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Miss Julie's Montessori Minutes
Добавлен 10 дек 2010
Hi my name is Julie, known to the students in my Montessori toddler classroom as Miss Julie. You're invited to join me for chats about the unique nature of toddlers and how adults can support them in their development. I make videos to support parents, teachers and caretakers in the important work of educating and caring for toddlers. Thanks for stopping by! I hope you'll find a topic that answers your questions, if not let me know. See you in the comments!
How to get your toddler to stop hitting and pushing. (A real life guide)
Here's how to get your toddler to stop hitting and pushing. Teaching your toddler to stop hitting, pushing, and other "aggressive behavior" requires a multi-layer approach. If your toddler is hitting, pushing, or otherwise physically bothering friends and siblings there is hope! I'll explain specific strategies to help you help your child through a toddler hitting or pushing phase.
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Toddler Discipline Playlist:
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Using Logical Consequences With Toddlers
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Toddler Discipline Playlist:
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Using Logical Consequences With Toddlers
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Clean With Me Montessori Classroom Reset 2024 (Behind the Scenes Montessori Toddler Room Refresh)
Просмотров 3708 месяцев назад
Clean with me Montessori style! Join me as I reset my entire Montessori toddler classroom for 2024. This Montessori toddler community refresh includes every shelf and corner. You'll get a behind-the-scenes look as I clean, organize, and renew the Montessori toddler activities in my classroom for 18 to 36-month-olds. LInk to my Montessori Classroom Refresh workbook: www.amazon.com/Montessori-Tod...
What to put on a Montessori Toddler Shelf? (Easy Montessori shelf set-up guide for beginners)
Просмотров 3538 месяцев назад
This easy Montessori shelf set-up guide for beginners has the easy answer to your "What should I put on a Montessori toddler shelf" question. Learn the four categories of activities to put on just one Montessori toddler shelf and four examples for each category. These activities for the young toddler have been time-tested in my Montessori toddler community. With just one shelf, four Montessori ...
Toddler Stocking Stuffer Ideas! (Easy to Find in 2023)
Просмотров 1428 месяцев назад
11 toddler-approved stocking stuffers! These stocking stuffers are easy to find, affordable, and will be used by toddlers beyond Christmas Day! The best stocking stuffers for toddlers (or preschoolers) are fun, practical, Montessori, and minimalism-friendly! I found all of these toddler-pleasing stocking stuffers at The Dollar Store but they can be found at many other stores. The toddlers in my...
How to stop saying Good Job (Guide to encouraging and praising toddlers)
Просмотров 2019 месяцев назад
Learn how to stop saying "Good Job" and start positively encouraging and praising your toddlers with these simple and effective strategies. Montessori Toddler teacher, Miss Julie, explains the problem with saying "Good Job" too much and explains strategies for what to do and say instead. Miss Julie's Favorites ruclips.net/p/PL6LKYvnqxtSuoRv5bx-scWrp8GLQ1kiKs 0:00 Introduction 1:08 The Good Job ...
TODDLER GROSS MOTOR PLAY - Small Space Ideas for Indoor Toddler Play (tested by my students!)
Просмотров 709 месяцев назад
Looking for some fun toddler gross motor play ideas for your toddler child or toddler students? I'm sharing my small space activities for indoor toddler gross motor play! Of all the indoor gross motor play ideas and materials I've tested over the years, these are our favorites for creative play, gross motor planning activities, and collaboration! WATCH THESE NEXT: Miss Julie's Favorites ruclips...
MONTESSORI TODDLER GIFT GUIDE: Shop small business Saturday with me! (Best Etsy Shops)
Просмотров 1969 месяцев назад
Never waste money on "Montessori" toddler toys again! In today's video, I share my favorite Etsy shops to visit when shopping for Montessori toddler gifts. I also share my favorite Montessori-friendly items from each shop. These items have proven to be good investments for my classroom where Montessori toddler toys get a lot of use! This video will help you choose meaningful and engaging Montes...
Tour My Montessori Toddler Classroom Language Curriculum Area: Activities, Games and Reading Spaces.
Просмотров 1699 месяцев назад
Welcome to my Montessori toddler environment (Montessori toddler classroom). Join me as I rotate my language curriculum. Get ideas for language activities and for setting up cozy reading corners. In this video, I'm sharing a tour of my Montessori toddler classroom language area. Along with a curriculum overview and pictures of the language area, I'll describe the activities and materials on my ...
What happened to my sweet toddler? Four normal things about toddlers that might be a challenge...
Просмотров 8010 месяцев назад
Toddler Shock: Learn four reasons your sweet, cooperative, easy-going toddler has evolved into a more challenging two-year-old (or soon will). Understanding why a child behaves in new, less easy-going ways will help you be more empathetic, patient, and understanding. Two-year-olds aren't terrible. They are in a unique developmental stage worth celebrating! Refresh your Montessori toddler classr...
This was Positive Phrasing Perfected! This example of positive phrasing amazed me! Toddler Parenting
Просмотров 89Год назад
Positive phrasing with toddlers is something I practice and love to speak to parents and adult learners about! I came across this wording that is the perfect example of how to phrase the same information positively. Toddlers want to know what they can do, not what they cannot do, so positively phrased communication is crucial in their development! WATCH THESE NEXT: How to prepare your toddler f...
NEW Montessori Toddler Practical Life Activity, simple & cheap too! Montessori For Everyone.
Просмотров 248Год назад
This new practical life activity in my Montessori toddler classroom is simple and inexpensive to put together. And, like all Montessori practical life activities, it is real and meaningful work, which toddlers love! #montessoritoddler #montessoriactivities #Montessoriforeveryone #montessoriclassroom
Montessori for Everyone: A favorite Montessori toddler activity for Montessori at Home or School
Просмотров 193Год назад
#practicallife #toddlerchores #Montessoritoddler Montessori at home can mean zero purchase necessary! Enjoy this toddler Montessori practical life activity with your toddler at home or the toddlers in your Montessori toddler Community. Montessori for Everyone Practical Life Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL6LKYvnqxtSsx4AGw5S3kOjZJIJ2DIN8e
Tour of Montessori Toddler Classroom: What is on my shelves in Toddler Montessori Classroom?
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.2 года назад
Tour of Montessori Toddler Classroom: What is on my shelves in Toddler Montessori Classroom?
What not to say to your upset child & what to say instead. How to really comfort your child.
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What not to say to your upset child & what to say instead. How to really comfort your child.
#1THING Montessori toddler parents and teachers practice: Montessori for Everyone/Montessori Adult
Просмотров 3082 года назад
#1THING Montessori toddler parents and teachers practice: Montessori for Everyone/Montessori Adult
How to set gift-giving boundaries with grandparents: A nice person's guide to avoiding gift excess.
Просмотров 3362 года назад
How to set gift-giving boundaries with grandparents: A nice person's guide to avoiding gift excess.
What is on My Montessori Classroom Walls // Toddler Montessori Teacher Explains Artwork in Classroom
Просмотров 2262 года назад
What is on My Montessori Classroom Walls // Toddler Montessori Teacher Explains Artwork in Classroom
A favorite fall outdoor practical life activity! Montessori toddler community activity
Просмотров 1463 года назад
A favorite fall outdoor practical life activity! Montessori toddler community activity
5 FAVORITE SONGS WE WROTE FOR MY TODDLER MONTESSORI STUDENTS (& how you can too)
Просмотров 1453 года назад
5 FAVORITE SONGS WE WROTE FOR MY TODDLER MONTESSORI STUDENTS (& how you can too)
WHAT DOES MY BABY REALLY NEED? (BABY ESSENTIALS THAT AREN'T) THE OBSTACLES TO COORDINATED MOVEMENT
Просмотров 4393 года назад
WHAT DOES MY BABY REALLY NEED? (BABY ESSENTIALS THAT AREN'T) THE OBSTACLES TO COORDINATED MOVEMENT
Why we have just one of each activity in our classroom-Minimal Montessori / Toddler Teacher Explains
Просмотров 2193 года назад
Why we have just one of each activity in our classroom-Minimal Montessori / Toddler Teacher Explains
Teacher tip #4 Three ways to get YOURSELF ready for your child's first day of daycare or preschool.
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Teacher tip #4 Three ways to get YOURSELF ready for your child's first day of daycare or preschool.
10 Highly Effective (simple) Ways to Help Your Toddler Concentrate / Teacher Explains Strategies
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10 Highly Effective (simple) Ways to Help Your Toddler Concentrate / Teacher Explains Strategies
The Ego Egg: How to REALLY Help Your Toddler Build (lasting) High Self-Esteem. Montessori Toddler
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The Ego Egg: How to REALLY Help Your Toddler Build (lasting) High Self-Esteem. Montessori Toddler
16 things your toddler gains by doing practical life activities at home: Montessori teacher explains
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16 things your toddler gains by doing practical life activities at home: Montessori teacher explains
Let's get this straight: What is the right way to display puzzles in a Montessori toddler classroom?
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Let's get this straight: What is the right way to display puzzles in a Montessori toddler classroom?
Tip #3 How to prepare your toddler for daycare, childcare, preschool / toddler teacher explains
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Tip #3 How to prepare your toddler for daycare, childcare, preschool / toddler teacher explains
Why & How to Use POSITIVE PHRASING with your Toddler or Preschool Child: Montessori Teacher Explains
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Why & How to Use POSITIVE PHRASING with your Toddler or Preschool Child: Montessori Teacher Explains
8 Easy Ways to Welcome Your Toddler in the Kitchen: Montessori Practical Life Food Prep
Просмотров 743 года назад
8 Easy Ways to Welcome Your Toddler in the Kitchen: Montessori Practical Life Food Prep
Best Montessori Toy Company? Amazon vs Allison Montessori vs. Nienhuis. Montessori toy review
Просмотров 5523 года назад
Best Montessori Toy Company? Amazon vs Allison Montessori vs. Nienhuis. Montessori toy review
my concern is... Like what if the child accidentally breaks it and unfortunately cuts himself when the material dropped on the floor.. how do guides handle this? Sometimes Im afraid to just let them use glass and sharp things like knife, although repetition of use is key to mastery but you can never tell when accidents take place… any advise? When an incident happen? Thank you
First a little encouragement, I have never had a child scratched or cut by broken glass in my classroom in the over 20 years I have worked in Montessori classroom. The type of glass you have in the classroom can help with this, for example I wouldn't use a thin ceramic that breaks into shreds when dropped as that can scatter in a wide area that is difficult to manage. Also have a clear broken glass protocol. Cleaning up glass is a collaborative activity. One adult stays near the area of the glass and prevents children from picking it up or stepping on it. Provide a clear boundary of year to stand such as everyone stand behind me, or stand by that plant (at a distance). One child gets the wastebasket (you will have to empty the glass from it immediately) and another child gets the hand broom and the second adult brings wet wipes to detail clean the floor of splinters. I would encourage you to bring in a few glass pieces and as you gain confidence with the addition add more items. Of course the classroom must be set up so that it is easy to observe all children and that there is always one adult not fully engaged with other children so that the classroom can be monitored. As far as knives with toddlers, I use spreaders and potato crinkle cutters. Children can scrape themselves with them and I have had a few knuckle scratches with those. This happens with improper use of the material so again, especially with toddlers, supervision is important. With a spreader or butter knife children can cut many things, bananas, peeled cucumbers, as well as cooked potatoes, zucchini and more. If someone does get injured we care for them in the usual way, cleaning, bandage and comfort. Hope that helps. I too was a little suspicious when first exposed to this idea but it has so many benefits for the children and the earth!
I really loved how you provided direct examples of the logical consequences. I'd love another video with more examples if you have any.
Thank you. I can definitely do that!
I'm so sorry your dog at your Gobbi that you worked so hard on! Also, are we going to make those this summer?
It really was a bummer and I never made another. But I have a grandchild arriving this year so maybe I will give it another go and make sure that it is never in the vicinity of my current dog! I am not sure of the infant environmental design course plans, but you can always put in a request for mobile making if there is time!
i have a hard time extending empathy bc its flat out disrespectful and ruins my joy of parenting
Yikes, it does sound like some very firm boundaries need to be set! I hope you gleaned some helpful tips at least. Relationships are hard, indeed.
What’s a good sorting activity for a 20-24 month old ?
Really anything that is safe enough for those who are still mouthing objects frequently and that doesn't pose a choking hazard. Some of my students' favorites are shells and other natural artifacts like pits from fruits. Little wooden cutouts that are sold at craft stores are great. Also take a look at toys you may already have and how they can be sorted such as sorting blocks by shapes or anything else that you have at least two of the same items.
Keep it up it’s so true what you’re saying ❤❤❤
Thank you. Thanks for watching and commenting!
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So glad to hear it. Thanks for letting me know!
I have just discovered miss Julie and i love love the subtle humor in this video and it's filled with good info. I still have reservations that I'm trying to navigate through. What about teaching the toddler that it's not a big deal if someone takes their toy? That they can still play with that toy indirectly, if they grab another toy? I've noticed when kids play well together, that is what they do. Is this already determined by their temperment? Turn taking seems to lead into possessiveness, entitlement, and frustration for the toddler. Expecting a toddler to be patient, with another toddler learning to be patient, seems unrealistic. Idk I'm still doing research on how to approach this dilemma what do you think?
I would say that depends on the age of the toddler. Children over 18 months can definitely learn to wait until someone is done doing an activity, for example wait until the child is done doing a puzzle or slicing a banana before they do that activity. With loose toys boundaries are not so clear so taking a block away from another child in a play situation might not be such a big deal as there are plenty more blocks. Possessiveness does not develop, rather it disappears, with my students because they learn that everything is ours and we all get a chance to use it. And toddlers can be very patient, especially when there are other activity options for them.
I had a parent who swore by ruggable, and that it could fit in their standard sized washer no problem. Thank you for sharing your classroom, Ms. Julie! I have so many ideas now.
Yay, I.have been waiting for a semi-first hand testimony regarding ruggables!
I have a student who steals things that other kids have put down momentarily and refuses to give it back. For example, a kid is using scissors and puts it down to get some tape or something, then the kid will steal the pair of scissors. Every single time I explain to give it back because the original kid hadn't finished, they give it back and it ends in tears until she's ready to steal someone else's thing. But sometimes she will flat out refuse to give it back and start using it, by that time the victim kid will be really upset and I feel I need to forcefully take it back. Do you have any idea how I can approach the situation better? I don't like using force but it's my last resort and surely there has to be something better.
Thanks for watching and for the question. Firstly, make sure all the children understand what constitutes "in use". It is an abstract thing when the other child is not holding an object but is indeed still "using it". This is especially true with young children who have not yet developed theory of mind. If it is a group setting/learning experience where children are all at a table at once, designate a spot children put the tools when they are finished, such as a tray or other container. Then it will be clearer what is still being used when a child has to leave a table to get something else. Expect new habits like this to take time to learn. When a child takes something that is being used by another and the children are unable to resolve it peacefully I ask, "Do you want help talking to Rose about that?" Then I say "Rose, Luca is still using that. Would you like to give it back or shall I. " 97% of the time the child will give it back themselves. If not then I put out my open hand to receive the item and say "Okay then I will give it back." If the child will not release it (which is very rare) then I gently take it from the child. At this point the child has been given two acceptable choices and needs support making one, indeed their behavior is making the choice. When these situations are consistently handled this way then the children will come to expect this outcome and be very likely to just give the item back. If we spend a lot of time trying to convince/cajole a child into just giving it back themselves, without those choices, then things are more likely to escalate and result in the tears and hurt feelings. The key is to remain calm. This behavior should be expected when children are learning how to share and we must answer the question their behavior is asking in a firm yet loving way. Also, coach the children in resolving conflicts themselves, empower them to stand up and speak for themselves and ask for things back with an open hand rather than grabbing at people to retrieve the item, which can activate that reptile brain and make things worse. Hope that helps! You didn't mention the age you teach but I have found this approach effective with toddlers and preschoolers.
Dam this video made me feel horrible for even googling this video😂😂😂😢😢😢😢
Oh dear, I hope not really horrible - but I think I know what you mean! Hope it was helpful!
Nienhuis is best
It is definitely worth the investment for classroom use!
good video! We thankfully haven't gotten any hitting or pushing yet, but are still dealing with issues with sharing and not wanting other kids to use communal stuff like at playgrounds and public areas. Multiple times a day its "Go play over there!" or "no this is MINE" and I just feel like i'm at my wits end lol
Thanks! Maybe you will find this video on sharing helpful: ruclips.net/video/0apW9pMfz8o/видео.html . Communal items can be difficult. At school what I do is gently help the child off the equipment and then say "You can go back on when you are ready to invite other people on with you ." or ready to share, or whatever words work for that particular child. Thanks for watching!
@@MissJuliesMontessoriMinutes thanks so much for the help :) yea that's pretty much what we try to do. i've also tried to let them work it out for themselves a few times and just seen how it plays out without any intervention, but I always end up feeling bad for the other kids haha. It seems like we're doing the right things, it's gotten to the point that if it happens a few times in a row we say "alright, we're going to have to go home if we can't be nice to the other kids" then calmly explain why we've got to be kind/share etc. I don't know if there are better ways to approach it, other than setting an expectation and then following through if they keep the behavior up. it can just get so exhausting when it seems like weeks and months go by saying the same things to my little one but still having the same issues lol. I know they're still tiny and learning how the world works, so i try my best to be patient. nobody said it was easy, i suppose haha. Well thanks for reading my rant and more importantly thanks so much for the great content :)
@@ThePinnacleSFA Terrific, yes often times children can work things out in their toddler ways without things escalating, they are so capable Cheers!
Learn about natural and logical consequences here: ruclips.net/video/y9JlEWZa4S4/видео.htmlsi=8HO7NUjp-pCrhGgP and how discipline works in Montessori classrooms here: ruclips.net/video/katOe9U2eCA/видео.htmlsi=rLvuTrRatGQo6u7F
Excellent
Thank you, thanks for watching!
Solution is 6 mintues
Thanks for watching!
But you miss the humor before that
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I need to get the non hardening clay. That is so true about the crayons and they are not all created equal with quality. Crayola for the win, seriously, lol. The Ticonderoga pencils are the best too. I was never a pencil snob, but those pencils have made me a believer. Great setup, Julie. Great content you're sharing :-).
Oh yes those Ticonderogas, I'm a believer too. Thanks for watching!
Offering Montessori Activities at Home shouldn't be hard or expensive. I'm here to help! Prepare your toddler's home learning environment with these tips: ruclips.net/p/PL6LKYvnqxtSsRmcfKHUeXjzneLIX9n9ZY Are there such things as "Montessori Toys" for toddlers? Check out my playlist answering this question: ruclips.net/p/PL6LKYvnqxtSuSonfdnoVOSkqpac2aWpAw
Bunch of fun ideas :) Always look forward to the videos and hope you and your family have a great holiday!
Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching and Merry Christmas!
Check out my video on best Etsy shops for great toddler gifts at ruclips.net/video/RMdgbGKZH6M/видео.html Is your stocking stuffer shopping going? This was my favorite part of Christmas gift giving as a child and my favorite shopping time. The suggestions in this video are easy to find and inexpensive. Pro - Tip. Make a coffee or tea date with a friend or loved one to strategize your Christmas shopping trip first then venture out together to make the shopping experience more fun!
How do I start a 2 year old with sharing? My 1yr old cousin had toys trucks in front of him, when my 2yr old nephew came home and decided that he wanted all the toy trucks for him self. The 2yr old didn't want to play with the 1yr old, kept away from the 1yr old. I wanted the 2yr old to play with the 1yr old. How could I have helped achieve this??
In that case the adult of the two year old really needs to set the expectations for sharing toys ahead of time. "When our friends (including cousins!) come over we let them use our toys." This is a family expectation. A two year old should not be expected to give up a toy they are actively using but rather let the one year old use any toys they are not. If there are very special items the two year old should be allowed to put them up high if there is fear that they could actually be broken by a younger child. When the two year old becomes upset they need to be reminded that "Our family lets guests use our toys." Depending on the exact age of the two year old the cousins might more be playing next to each other than playing "with" each other. Hope that helps!
great video from a fantastic channel! came from the sharing videos a few months back and stayed for all the general parenting and life advice
Thanks for taking the time to comment! I'm glad you found my channel and are finding it helpful. Please let me know if you ever have suggestions for videos!
Another undesirable phrase is the "you need to" habit. Learn why in this video: ruclips.net/video/1emBluLzoHo/видео.html. Thanks for stopping by to learn some new strategies for encouraging children without falling into the "Good Job" trap!
These items come in handy when the floor is lava
Yes, absolutely! Or if your living room is full of alligators or sharks!!!
Thanks for watching, I'm glad you are here! What are the favorite gross motor activities and materials of the toddlers in your life? Do you remember your favorite big activities when you were a child? Please comment below and like this video to see more content like this!
Oh that Nativity set was really nice! Great highlights of the shops and they had some really neat shop names too. Happy Thanksgiving Ms. Julie :-)
Happy Thanksgiving! I'm grateful for your wonderful channel!
aww thank you and same to you!@@MissJuliesMontessoriMinutes
@@BudgetingTheBacon Hey you are invited to drop a link to your Etsy shop as well - definitely helpful products for young families! Happy Small Business Saturday to you!
@@MissJuliesMontessoriMinutes thank you! I don’t have my Etsy shop anymore as I’m trying to get my own products up on my website. I appreciate the offer so much💜.
@@BudgetingTheBacon Wow, congrats I look forward to your launch!
Hi welcome to my channel! This video is just in time for Small Business Saturday shopping here in the United States. I share my very favorite Etsy shops which I frequent as a Montessori toddler teacher and teacher trainer. Please share your favorite small business Etsy shops in the comment, especially if you own it! We would love to support small business owners when shopping for Montessori toddler gifts!
Hello! I'd appreciate your advice. We have a moms and babies group with babies from 8-12 months of age. If one baby is playing with a toy and another takes it from them, how should we respond? Is it age appropriate to follow the same principles as are in your video? Thanks so much! 🙏
Great question! My response would depend on how the child initially holding the toy responded. If the child trying to hang onto the toy and making unhappy noises while looking around for help, I would say something like "Oh would you like help getting your toy back?" and then say to the other child, very gently "Oh you like that toy, ____ is still playing with that, I will help you find another toy." Next retrieve the toy as gently as possible, return to first child and help other child find a different toy to play with. Often times babies will just move on or even enjoy the interaction and then no intervention is necessary. We only intervene to help a child solve the problem if the child behaves as if they have a problem! More important than what happens with the toy is to remember that the children are absorbing how we the adults deal with unpleasant situations! Thanks for watching, hope that helps!
Hello everyone, welcome to my classroom. What language materials and activities are the toddlers in your life enjoying right now? Also, I'd love to know if you are a parent/caretaker or educator watching this channel! Thanks for watching.
These definitely will help with patience as we tend to forget we were once there as toddlers, lol. They are little humans we’re shaping and growing to be young adults and then adults💜.
Thanks. Yes I like to remember that adults are just toddlers who grew up!
Hey Miss Julie!!💜 Do you have any videos on strong-willed children? How we as adults can better assist them instead of thinking they are just difficult. Tag me in the video if you already have one or can you make a video on this?
@budgetingTheBacon this playlist has a lot of good videos on that topic! ruclips.net/p/PL6LKYvnqxtSuU_dQQGuhYHKzebmUZGAVZ. Yes, those "difficult" toddlers grow into amazing adolescents and adults!
@@MissJuliesMontessoriMinutes thank you so much! My youngest is strong willed, but I do know he won’t allow anyone to push him over in life, at all with his personality, lol.
Hello, thanks for watching this video. What toddler caretaking/education videos are you looking for right now? What are your biggest challenges living/working with toddlers?
I’ve been watching your video and love them. I was wondering are you an in home provider? I wanted to start something like that in my home and was just wondering.
My school is built on my residential property so the license is for family home provider. In the state I live in, licensing requirements for centers and in-home have few differences. It is a lot of work but so worth it, I say go for it!
Hello everyone, I've missed you! It has been a busy school year and I've missed making videos. It is nice to be back. This is an impromptu video I made, sparked by a wonderful sign I saw while hiking!
Fantastic tips! Wish you were teaching my little one too!
Wow, thank you that is the highest compliment a Montessori guide can receive. Thanks for watching and commenting!
Really informative video, so glad i found the channel :) What w'eve been having problems with recently is my daughter becoming pretty 'territorial' over any and everything; it doesn't even have to be a toy that she's playing with. For example we were at the library and one of her play mates picked up a random book off the shelf and my daughter got very upset saying "No mine!" and ran over to the other kid to try to take it. She did that with two other things throughout the day with objects that she wasn't using and weren't even hers. We hadn't experienced anything like this before so that's what prompted us to look for answers (glad we found you 😅) but do you have any advice on how to maybe handle situations like this in the future??
Thanks for watching and asking! Glad you found this video. My advice is when this happens, take a deep breath. Parenting in public is so hard sometimes! Then, calmly and in an even tone say something like "Oh you really like that book" (or whatever it is). That book is the library's, (everyone's, ours, theirs, etc) and this child is using it right now. When they are done we can have a turn. If your child grabs an item say "would you like to give it back or should I" and if you child doesn't choose then you say "okay I'll choose" and return the item. Remember it takes children a while to learn everything and all behavior is communication! Your child is asking "I like that, can I just take it?" Answer the question clearly and consistently and neural pathways will form in your child's brain and your child will learn about the concept of "public property" or property that belongs to someone else, etc. Sorry for the delayed response, please let me know if this helps!
@@MissJuliesMontessoriMinutes Thanks so much for the reponse. I can appreciate the importance of word choice! "choosing" to give the item back but giving them the oppurtunity first. I've found a lot of the times that after a brief explanation she really will choose to give the item back on her own 😅 Man i feel like as much as my little one is learning about the world; i'm still learning myself lol. Thank you so much again for your detailed response and all your great work on the channel!
@@ThePinnacleSFA Cheers! Yes for educators and parents (the most important educators) learning/growing ourself is the most important step!
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Love the scarf box with photos! Adding that to my classroom. Thanks for the tour!
Yay, thank you for watching and commenting. Let me know how your students respond!
Love the way you break this down. I couldn't agree more. I don't want myself or other parents intervening when children are playing. However, what is the best approach when one kid keeps taking away toys from other kids? I believe the kids will work it out on their own and the snatching kid will eventually learn when he realizes none of the other kids want to play with him, but what if that kid is 3 and the other kids are 2? Is there a point where parents need to intevine, and if so, how? Thank you!
"Snatching" is pretty common among toddlers and young preschoolers. The two common reasons are A. the child simply really wants the item and is learning impulse control or B. they want to interact with the other child and "snatching" is a way to get interaction. When a child takes a toy from another and the child is looking to the adult to help I ask "would you like help talking to______"? If they say yes then I give the child words such as "I'm using that" and show how to put their open hand out to receive the item. I also point out the child's facial expression so the other child can see it is not a fun game to snatch things. If the child doesn't listen I say "would you like to give it back to ___or should I". About 95% of the time the child chooses to give it back on their own. I do wait until a child looks to the adult for help and ask if they want help because often a child giving a firm strong response without adult intervention is more memorable for the child who is snatching. We also want to teach children how to speak up for themselves. Sorry for the late reply! Thanks for watching.
Is it too late to teach this at 5?
It is never too late! Though some things are learned more easily at a younger age a 5 year old is still in the sensitive period for language and for social behavior and in the period of the absorbent mind. Modeling standing up for our own boundaries is also very important, they watch our example more than they listen to our words!
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What practical life activities are the toddlers in your life really enjoying right now?
Hey this is really good
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Thank you for taking the time to make this video. 🙏
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My cats seem to enjoy watching the front loader spin and my moving the laundry from space to space. I imagine children would like this even more than cats.
Oh probably, sadly we have the old fashioned kind at school!
It’s extra fun when the dryer is above the washing machine, and then get to throw the laundry into the dryer to rotate it.
Oh yes that would really add some excitement and gross motor fun.