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Kathy Cunningham
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Добавлен 17 мар 2016
The information on this channel is not for the purposes of either counseling or coaching but for self -evaluation, emotional growth, and improving and restoring important relationships.
I am a Christian Content Creator, Pastoral Christian Counselor, Coach, Speaker and I love helping people identify spiritual/emotional/relational brokenness while giving them practical tools and insight for sustainable change. My hope is to equip you with the tools, tips and teachings you need to confidently grow in your faith, navigate difficult relationships God's way, and live the life God has for you.
My desire and passion is to encourage and motivate people, especially Christians to develop the skills, emotional maturity, resilience and self-awareness to heal, restore and rebuild relationships with those they love, especially between parents and their adult children. It will always start with us!
If this sounds like something you need or want to share with others be sure to subscribe.
I am a Christian Content Creator, Pastoral Christian Counselor, Coach, Speaker and I love helping people identify spiritual/emotional/relational brokenness while giving them practical tools and insight for sustainable change. My hope is to equip you with the tools, tips and teachings you need to confidently grow in your faith, navigate difficult relationships God's way, and live the life God has for you.
My desire and passion is to encourage and motivate people, especially Christians to develop the skills, emotional maturity, resilience and self-awareness to heal, restore and rebuild relationships with those they love, especially between parents and their adult children. It will always start with us!
If this sounds like something you need or want to share with others be sure to subscribe.
Do You Have or Are You An Emotionally Immature Parent - Introduction
In the next few videos I am going to be talking about Emotionally Immature Parents.
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Facebook Live Questions about Parents and Adult Children. Live FB Q@A with Angie Rodriguez,
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This beautiful young woman, Angie Rodriguez, asked if she could do an interview so we did it on Facebook live and I thought I’d just share because it ties in so much with everything else I post on this page. She asked some great questions! It was a pleasure to have a friend Katherine L Cunningham come online with me to talk about parenting your adult children, addiction, generational curses, he...
Enabling Vs Helping Your Adult Children
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Recommended Resources: Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend Online subscription to Boundaries.me ($9 a mth) Doing Life With Your Adult Children's by Jim Burns Rapha’s Twelve-step Program for Overcoming Codependency - Robert McGee Celebrate Recovery: Co- dependency support groups CoDA .org
Tools For a Better Mother Daughter Relationship Part 2
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8. Learn to forgive. Forgiveness is “an individual act. It differs from reconciliation, which takes both people and isn’t always possible. Forgiving someone isn’t saying that what happened is OK. It’s not condoning, pardoning or minimizing the impact, 9. Balance individuality and closeness. It can be challenging for daughters to build their own identities. Sometimes daughters think that in orde...
Tools for A Better Mother/Daughter Relationship Part 1
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Tools for A Better Mother/Daughter Relationship Part 1
7 principals for parents of Adult children from: "Doing Life With Your Adult Child" by Jim Burns
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7 principals for parents of Adult children from: "Doing Life With Your Adult Child" by Jim Burns
Can you set boundaries and still honor your parents as an adult??
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Can you set boundaries and still honor your parents as an adult??
How Adult Children can Create a Healthy Adult Relationship with their Parents
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How Adult Children can Create a Healthy Adult Relationship with their Parents
How to Prevent or Recover from Burnout or Compassion Fatigue!
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How to Prevent or Recover from Burnout or Compassion Fatigue!
Are you High Risk for Burnout or Compassion Fatigue?
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Are you High Risk for Burnout or Compassion Fatigue?
If Your Feeling Off or Upset...You May Need to H.A.L.T.
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If Your Feeling Off or Upset...You May Need to H.A.L.T.
Parent/Adult Child Relationships: Steps to Reconnection and Repair, Part 2
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Parent/Adult Child Relationships: Steps to Reconnection and Repair, Part 2
Parent/Adult Child Relationships: Steps to Reconnection and Repair Part 1
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Parent/Adult Child Relationships: Steps to Reconnection and Repair Part 1
4 Big Reasons for Adult Child/Parent Tension
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4 Big Reasons for Adult Child/Parent Tension
10 Parent - Adult Child Relationship Destroyers: FREE PDF
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10 Parent - Adult Child Relationship Destroyers: FREE PDF
Parent/Adult Child Relationships, 2nd Stage of Disconnect: Family Fracture
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Parent/Adult Child Relationships, 2nd Stage of Disconnect: Family Fracture
Parent/Adult Child Relationships. First Stage of Disconnect: Family Tension
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Parent/Adult Child Relationships. First Stage of Disconnect: Family Tension
Parent:Adult Child Disconnect What Part Do YOU EACH Need to Take Responsibility For??
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Parent:Adult Child Disconnect What Part Do YOU EACH Need to Take Responsibility For??
Adult Children and Parents How Did We Get Here? Where Do We Start to Make Repairs?
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Adult Children and Parents How Did We Get Here? Where Do We Start to Make Repairs?
Adult Children and Parents Why is there such a Big DISCONNECT?? And can it be REPAIRED??
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Adult Children and Parents Why is there such a Big DISCONNECT?? And can it be REPAIRED??
6 Signs or Emotional Maturity (AKA: A REAL ADULT)
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6 Signs or Emotional Maturity (AKA: A REAL ADULT)
They should teach this in every church.
Agreed!!
the microagressions add up= death of thousand cuts
thank you
So when you become chronically ill to a point you can barely work and then you got kicked out of your home because you found out your ex is cheating and lying to you and the doctors aren’t finding answers let alone solutions and your parents don’t think it’s bad enough for you to get government assistance, but you know it is and has been for years …. I would like to know what the adult thing to do is.
great speech.
I really needed to hear this actually, thank you for the hints!
Groomed much? It is why these children are not maturing to full potential.
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Or how about you’re a liar and I hate all liars. That and I love you but I sure don’t like you right now is what I’m familiar with.
If I bring up something that hurt me, and my parents immediately deny or deflect, there is no letting go. I own my mistakes. All of them. If my parents genuinely refuse to own ANY of theirs, they will not be forgiven. Children are always told "let go of your blame". Parents are never told "own your mistakes".
Good advice.
Thank you!!! I needed this advice!
Thank you. Very insightful. 😊
Thank you…
I was a very young mother and I would just like to hear my adult children say that they know I always done my best for them.I know I always tried but to know that they seen my efforts would make me feel validated in some way. I have close relationships with all three and maybe that should be enough and it is but that unsure young mom wants to know she was enough.
as an adult child who’s largely left the faith I was ready to cringe but this was good advice, thanks for putting it out there
Your welcome! I had to learn this the hard way but it is the best and really only way if we want healthy, good relationships . Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Love this! No one ever changed their behavior because any other human made them feel judged, disliked, or any other negative emotion.
Thank you! Absolutely!!
or just don't have kids.
What is an adult child..
❤🎉 AMEN TO THAT 🙏💞❤️💕💞.😊
❤Thank you
💋
Amen.
This is actually amazing I wish more mothers could be like/have the same mindset as you! Your a great role model to other mothers out there.❤
😢 treat us like actual functional adults? What? This hit hard. Struggling with my incredibly well intentioned but oblivious mom. Words like I love you are wonderful but actions speak louder. Thank you for this.
constantly staying busy thank you
stay calm 🦌 don't allow 🦙 e~motions to overtake (you) appearance of inner confidence .. that God will work things out
This is definitely a video to meditate and learn from!!!! Thanks for your help.
I experienced this with someone I've known my whole life! I got to the point where I had to completely distance myself from her.
Thank you for your encouragement, Kathy! You help me so much and I'm so grateful for you! Sending you hugs! Love you and hope you have a beautiful day! 💙🙏 Love, Rachel Van Nice
Love you, Kathy! Thankful for you. I honestly do learn so much from you! Grateful for all that you do and for sharing your wisdom and insight! I feel like I have grown closer to God since I started watching and reading your content! You have such a loving and caring heart! Keeping you and your family in my prayers and thoughts! Love you and wish I could give you a hug! You inspire me, Kathy! Hope you and your family are doing wonderful!💙🙏 Love, Rachel Van Nice
She describes Leftist.
It appears that way because you are looking from codependency, not self-awareness.
Omg all these behaviours are in me 😢
Uff, my ex So long ago I’m so happy now 🙏🏼
❤Thank you for this positive message.
🪞 🚨 6/9 (perspective)
Why do we feel responsible for others and want to fix everything?
Because it was either modeled for us or we were put in a position of responsibility that should not have been ours, especially at an early age🙏
Kathy why is it scary or difficult for us to move into the red zone? What can we be doing in the stretch zone to help us get to the red? And What can we experience when we do?
Because it feels uncomfortable, and we don’t like discomfort. But we are always going to have to feel uncomfortable to grow.
Thank you
The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it
Yeah my problem is going out by myself and meeting new people is outside my comfort zone. If I have a friend with me it's in my stretch zone. But I have to meet people by myself to make friends first.
Shut up
That's deep 😢
No
Does this include being in a marriage where the spouse does not love you?
What they say..."You need to stop taking everything so personal"... What they mean..."Let me continue being rude and elevating myself"😮
Christians are no better than Muslims and Jews. Just be quiet and keep your books to yourselves. After all they are written by humans to control humans.
Seriously
Your kind of right and kind of wrong,stopping to listen is Christian ,so is being thankful,often there are no answers to tell ? Yes people use platitudes to blow people off,but let’s not through the baby out with the bath water
There is a time and place for quoting scripture after listening, empathizing and just being there. Timing is everything!❤️
thank you