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I sleep on the couch because my wife sounds like a chainsaw when she sleeps

I call bullshit. She watches outlander. Don’t they push rape or woman being taken so I should just take my wife after 20 years sexless. Yeah that’s the ticket

Mine gets drunk and obnoxious but won't come to bed with I ask him to and he doesn't work and I lived here first he was homeless 20 years before I moved my moved him in.

Thankyou ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!

Be like James Bond..Sean Connery, just take her😉

Remember what drew the two of you together in the first place. A certain Band, concert, author, color... breakfast, dinner... dessert, snack... talk about the things you have in common, reflect, plan... daydream... and just start stimulating her senses. Then comes the slight touches... shoulders, fingers, hands... brush up against her, look into her eyes when you talk, look at her ears, lips, chin, cheeks... now Mix It All Up and get her talking to you... and Listen. She wants to be heard, noticed, appreciated and then touched... and not just physically.

The speaker here drones on based on her ‘feeling’ women want this… she shows no hard evidence or facts to back this up. Don’t listen to her unless she proves her theory.

Stumbled by your channel on accident, love your videos! You have a very level-headed and thoughtful approach to the problem. Also really liked the part about "not waiting [amount of years]" and how "just a phase" can go on and on, very true, unfortunately.

Women love something else, never satisfied.

Every woman I've ever known wants to be desired as if she is a super model, or as if she's my celebrity crush. And none of them tried to resemble anything like that. Starfish pose, waiting for me to perform the magic. Ugh.

_"Ravage- d"_ ?

She wants to be ravished, but by her personal trainer or other Bad Boy, not by her husband.

Doesn't sound like a good idea to play along with this fantasy.

Women need to grow up and learn to communicate and learn to lubricate. You have to teach people how to love you or you'll never get what you want. Common Sense. You can't bitch and whin bout not getting what you want if you don't communicate what that is.

Oh snap!!!! She said the R word!!!! That’s definitely gonna get her video Epsteined by censortube!!!!

It's sad that he deleted all of his content, great knowledge hard to find elsewhere.

This is kind of sad, all the conditioning humans have gone through to lose their ability to feel and be open. This is not interesting neither fun.

I love you no matter what wife….even if we are not in bed together❤

Women put the work in up front, but most drop the ball after the ring, then complain he doesn't act like he did.... 😂😂😂 Neither does she. 🧐

I do not think this applied to my wife. She was never interested in foreplay except to the extent needed, then she wanted her orgasm and let me get mine as fast as she could. There was no playing.

Your wife might want to be ravished, but not by the simp she married

Yeah, bullshit. Fuck this.

Women do love the idea of Ravishing and passionate love. Here's the problem. There are Bad Boys, Good Boys and Good Boys that are reformed Bad Boys. Women are attracted to Bad Boys and these men will take what they want (within legal frameworks of course). Women don't marry Bad Boys they marry Good Boys and reformed Bad Boys and if there are any characteristics of Bad Boys she attempts to remove them yet still keep the pilot light on for the Bad Boy. You see this is media remember the wife in Inside Out, when angered about her husband would fantasize about the Brazilian Pilot? "Come fly with me Gatinha" lol. A married man either has had to pack up the Bad Boy in him and put it in the attic or it never existed in the first place making it very difficult to get this "ravishing" behavior from a hubby.

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The only thing I need to spice up my sex life, is a willing partner.

All good in theory. In reality I think few women are willing to give up power and very rarely at that. And how many women are willing to do the work needed to make their man want to ravish them? There is an old word that is basically extinct today: ravishing, as in darling you look ravishing! Today, many women wouldn‘t dream of catering to chauvinist male stereotypes of female attractiveness.

The problem is that men are not mind readers and women need to say this is the moment I am warmed up or turned on instead of laying down like a zombie in the bed.

Nothing against Lesli, but check out www.karynseitz.com. The woman tells it like it is. Very good information and insights

"This can be a little bit confusing..." yea...because it's totally subjective and NEVER specific at all, just a THING that makes her FEEL a certain kind of way. LOL....don't do it guys, it's a trap.

"Instructional session" not really. Its a correction session. Instruction would actually open the lines of communication. Correction is a game of trial and error until you hopefully get it right until you finally give up in frustration and wish you never had a sex drive. Its cruel to not say what you like but not a problem saying what you dont.

The only way I’d play this game would be to get a notarized signature from my partner clearly outline her desires. In this age of complete and total unambiguous consent, to do otherwise would be complete folly. Plainly said: This much forethought inhibits spontaneity…I.e. a real boner killer.

You’re talking a load of rubbish , how the hell are men supposed to understand this ?

If you are locked in for financial reasons then seems you are fooling yourself- no money or finace should replace a human bings self worth! Move on life is too short

Your 2nd definition is off. It means she wants to be taken by a stronger and more dominate man. She wants his desire for her ti be so strong that he can’t help himself because she is so desire able to him. He his involves her , almost unwillingly, being weaker in this fantasy that she has no choice other than relinquishing her control (being taken) to that man enrapturing and ravishing her.

I am thinking that I will go to this other apartment I have and I tell her that call me when she is ready to be a wife again, I will manage alone in that other apartment.

I don't care what women want. Most are morons. Now make me a sammich.......

If your wife doesn't want to initiate and you always do, you can either accept your fate or run far and fast. Even if you were able to get a compromise, it's just pity and a chore for her. And even if she says it's not, you'll always have that in the back of your mind. if she isnt putting in the effort, don't bother. You are wasting your time.

Good point, women do need to get out of their own heads and stop crushing their husbands confidence. Plenty of confidence in what I want to do with and to her, just lots of rejection

True that no one wants to be raped (I hope). But it’s not true that no woman fantasizes about being raped. I’m not saying it’s healthy, but rape fantasies are not uncommon for women. Good video, lots of good insight. Thanks.

What do you do when your wife doesn't want to be touched has absolutely no interest in any type of intimacy let alone be ravished, I know how this guy feels you can only take so much rejection I don't want a divorce I want my wife but when you have no physical contact its impossible to be intimate and everything else becomes irrelevant, its got to the point where you don't care anymore

Did you just mention your client’s name Tom? And not saying it is a fictitious name? In my profession that is forbidden by law in my country. Nothing said about the ethics. I hope his real name isn’t Tom….

Thank you for your video. Would love to speak more about a recent experience I had

You have an entirely feminine view on sex in marriage. Its not correct and not relevant to men

The common denominator amongst women who lose their libido is wedding cake.........

No. I take her like a angry pirate normally. She takes it for granted since its normal,. And her female friends hate it.

Kids in the bed is another reason. So cruel on the man. Id leave tomorrow if i could afford it

Judge Judy: “Sir, what were you thinking?” American Male: “It’s not my fault, this lady doctor on RUclips…”

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I do NOT feel safe with him, he is emotionally and mentally abusive. I do not want to be in the same bed with him so ive been sleeping on the couch. Its been very painful and jm not able to sleep. I asked him if I could have the bed just one night to recover and rest and he refused. I bought the bed with my own hard earned money so its infuriating. I guess what else should I expect from a coward that emotionally abuses his wife. Or is tbis normal for a man to not care if his wife is sleeping on the couch or in her car? I doubt a real man would ever be ok with that. A real man he is NOT