Coach Kita
Coach Kita
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PRIDE and Coming Out
Yes June/PRIDE Month is over, but being proud of who you are and what you offer this world is ongoing.
In this episode we talk about:
COMING OUT: Is it necessary? Is it insulting when someone says they already knew and we share our coming out stories
PRIDE: What does PRIDE means to us. How PRIDE was different this year
AND SO MUCH MORE!
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Видео

Exploring the Masc Shortage in the Lesbian Community
Просмотров 1622 месяца назад
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a hot topic that's been buzzing through the community-the perceived shortage of masculine-presenting individuals in lesbian circles. We'll explore what "masc shortage" means, its implications on dating dynamics, and how it affects identities and relationships within the lesbian community. Join us as we discuss with guests who bring diverse perspe...
From Frustration to Fulfillment: Navigating the Path to Conscious Dating
Просмотров 475 месяцев назад
Feeling stuck in the 'less than' loop of dating? Wondering when or if 'the one' will ever appear? You're not alone. Today's video is a beacon of hope for anyone caught in the cycle of frustration and seeking a path to fulfillment in love. What I Cover: - The importance of Honest Reflection on past relationships and the valuable lessons they hold. - Learning from Mistakes and transforming them i...
THE TRUTH YOU NEED
Просмотров 627 месяцев назад
Are you chasing a flawless fantasy or embracing the messy, real journey of growth? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingcoach #lesbians #lgbtqia
2024 Dating Trends Unveiled: Embracing Authenticity in Queer Relationships
Просмотров 1008 месяцев назад
Join me as we delve into the transformative dating trends of 2024. Discover why this year is all about breaking free from the pursuit of perfection and embracing genuine connections. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more insightful episodes. Packed with insights, personal anecdotes, and expert opinions, this episode is your guide to navigating the ever-evolving landscape o...
2023 Relationship Reality Check: Break Free from Illusions
Просмотров 859 месяцев назад
Welcome back to Queer Connections, everyone! I'm Kita, your go-to queer dating coach and matchmaker, and today we're diving deep into the transformative relationship lessons from 2023. 🏳️‍🌈 Venus retrograde sure did shake things up, and it's time we talk about it. In this video, I'll share with you the crucial insights I've gained throughout the year - insights that could revolutionize your app...
2023 Unwrapped: Raw, Real Life Lessons
Просмотров 259 месяцев назад
Find YOUR PERSON? in 6 months with Conscious Queer Dating www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating Hey there, Queer Connections family! 🏳️‍🌈 I'm back and recharged, just in time to wrap up 2023 and launch us into an exciting 2024. In today’s video, I’m getting real with you about the lessons I've learned this past year - the good, the challenging, and everything in between. Today you wi...
STOPPING FINANCIAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS
Просмотров 10911 месяцев назад
People treat you the way you let them treat you. I know that’s a hard pill to swallow, but nobody can gain access to your finances unless you allow them to. Here’s how you can prevent getting scammed financially in relationships: 1️⃣ VERIFY THEIR IDENTITY 2️⃣ HAVE FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE 3️⃣ SET BOUNDARIES 4️⃣ KEEP RECORDS/GET RECEIPTS Don’t get LaShondra’d out in these streets! If you want to k...
HOW PEOPLE PLEASERS GET CREATED
Просмотров 52Год назад
HOW PEOPLE PLEASERS GET CREATED
5 SUBTLE SIGNS OF PEOPLE PLEASING
Просмотров 39Год назад
5 SUBTLE SIGNS OF PEOPLE PLEASING
The People Pleasing Trap: Why 'Yes' Might Mean 'No
Просмотров 35Год назад
The People Pleasing Trap: Why 'Yes' Might Mean 'No
THE “YES” SYNDROME
Просмотров 30Год назад
THE “YES” SYNDROME
ARE YOU A PEOPLE PLEASER?
Просмотров 41Год назад
ARE YOU A PEOPLE PLEASER?
Ep. 6: Embracing Intimacy: A Candid Conversation with Queer Sex & Pleasure Coach Whitni Miller
Просмотров 435Год назад
Ep. 6: Embracing Intimacy: A Candid Conversation with Queer Sex & Pleasure Coach Whitni Miller
Attachment Style interview
Просмотров 110Год назад
Attachment Style interview
Ignite Your Love Life: The "Spark" vs. The "Slow Burn" in Dating
Просмотров 142Год назад
Ignite Your Love Life: The "Spark" vs. The "Slow Burn" in Dating
LIVE COACHING
Просмотров 22Год назад
LIVE COACHING
Ep. 3: How to REALLY use Astrology when dating.
Просмотров 118Год назад
Ep. 3: How to REALLY use Astrology when dating.
Ep.2: Are You Ready to Date Again?
Просмотров 72Год назад
Ep.2: Are You Ready to Date Again?
Ep. 1: Make Your Next Dating Experience YOUR LAST
Просмотров 51Год назад
Ep. 1: Make Your Next Dating Experience YOUR LAST
Welcome to the Queer Connections Podcast
Просмотров 12Год назад
Welcome to the Queer Connections Podcast
Find Love as a Queer Single - Here's How!
Просмотров 48Год назад
Find Love as a Queer Single - Here's How!
How To Break the Lesbian Standoff and Get More Dates
Просмотров 97Год назад
How To Break the Lesbian Standoff and Get More Dates
The Surprising Reasons You're Attracted to the Wrong People!
Просмотров 76Год назад
The Surprising Reasons You're Attracted to the Wrong People!
HUGE Queer Dating Mistake That Secretly Keeps You Single.
Просмотров 74Год назад
HUGE Queer Dating Mistake That Secretly Keeps You Single.
Queer Women: These are 3 Things You Should Know BEFORE you Date
Просмотров 241Год назад
Queer Women: These are 3 Things You Should Know BEFORE you Date
HOW TO CREATE CHEMISTRY ON A DATE
Просмотров 170Год назад
HOW TO CREATE CHEMISTRY ON A DATE
Why Lesbian Relationships Don't Last?
Просмотров 17 тыс.Год назад
Why Lesbian Relationships Don't Last?
3 MONTHS NO KISSING: Does It Work?
Просмотров 156Год назад
3 MONTHS NO KISSING: Does It Work?
WELCOME TO QUEER CONNECTIONS
Просмотров 106Год назад
WELCOME TO QUEER CONNECTIONS

Комментарии

  • @samhan1929
    @samhan1929 10 часов назад

    lesbians have no motivation to staying in the relationship after sexual desire is exhausted, straight relationship last because of kids, family, society. there is no such thing in lesbian relationship other than lust between two ladies.

  • @user-ry7xl6fb4x
    @user-ry7xl6fb4x 3 дня назад

    God said they are going to hell??? Is that true

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 3 дня назад

      @@user-ry7xl6fb4x no we are not!

    • @user-ry7xl6fb4x
      @user-ry7xl6fb4x 3 дня назад

      @@QueerConnections ok 😆 I must have read wrong Bible. I am not no religious person or church goer. Guess God respect it

  • @GiGi-mv6ih
    @GiGi-mv6ih 17 дней назад

    Oh WOW! you guys have hit the nail on the head!!!! it wasn't accepted totally in my era! Late but here now.

  • @GiGi-mv6ih
    @GiGi-mv6ih 17 дней назад

    Thank you for your insight on Lesbian Relationships, only been watching for one day but I am so inspired that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.😊

  • @GiGi-mv6ih
    @GiGi-mv6ih 17 дней назад

    I am new to your channel, and I am in a relationship that is unexplainable. I will continue to watch and learn and apply. Thank You So Much! for being here.

  • @michaelallen4297
    @michaelallen4297 Месяц назад

    She just rambling.

  • @johnq4520
    @johnq4520 Месяц назад

    More people need to hear this

  • @immersiveexperiences4799
    @immersiveexperiences4799 Месяц назад

    wow i'm older than both of you came out young and have not experienced what y'all are describing. I move to SF at age 22 it was not so rigid. You should be who ever you want to be. Also don't forget butch in the streets femme in the sheets. Also Also, some folks may not present masc but feel masc inside.

  • @scilines
    @scilines Месяц назад

    There are different types of mascs and the Black community seems to see stud style as the only masc style that is acceptable. Outside of specific stud style, Kita could be softer masc…but she needs more confidence and needs to put some bass in that voice around studs to be taken seriously. 😅

  • @dappergents3743
    @dappergents3743 2 месяца назад

    This is not a relationship let's make that clear what you have is lust and a demonic sprit Black people have taken on the mindset of their oppressors with these wicked lifestyle here in America. The Greeks and Roman's culture were founded on Homosexuality. You don't see anything in nature doings this no same-sex whatsoever When in doubt look to nature This lifestyle is contrary to nature and God black people are just burning in their lust White people's are killing us spiritually here in America Repent from this sin while you still have time

    • @fresh-eggs
      @fresh-eggs 2 месяца назад

      There's no credible evidence to show or support a God in existence anywhere in reality.

    • @fresh-eggs
      @fresh-eggs 2 месяца назад

      @dappergents3743 Are you aware that same-sex happens in nature. Plus humans are a part of nature. Humans are part of the animal kingdom.

    • @dappergents3743
      @dappergents3743 2 месяца назад

      @@fresh-eggs The Torah/Bible foundation is it prophecies written down by holy men before you and I were born everything Yah said would happen to his chosen people has happened to the African Americans AKA true Jews If you're a African American you're living out all the curses in Deuteronomy this is how you know God is real black people serve white people and have to rely on their resources in order to survive. black Americans must serve their slave masters for all our wants and needs if the Negroes need education,food,water,shelter, clothes, marriage,death certificate, social security number, you name it this is exactly what the Bible says would happen to the so-called African Americans black people don't produce or manufacture any goods of our own how else can you explain why we are still surviving in the lands of our enemies we don't have no military power or economic power LoL and you say there is no proof of the God of Israel and none else hell you wear your oppressors last name and speak the slave masters language

    • @user-ur2gp5zv3i
      @user-ur2gp5zv3i Месяц назад

      Same sex relationship is not natural. But who cares . I just don’t know what to say. It is a higher divorce rate. But the drama would be unbearable. F!!!! It’s hard enough dealing with women in general. I couldn’t imagine 2. Drama drama

    • @fresh-eggs
      @fresh-eggs Месяц назад

      @@user-ur2gp5zv3i Driving a car or riding on the bus isn't natural, but yet you still do it anyway.

  • @KeshunShannon
    @KeshunShannon 2 месяца назад

    Bruh

  • @narutofan4545
    @narutofan4545 2 месяца назад

    No testestorne leading

  • @Rndm077s
    @Rndm077s 2 месяца назад

    So if your partner is emotionally distressed how do you balance between people pleasing and comforting them?

  • @annshii6771
    @annshii6771 3 месяца назад

    Mine left me because suddenly she realizes she cannot come out to her parents as she's scared to put them into shame

    • @user-ry7xl6fb4x
      @user-ry7xl6fb4x 3 дня назад

      @@annshii6771 Don't worry God will handle it all trust me lol

  • @JRB644
    @JRB644 3 месяца назад

    Lesbian bed d eath.

  • @gracep2910
    @gracep2910 4 месяца назад

    Problem: Straight men trying to force themselves on lesbians, and then LESBIANS are the ones who are “bigoted” for not dating them. You know who I’m talking about.

  • @ThePartyPoetShae
    @ThePartyPoetShae 4 месяца назад

    Just found you and I love you already! Thank you for listening to the call to make these videos. 🎉

  • @taniaroberts2478
    @taniaroberts2478 4 месяца назад

    I have a beautiful smile, I’m loving and caring, I’m creative

  • @taniaroberts2478
    @taniaroberts2478 4 месяца назад

    Hi I’m Les and I have a girlfriend but for some reason it feels like nothing is working she’s trying to find ways to change her ways but it’s just not going anywhere and I feel myself slowly walking away and it hurts because she’s a good person and I want to be with her I love her but I’m just confused

  • @user-hk1rl5fs5b
    @user-hk1rl5fs5b 5 месяцев назад

    they don't last because both partners are always in bad mood because of their PCOS.

  • @barryglennon1442
    @barryglennon1442 5 месяцев назад

    Find? And dandy?

  • @marchelletillman1678
    @marchelletillman1678 5 месяцев назад

    Abomination. We as women are designed by god to be with a man. The parts of 2 women dont fit.

    • @fresh-eggs
      @fresh-eggs 2 месяца назад

      There's no credible evidence to show or support a God in existence anywhere in reality.

  • @slayyy_naya9302
    @slayyy_naya9302 6 месяцев назад

    14.when just meeting someone don’t try and think to much about the future just chill and see how it goes and if it continues then then you can look into the future more 15.questions to ask urself on the 1st date (am i having a good time, is there chemistry) 16.your needs are just as important as thier needs 17.sometimes asking your friends abt their red flags isn’t always best because it may not be as big of a deal to them as it is to you 18.deal with your trauma don’t numb it because if you don’t it will reflect back on you in your relationship

  • @chasingtheadventure5908
    @chasingtheadventure5908 6 месяцев назад

  • @DeeDaKang1
    @DeeDaKang1 6 месяцев назад

    Let's be honest here, lesbian couples: 1.) Very rarely marry each other 2.) Fight like 2 niqq@s in the street 3.) Are extremely toxic 4.) Move waaaaaaaay to fast like ( met on Monday, in love on Tuesday, living together on Wednesday fast) 5.) Have more infidelity than heterosexual couples & 6.) Always end terribly

    • @bbailey3055
      @bbailey3055 26 дней назад

      They don’t always end bad tho😂

    • @DeeDaKang1
      @DeeDaKang1 25 дней назад

      @@bbailey3055 most do, because they lead with their hearts

  • @user-bo2yz8ft5e
    @user-bo2yz8ft5e 6 месяцев назад

    Im first gen from Muslim African nation and ive given up on finding love since i cant even meet any Black diaspora lesbians. When you add cultural differences and what it means to be from a Muslim background and leaving the religion...its a lot!

  • @mykalee
    @mykalee 6 месяцев назад

    I love this! Thank you. I resonate with dating being draining. I took a pause after a few months. 🥴 Im gonna try and get back to it and these trends really resonate with me especially the Consider-date.

  • @stewbabe5028
    @stewbabe5028 6 месяцев назад

    The work is the work. Wanting to take the step in is huge, powerful, frustrating and requires commitment. Hard, yet so good. Thank you!

  • @Daxxil
    @Daxxil 7 месяцев назад

    Because the DV statistic is highest on lesbians lol

  • @user-if6ex2nd4s
    @user-if6ex2nd4s 7 месяцев назад

    Can you do a video about being in a lesbian relationship and meeting friends, because my gf is a masc women and every time she tries to meet friends but the females always fall for her and cheating ends up happening.. advice please

    • @tiadeese
      @tiadeese 6 месяцев назад

      Cheating doesn't simply happen. Your masculine gf is CHOOSING to cheat because she wants to cheat. Also, masc and femmes is irrelevant because a masc can cheat with another masc and femme cheats with another femme. Get you another gf who doesn't cheat. End of story.

  • @neokorteks2009
    @neokorteks2009 7 месяцев назад

    good relationship advice

  • @JeromeStuartNicholsTube
    @JeromeStuartNicholsTube 7 месяцев назад

    Why are you exactly like Corporate Erin 😂??? Good video just funny

  • @timothyprice9064
    @timothyprice9064 7 месяцев назад

    To men, this is a very obvious situation. For the most part, women break up and end relationships. When you put two women together what do you think will happen in the vast majority of their relationships? Women don't get called out because most men don't report their abuse and foul behavior.

    • @adriancarrillo9918
      @adriancarrillo9918 6 месяцев назад

      They do, other people will just see it as “if she’s doing this to you, it’s probably because you deserve it”

    • @timothyprice9064
      @timothyprice9064 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@adriancarrillo9918Does that mean when a man hurts a woman, she probably deserved it? Or is it only deserved if the man is harmed?

  • @mmoss6677
    @mmoss6677 7 месяцев назад

    Big difference, lesbian relationships clearly don't last, based on facts n history

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 7 месяцев назад

      Yeah there’s TONS of facts and historical evidence of this especially since most LGBTQ+ people had to hide themselves for most of history for fear of losing their jobs or ya know…death!

  • @daviedood2503
    @daviedood2503 8 месяцев назад

    When two chicks are on their cycle and moody, any little thing sets them off. One throws something, the other is trying to act like the boy they're actually not, then turn into a weak chick when responding, the bottom chick doesn't respect them now and it turns physically horrible, very quick, very badly. 🧐

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 8 месяцев назад

      Lesbian relationships explain by the expert @daviedood2503. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for explaining how our periods work and how it makes us violent. What would women do w/o these men to explain this stuff to us? 🤣😂🤦🏽‍♀️ Either way thanks for commenting and boosting the video.

  • @flatearthgreece
    @flatearthgreece 8 месяцев назад

    The don't last? Oh come on!!!! Ok, I have an idea. Let's accuse mens for that, too and invent another type of relationships, maybe commit to have an affair with ... an armchair or a tree, why not?

  • @teejaylecapois9741
    @teejaylecapois9741 8 месяцев назад

    Entitled female plus entitled female equals zero compromise thus relationship fails.

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 8 месяцев назад

      Oh yeah every female is entitled? Sounds like an entitled male thought his comments were needed about something he knows nothing about. It’s clear half of the males did not watch the video at all.

  • @zonshu6870
    @zonshu6870 8 месяцев назад

    Actually lesbian relationships have the worst statistics. Highest domestic abuse and highest divorce rates. Opposite sex in the middle and male on male relationships have the lowest domestic abuse and divorce rates 🧋theres ur tea

  • @edwardwigglesworth-iu7rx
    @edwardwigglesworth-iu7rx 8 месяцев назад

    too funny...guess it goes against the narrative that men are the toxic partner in a relationship

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah nobody says men are the toxic partner. There a lot of toxic women as well. Thanks for commenting though.

  • @2020Bookworm
    @2020Bookworm 8 месяцев назад

    Get each others handwriting analzsed by a graphologist.

  • @GrapeTesting101
    @GrapeTesting101 9 месяцев назад

    So. I'm a lesbian from asia that knows quite a lot about lesbian history, there has been plenty of long term lesbian couples in history like Rosa Bonheur etc. The thing modern lesbians are lacking is patience. Everyone hurries things. I personally believe that a more conservative take in relationships can be beneficial for lesbians. Meaning, taking it slow, understanding your partner. Focusing on finances and peace instead of drama and being overly paranoid. I found my girl and we're a peaceful couple. She's my queen and I want to be with her for the rest of my life, she's the same towards me. The secret to our peaceful relationship is that we take our time. We don't rush. We trust each other that the other will always be there so we're not anxious about anything. As for the abuse topic. The statistic from which men keep using and throwing around was misused/misinterpreted by media. Those abuse stats came from men when those lesbians were still comphet/in denial of what they are. Those weren't really from lesbians they're with when the stat was taken. That's also why I'm at peace with my relationship with my girl. We're both monogamous women who dislikes drama/noise/angry conversations. We take it slow, talk things out like civil adults. I hope that more lesbians understand this soon because the lesbian community is a MESS right now. Not me though. LMAO.

    • @forbiddenrose3700
      @forbiddenrose3700 6 месяцев назад

      I couldn't have phrased this any better! Well said! 💕

    • @user-mr6ey5mf9z
      @user-mr6ey5mf9z 6 месяцев назад

      💯💯. I've been with my spouse for 12 years (married for 7). I met her and....with her mesmerizing eyes...Yeah, I didn't stand a chance. I wasn't going NOWHERE 😂. We got engaged 2 years after dating. My bestie, my shorty and my lover for sure.

    • @simonkrayt1970
      @simonkrayt1970 4 месяца назад

      They were real relationships. You are just coping with reality. Those lesbians are real and to deny that would deny the horrible reality they live.

    • @aicofrena505
      @aicofrena505 4 месяца назад

      Miss I am sure you are the most perfect person with the most perfect woman on your side and you two women are in harmony with each other and everything is perfect from every aspect of your life That's what you're trying to imply and then you start talking about men and how they are and how that affects the lesbian very interesting but I'll tell you this I know deep deep deep down you know that it's wrong and most lesbians don't want to find why they are most lesbians don't want to understand where they're heading and they don't want to look back at their circumstances that got them into this position in the first place because sadly usually more times than not their families fail them completely and you end up in a lottie da situation where you believe that falsifications are truth have a nice day

    • @DerMatticusFink
      @DerMatticusFink 23 дня назад

      What you said about modern lesbians is just true for modern women in general. My dating experiences with them has been the same, and I did find all of them through dating apps, which attracts a certain kind of woman. I have found that they want instant excitement, gratification, and chemistry, and if it doesn't happen on the first date they move on to the next guy. This is a not realistic approach to finding a partner. I finally lucked out and found the one women who was worth it out of about a dozen who were a complete waste of time, she's also a few years older than me and not as physically attractive as most of the previous ones, but OMG is she worth it! When I am with her, things like modern beauty standards go out the window and I am attracted to her like no other. When you find someone who speaks to your heart, soul, and mind, nothing else matters.

  • @TechPeasant404
    @TechPeasant404 9 месяцев назад

    Modern society telling women that they need to be independent and don’t compromise I think is a large factor. Divorce rate is highest in the USA from lesbian couples. Then second highest cis/straight couples where divorce is primarily instigated by the women. Lowest divorce rate is found in gay men couples. The main difference is the % of women involved in the relationship. Domestic violence follows a similar trend too. reported cases of domestic violence per type of married couple is highest reported in a lesbian marriage. Not the severity of the assault due to size difference and aggression quotient. the verbal abuse would also be much higher on a similar scale between the groups I would guess however I have no data to back that up on. The other points can be found doing a basic search online.

    • @GrapeTesting101
      @GrapeTesting101 9 месяцев назад

      The lesbian violence statistic from which uninformed people keep using and throwing around was misused/misinterpreted by media. Those abuse stats came from men when those lesbians were still comphet/in denial of what they are. Those weren't really from lesbians they're with when the stat was taken.

    • @pridetherapy
      @pridetherapy 5 месяцев назад

      We don't know the divorce rate is the USA from lesbian couples because most states don't keep record of which couples are straight and which ones are gay. You must not be in the lesbian community because I can think of at least 20 lesbians couples who are happily married in my own city. I also see many many couples in my LGBT groups who are very happy in long term marriages. We always find what we are looking for. We also can't get good research about DV issues because lesbians are such a small minority and the government doesn't' have the money to spend on researching this type of issue for lesbians. Sample sizes have to be large enough and it's difficult to get good data on lesbian relationships because many are still closeted.

  • @PriestNation-jz4tn
    @PriestNation-jz4tn 9 месяцев назад

    The hostess of hell "Eve" here is still the portal to mass confusion & Psyhcotic indoctrination content. Even animals (supposedly dumber than people) know not to mate it's own sex!! For what purpose does that serve but mass numbers of involuntarily single overlooked & abandoned men. The much awaited WWIII mushroom cloud will be the end of the cultural mass deprivation, mass suffering, + ""glorified rebellion"".... against the Most High Heavenly Father Yahawah, his son & true Messiah Yahawah Shi

    • @fresh-eggs
      @fresh-eggs 2 месяца назад

      There's no credible evidence to show or support a God in existence anywhere in reality.

  • @inyourdreams444
    @inyourdreams444 9 месяцев назад

    All relationships take work and all relationships are not healthy to begin with. This has NOTHING to do with being lesbian. I’ve been purely lesbian for 32 years and only had 2 VERY LONG & HEALTHY relationships. People should watch this for entertainment and stop trying to apply it across the board to other folks lives.

    • @P3rrineLover
      @P3rrineLover 9 месяцев назад

      Exactly, it has nothing to do with gender or sexuality. Lesbian relationships *do* last.

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 9 месяцев назад

      How does a healthy relationship end? Make that make sense.

    • @P3rrineLover
      @P3rrineLover 9 месяцев назад

      @@dredey1971 People fall out of love. Doesn't make it any less healthy.

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 9 месяцев назад

      @NikolaGog0l how does one, "fall out of love" in a healthy relationship? This is a real question for me.

    • @P3rrineLover
      @P3rrineLover 9 месяцев назад

      @@dredey1971 it happens with time. When you grow or change as a person and your thoughts don't align the way they did before. somrtiems it just happens.

  • @OGtheQueen
    @OGtheQueen 10 месяцев назад

    I’m very confused tho. I have friends that have been with their wives and girlfriends for over 10 years. And I can’t even last 90 days with someone 😩! Thank you for the advice 🩵

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      You are not alone. Take your time, get clear about what you want and remember you are looking for THE ONE not just someone.

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 9 месяцев назад

      Learn to cooperate. Its not always about you.

    • @elizabethholloway6945
      @elizabethholloway6945 7 месяцев назад

      That’s exactly how I was before I met my wife. We’ve just crossed 18 years. We’ve fostered countless dogs. Fostered kids. Adopted two boys. You’ll find your person. Def don’t settle. ❤

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 7 месяцев назад

      @@elizabethholloway6945 just curious. What does "your person" mean? Like a God given person? Or a person you that you can learn to cooperate with by some other set of personality traits, lived experiences or traumas, etc. I see it often, but dont underrstand what "your person" means.

    • @OGtheQueen
      @OGtheQueen 7 месяцев назад

      @@elizabethholloway6945 thank you 🩵, I appreciate it!

  • @alexmuenster2102
    @alexmuenster2102 10 месяцев назад

    NOTHING she said was uniquely special to *Lesbian* relationships. Am disappointed!

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      Bc truthfully…when relationships end it’s not bc of something unique to being straight or queer, race, etc… Struggles in relationships are a HUMAN issue. Thanks for commenting. Have a great day!

    • @alexmuenster2102
      @alexmuenster2102 10 месяцев назад

      @@QueerConnections Then for heaven's sake: *change* the title of your clip! Otherwise, it's just click-bait!

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      @@alexmuenster2102 no bc I don’t work with straight people. This was a questions asked to me by a LESBIAN and I answered it. And let’s be real…most videos on here are clickbait. Play with someone else. Thanks for commenting though 😁😁😁

  • @jackiefox7224
    @jackiefox7224 10 месяцев назад

    All relationships take work. Compromise, maturity, respect and boundaries. If you want your relationship to last long term, each partner needs to commit to doing the great work to hold it together. 🇨🇦

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      100%!!

    • @aicofrena505
      @aicofrena505 4 месяца назад

      Our relationships take work yes but analyzing from my family members who choose to be gay because sadly even though Americans don't think choices choice I've noticed that they are sadder they are more angry they are less stable and they think they can find love and they don't realize the difference between the word lust and the word love and they confuse it completely let me just tell you this and you can hate me all you want and bless your heart for hating me but I'm going to be brutally honest something that a lot of people probably never have told you in your life and you're going to get angry every thing that is ever made on this earth has a female and a male product for example something real easy a television and an outlet television has a cord which is male the outlet is the female which gives it power for you to watch TV same thing with screws in order to hang something you need a screw to go under the wall when you make a hole into the wall that's the female part you put the screw in it's a male part what happens you hang a picture it's all about creating something new with two parts have a good day

  • @jp78191
    @jp78191 10 месяцев назад

    I wonder if this is consistent with any other developed nations. I have a hunch America has a unique problem.

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah maybe. I can’t speak for other places.

    • @GrapeTesting101
      @GrapeTesting101 9 месяцев назад

      Not consistent. This is not a pattern in asia. There's a lot of long term lesbian relationships here but they just keep it quiet.

  • @rhone733
    @rhone733 10 месяцев назад

    "Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      Not Al Bundy 😂😂

    • @Girlyppop
      @Girlyppop 7 месяцев назад

      Bruh

    • @k.l.6129
      @k.l.6129 7 месяцев назад

      One of my favorite old school shows. Married with children.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 10 месяцев назад

    How many couples have you ever seen that met as young lesbians in school and married by age 20 and stayed together til to there were 80 years old? How long does the average girl on girl marriage last????

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      This exact scenario…very few BECAUSE…most don’t meet in school and marry in their 20’s because they spend most of their life in the closet. Most don’t even come out until their 20’s which means they are playing catch up and just now dating.

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 10 месяцев назад

      @@QueerConnections I remember girls being open when I was in highschool....I'm 46 now. Girls on my generations were open.. An they talked about.. I guess your generation hid things but in the 90s when the freaknic era girls were out the closet being fluid with men and women openly

    • @selleck3415
      @selleck3415 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@QueerConnections ya'll have the highest divorce rate quit coping😂

    • @QueerConnections
      @QueerConnections 10 месяцев назад

      @@selleck3415 show me the study that says this.

    • @Candyyy12392
      @Candyyy12392 9 месяцев назад

      @@QueerConnections I sent you the study, it was conducted in different countries, I will send it again, tell me if you need more proof :D. First of all, this is the global result of different divorce rates: Globally, divorce rates of marriages with two men have the lowest rate of divorce, marriages with one woman and one man have a slightly higher rate of divorce and marriages with two women have much higher rates of divorce. (it is the exact line which was written in the article by wikipedia, I'll give the source at end) Here's the divorce rate of developed countries in europe: Netherlands : A study tracking married couples over a 10-year span found lesbian marriages were most likely to end in divorce. Of the 580 lesbian couples who were married in 2005, 30% were divorced ten years later compared to 18% for heterosexual couples and 15% for gay male couples Between 2004 and 2009, the average annual divorce rate for all homosexual marriages was almost 2% (the total rate of divorce over those 5 years was 11%) Also between 2004 and 2009, lesbian divorce rates were nearly double of those of gay men Denmark : The vast majority of gay marriages in Denmark are male-male. Fourteen (14) percent of these end in divorce, compared to 23 percent of female-female marriages. The higher rate for lesbians, is consistent with data showing that women initiate most of the heterosexual divorces in Denmark Norway and sweden : A 2022 study of Norway, using data up to 2018, found that divorce rates 20 years post-marriage were 5% lower for male-male marriages compared to male-female marriages and were 29% higher for female-female marriages vs female-male marriages. In the above study, lesbians' divorce risks were 10% higher than for gay men (Table 4). United Kingdom : As of 2013, lesbian couples were twice as likely to initiate actions to end legally recognized partnerships as compared to gay men.[22] In 2016, married female couples were approximately 2.5 times more likely to divorce than male couples Source : en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_of_same-sex_couples ( *While surfing the web for answers, I came across multiple websites, and most of them had their stats with lesbian divorce rate climbing upto 74%, a lot of them were trusted websites but wikipedia had the lowest numbers out of all, so I found the results which were more in favor of lesbians but still, they showed that lesbians had a much higher divorce rate than any other marriage.* )