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omg! wishing you the best on this new stage of ur life!! <3 but also 😭 def something out of ur comfort zone!! you got this!!

it is definitely super important, always pushing ourselves! <3

hi Maya thanks for always supporting <3 I think the great thing about the "what else?" is that it helps with thinking about other scenarios, not just the one your mind came up with ;D exactly! positive potential!!! thanks for leaving a comment <3

hey I really appreciate it! thank you so much <3

I'll definitely go back for more! and thanks for the support! <3

right! thanks for supporting even after I've been away for a while, I really appreciate you always leaving comments 🤍

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sooo important to do resets!!! I'm happy this inspired you and def tell me about it if you do it! :)

also, THANKS for subscribing !! <3 i really appreciate it

congrats!! <3 and definitely! I graduated on June 2023 and uncertainty and the unknown still hit sometimes lol, but we must learn how to deal with them!

thank you so much Abbie, you're always supporting <3

thank you so much for your words Abbie, and the constant support!! <3 I'm glad you liked it! 💗

aww ! I'm glad my video inspired you, please do it! <3

Hi! Aww, thank you soooo much 😋I use CapCut!!

hi! I totally understand that you feel this way, I'm still scared, but I hope you do make one ! I'm glad my video inspired you and I truly want people to do things even if its scary ! <3 tell us how it goes, how did you feel, etc, hug !!

thanks for always supporting me Candy! ily <3

hey Abbie!! thank you once again for leaving a comment and supporting 🤍 I'll try to not overthink cause we know how bad that is right! we got this 🤍

hey! you have no idea how much it means to me that you left a comment even if it's the first video you see from me, thank you so much for your kind words and know that I'll try my best to stick to them! <3 have a nice day

THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT ILY <3

Abbie!!! Thanks so much for always supporting <3 it is definitely hard, but we must be brave and face that, embrace it and go for it if we want to follow something that we love

that's amazing Natalia ! <3 to be honest, I realized that you never really overcome fear but actually learn to live with it, hug it and embrace it, so i hope my video helped you in any way with that, you've got this ! <3 don't let fears chase you !

@@melissatelier thats exactly what I needed to hear it definitely helped

@@Natalia_Belen I'm really glad

Hey <3 First of all thanks for sharing this ! Regarding your guilty feeling *, if* we're being transparent, I think humans are just weird lol, cause see like we won't really mind others' business, but we mind what others think of us, if they judge us or see us, even when we know that we don't, and they probably don't do it either. Everyone is focused on themselves, but thinking the rest of the world is always looking at them!! it's crazy so I get you! Regarding your business situation, having your name and you as a person tied to something, in this case your brand/content/biz, considering that you lived under the radar before, can be considered as getting out of your comfort zone! So, that's why you feel this way, cause you're doing something different, and it naturally scares you or at least makes you have these thoughts ! AND NOOOO wdym i made you think ab this HAJHAJHA but okay good, to be honest imo maybe you're thinking about this cause you *just* graduated high school, so it's natural to think that "omg everyone is taking different paths but they're still gonna know that the person behind this brand, is me!" but if it helps you in any way, I graduated from high school 6 years ago and I barely think about that, (barely remember anything lol) but on a good note, I definitely think that you had to go through this in order to be more comfortable with people knowing who manages this brand, the person behind, etc. Maybe in the future you'll decide to actually show yourself, maybe not, but at the end of the day it's you doing something that you probably wouldn't have done before = growth so again, it's super natural to go through this, but you were brave to tell them, and I know they're supportive, so that's cool. Maybe going back a bit to what you were mentioning at first, just remember that they're not thinking about that 24/7 to calm your mind a bit if it's overwhelming,, hug and thanks for commenting !

@@melissatelier HI MEL first, thanks sm for taking the time to reply :3 and YESS omg looking at myself from a standpoint, I look self centered af LMAO but, the feelings have been almost natural. I am sure it has something to do with like ancestors and our human psychology of wanting to fit in and conform to their norms but, IDK it really is crazy haha. I love how you considered these feelings part of getting out of your comfort zone, cause it makes sense! I mean, I didn't have these feelings again until years ago when I started an editing account on Instagram and would edit people in my school (anonymously, no identity behind the account) and would only tell my close friends about it XD Which really shows how getting out of your comfort zone can make your mind test you with all these scary feelings, I like to see it has a test because it is hard to get out, and not a lot of people have the willpower to change their life for the better. And watching this video was more of a realization and put the names to a lot of feelings that were kind of buried in my mind for a while,.I also haven't been reflecting recently on just my wellbeing so XD your video was eye opening!! + I do feel a bit better knowing that you don't care at all or remember anything about your High school LOL. Deep down I know that people are all going through their own problems and paths after, but the feelings you get when you leave are so weird and hard to ignore, humans are weird 🥸. I do agree with you on how this experience is something that I had to go through in order to adapt and get more comfortable in growing in different pathways. I will try my best to not care anymore about what people think of me 🫡 because who knows, they might be thinking the same thing, scared to be seen/what others think, which hinders their own growth and success 🤫 but that's just a test to filter out the resilient people to keep a small percentage at the top MUHAHAH dang why'd I lowkey cook. But anyway, I love your perspective on this weird human feeling <3 HUGS :DDDD

@renilaur don't thank me, I'm more than happy to see that you shared this, and being of some help :D regarding looking self center, DW, i think it's normal too (to some extent ofc) but it's the same as me thinking of doing short form content and thinking everyone will be there 24/7 judging LOL it def has to do with our desire to fit in !! i believe this is natural behavior since as human we have the sense of community and union, yk? so ofc we want to be and feel part of something ! I really loved what you said: " _really shows how getting out of your comfort zone can make your mind test you with all these scary feelings_ " cause that's exactly it, and i yk how not everyone face these tests, and go back to being scared and not doing anything, normal too but shouldn't be :// you have no idea of how happy i am to see that i helped you realize and spot these feelings and reflect and i know you got this and it'll be okay ! sometimes we need to reflect a bit to acknowledge what's going on inside of our minds and, acknowledge our feelings, and just, work from there. the high school THING LOL AHEBRFJIWERBF it's so real tbh, but maybe it also has to do with the fact that i moved to another city, not too far away, and i still have everyone from hs on social media, but i just don't see them lol, plus it's been years, people have changed, etc., so at the end of the day i think this is natural, but ofc you have it fresh cause you graduated recently, i'm going through that rn but with college, that's why im so scared lol def everyone is scared of being judged, and that's stopping them from doing something they love, so I really hope we can all do it, and encourage others to do it too :) I'll work on not caring too, we got this !!! AHDJAHSA ON TOPPPP, again we got thisss letsgooo <3 and thanks, you're so kind

thanks for watching ! I'm glad I was of any help :) fear of being seen is something definitely normal, but we must overcome it if we want to pursue our passions ! <3

hey! I'm glad it was helpful, to be honest, I'm still fighting that anxiety of knowing that people will see me and judge me too so I get you, if you want to talk about it, why have you been avoiding people? in my case, cause I've done it as well, it happens when I don't want to talk about what I'm doing knowing the person wouldn't vibe with it, but maybe it's something else either way, I'm sending you a hug, we can work on this together !

thanks dazita ily 💓🥰

we loveee <3

thanks for leaving a comment ily <3 love this phrase, definitely writing it down as a reminder ! and thanks!! I'm still nervous and dunno when I'll post but will do ! also YAY I'm happy it sounds good :D

analysis paralysis and basically overthinking is the worst enemy that's stopping us from taking action !! and ofc they're besties with perfectionism so worst combo! I believe in you, and you've got this ! <3

Hey Abbie! I love seeing you in the comments of my videos, you have no idea how much I appreciate your constant support, thanks so much Now that you mention it, overthinking is directly linked to perfectionism unfortunately for all of us, which explains why we struggle a lot to make decisions, but I know we can do it ! And the more we become aware of our overthinking periods, the more we will be able to stop them from happening !

thank YOU for watching! <3

I can definitely relate, always emotional and it has never been easy to let go.. I totally agree with you, sometimes it's better to let go in the long term <3 thanks for watching !

ILYSM thanks for your beautiful wishes maya ✨

thank you so much for leaving a comment, I'm glad I achieved to evoke that feeling ! <3

it is very important to always keep moving forward! thanks for supporting

"it's okay to not feel okay sometimes" loved that!!! thanks for the support ! 🤍

trying to keep up with this expectation only makes it worse when we're dealing with something ! I'm glad this video helped you Maya 🤍