BLESSING
BLESSING
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Why You Keep Attracting Toxic People (and how to build REAL SELF-WORTH)
Hey guyyysss♡ In today’s video, I’m discussing why you keep attracting toxic people and how to break free from the energy-draining cycles! I’ll be sharing practical steps to help you set boundaries, protect your energy, and build self-worth.
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#toxicrelationships #selfworth #selfdiscovery #boundaries #selfawareness #mentalhealth #healingjourney #protectyourenergy
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Видео

How to be Comfortable Being Alone: FOMO, inner peace, & self-care tips
Просмотров 15814 дней назад
In this video, I’m sharing how you can become comfortable being alone, overcome FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), and focus on building a peaceful, fulfilling relationship with yourself. 🌸 Timestamps: 00:00 -Intro: FOMO and Social Pressures 01:18 - My Story: Seeking Company to Avoid Emotions 03:15 - Embracing Solitude: Key Realisations 06:20 - Practical Steps to Building a Self-Care Routine That’s Tr...
Feeling Lonely, Having No Friends: How to Build a Relationship With Yourself
Просмотров 43928 дней назад
Feeling lonely and disconnected, especially in your 20s, can be quite frustrating. Many of us struggle to make friends, but one thing I've learned is that meaningful friendships often starts with becoming your own best friend! In this video, I share practical steps on how to build self-awareness, self-compassion, and daily self-care practices that will help you build a strong relationship with ...
Why You're Feeling Lost in Your 20s (And how to actually Find Yourself)
Просмотров 193Месяц назад
Feeling lost in your 20s? Trust me, you’re not alone. In this video, I discuss why so many of us experience confusion, uncertainty, and a whole quarter-life crisis during this stage of life. I’ll be sharing practical steps to help you find yourself and navigate through your 20s. 🔗 Related Video: ruclips.net/video/ri9B1o2lWgk/видео.html Don’t forget to LIKE, if you enjoyed it!:) 📌 Tags: #findyou...
Before You Overthink Everything, Try These 5 Steps
Просмотров 87Месяц назад
Hey guyyysss♡ In today’s video, I’m breaking down 5 practical steps to stop overthinking and start living more peacefully! I’d like to believe life isn’t as hard as we sometimes make it out to be-especially when we can find the way to move from overthinking, which often keeps us stuck in fear and self-doubt. Soooo, hopefully this helps! 🥺🌸 🔗 Related Video: ruclips.net/video/WCLj3cqBBkg/видео.ht...
9 important things you should know about yourself
Просмотров 1912 месяца назад
Did you know that only 10-15% of people are truly self-aware? 🫢 Are you one of them? In this video, I will guide you through 9 important things you need to know about yourself to boost your self-awareness. We’ll cover everything from identifying your core values to understanding your emotional triggers and knowing your personality type. By the end of this video, you'll have a better understandi...
How to HAVE A MAGNETIC AURA | *and attract what you want*
Просмотров 3692 месяца назад
✨ Let's talk how to develop your own magnetic aura and attract whatever you want. ✨ In this video, we'll explore how iconic figures like Sabrina Carpenter, Billie Eilish and Saitama demonstrate magnetism and how you can become magnetic too. Learn about the 3 essential traits of magnetism: self-assuredness, authenticity, and empathy, and how to develop them in your own life. Don’t forget to LIKE...
Mastering Limiting Beliefs: Your Cheat Code to achieve Anything
Просмотров 2203 месяца назад
In this video, I discuss how mastering your limiting beliefs is your cheat code to achieve anything you set your mind to. I share practical steps and strategies to overcome self-doubt, boost your self-worth, and transform your mindset! LIKE & Comment the video to support the channel ♡ Connect with me: snapchat: bmsmth Tags: #limitingbeliefs #overcomeselfdoubt #selfimprovement #personalgrowth #s...
7 things you probably need to hear right now
Просмотров 6643 месяца назад
In this video, I share 7 life advices you probably need to hear right now. This video is one to always come back to as a reminder, and to help you navigate through challenging times. LIKE & Comment the video to support the channel ♡ Connect with me: snapchat: bmsmth Tags: #personaldevelopment #selfconfidence #lifeadvice #personalgrowth #adviceforwomen #20something
How to Stop Wasting Your Life | avoid living in regret
Просмотров 2824 месяца назад
It's time for a change! In this video, we discuss practical steps to avoid living a life of regret & look at ways to stop wasting your life. like, comment, and share if this video resonates with you♡ Connect with me snapchat: bmsmth 📚 Resources Mentioned: "Reflections on the Life and Dreams of C.G. Jung" by Aniela Jaffé: intheravine.wordpress.com/2024/05/31/carl-jung-on-facing-the-challenges-of...
How to Be Happy (Again) | increase your happiness in 3 steps
Просмотров 2894 месяца назад
hey guyyysss♡ In today's video, I’m discussing my 3 main practices to increase your happiness levels to become your happiest self! ♡ Connect with me on snapchat: bmsmth ♡ Don’t forget to LIKE, if you enjoyed it & also share your techniques & tips! xx 📌 Tags: #HowToBeHappy #FindHappiness #increasehappiness #TrueHappiness #Mindfulness #Gratitude #PersonalGrowth #MentalWellbeing #happiness
PUSH PAST YOUR SELF DOUBT to do what you REALLY want (a guide).
Просмотров 4515 месяцев назад
hey guyyysss♡ In todays video, I’m discussing how pushing past your self-doubt ultimately leads to going after what you really want! I’ll be giving practical steps on how to stop doubting yourself & breaking free from limiting beliefs! Here is the link to mentioned questions & guide: linktr.ee/ blessing 🔗 Related Video: ruclips.net/video/1QodhOzxm0k/видео.html Don’t forget to LIKE, if you enjoy...
How to Stop Oversharing | re-focus on actions, move in silence
Просмотров 2995 месяцев назад
hey guyyysss♡ In today's video I am discussing how to stop oversharing and redirect your attention on actions. This is also a subtle encouragement to stop telling people all your business, but more to that in the video! :D Let me know your thoughts on this topic in the comments below and also what other videos you would like to see from me ♡ Don't forget to like if any of the mentioned resonate...
How to VALIDATE YOURSELF | building self-trust and confidence without external approval
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.5 месяцев назад
hey guyyysss♡ Today's video is all about the skill of self-validation and how it can build your confidence and self-trust without relying on external approval. I’ll be giving 3 practical steps that you can start from today! Don’t forget to LIKE, if you enjoyed it!:) 🔗 Related Video: ruclips.net/video/ri9B1o2lWgk/видео.html As promised, the free 14-day journal guide right heereeee: linktr.ee/ bl...
How to Let Go | practicing detachment, embracing change for personal growth
Просмотров 4976 месяцев назад
Hey guyyysss♡ Today, we’re discussing how to let go of people and things that no longer serve you to grow into the person you want to be. We'll look at the aspect of control & trust and how understanding these two things allow you to easily detach. Don’t forget to LIKE, if you enjoyed it!:) 🔗 Related Video: ruclips.net/video/ri9B1o2lWgk/видео.html 📌 Tags: #lettinggo #personalgrowth #selfimprove...
Overcoming the Fear of Being Seen | embrace authenticity and overcome self doubt!
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Overcoming the Fear of Being Seen | embrace authenticity and overcome self doubt!
How to Be Yourself (Again) | becoming your true self with authenticity
Просмотров 26 тыс.6 месяцев назад
How to Be Yourself (Again) | becoming your true self with authenticity
Finding Peace with the Present Moment | Self-worth in self improvement
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Finding Peace with the Present Moment | Self-worth in self improvement
How to Stop Overthinking and Take Control of Your Life
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.7 месяцев назад
How to Stop Overthinking and Take Control of Your Life
How to Get Out of Your Own Way | overcoming self-sabotage & limiting beliefs
Просмотров 3447 месяцев назад
How to Get Out of Your Own Way | overcoming self-sabotage & limiting beliefs
For those avoiding life | how to get out of your comfort zone
Просмотров 6507 месяцев назад
For those avoiding life | how to get out of your comfort zone
The "no friends" Epidemic | how to build lasting friendships
Просмотров 4648 месяцев назад
The "no friends" Epidemic | how to build lasting friendships
How to Trust Yourself (Again) | overcoming self-doubt and building self-trust
Просмотров 8008 месяцев назад
How to Trust Yourself (Again) | overcoming self-doubt and building self-trust
Maybe just Mind Your own Business?
Просмотров 1829 месяцев назад
Maybe just Mind Your own Business?
Radical Self-Belief: It’s you vs. you | The Mirror Principle
Просмотров 55110 месяцев назад
Radical Self-Belief: It’s you vs. you | The Mirror Principle
Do You Know Your Purpose?
Просмотров 20411 месяцев назад
Do You Know Your Purpose?
How to make real changes in your life (Dopamine Detox)
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.11 месяцев назад
How to make real changes in your life (Dopamine Detox)
Why I quit Instagram for good and got my time back
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.Год назад
Why I quit Instagram for good and got my time back
Overcoming Routine Setbacks, Practicing Self-Discipline & Achieving Your Goals
Просмотров 563Год назад
Overcoming Routine Setbacks, Practicing Self-Discipline & Achieving Your Goals
Overcoming the 'Feeling Behind' Syndrome in Your 20s | Strategies for Personal Growth
Просмотров 687Год назад
Overcoming the 'Feeling Behind' Syndrome in Your 20s | Strategies for Personal Growth

Комментарии

  • @venuskissed
    @venuskissed 3 дня назад

    Hey Blessingg

  • @sadie-m1p
    @sadie-m1p 3 дня назад

    thank you for making this video. I really needed to hear this! much love💕

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 3 дня назад

      Glad it was helpful🤍

  • @godisamazing7074
    @godisamazing7074 4 дня назад

    AMEN to everything u said. GOD has truly blessed you with wisdom.

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 4 дня назад

      thank you! appreciate that🥰

  • @mattlippincott9709
    @mattlippincott9709 13 дней назад

    Ww❤

  • @Wishfull171
    @Wishfull171 15 дней назад

    Reminding myself a step at a time for two years now, and I was… bottom… of the ladder towards my authentic self. Slowly concurred alcoholism, then nicotine. Then remembered stuff I loved when younger and enjoying comforting and healthier hobbies. Starting wanting to go out more, be in nature and care about healthier food. Now I’m trying to cut caffeine down and continue improving my diet while doing normal physical activity etc. I also started a new job after years in one I hated and so upset I didn’t sooner. Also fixed my sleep too! I’ll be 29 next summer and just rediscovered a couple of my past dreams and set a couple goals for my life in the next couple of years. No matter where you are in life I promise you can come out from the other side of it ❤❤❤❤

  • @TashanaOnline
    @TashanaOnline 19 дней назад

    Growth❤️ Proud of you Blessing 🙏🏾

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 19 дней назад

      thanks girl🥰 hope you’ve been well!!

  • @aayeshaphuyal8795
    @aayeshaphuyal8795 19 дней назад

    I enjoyed it a lot and learned new things as well ❤

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 19 дней назад

      glad to hear!!🥰🙌🏾

  • @HaleyTruss
    @HaleyTruss 26 дней назад

    thank you!!!!!

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 25 дней назад

      glad this was helpful🤍🌸

  • @shantalbarbot5801
    @shantalbarbot5801 27 дней назад

    Love this 💕

  • @kendartrejo-martinez9433
    @kendartrejo-martinez9433 Месяц назад

    This is really helpful, I've been feeling a bit lost lately but I know that everything will fall in it's place eventually with the right work and mindset, thank you so much!

  • @Nikitasingh9-y5k
    @Nikitasingh9-y5k Месяц назад

    Mam please reply to me few year's back i was real n geniune , but day by day i lost my real personality i lost interst in every thing , i become so fake i become what i have seen in other people, my bestfriend who's with me from last 8 years Said, we were bestfriends because u were real but now u become so fake personality be you be real , mam please guide me how can i regain my real personality back how can i be real true from inside and from outside please reply mam 🫂💗 love from india

  • @elenduchisom168
    @elenduchisom168 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much

  • @peacelandhaven
    @peacelandhaven Месяц назад

    Such a powerful message! We all need to stop people-pleasing and start honoring who we really are. 💖 What’s one thing you’ve done recently to honor your true self?

  • @nugsz444
    @nugsz444 Месяц назад

    💖💖💖💖

  • @robiya4863
    @robiya4863 2 месяца назад

    thank you for your motivation and others💞

  • @lickdo3851
    @lickdo3851 2 месяца назад

    Moin Blessing, I'm testing a service I try it once in my university that's work. I'm new running a business helping content creator make money with their own digital products. Open to chat?

  • @АнастасияТерентьева-г1ш

    Thank so much, that's "база без кринжа" - concetrated extremely helphul info.

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 2 месяца назад

      thank you, glad to hear! 🥰

  • @АнастасияТерентьева-г1ш

    1) your core values 2) your ideal life 3) strengths and weaknesses 4) knowing your passions and interests 5) your personality type 6) your boundaries 7) your emotional triggers and your coping mechanisms 13:09 -- 8) your love languages 13:30 -- * (love lang picture) 14:48 -- 9) your life experiences

  • @MadeofStars1470
    @MadeofStars1470 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for this Blessing!

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 2 месяца назад

      thank Youu for watching 🥰

  • @KhanyisileGladysNdlovu
    @KhanyisileGladysNdlovu 2 месяца назад

    Very insightful

  • @mae1062
    @mae1062 3 месяца назад

    This was a good video 😊

  • @cynt4homes
    @cynt4homes 3 месяца назад

    New subscriber 👋🏾 this video spoke to me!

  • @horrorsharlot
    @horrorsharlot 4 месяца назад

    thank u for this ♥️ i used to be unapologetically me but got lost somewhere in the past 2 years when i lost my mom. now i have to find myself again and it’s hard and it’s scary and i suffer from imposter syndrome and have become extremely hard on myself and i hate it sooo much!! i miss myself and today i vow to find her again!!

  • @tori-ann8861
    @tori-ann8861 4 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @willowyacobellis-gg4ee
    @willowyacobellis-gg4ee 4 месяца назад

    As someone who is still in school with the same set of people daily, i struggle a lot to maintain happiness because I lack friendships that I feel secure in. I've grown out of a lot of things that my peers haven't yet so I have friends that act really childish and cruel which typical results in me feeling miserable after being around them. In the past couple months my friendships got significantly more stressful and since then i have really stuggled to be in a good mood. I dont think ive been in a genuinly good mood in about 2 months. And whenever i am in one they are usually very brief they last about 30 minutes. I was wondering if you have any tips on how to maintain happiness when you lack a healthy friendship because I know surrounding yourself with people you resonate with means a lot but I've struggled to find that anywhere in my school. This video was really helpful and I am going to try using your advice so thank you💕

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 4 месяца назад

      Hey babe! Thanks for sharing this & I honestly see where you’re coming from. It’s not easy to remain in good spirits when things in close proximity are everything but good. I’ve personally been in a very toxic living environment too where sometimes I’d cry myself to bed out of frustration. What I did to get myself out of that situation was making sure I made time for myself to feel. Journaled my feelings, but also excused myself from hanging around with the people that I didn’t feel comfortable around. I’d go on walks, go to coffee shops on my lunch breaks and made sure to nurture myself and learn to be happy by myself. One thing I’d also recommend is tuning into your hobbies. If there’s something you enjoy doing, go & check out the app meet up or search classes & events on shoobs or eventbrite or TikTok for that hobby to meet new people that like the same things as you and eventually make new friendships. However, don’t put pressure on yourself to instantly make new friends either because when it feels right, it’s right! Friendships should never feel forced or make you feel miserable at all, so major respect to you for recognising the unhealthy patterns & wanting to remove yourself from it. As much as being alone sounds scary, you will see that once you’re doing it more, it’s actually very rewarding. Hope this helps & definitely try the mentioned practices as they can increase your happiness levels fairly quickly. Sending lots of love!💕

    • @willowyacobellis-gg4ee
      @willowyacobellis-gg4ee 4 месяца назад

      @@__blessing thank you so much <3

  • @mfgn309
    @mfgn309 4 месяца назад

    I love that!!

  • @Adesolaforreal
    @Adesolaforreal 4 месяца назад

    We are our own limitations

  • @vavinesto
    @vavinesto 5 месяцев назад

    guys, just trust you intuition

  • @vavinesto
    @vavinesto 5 месяцев назад

    everyone needs right self-analysis. understanding your strengths and weaknesses. self-doubt is just hyperfocus on weaknesses

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      Very true🙏🏾

  • @TyquonteRobinson
    @TyquonteRobinson 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much

  • @gabbiie_mc
    @gabbiie_mc 5 месяцев назад

    Another On time message!!! Thank you sis 🥰🥰🥰🥰 helped me a lot

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      glad to hear girl!!! 🥰 hope you've had a good week too!

  • @vavinesto
    @vavinesto 5 месяцев назад

    by the way, about goals and plans. what do you think about manifestation?

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      ouuuu it's funny that you ask bc i've been thinking of creating a video on this 🤭in short, i do believe in the power of manifestation, buuut in a more practical way that goes deeper than the day-to-day words of affirmations or vision boards. What about you?☺

    • @vavinesto
      @vavinesto 5 месяцев назад

      @@__blessing I thought it was just childish nonsense. but it turned out that it works. bella poarch explained it well. overall I agree with her

  • @brian1018
    @brian1018 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this talk 🙏

  • @awolmel281
    @awolmel281 5 месяцев назад

    I resonate with this video alot. It reminds me that I can still grow no matter where I am at in life

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      absolutely!! It's never too late and it's crazy that you're commenting on this rn because literally this whole past week has been a lot of self-sabotaging on my end too. But we got this!! keep pushing❣

  • @ddiamond.77
    @ddiamond.77 5 месяцев назад

    you’re voice is so soothing to listen to☺️

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      Thank youuu🥰

  • @ish2473
    @ish2473 5 месяцев назад

    Great video!

  • @Luvvbrat
    @Luvvbrat 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this bcs I was wondering why am I not feeling fulfilled even though I’m working towards my goals. And it’s because I’m postponing my life and not doing things that I would rather be doing along the way thank you sm ur very articulate

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      glad this was helpful!❤️

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall 5 месяцев назад

    do you get the core part of the script for this from chatGPT or some other source? or have you genuinely studied and thought about all this? really, honestly if it's from your own mind then it's very good content edit: I'd guess that you are reading it from a script and that's why it keeps cutting out every sentence or so.. your eyes keep going to the same place at every edit morally speaking use of AI Should be declared so people don't ask or pay people for advice they are not qualified to give

    • @myzzkim88
      @myzzkim88 5 месяцев назад

      You know a lot of RUclipsrs write a script to stay on topic, even before ai

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      No, that's okay - but yes I script ALL my videos! Mainly because otherwise I’d struggle to really get deep into the matter I’m discussing or forget what I’m trying to say, but also because all my scripts start as a journal entry. All these things I discuss are from my own realisations, experiences, challenges faced, lessons learned - and as I am navigating them, I also research the topics & try to dissect them because I want to learn WHY I find myself in these situations. If you watch my other videos, then you’ll see that I often reference psychology blogs/articles, books and my overall personal experiences too. So in short - yes, I script, but no it’s not AI:)

  • @gabbiie_mc
    @gabbiie_mc 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      🥰❤️❤️

  • @zsazsa4332
    @zsazsa4332 5 месяцев назад

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @ellegrrace
    @ellegrrace 5 месяцев назад

    I am a Jazz fusion musician at Music University. Our limitations hold us back so much. Imposter syndrome is so real. I have seen it so much amongst my peers within the creative field. I realise It is particularly prevalent among young people that stems from positive feedback growing up. Personally when I began to have constructive feedback within education I began to simply fall apart. It was really having to take a step back and rely on my own validation of myself. I loved the way you speak about seeking external approval and through education is so real! It is learning to see your achievements and milestones. I hope we can be friends!

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      Hey girl!! First of all, I loooove jazz!! & that’s so good to hear - I can imagine it must have been hard at first because this is another thing where people can heavily project their own insecurities on, but I’m glad you’re getting there 💕 & we areeee

  • @safesoulspace
    @safesoulspace 5 месяцев назад

    thank you so much ❤

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      🥹🥰🙏🏾💕

  • @SarahThomson-s4e
    @SarahThomson-s4e 5 месяцев назад

    This video is amazing. Keep up the good work.

  • @SarahThomson-s4e
    @SarahThomson-s4e 5 месяцев назад

    I think you're too grounded and self aware to be a perfectionist.

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 5 месяцев назад

      That’s so sweet! But yeah I’ve come a loooong way😁

  • @Gbemileke-qw7uz
    @Gbemileke-qw7uz 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks

  • @ninedarien
    @ninedarien 6 месяцев назад

    Blessing another insightful and inspiring perspective!! I'd like to feature you in a magazine related to authentic expression. Lmk if you're interested and how I can directly reach out

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 6 месяцев назад

      Thank you! But I am not interested at the moment. All the best with the magazine though!!

  • @edikanakpanekpa
    @edikanakpanekpa 6 месяцев назад

    This was really helpful❤thank you

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 6 месяцев назад

      Glad it was helpful! 🥰❤

  • @Diary_101
    @Diary_101 6 месяцев назад

    Its been crazy lately. I reunited after 4 years with 2 of what i considered my best friends. And since the beginning i felt disconnected. We started community College together after all of high school separated. At first i was glas that they had other friends who we all went to middle school but some of them are fake, one of them tried competing with me and i didn't like that. Then just yesterday my friend and her friend were talking and i was just there. So its hard bc i feel like we are not a trio anymore.

    • @__blessing
      @__blessing 6 месяцев назад

      ughhh I can relate to this so much! Tbh, don't think too much of it. If they didn't bother to include you in the conversation then that already says a lot about them. Friendships are all about mutual effort and consideration! It's worth speaking to her about it, if you think that could make a difference. However, if not, I wouldn't force it & let it play out naturally. Sorry you had to sit through that ❤‍🩹