want reliable happiness?
Why Spiritual Enlightenment? What even is that?!
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Why Spiritual Enlightenment? What even is that?!
Are you done with repeating patterns?
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Are you done with repeating patterns?

Комментарии

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 15 дней назад

    Have a great Xmas and a spiritually prosperous New Year 🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 15 дней назад

      Thank you Tony! And thank you for being a big part of this last half of the year. I’d love to hear how you’re doing.

  • @msrhuby
    @msrhuby 24 дня назад

    Shared on Facebook

  • @jamescaldwell4209
    @jamescaldwell4209 Месяц назад

    Glad to hear this… it all makes so much sense. It’s interesting to notice how easily you spoke of things you’d dealt with during your sessions without any emotional charge remaining.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Месяц назад

      Exactly that James! Mace clears all that charge, and all the feeling that ‘this says something about me’. So wonderful! Looking forward to hearing how your sessions go.

  • @jamescaldwell4209
    @jamescaldwell4209 Месяц назад

    I haven’t seen you for a while, and there’s something clearly different about what I see here. There’s a level of spontaneity, vitality and natural joy showing up here that I’d not experienced before. Intriguing! ❤

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Месяц назад

      Hi James! 👋 Great to see you and thanks so much for the feedback!! I love that’s what you’re seeing because that’s how it’s feeling. There’s so much more aliveness in me since getting clear through Mace. I love it for me and I love bringing it to my clients! Founded in that there wonderful Australia no less! I highly recommend it if you want to get free of emotional triggers ❤️

  • @EffortlessSleepandLife
    @EffortlessSleepandLife Месяц назад

    It is so beautiful that you did not stop at, “I’m awake, all else is illusion.” We have a friend - genuinely awakened, I believe - who has taken this attitude, and tends to dismiss any interest in psychological growth as “indulging the ‘character.’ It’s been fascinating over the decades to see modern folks repeatedly rediscovering what has been taught for millennia as if something new! One of your comments about patterns brought to mind the 14th chapter of the Bhagavad Gita. Arjuna has awakened to his true nature near the beginning of chapter 2! By Chapter 6, he has learned to step back into utter Silence, and to leave behind the duality of pure awareness vs the “objects” of the world, and at the conclusion of the 6th chapter, experiences the whole universe (including all that we understand to be his “individuality”) as one flowing, undulating ocean of Ananda (pure joy). But in chapter 14, he is taught in much more detail how to see clearly the nature of the conditioned patterns that are still arising. And in the end, he is taught something that non dual folks nowadays rarely want to deal with (except perhaps in the non dual Christian movement) - Krishna says, “After all that I’ve taught you, all the awareness methods, all that about meditation in action, the understanding of conditioned patterns - leave all of that aside and give yourself completely to “Me” (yes, capital “M” me!) Leaving aside everything from the past, I remember initial awakenings decades ago, leading over the years to a constant recognition of a vast SIlence everywhere (and nowhere:>). This is all familiar from the popular non dual literature. But quite early on, I recognized the Presence of a Loving Intelligence (infinite, indefinable and unknowable by the mind but intimately “known” by the Heart). Now, as a professional musician and over the years as a clinical psychologist, I’ve been fascinated, as you talked about, Helen, in this video, by many “techniques” that I’ve found to be quite powerful and effective (most recently exploring in more depth Loch Kelly’s “glimpse practices” and his ‘effortless mindfulness approach - in the context of therapy as well as awakening). Yet, having discovered Sri Aurobindo and the Mother in the mid 1970s, I found when it came to “Waking up” and “Growing Up,” just as Krishna recommended in the close of the Gita, everything ultimately came down to (a) stepping back into True Nature (which is only metaphorically a “stepping back”); and (b) opening to Her (the Divine Mother, God, Brahman, the Tao, or Dharmakaya, or whatever word you want to use). A clear sighted opening to and recognition of all the instinctive, emotional and mental conditioning no matter how terrifying to look at clearly, seems to create an opening for Her Divine Intelligence to work more effectively, but ultimately, an increasing surrender to Her LIght and Lover and Power shows that even that clear sighted opening and recognition only occurs by Her Grace (gosh, the word Grace - how strange and unfamiliar it is in non dual circles; though again, it does come up in the Christian, Sufi and Indian devotional traditions….. and perhaps is resurfacing in the modern non dual tradition, as with Craig Holliday and even Adyashanti to some extent)

    • @EffortlessSleepandLife
      @EffortlessSleepandLife Месяц назад

      Now, is all that was written in the previous comment “just a story” - or is there another way to understand what happens i the flow of time, not conceptually, but intuitively as a Divine movement of the evolution of consciousness? (Rhetorical question:>))

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing! You have a very extensive knowledge of the traditions! Something I never got into. But yes, you’re right about the continuation of the journey beyond what most modern nonduality teaches. To me, the word illusion is misunderstood and hence that dismissal of the content of experience - rather than wholeheartedly including it all.

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 Месяц назад

    Mace is simple but incredibly effective in clearing the mistaken beliefs and inner negative stories that we all carry around. I met this bloke after my sessions with Helen and discovered he wasn't nearly as damaged as I thought he was at all. It was ME ❤

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Месяц назад

      Always great to see you here Tony. Thanks for sharing. I’m so delighted that Mace has worked for you too! ❤️

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 2 месяца назад

    Wow! Does this land at my end Aitch. On to your next transition as the seeker in you finds truth at last ❤

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 2 месяца назад

      Thank you Tony, and yes it’s wonderful to feel complete with both the true nature and the human aspects. But even if more does come up in the human, I’m so happy to have mace as the quick and easy clearing of that.

  • @jeanfleming1668
    @jeanfleming1668 4 месяца назад

    Such a great recap Helen and great to revisit it all in one micro learning! Perfect timing as I have disconnected during August so brings me perfectly back into my reflections for the weekly calls

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 4 месяца назад

      Amazing! Thank you Jean 🙏 I’m so glad. See you Wednesday for the call.

  • @aquaken213
    @aquaken213 4 месяца назад

    The audio is the worst I've ever heard! Sorry to be so blunt but it needs work! Can you make another video with better audio?

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 4 месяца назад

      Hey! I appreciate you sharing. It’s great to get feedback in all forms. My dear friend worked on this audio because originally there was loads of background noise, but listening to it now (and comparing it to the original he produced) it’s evident that the upload to RUclips has done something to it! I know I won’t be able to replicate this video exactly - life is too spontaneous for that. But it is a theme I’ll come back to again. I also wrote on the theme if that’s preferable to listening to this - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2024/08/22/why-unconditional-love-can-be-scary/

  • @MazeyDaze
    @MazeyDaze 5 месяцев назад

    Wonderful, thank you. I found I was far more present and aware throughout this transmission, in contrast to the more slightly spaced-out (but luscious) experiences arising during the other transmissions - but then, if it's not too cringe-making a comment re a transmission entitled "Like Water" - I suppose that's just living proof that you can't step into the same rive twice. Thank you again for posting this, Helen.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      You’re so welcome! Thats so cool to have noticed that difference. And absolutely - never the same river twice. Not cringe at all. Total truth. Also loving that you brought rivers into it given my river metaphor for our experience! ❤️

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      How’s it been the last couple of days? What have you been noticing about your experience?

    • @MazeyDaze
      @MazeyDaze 5 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery Oh, so lovely of you to ask, Helen. Definitely more of a spacious feeling, definitely more episodes of suddenly finding myself spontaneously in less thought, definitely a feeling of expanded time, definitely more of an all-round peaceful feeling - so all in all I can only say a hugely beneficial experience all round, thank you. There was a bit of a period after the Patience transmission where it was almost like 'is the universe having a laugh?" as a whole host of little niggly things seemed to be conspiring to test my patience to the max, but that didn't last very long and I found it more amusing than anything else - although must say they were only minor niggles: I haven't suddenly become some saintly angel of forbearance, just a tad more detached and less wind-upable. So, brilliant, thank you, and although I haven't the slightest notion what this process actually is, how it's meant to work and how you discovered it (have you posted a video on this, I wonder, Helen?), I would certainly recommend anyone intrigued by it to at least give it a go and see what the experience is like for yourself. I expect we're all very different - as we are in so many things - but you can't lose much by giving it a whirl, and I sincerely hope if you do, you'll gain as much as I did.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      How wonderful @MazeyDaze! I’m delighted! You’ve gained the kind of experience everyone is looking for! I love that you’ve fully given it a go, and been open to it, despite not understanding it at an intellectual level. Perfect evidence that it’s the experience that makes the difference. No amount of knowledge changes that. I’m sure I must have done a video about it. I know there’s one in my community. I’ll see if there’s a public one and share it. But just so you know, my intellectual mind doesn’t fully understand how they work either! This is all about that which is before the mind. Impossible for us to fully grasp. I really appreciate that you’d recommend it to others too. Indeed, if you’re happy with this idea, I’ll share your feedback on the newsletter so others can see what was available from those simple 4 days ❤️ I don’t tend to put names to things but let me know if you’d like me to. Thank you 🙏 my heart is warm knowing the difference this has made.

  • @MazeyDaze
    @MazeyDaze 5 месяцев назад

    Loved it, thanks - just wish there weren't an intrusive advert interrupting the peace halfway through the transmission

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      Oh no Jan! That’s rubbish! I thought I’d turned all ads off on my account. I’ll have to check again. Much nicer to be in peace for the whole thing. I’ve got options for peaceful ones. Just let me know.

    • @MazeyDaze
      @MazeyDaze 5 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery So grateful if you could do that as it really is a bit of a rude awakening suddenly exploding in on such blissful peace. I know it's none of your doing, of course, Helen. The ad between your intro and the start if the transmission is fine, but one half way through the actual transmission itself...well, not the kind if vibe you were aiming at, I imagine.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      Totally not! Thanks so much for letting me know 🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      @@MazeyDaze I don't know if you saw the message I sent out in the Community section here - thanks to you sharing! It's led to the discovery that there are online ad blockers (which is the only option until I have a big enough RUclips account that they let me choose). Here's the community chat thread... ruclips.net/user/postUgkx1vuAz0YdR-SBxw4RRLdMLN2EgJk0mzuh

    • @MazeyDaze
      @MazeyDaze 5 месяцев назад

      @@helenameryAh, I so appreciate you going to so much trouble, Helen. I am following the 4 day transmissions journey in line with the email you sent out a few days ago. Yesterday I did Day 3: Patience, and am pleased to report there are no jarring interruptions on that, hurrah! So just waiting to see what happens with Day 4 this evening. On the actual experience of the transmissions themselves, I am absolutely loving them. I seem to go instantaneously into a state of unusual (for me) peace, punctuated by one or two odd feelings of a brief energy jolt like a sudden dizziness. Goodness knows what is happening or how these "work", but I can definitely feel there is some kind of positive effect they're having, even though I'd be hard-pressed to say just what it is exactly, so thank you for posting them.

  • @Kathy-qt8a
    @Kathy-qt8a 5 месяцев назад

    Well it may not change anytime soon for me

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      Why’s that Kathy?

    • @Kathy-qt8a
      @Kathy-qt8a 5 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery I didn't find anyone who cares about me, so it's hard to find people to trust. I often cope by listening to other people. But many times I stumble upon good listeners. Lately I try to share but I can't trust them, and their flaws get magnified in my mind.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      @@Kathy-qt8a sounds tough for you. Would you like some questions to reflect on for your journey with this?

    • @Kathy-qt8a
      @Kathy-qt8a 5 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery What questions?

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 5 месяцев назад

      Questions like…what do you know about the relationship between how the world shows up, and how you are?

  • @mdborhan9703
    @mdborhan9703 5 месяцев назад

    Hey Amery It's Borhan here! I'm a huge fan of your "Helen Amery" RUclips channel. Your content is always top-notch, and I can see the passion and effort you pour into each video. I believe you have incredible potential to reach an even wider audience with a solid RUclips strategy. I would love to schedule a short meeting with you to discuss how I can help you grow your channel faster. This is not a sales call, but an opportunity to share ideas and offer assistance. Let me know if you're interested, and we can find a convenient time to chat. Thanks for your time and for creating such amazing content.

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 7 месяцев назад

    Sounds interesting Aitch boy oh boy does that land ! booked a call with you on Tuesday ❤🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 7 месяцев назад

      Yay for our call and yay for this landing. Be great to have you in if it feels good after we chat.

  • @joanlynch8408
    @joanlynch8408 7 месяцев назад

    I love your book, so glad you are on RUclips

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks John! Have you already completed it?

  • @overthinkersguide
    @overthinkersguide 9 месяцев назад

    This is fantastic, Helen. Such clarity.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you Andrew! 🤩

  • @natcouropmitree5203
    @natcouropmitree5203 9 месяцев назад

    This Rumi quote is so aligned with my work. Amazing!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 9 месяцев назад

      It’s the best quote isn’t it!! ❤️

  • @jangoodwin4196
    @jangoodwin4196 11 месяцев назад

    thank you. this is stated so incredibly well. This is real. Thank you

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      I’m so glad you feel that! Thank you 🙏

  • @joni3503
    @joni3503 11 месяцев назад

    Helen, the way I see it, is because of your "awakening". This is what new age does to you. It is a self centered faith, where you turn yourself into the center of the universe. Have you tried praying.

  • @jangoodwin4196
    @jangoodwin4196 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Many emotions are deep-seated and feel "automatic." Acceptance and self-compassion are the learnings here.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Oh yes Jan I totally agree the emotions are automatic, and so is our fear response to them. And then so too is the resistance to the fear! So yes acceptance and self compassion is huge in this journey. Reminding your system that those qualities of acceptance and compassion are your nature. Which supports the disentangling and the de-coupling of the emotions from ideas of who you think you are. Stunning. Thanks so much for sharing Jan 🙏

  • @flipperx3219
    @flipperx3219 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks Helen. None of it was obvious to me and all three hit the spot. Great stuff.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Oh amazing!! Thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @natalienuttallinnatewellbe1771
    @natalienuttallinnatewellbe1771 11 месяцев назад

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Nat 🙏❤️

  • @crebk8768
    @crebk8768 11 месяцев назад

    Hi! Helen , what a pleasure to see and ear u! I feel joyfull to recognize what it is with you. You are the enlightment u does , it 's such a good vibration only to listen to u, and the way u give the expérience is so kind, soft ..my english is limited but it's sure you have found the unlimited. Thanks so much. I'm gonna see you again it's cool 👍😊❤🤓✨🌹🤍🌟💐🤩🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 🙏❤️ I really appreciate you writing.

  • @jangoodwin4196
    @jangoodwin4196 11 месяцев назад

    So perfectly clear and true

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you! I love how you’re resonating with what I’m sharing 🙏❤️

  • @stevenrosen5955
    @stevenrosen5955 11 месяцев назад

    What is misalignment?

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      It’s what happens when we’re afraid of our experience (thoughts, feelings, emotions, physical experiences) which then manifests as problems with the world. And we feel ‘off’ in some way. Rather than being with, and being OK with all of it, as it is. There’s more in this vid… ruclips.net/video/lpF9p4dbGOs/видео.htmlsi=FuL5HAPG5lzUvLwv

  • @jangoodwin4196
    @jangoodwin4196 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing, direct, profound. This speaks to me so much. Thank you.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Jan! I’m so glad! ❤️

  • @peterbunzlauthor
    @peterbunzlauthor 11 месяцев назад

    I just heard you on the non-duality podcast too, and then because of that I read your book last week. It was really beautiful and clear, thank you :)

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Peter! 🙏 That’s speedy reading! It’s sounding like the subject matter is familiar to you.

    • @peterbunzlauthor
      @peterbunzlauthor 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery Yeah, pretty familiar. I have read a lot of non-duality books and gone through what I would classify as an awakening experience a couple of years ago, which was a big rug-pull moment, and which brought up lots of other stuff, fears and places where there was/is still holding on/contraction. I have been working in a couple of different ways with people to try and integrate that and soften things, and also trying to hand it over and let it takes its own course. Because thought still wants to come in and comment on the process, and sometimes roll it all up in a bag and tangle it all back up into thinking. But anyway, there was something in your book - I don't know what exactly - some calm friendly assurance about this process or the laying out of everything in such simple language - and it has just softened the awareness a little bit. It feels more aligned - like when you go to chiropractics and they adjust your joints. Or maybe, to use a river analogy, the flow of awareness is a bit calmer, not so choppy! That's how it feels right now, anyway, after reading, so thank you!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Wonderful @peterbunzlauthor! I’m so glad the book’s had that effect. And that our intention to be friendly, simple and clear has come over to you. I also love that you’re doing things to integrate and soften, so valuable. I also notice the word ‘trying’ and think of our dear friend Yoda. What would it be like absent of that?

    • @peterbunzlauthor
      @peterbunzlauthor 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery 😂 Yoda is my favourite non-duality guy. Yes, trying is a subtle story-word, you’re right. The mind/ thought / something here does love a good story!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      @peterbunzlauthor oh how awesome! He is a very wise dude. And stories are amazing! We are infinitely creative. Which is such a delight when we know who we are and what the story is 🤩

  • @JustDontMove111
    @JustDontMove111 11 месяцев назад

    Just heard you on The Nonduality Podcast ...you came across really good ❤

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you very much ❤️ And thank you for listening 🙏 Where are you on your journey?

    • @JustDontMove111
      @JustDontMove111 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery Welcome :) Im not really sure. When alone I'm in that deep peace but when I'm around people that changes and im suffering. Just started doing emotion work this week and that is definitely helping, I can tell even after a week of starting to just recognise emotions and just let them be instead of resisting them. Found Eckarts book when covid began and I've just been seeking ever since , that's all I do lol, nothing else seems to have importance ( of course I look after my family etc) Look forward to catching up on some of your videos soon :)

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      That resonates so much. It’s very normal that once we’ve recognised our nature, the contrast with times of suffering gets greater. And it’s perfect because look how it’s led you into a different exploration with your emotions. To enlighten. That’s a lot of the work I do with people now. I also resonate with the stage when it’s an all-consuming ‘hobby’! That’s a great sign to me that you’ve woken up to who you are and now you really want to live in the reliable, sustainable abidance of that. Wonderful!! ❤️

    • @JustDontMove111
      @JustDontMove111 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery These words are really encouraging...thank you so much for taking the time to reply 🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      @Jamieyesssssssmann7 you’re so welcome!

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 11 месяцев назад

    Interesting point Aitch ! I've so far lived a life of interminable frustrations with adopted roles and compromised compliance to work or indeed relationships that I believed then was what one did in order to fit in survive & to be accepted. Classic conditioning adopted in all innocence as we all do. Trust that the conference is going well! Thanks Gently 🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      “As we all do” - absolutely! Always doing our best based on what looks real and true. And then doing better when we know better. Or perhaps doing better when we release into better. And thank you for remembering about the conference. It’s been going really well thanks. People are loving all the speakers and how it’s all been curated into a journey through the themes.

    • @tonycallaghan170
      @tonycallaghan170 11 месяцев назад

      You're flying at present long may it continue 🙏

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Tony 🙏 Certainly in the past I’d have got scared and pulled back by now - but it wouldn’t have felt like fear. It simply looked like justifiable behaviour with very logical reasons. Or pulling back subconsciously happened and I didn’t even contemplate any other option. It was just the norm. So let’s see..!

  • @theflowmaestro
    @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

    Good morning Helen! I’m reading your book atm! I’ve recognised awareness with your help! So pleased about that! But what do I need to understand to remain in awareness! I sometimes sink into thoughts again! Do I need to keep bringing myself back to awareness of my experiences or is the initial realisation of my consciousness enough.. I tend to disolve into my subconscious and become tense if I’m not aware so potentially answering my own question here??? Thanks

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Ahh this is so great to hear!! ❤️ And yes, you have answered your own question, and, keep going with the book. It is totally normal to oscillate - until you don’t. By that point the recognition is a beautiful background knowing. Have you got to Part Two? That, and the continuation into Part Three, helps cement and deepen the recognition.

    • @theflowmaestro
      @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery thanks!! I’m on page 180, chapter 7 - are you an object? So still have half the book left..

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      @theflowmaestro awesome! This part will really help with clarity of who you are.

    • @theflowmaestro
      @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery thanks for your comments! I’m on the right path it seems hehe

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      @theflowmaestro you’re welcome! And absolutely!!

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 11 месяцев назад

    1. Write a love letter from “your person's” point of view, to you... 2. Focus only on the good memories you’ve had, or on what you want to do together. 3. Be very detailed and thorough. 4. Fall in love with yourself in the letter. Profess love to yourself. To the degree in which you can profess love to yourself through the letter is to the degree in which they will love you. Feel and believe the love that you want them to give you. 5. Fully believe that this person gave you this letter. 6. Remove all doubt from your mind and old stories about your past/future together. 100% conviction of what is contained in the letter is your new reality. 7. Fold this letter towards you and seal. That is now what is going to happen. 8. Put it under your pillow and sleep with it. Remember the feeling of what it felt like to receive this letter. 9. When in doubt re-read the letter.

  • @theflowmaestro
    @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

    Hi Helen, I recently saw you on the non duality podcast and HAD to search you.. I noticed the south West Country twang in your accent also.. I’m from Bristol you see! Your book is ace so far btw.. just sat here reading it now.. I was wondering if you do any work one 2 one with people or workshops? Thanks Helen.. keep up this wonderful work….

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Hi! Thanks so much for finding me here. And really glad you’re enjoying the book. We actually have a group starting this Wednesday. We’ll be meeting weekly to walk through the book journey together - courses.thoughtfulraven.co.uk/courses/realising-awakening-jan-2024 And yes there is one-to-one aswell, which would be likely for a February start - wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2023/09/18/awakening-conversations/ Let me know if you have any questions about either or both.

    • @theflowmaestro
      @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery great! Thanks for your response.. I’ll continue reading your book & potentially enrol on one of the workshops sometime in the future.. I imagined group face to face satsangs for some reason!! Haha.. what a great book.. my okness was not ok before I read the chapter on ‘what is suffering?’ Wow can’t wait to finish this book now.. I’m very lucky to have found it…

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      You’re welcome @theflowmaestro, perfect timing as I’d just sat down with my phone. We aren’t really satsang kinda gals. But we do have fortnightly calls in the Thoughtful Raven Community where people bring whatever is on their mind, or questions from the book, that they want to explore.

    • @theflowmaestro
      @theflowmaestro 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery You had me by the satsangs at one point haha great.. I believe the timing was spot on to… yes!! Synchronisations galore - thanks..

  • @christianrokicki
    @christianrokicki 11 месяцев назад

    I do love a good diagram. Could do without quite so many commercials with people shouting about passive income streams and pepper spray. Seems quite unnecessary. But this preference, however sensible it might seem, doesn’t prevent them from appearing. So then these reminders of a hyper-depressing world of stressful unnecessary nonsense that target the mind for torture can, perhaps, be pointers back to an original serenity or ultimate freedom.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Christian! I’m so glad you love it. And what a fabulous way of seeing the value of those adverts. Everything is happening for us ❤️

    • @christianrokicki
      @christianrokicki 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery a river is such a good analogy also because it begins with all sorts of mysterious little tributaries and eventually flows back into the great deep mysterious ocean… and so too this moment of awareness with its innumerable silent and invisible contributors the mind will never be aware of…

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Written very poetically! The phrase ‘this moment of awareness’ caught my attention. I got the feeling from that of awareness appearing for a moment, and then being gone. Is that how the experience of awareness looks to you?

    • @christianrokicki
      @christianrokicki 11 месяцев назад

      I don’t have enough confidence in my mind to say.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      No worries! Would you like that confidence?

  • @paulwhittering608
    @paulwhittering608 Год назад

    This is great Helen ❤❤❤

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Paul! 🙏❤️

  • @SajirulSk-music
    @SajirulSk-music Год назад

    Whats up. saw your RUclips channel and understand you are a RUclipsr. Very nice video on your channel, I really enjoyed it. Total subscribers 321 and a Total of 262 Uploaded videos of your channel. I noticed one thing according to your channel your channel videos are not viewed and subscribed. You need to optimize your channel and do video SEO to reach your target audience. Otherwise, if you upload videos to your channel throughout the year, none of your videos will get viral views. If your channel is optimized a little and if the videos are SEO then your channel will rank very fast and your channel will grow. And monetization of your channel will be on. As a professional digital marketer, I want to help you with this. let's discuss your channel I am looking forward to your response

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Thanks for your interest and offer to help, but I’m good with things as they are.

    • @SajirulSk-music
      @SajirulSk-music Год назад

      @@helenamery I saw some problems with your channel that's why I told you

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Yes thanks. I appreciate it.

    • @SajirulSk-music
      @SajirulSk-music 11 месяцев назад

      @@helenamery hi

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 Год назад

    Why do we seek? Is there any reason to seek a better future if we're fully comfortable and content with the way our body feels now? When thoughts slow down, you may notice that there is discomfort in the body, which may show up in a myriad of ways: pain, anxiety, anger, or any other sensation or emotion... This is part of the reason that we get addicted to thought- because it’s an immediately available way to avoid or try to fix the way our bodies feel. We won't be able to rest in presence for very long if we keep ignoring or avoiding discomfort. Rather, we'll continue to follow thoughts about past and future. We'll keep trying to escape. So, how do we bring direct attention to the energies of our body? The first step is to acknowledge that you are feeling something. We tend to acknowledge emotions and sensations first through the mind... We might think, "I’m angry," or "I’m afraid of what might happen," or we may simply notice that something is bothering us... But we can't feel emotions or sensations through thinking. These thoughts are narratives or labels for how we feel. They are not the actual energies themselves. For example, if you have the thought "I have a stomachache," that thought is a label for something that is actually happening in your body. In order to actually feel or experience the stomachache directly, you would have to bring attention down into the stomach area and feel it without thoughts on it. The same is true for all emotions and sensations. Once you acknowledge that you feel something or have been triggered by someone or some event, bring attention very gently to the body where you feel the actual emotion or sensation. With your attention there, feel into the sensation or emotion, and see if you can notice the peripheral space around it at the same time. Let the emotion or sensation just hang there in that open space, without trying to change, neutralize, or get rid of it. It is common to want to change, neutralize, or get rid of bodily energies. Just notice any tendency to want to do these things. This is resistance at work, and trying to stop that resistance from happening is simply adding more resistance. Bear in mind that we give power to words, pictures, and bodily energies by turning awareness away from them. And we diminish their power by turning toward them and remaining aware of them until they fade naturally. That one simple understanding, if turned into a daily practice, is highly transformative.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Thanks for this great comment: I couldn’t agree more as it’s been a transformative part of my journey, and is included in my book as one of the explorations for awakening. Thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @meekking3999
    @meekking3999 Год назад

    “Nice” is overrrated and obligation based. And we’re all narcissistic.

  • @Rifat_Hossen_
    @Rifat_Hossen_ Год назад

    Hi Helen, hope you are well. I am Rifat Hossen, and I am a RUclips SEO Expert and Thumbnail Designer. Your channel is fine, but your video description, title, tags, and thumbnails are not fine. Can I join your team to optimize video metadata, titles, tags, descriptions and create eye-catching thumbnails, and develop our channel?

  • @tonycallaghan170
    @tonycallaghan170 Год назад

    Hi Aitch Happy New Year Hope all is well... when is this gig happening? Sounds like there will be some talent on board 😊

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Hi Tony! Great to hear from you. Yes I’m really excited about it. It’s 17th to 19th Jan, with access to the recordings till the morning of 22nd. Be great to see you there. wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2023/12/15/enlightenment-summit/

  • @BabaSamShelley
    @BabaSamShelley Год назад

    I had no clue about spirituality. I was very sick and disabled. I was so stressed out. Then I read about meditation, and once I began, I quickly discovered that I had thoughts, but I'm not my thoughts! Who am I? Then a few weeks later I knew i was spirit, and all is well. I simply knew my health challenges were over, and they were. I was blessed not to have any spiritual knowledge.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      How amazing! And you’re so right, spiritual knowledge can really slow the process down sometimes. I’m so delighted your journey was so easy from when you started meditation. Did you use a particular kind of meditation?

  • @gingerl2995
    @gingerl2995 Год назад

    Or you’ve finally realized you were surrounded by narcissist’s and upon awakening you say enough is enough. It tends to feel like you’ve reversed roles just to stand your ground. Difference is you aren’t trying to manipulate others and pull them down to feel superior. It’s foreign to not people please … the narcissist will accuse you of being like you viewed them because they always accuse you of what they do. Love yourself stand for truth and justice (not revenge) and know you are not alone. Much love and hugs!!!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      What a wonderful reply. So true. I’ll be sure to share with the person whose concern this was.

  • @kinildsongessiopersegueiro
    @kinildsongessiopersegueiro Год назад

    I want to awaken!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      That’s great! What have you already explored or tried?

    • @kinildsongessiopersegueiro
      @kinildsongessiopersegueiro Год назад

      @@helenamery Meditation Swana Yoga Lucid Dreaming Ayahuasca Baptism in the name of Jesus Christ I'm open minded. I search everywhere.

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      @kinildsongessiopersegueiro so all of those can help with enlightenment (clearing conditioning from the system) and, when done for long enough, it will reveal your already-awake nature. The alternative route to awakening is the direct path which uses self inquiry to see how your experience already is. It looks directly at the truth of who you essentially are, and what you are not. Most people’s paths involve both. And certainly after awakening there’s usually plenty still available for enlightening. Are you interested in a direct path option?

    • @kinildsongessiopersegueiro
      @kinildsongessiopersegueiro Год назад

      @@helenamery I've heard about self inquiry, didn't check it properly. Do you charge?

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      @kinildsongessiopersegueiro I do. You could start with my book if you like - “The Complete Book of Awakening”. Then we have a bunch of courses and a community to support the reading of the book, as well as private sessions which are obvs the highest investment. All the courses and community (and free resources that go with the book) are here - courses.thoughtfulraven.co.uk

  • @md.morsalinislam3821
    @md.morsalinislam3821 Год назад

    Unique concept

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Thank you! You’ve helped me realise lots of people have been saying that ❤️ I feel happy to know this is something unique 😊

  • @wealthofyoutwo
    @wealthofyoutwo Год назад

    This is absolutely why my YESing game totally overrides this system!

    • @helenamery
      @helenamery Год назад

      Because it takes ‘am I worth it?’ out of the equation?

  • @ChhaganlalparmarParmar
    @ChhaganlalparmarParmar Год назад

    Yuhea vmeseajmiiparfeactfastteabpavarfalfitneasnaesmaylaefstaelthankyu 2:17