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Dr. Krys Racquel
Добавлен 1 янв 2022
This channel is for love, learning, growth, and wellness. I also throw in fun content like hauls.
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Hola. Oi. Hello. Welcome! I'm Dr. Krys Racquel. As a Doctor of Education, Master of Public Health & certified Life Coach - if you need advice about how to navigate a certain situation, allow me to help steer your ship in the right direction so you avoid major pitfalls and stay on course. Please send me an email in English, Spanish, or Portuguese, and I will potentially add my response to a RUclips video (in English or Spanish). Your privacy will be protected. I am well-equipped to manage concerns related to health & wellness, relationship dynamics & personal growth/development.
The expertise and knowledge I apply come from my own life experiences, Godly wisdom, and education.
I can answer general questions on RUclips or in coaching sessions - Please connect on my email - askkrystalracquel@gmail.com
coaching - herrosegarden.com
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Hola. Oi. Hello. Welcome! I'm Dr. Krys Racquel. As a Doctor of Education, Master of Public Health & certified Life Coach - if you need advice about how to navigate a certain situation, allow me to help steer your ship in the right direction so you avoid major pitfalls and stay on course. Please send me an email in English, Spanish, or Portuguese, and I will potentially add my response to a RUclips video (in English or Spanish). Your privacy will be protected. I am well-equipped to manage concerns related to health & wellness, relationship dynamics & personal growth/development.
The expertise and knowledge I apply come from my own life experiences, Godly wisdom, and education.
I can answer general questions on RUclips or in coaching sessions - Please connect on my email - askkrystalracquel@gmail.com
coaching - herrosegarden.com
Видео
Part 1 of 2 12/20/24 Proverbs 20 (Day 20 of 21)
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Part 1 of 2 12/20/24 Proverbs 20 (Day 20 of 21)
Can Broke Men Marry? (“I Need My Finances In Order First”)
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Can Broke Men Marry? (“I Need My Finances In Order First”)
Part 2 of 2 12/20/24 Proverbs 20 (Day 20 of 21)
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Part 2 of 2 12/20/24 Proverbs 20 (Day 20 of 21)
Stay With Boyfriend? Or Focus on God?
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Stay With Boyfriend? Or Focus on God?
He Isn’t Truthful About His Money/Career!
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He Isn’t Truthful About His Money/Career!
He’s Using Credit Cards - You’re Getting Finessed
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He’s Using Credit Cards - You’re Getting Finessed
Don’t Willingly Become a Single Mother - Stress for you and your kids
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Don’t Willingly Become a Single Mother - Stress for you and your kids
Thank for this video. So just to confirm I just need to go to the Social Security office first ?
Hello and thanks for stopping by! Just watch the video in case there were other details I gave. Have a blessed day!
@@missgreenqueen and yes, I did go so SSA first then did the license later on! You can even do a name update card for that. I updated name and address on my license about a year later.
You look great! Happy New Year
I appreciate the kind words! Happy New Year to you as well!!!🎉
What goals do you have for 2025?! Let me know in the comments!
I got denied a FT, couldn’t understand it but I do now. Makes sense.
@@The.Sasha.Shaina Thank you for joining the conversation and stopping by!
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
@@katechipata9934 Thank you!!!! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 🎄
There's nothing wrong with face timing a person sometimes. But, if one is not comfortable chatting on video all the time, it doesn't matter if its a man or woman, they should respect that. Some like to screenshot photos 📸 while videoing you. and can use it for various reasons. It can be annoying after a while. i dont mind calling you on phone ive already shown u im not a catfish, my God. Smh
@@giftednanointedcrafts6650 Thank you very much for your contribution! Have a great day!
@DrKrysRacquel yep, u welcome
Just joined, can I have the previous teachings please 🙏
Sure! Simply go to my channel and click the m playlists. If you select the Teachings playlist all of the proverbs chapters have been included. Thanks so much for joining!
It's true. In Africa, most countries still use a cash only system - Tuition, Bills, and Houses are paid for in cash. However, in North America it's harder to distinguish between a genuinely rich person and a person who is posing as rich. You need time to figure it out. We are worth than a designer handbag. It's better to be with someone who is generous and plans to make you his wife. Who has morals and values.
@@katechipata9934 Yes, that makes complete sense. Some men even lie outright knowing what the woman wants to hear. I know someone who let their guard down after a man claimed to make 5-20k a month. He would send her hundreds of dollars. Once she moved in from a different state, she found out that he wasn’t truthful - plus he tried not to work. It is definitely better to be with someone who has character and as women we have to wait to see his character before moving forward not his wallet (but no character)
❤ Thank you for saying this 🙏 so true so many women need to hear this. God bless you 🙏❤ 🙌
@@tiffanyfield8013 You’re welcome!! Thanks for stopping by. God bless you and Merry Christmas ♥️
It's messed up to leave a man when he's going through it, when we are in actually supposed to go through it with them, if a woman ain't strong enough to handle a no d stick by her mans side regardless of his financial status then stay single, women need quit depending on men and vise versa. If someone leaves cuz someone stop having material things, they didn't want or care for you in the beginning, it's what people got that people like
@arizonadaily Good morning. Did you hear the scenario I gave? The man just decided he wanted to put his money toward bills instead of continue to take the woman out now that she has become a glorified girlfriend. He had the exact same bills before he started trying to find a girlfriend but knew many women wouldn’t be with him in the beginning if he didn’t take them on dates. Thank you for stopping by
@DrKrysRacquel that's messed up, I didn't mean to sidetrack ur message I was just scrolling and seen the title which triggered me 🤣 it was just an impulse response 😂 feel free to remove my comment.
@arizonadailyI appreciate the honesty! Many of us read the title and comment without watching. Have a great holiday!
@DrKrysRacquel I don't celebrate Holidays but Thank You anyway and I hope you enjoy yours😊🥂❤️
SO GLAD TO FIND YOU!
Thank you for joining. God bless you!
@DrKrysRacquel 🎄🥳
It is a recipe for disaster, constant disappointment and resentment. You will feel burdened no matter how much you like or love that man. It will be too one-sided.
Those are great points. Thanks for stopping by!
Thank you for this reminder, a lot of men have admitted to me that they have girlfriends but are in no way committed to them. A lot also say that they don't love them either, no matter how long they've been together. Like you said they do it because it benefits them
Thank you so much for your commentary and insight! I definitely believe it. I even heard a man say he didn’t fully fall in love until he was married! Many men know how to limit their feelings for ladies until there is a real commitment. Have a beautiful day!
Thank you, I wrote a post on Facebook about cheap engagement rings and some people went off on me because I personally wouldn't accept a $200 ring.
@@neishaunwilliams98 Of course! And the amount I mentioned was the MINIMUM. The problem is ladies look at it from a woman’s perspective of “love” and “marriage” but they need to look at it from a man’s perspective. Buying the car and electronics he wants then giving a cheap ring is terrible! I highly doubt a man like that can put his woman first
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What I realise with a lot of you women. Especially black women your professional victims…nothing is ever your fault inspite all your bad decision-making.. a black woman will know that man had 5 baby mothers but her curiosity will make her number 6 why because they love a man with swag..they will know a man is a whore but you want to feel what these other women are fussing over.. Noting at all is ever your fault especially you single mom’s. I never hear a black woman admit or take accountability for her mess up it’s always the man’s fault…. And as for Chris brown..that incident happened when the guy was almost 19 years old and you still talking about it ? And which other woman did he abused? Am curious to find out? He’s a grown man now with kids of his own.a damn good father from what I can see. But this brings me back to the point I was trying to make black wimen just keep messing up and you get a pat on the back.but a person like Chris make a mistake because he was still pretty much a kid when it happened and it can’t be forgotten…am so done with black women it’s not even funny anymore.. in this doom society a man can do a hundred good things and one wrong and he will always be remembered for the one wrong not the hundred right things he has done
First, this video is directed at single women (of ANY race) who are currently dating. Second, I am a married woman. Third, I used Chris Brown as an example of what might happen when a child witnesses a negative environment growing up. I also mentioned that anyone can be redeemed. Fourth, I discouraged single mothers from dating if haven’t made any changes to prevent future bad relationships. Thanks for stopping by.
Correct. Both parties have a part to play in relationship failure. Own your part and do better next relationship.
You are absolutely right. It is important to reflect on our own actions. Thank you for stopping by!
You're right, thanks for sharing
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching as always ♥️
This hair looks so good on you! The color and the style
Thank you so much!
You gotta be a very busted looking woman to have to buy a man🤣🤣🤣 The only men that even go for that are complete losers. On the other hand, American blk women seem to go for obvious losers (criminals, players, pookies) pretty much exclusively, so...
Thank you for stopping by to the channel! The ladies were actually very attractive. One was very petite/skinny so maybe a bit insecure about that
@DrKrysRacquel I'll just say, especially in this era, women tend to think other women are very attractive whereas men often don't see them as that. I wish I could see who you're referring to🙂
@@TheWatcherOS I respect that. I think most people are at least a little bit nice looking when they fix themselves up.
I'm a single guy and make decent money. I not not looking for a long-term relationship, living together, or sharing finances with anyone. At the end of the day, she goes back to her place. 😂
@@BREEZYM6015 Definitely no living together acting like husband/wife with no marriage papers. Marriage is a good thing when the individuals are ready. Thanks for your comment.
I know I'm not your demographic, but I want to chime in. Women traditionally try extremely hard to count a man'a pocket before even considering interest. Our finances play a HUGE factor whether a woman will consider you or not. On the flip side, I don't recommend men to date broke women. So, a woman that's not willing to answer basic questions should be ruled out as an option. There is middle ground though. Just be selective on "the lakes you fish in " and be as honest as possible with those you seek to get into a relationship with.
@@JustMarco50 Thanks so much for chiming in! Is there a reason you wouldn’t date a broke woman? Do you mean a woman who is lazy so no ambition and choosing to work minimum wage but can do better, or a woman who might be working customer service to make ends meet but not a lazy person. Thanks for your insight.
@DrKrysRacquel What I mean is someone who doesn't make working a habit. Just as women have expectations of men. Men should have certain expectations of women. This isn't the 60's or 70's. Women can acquire just as good or better careers as men, so there's no reason for a woman to be unemployed long term and to not be in a decent career by a certain age in my view. Days of a house wife are long gone. She should have her own ish such as house, car, etc. by a certain age There's nothing wrong with being a house wife, but don't expect to be one in this world.
@@JustMarco50I respect your viewpoint and it’s valid! No one really wants someone with no goals. A careless woman wouldn’t make a good wife either. I support ladies staying home to rear their children if the couple can afford it Thank you!
I didn’t know this until later. I am in healthcare and didn’t think saying my career was a big deal. I remember once I told one man what I was and he said “then I definitely need to talk to you.” my ex also kept asking how much money I made per hour. I am disgusted/regretful thinking about it but I learned. If I say customer service and they ask for what exactly it is what do you say to not lie??
@@ruth6407 This makes complete sense. We definitely learn! If they ask what exactly you do after you say customer service, you can say something like “I work with clients and love it. What about you?” then focus on his career. So pretty much say what you do in a vague way but don’t be specific if you work in a management role.
Money can’t buy love with a man. It’s a losing game and it’s masculine for a woman to financially support a man. That lady loved the man more than he loved her.
Yes! It’s almost like she thought she could buy his love.
Thank you 🙏🏾 I have made the mistake of doing what you have advised to not do and it’s caused me SO MUCH unnecessary stress and heartache
You’re welcome and thanks for stopping by! We learn and that helps to us in our future.
Thank you dear HOLY SPIRIT 🤍
Thank you dear JESUS CHRIST 🤍
Amen!
Thank you dear ABBA FATHER 🤍
I agree! Lowering standards for a man is always wrong and not worth it. Being desperate when lonely or up in age also applies. Standards shouldn't change.
@@katechipata9934 That is so true! I agree with you! I’ll add that to the list of topics, too - desperate when lonely and desperate due to age…even desperate when someone has children. Thanks for always supporting 😊
This is bad advice ....because modern women have become masculine there thinking like men. This is great advice for men Not for women . The scripture he who finds a good wife means good women are hard to find not this warped analogy . Women are way more picky then men data on dating apps shows this . This is so poisonous and will lead women astray just because they trust a woman's opinion over a man's one .
Thanks for adding to the commentary. A lady selecting from the best male candidates that pursue her is wise and feminine. The scripture is clear - a man (in general) who finds a wife (in general) finds a good thing…and finds favor from the Lord. Thanks for stopping!
Currently interested in divorced men, please make a video about that next ❤
Coming soon! Thank you for the request.
@DrKrysRacquel Can't wait! I appreciate your balanced perspectives!
@@princesspeach-v3gThank you so much! I’ll do that video this month.
This was an amazing video and very true. 40 plus never married men act like teenagers. 40 plus divorced men have always been more mature and shown qualities that I love! The never married man often has a grandiose sense of self. He doesn’t want the women he has access to yet also never improved himself to gain access to whom he wants.
Thanks for your feedback and thanks for stopping by!
Hi everyone! Thanks for stopping by! The topic is related to which male candidate is best suited for a lady seeking marriage - a man who is 40 plus, single and never married or a man who is 40 plus and divorced. Let me know your thoughts on that specific topic! This video isn’t about whether you think a lady 30 and up is a good candidate for dating. God bless!
I saw another video saying that face timing a girl shows confidence… which one is it?
@@superchamploo1155 It wasn’t my video. I would follow this video since I explain all the reasons why it’s not the best idea. Thanks for stopping by!
I agree 100% a lot of these people that’s saying they want a traditional relationship they are not traditional themselves
@@pla4825 Definitely! Thank you so much for contributing to the conversation!
To get a good friend you have to be a good friend first 🎯
@@dontworrybehappy302 Amen! Thank you for watching!
Wait so it's bad for a 40 plus man but not the woman. Lord Jesus make it make sense.
@@cjh6678 All reasoning was provided in the video. Men and women are different. A man who is 40 plus and never married likely didn’t want to be. Thanks for stopping by!
Agree ❤
@@vanessak7069 Thank you for your feedback and thanks for stopping by
I enjoyed every second of this! Thanks for the quality content. Keep it up! 👏
@@tgstoicusa Thank you for the feedback and thank you for joining the channel!
Sex driven women
Love the title
@@reneesampson6566 Thanks so much! And thanks for watching!
Where the Martians???
@@aahmonddelite690 I’m not sure what you mean. Thank you for stopping by’
How that baby doing?
Amazingly!
@@DrKrysRacquel Awesome. Gone be talking and walking soon Congratulations on the journey
@@youngbenfranksinatra Amen! Thank you!!!
Good stuff!
@@reneesampson6566 Thank you so much for stopping by!
I ignore them as soon as they say that. I had someone say matter fact, most of them always say this” to make sure you’re not a catfish” and then when they see that I’m not a catfish they want to stay on the phone for hours like it’s so weird like they wanna fall asleep on FaceTime🤨
@@BarbieDawl.__ Thanks so much for stopping by! You made me crack up - falling asleep on FaceTime! My goodness!
Most guys aint really looking for marriage. If they was they be married. To be honest: Alls i want is a village of Loyal Vajayjay. Men want harems of women, not wives frfr
@@genovasquez8361 Thank you for your contribution! I think it also depends on culture! Many Caucasian Americans are taught to marry in their 20s to have a lineage
@@DrKrysRacquel black Americans for the most part are taught that as well. As I heard growing up as a black man is when you going to get married and have a family. My mother had me late in life so my brother was already grown and married. All my first cousins the males are all married. I grew up seeing a lot of men married and my family and in my neighborhood that were black. But in the 90s women were different.. and man stop saying a reason to get married. Not that my aunties and cousins and grand mothers the epitome of traditional. 95% of the women in my family worked and still submitted to their husbands. Marriage was seen as a duty to both genders. It's what you do. But I didn't want marriage for certain reasons. I just feel like being single puts me in place of power and peace and I can interact with different women physically at my leisure. I have no interest in raising children.. so no legacy for me. Unless it's a woman who wants to be single mother by choice like ebony k Williams
@@DrKrysRacquel I my home boy from highschool got married I was the best man at his wedding we was 22 years old.. My second cousin got married a few years before that.. both are divorced now. One of my older brothers is divorced as well at age 59. I doubt either of the three will ever marry again. I have to be honest I like living alone I don't want to share my place with someone else I need my space.. But I can say I know the grass is not greener on the other side. I have experience what it's like to be married and it's tedious and torture to me I need more than one woman and I need my space..
Thank you sister,But to discribe the word tradition,May have different meanings.And to my suggestion,The tradition is just few things,The tipical way of leaving,The Life style,The food and shelter.And low profile.Is just example.Sister before every love is lifestyle which first admires.
@@SarjoCamara-lj8yv You’re most welcome. Thanks for watching!
If I get rejected, that's it. One and done period
@@darylcampbell5952 Very good! No need to go back and ask again!
If you have multiple children by multiple men? Problematic
@@bernardshaw8895 I’m not sure what the answer to this question will help with but I’ll say that the perfect match for women with kids may be men with kids
Keep playing games Acting like you're busy when you're really not You'll be 65 with a cat or dog as a companion Take it coming from a man
@@bernardshaw8895 No one should be asking working people to go out the same day out of respect. And if they do, the lady should not accept for that day. Women need time to prep and that’s understandable. Thanks for watching!