Our Outpost with Joseph and Crystal Gruber
Our Outpost with Joseph and Crystal Gruber
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Reasons to Improve
Why would we want to improve?
Joseph goes through the three main reasons-- and the third might not be what you expected!
Listen in to find out more!
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What If Your Shared Interest Was Your Spouse?
Просмотров 812 часов назад
A lot of couples have this concern, whether they're newly-weds or empty-nesters, that they don't have enough shared interests. What if there is a simple solution to that for you? Not an easy solution, maybe, but super simple... Listen in to find out more! Join our free resource library platform ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠...
Readiness to Change
Просмотров 24День назад
In Dietrich von Hildebrand's epic tome, Transformation in Christ, he writes that the thing without which there is not the Christian life is a readiness to change. Listen in to find out more! As always, for access to the resource library, click ⁠here⁠! check out our work, and join our email list, at ouroutpost.org/ catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: ouroutpost.org/pod...
Marriage Is for Long-Term Projects
Просмотров 23День назад
Sometimes it can feel like marriage is one thing after another, reacting to the next day as it comes. But it turns out marriage is meant to be viewed through a much longer scope! Listen in to find out more! For access to the resource library, click ⁠here⁠! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out upcoming events here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...
Christmas Message to You All!
Просмотров 1821 день назад
Merry Christmas, from Our Outpost to Yours! As always, check out our work, and join our email list, at ouroutpost.org/ catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: ouroutpost.org/podcasts/ see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: ouroutpost.org/events/ send us an email at hello@ouroutpost.org and please rate, review, and share! If you're a Catholic husband, feel free...
Embrace Beauty in Your Marriage
Просмотров 1921 день назад
It's almost Christmas! This is the time to prepare to celebrate, to enter more fully into a beautiful life together with your spouse! Listen in to find out more! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out upcoming events here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/events/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you're a Catholic husband, sign up for 45 minutes with J...
Am I My Brother's Keeper? w/ Fr. Jacob Gruber
Просмотров 31Месяц назад
Am I my brother's keeper? Is he mine? What responsibility do we have to one another? Is the answer to Cain's question all that straightforward? Listen in to find out more! As always, check out our work, and join our email list, at ouroutpost.org/ catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: ouroutpost.org/podcasts/ see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: ouroutpost....
What To Do When a Spouse Doesn't Listen Well
Просмотров 24Месяц назад
Our spouse might not be the bester listener in the world...in fact, odds are very good they're not. So what can we do about that? Listen in to find out more! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out upcoming events here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/events/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you're a Catholic husband, sign up for 45 minutes with Joseph he...
Openness to Life
Просмотров 66Месяц назад
A sixth-born and a twelfth-born walk onto a podcast... Joseph and his brother, Fr. Jacob, reflect on what openness to life means and goodness of having a large family. As always, -check out our work, and join our email list, at ouroutpost.org/ -catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: ouroutpost.org/podcasts/ -see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: ouroutpost.o...
What To Do When You and Your Spouse Don't Share Interests
Просмотров 35Месяц назад
It's really easy to slip into parallel lives in marriage, and to keep passing each other by. Whether you're just coming out of the flush of the honeymoon phase, drowning in children, becoming empty-nesters, or figuring out retirement, finding out what to do when the two of you don't share interests is incredibly important! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpos...
Is it too early to be celebrating Christmas?
Просмотров 48Месяц назад
Signs of Christmas are starting to appear everywhere in stores, on the radio, on lawns and across roofs, in homes, and we're wondering: is that a bad thing? Listen in to a discussion between Joseph and his brother, Fr. Jacob, about celebrating Christmas outside the Christmas season! As always, check out our work, and join our email list, at ouroutpost.org/ catch our other podcast, Love Your Mar...
Magnanimity in Marriage
Просмотров 19Месяц назад
Magnanimity, or greatness of soul, is the path to a great marriage. Listen in for three keys to a magnanimous marriage! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out upcoming events here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/events/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you're a Catholic husband, sign up for 45 minutes with Joseph here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bookme.name/ouroutpost/45-minutes-w...
Pre-Advent Review of Salvation History!
Просмотров 26Месяц назад
Scripture is shallow enough for a lamb to wade and deep enough for an elephant to bathe, so saith St. Gregory the Great. So for this episode, we'll do a shallow review of salvation history with little vignettes that show some of the depths to be plumbed. There are six main salvation history moments before Christ: Adam, Noah, Abraham, Moses, David, and the Babylonian Exile. Listen in for takeawa...
Navigating the Holidays as a Catholic Married Couple
Просмотров 41Месяц назад
The holidays can be stressful enough without adding spouse vs. spouse conflicts. Here's an episode with a couple of helpful tools for navigating the holidays! Catch our other podcast, A Word from Our Outpost, here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/podcasts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out upcoming events here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ouroutpost.org/events/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you're a Catholic husband, sign up for 45 minutes with Joseph here:...
Christ Is King (and why that's a good thing)
Просмотров 10Месяц назад
Christ is king, but not like any other king. His authority comes from a completely different way of conceptualizing power. The constrained vision of authority as a permanent power struggle is something Christ totally side-steps, and that changes how we understand Him, our role in the world, and our role in our homes. Listen in to find out more! And if you're a Catholic husband, feel free to sig...
Re-Feminizing Wives
Просмотров 232 месяца назад
Re-Feminizing Wives
Intercessory Prayer
Просмотров 242 месяца назад
Intercessory Prayer
Re-Masculating Husbands
Просмотров 2662 месяца назад
Re-Masculating Husbands
What is the Gospel?
Просмотров 242 месяца назад
What is the Gospel?
Life is Worth Living Sharing and Multiplying
Просмотров 362 месяца назад
Life is Worth Living Sharing and Multiplying
Cycle of Trust and Evangelization
Просмотров 82 месяца назад
Cycle of Trust and Evangelization
Useful, Pleasant, and Virtuous Marriages
Просмотров 222 месяца назад
Useful, Pleasant, and Virtuous Marriages
"Lord, Don't Trust Philip Today"
Просмотров 242 месяца назад
"Lord, Don't Trust Philip Today"
Let Your Love Affair Be More of a Theory
Просмотров 252 месяца назад
Let Your Love Affair Be More of a Theory
The Rich Young Man and Marriage
Просмотров 203 месяца назад
The Rich Young Man and Marriage
Marriage is Not a Zero Sum Game
Просмотров 263 месяца назад
Marriage is Not a Zero Sum Game
Marriage as an Apostolic Institution
Просмотров 243 месяца назад
Marriage as an Apostolic Institution
What is the Soundtrack of Your Marriage?
Просмотров 123 месяца назад
What is the Soundtrack of Your Marriage?
Testimonies vs. Stories
Просмотров 163 месяца назад
Testimonies vs. Stories
Judgment Day and Marriage
Просмотров 133 месяца назад
Judgment Day and Marriage

Комментарии

  • @HildebrandProject
    @HildebrandProject 7 дней назад

    You love to see it. This is great.

  • @matthewgargani6718
    @matthewgargani6718 9 дней назад

    Very insightful

  • @jayvillella
    @jayvillella Месяц назад

    It seems like you guys maybe wanted a comment? I'd like to share my perspective as an involuntarily childless married ex-Catholic. We left the church around a decade ago but still have family members and friends "on the inside" lol. Wife and I were devout Catholics and got married at age 22, and we have always been "open to life." We were destined (unknowingly) to never have children because of a very rare and random genetic disease that makes conception impossible. Anyway, I think this state of affairs has unavoidably colored my perception of life, love, meaning, desire, fulfillment, grief, and virtually every other aspect of my subjective experience of life. Not being able to have what you think you want, on any level, can certainly cause grief. We could conceptualize grief as a kind of misplaced or frustrated love, sure. I think of it more as an illusion and a forgetfulness. The truth is, I have no idea what our theoretical children and possible family would have been. I want to assume it would have been amazing and wonderful and beautiful and that we are missing out on all the things that make life most worth living, but I don't actually know that. It's also fully possible we are avoiding depths of misery, anxiety, pain, and despair that are impossible for non-parents to imagine. We really can't say with certainty that we should suffer and grieve the absence of a perceived good. There are people who have the things we want, like wealth, health, success, recognition, happy families, artistic creativity, beauty, friendships, whatever...and they are still unhappy. There are others who lack the things we have and assume are the foundation of our own happiness, and yet they are still happy as well! I have come to think that true joy and happiness lies not in having what you want, but in wanting what you have. I haven't even thought to pray, not only because I don't think there is anyone who is listening, but because I accept and embrace the life I have instead of a different life I could imagine in theory. I don't want to forget and ignore the abundance of good things I have in the present moment and right in front of me so I can instead grieve over my imagined lack of other perceived good things. I spend no time at all grieving the fact that I was not born Japanese, or a billionaire, or an astronaut, or a professional baseball player, or literally anything else, including being a father, because it's pointless and would dampen my enjoyment of my actual life as me.

  • @weirddude6260
    @weirddude6260 3 месяца назад

    I appreciate all your sincerity, but you all come off deaf to the reality MANY, possibly most people experience. First, you all met your spouses under ideal circumstances, which VERY FEW people can experience. Of course it’s doable to meet a Catholic spouse at a Catholic university or at a Catholic organization. It just isn’t what most people, even in a place like the USA can experience. Second, you really don’t get how people’s life experiences change the reality they live in. Think of a girl who was molested by a relative. She struggles with constant anxiety and fear, even as an adult. The whole world feels dangerous. She struggles just to be “ok” on a normal day, and often turns to addictive means to cope. Life feels miserable. So, of course when life seems so bad she may not want to bring a child into the world only to suffer the way she did - at least how it seems to her. She’ll try to make the most of it with her partner trying to be happy. She’s not being “selfish.” She’s making the most kind decision she can. It may be wrong, but it seems like the most right thing to her. There are countless similar examples of how trauma and deprivation can impact people. They’re often too ashamed to be open about these things, but it’s what’s at work under the surface. There’s just so much more to all of this. Some people have been through Hell, and it needs to be acknowledged with compassion and understanding, even if they’re making decisions which are wrong.

    • @OurOutpost
      @OurOutpost 3 месяца назад

      Hey @weirddude6260! Thanks for the comment. You're right; many people have passed through hellish circumstances. Many are STILL in hellish circumstances. For those still in them, I think it good to say that there are ways through, and healing is possible. And after they pass through, marriage can be all the more joyful because of it. I'm not sure from your comment if you think there's a way out for people who have experienced trauma and deprivation, and your answer to that may help explain why you thought us deaf rather than hopeful. The reality for "most" people is hard to pin down, and I don't think we claimed to cover everything in a 50 minute interview. I'd say a lot of people suffer a the very least from a kind of malformation that tells them their life isn't worth living. Under those circumstances, I agree, marriage doesn't make sense. But I think everyone's life is worth living, and people have been deceived, and can experience freedom when they know the truth. Again, grateful for the comment and if ever we meet in real life, know that if you've been through hell, I would certainly like to be compassionate and understanding. Even digitally, I'd like to express--in all sincerity-- my prayer for you to both find greater healing and be an agent of healing in the world. Peace! P.S. I'd push back a bit about it be evidently do-able to meet a spouse at a Catholic university or at a Catholic organization; our situation notwithstanding, we also know a fair bit of unrealized-expectations around those scenarios, but like most of what we tried to tackle, that is a much larger conversation...

  • @orlandobarros5129
    @orlandobarros5129 4 месяца назад

    Anton is the man! Great reflection on being the culture in your marriage!

  • @julies570
    @julies570 4 месяца назад

    Yes I was thinking the same thing!

  • @DarpanaKapil
    @DarpanaKapil 6 месяцев назад

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  • @Mimi-ip9xc
    @Mimi-ip9xc 6 месяцев назад

    I have been down to JMT Hermitage in Ark and spent two 3 day retreats there . One 25 yrs ago and one 2 yrs ago and both beautiful Spirit filled Retreats. I went in the Autumn both times and it’s glorious with the foliage that time of year. Accommodations are lovely , peaceful and the food is Fabulous!!! People from all around US were there and I hope to go again one day . Mimi

  • @koolertrek
    @koolertrek 6 месяцев назад

    He might be a Catholic saint one day!

  • @Kitiwake
    @Kitiwake 6 месяцев назад

    John Michael is a great preacher. Some people are just more spiritual than others.

  • @Mark-yb1sp
    @Mark-yb1sp 7 месяцев назад

    This is amazing

  • @francisgruber3638
    @francisgruber3638 10 месяцев назад

    A deep 5 on the scale of relevance. Thank you!

  • @mikediiacovo4049
    @mikediiacovo4049 11 месяцев назад

    Love it!

  • @johnbishop5837
    @johnbishop5837 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for having me on!

  • @catholicconvert2119
    @catholicconvert2119 11 месяцев назад

    Hey 👋 I am kinda down. My mother in law told my wife there’s something wrong with me. That cuts deep because it makes me wonder what if she’s right ? I only make $50,000 in a dead end job, and have no ability to make friends despite much volunteering. I told my wife if she wants to leave let’s just get it over with. She denies she will of course. And I don’t think she wants to. But women are all about what people say I know it’s taking a toll. I just feel down and like a failure. I don’t have skills or personality to get a good corporate job. I’m lucky to get the $50,000.

    • @OurOutpost
      @OurOutpost 11 месяцев назад

      Hello @catholicconvert2119! I will say that we don't address the initial making of friends in this talk. But this is where friendships of use and of pleasure are so essential. Almost every friendship of virtue, in my experience, grows from a friendship of use or of pleasure-- so these would be the friendships with co-workers and fellow volunteers or with neighbors or people at church or people in a club. Then comes trying to grow in intimacy with them, as far as they want to reciprocate. I've found some of the friendliest people at a club called Toastmasters-- there's a good chance such a club meets in whatever town or city you live in, and if you drop by to check it out, you should find a nice welcome. It's a club that teaches public speaking, which may help your situation if you feel incompetent right now. They're very encouraging, as a whole. Otherwise, it seems like finding friends is one of the larger problems of our society. You're not alone in feeling alone. But if there's no one around your marriage speaking up for it, then it's worth finding people who want to support your marriage. We have another podcast, called "Love Your Marriage"-- there aren't many episodes of it yet, but we want it to be short and encouraging for those who are living out the sacrament of matrimony.

  • @andrewreinhart
    @andrewreinhart Год назад

    (18:30) "The first is, to hold the truth of Scripture without wavering. The second is that since Holy Scripture can be explained in a multiplicity of senses, one should adhere to a particular explanation, only in such measure as to be ready to abandon it, if it be proved with certainty to be false; lest Holy Scripture be exposed to the ridicule of unbelievers, and obstacles be placed to their believing." St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologiae I, Q. 68, A. 1

  • @gailmcn
    @gailmcn Год назад

    I'm curious....what were the outcomes of the two different approaches on the two campuses? Did you have more encounters that resulted in conversations with the MIT approach, or the Carnegie approach? Did one strategy result in more follow-up by the students?

    • @OurOutpost
      @OurOutpost Год назад

      Comparing the two campuses is hard, since we couldn't do opt-out evangelization at CMU and we didn't do almost any opt-in evangelization at MIT. But at the third campus we served at, Western Washington University, we did do a mix of both. The most notable thing about it was that for my teammates and the Catholic students alike, the opt-in (i.e. cookies and conversation) was a stepping stone to becoming comfortable for opt-out evangelization. And correspondingly, the students who had trouble focusing on new people who were across a table from them had even more trouble approaching students without a table between them. The other nice feature of being able to do both is that it gives a reference point for the opt-out evangelization-- we could always tell the students we met more randomly on campus that we also were at a table in the middle of campus every Wednesday midday, so they could always opt-in if they wanted to later. The reality on the college campus, I've found, is that it's hard to start a new relationship anytime other than the very beginning of the year. In that way, most of the school year is actually pretty close to the rest of adult life-- an uphill battle to build relationships. So neither were astoundingly successful for follow-up, though we did form some relationships each way. Interestingly, the relationships we formed with people via opt-out strategies (talking to people in lines for food, sitting with them at a meal, striking up a conversation with people walking through campus, etc.) always felt more real to me, for what it's worth-- they felt more like relationships formed between two people as people, rather than two people, one as a student and the other as someone running a tabling event.

  • @dougy6237
    @dougy6237 Год назад

    Sola Scriptura simply cannot be found in the Fathers, as the many historians I cite (mostly Protestant) repeatedly affirm. All my research thus far has convinced me all the more that these scholars are absolutely correct. To state otherwise is (in my opinion) historical revisionism and anachronism. I have massively cited Protestant scholars in this regard, and I find very little that is in disagreement with the Catholic position. I have even shown how these historians note the distinction between material and formal sufficiency in various Fathers’ views. I see little or no conflict with Catholic beliefs, and much conflict with classic Protestant, present-day evangelical belief in sola Scriptura. I’ll take Protestant historians J. N. D. Kelly, Philip Schaff, and Jaroslav Pelikan over pseudo-scholars, historical revisionists, merely self-published William Webster and David T. King any day. If a Church Father states that the Church is necessary for interpretation and the standard of orthodoxy, and that Tradition is binding, then he does not believe in sola Scriptura. It’s as simple as that. One must take each Father’s thought in the context of his overall thought. If we only quote their thoughts about Scripture, then our only information will be about their view of Scripture. We have to also see what they say about Tradition and the Church as well, because sola Scriptura is a position which takes a particular stand concerning the relevant importance and authority of those two entities. Whether a Church Father actually holds one or the other position regarding sola Scriptura can only be determined by seeing what he also says about Tradition and the Church. What anti-Catholic Protestant polemicists constantly do is to find a statement that doesn’t immediately contradict what is entailed in sola Scriptura, and they then illogically assume that the person has no viewpoint on the authority of Tradition and the Church, based on the one passage alone. Again, I have shown that in every case of Fathers I have dealt with in great depth, that this assumption was fallacious. It’s a classic case of an isolated “proof text” thought to mean or assert what it does not assert. It’s a logical error, brought on by extreme eagerness to anachronistically read into the Fathers a latter-day Protestant perspective on authority. In my section on Irenaeus, I cited Jaroslav Pelikan criticizing precisely this mindset: Clearly it is an anachronism to superimpose upon the discussions of the second and third centuries categories derived from the controversies over the relation of Scripture and tradition in the 16th century, for ‘in the ante-Nicene Church . . . there was no notion ofsola Scriptura, but neither was there a doctrine of traditio sola.’ Yet this is constantly done; almost in every case. It is not only bad, inaccurate history, but also rhetorically vacuous and logically atrocious. To illustrate this sort of reasoning, consider the following analogies: A Church father might say something like, for example, “There is nothing greater than Holy Scripture.” The anti-Catholic then jumps on that and triumphantly exclaims that he believes in sola Scriptura. But this is wooden, hyper-literalistic interpretation. The Church Father can say this in the same sense that I could say all the following, and not be understood as contradicting myself: 1. “There is nothing greater than fresh-baked bread.” 2. “There is nothing greater than a fresh-baked apple pie, right out of the oven.” 3. “There is nothing greater than one’s wedding day.” 4. “There is nothing greater than the birth of your first child.” 5. “There is nothing greater than the feeling of getting right with God.” He can say it in the same way that the Apostle John wrote: “you have no need that any one should teach you; as his anointing teaches you about everything . . .” (1 John 3:27; RSV). According to the anti-Catholic mode of patristic interpretation, John is obviously excluding Christian teachers, right? After all, that is the logic of the sentence; it is inescapable: “no need” means there is no need for teaching to be provided! The “anointing” teaches the believer “about everything,” therefore (quite obviously) there is nothing left to be taught; hence no need for teachers. Who could doubt it? My goal is to to see what the Church Fathers (as a whole or in the main and particularly) believed about the Bible and its relationship to Tradition, the Church, and apostolic succession. If they viewed the relationship as classic Protestantism did, and present-day “orthodox” or “conservative” Protestantism (evangelicalism) does, then they advocated sola Scriptura. If they didn’t do that, they did not hold to sola Scriptura. It’s as simple as that. If the anti-Catholic or even a more ecumenical, serious Protestant researcher demonstrates conclusively that 1, 2, or 10 Fathers believed in sola Scriptura, that still doesn’t affect Catholic doctrine or our historical “case” in the least, as we agree with Protestants that Fathers sometimes contradict each other (and Church dogma). Nor do we consider any one Father’s opinion as infallible or binding (unless it is identical with a proclamation that the Church made in Council or by infallible papal proclamation, but then - strictly speaking - that doesn’t prove that the Father possessed the gift of infallibility, only that he spoke truth in that instance). Not even St. Augustine is held in that high of a regard, nor a later giant figure such as St. Thomas Aquinas. What we claim is that the broad consensus of the Fathers is strong historical evidence for the truthfulness of particular Catholic doctrines. If someone showed that 50 Fathers accepted sola Scriptura (Webster’s ridiculous position), then that would pose a problem for our claims. But I contend that Webster, King, Engwer and other anti-Catholic polemicists haven’t even shown that one does so. Entire books are written about the Fathers’ supposed belief in sola Scriptura, when in fact they are merely expressing their belief in material sufficiency of Scripture, and its inspiration and sufficiency to refute heretics and false doctrine generally. It is easy to misleadingly present them as sola Scripturists if their statements elsewhere about apostolic Traditiwww.patheos.com/blogs/davearmstrong/2017/04/church-fathers-sola-scriptura.htmlon or succession and the binding authority of the Church (especially in council) are ignored.... Continued at: www.patheos.com/blogs/davearmstrong/2017/04/church-fathers-sola-scriptura.html

    • @OurOutpost
      @OurOutpost Год назад

      Thanks for the resource! Do you also enjoy Chesterton?

  • @gailmcn
    @gailmcn Год назад

    I am so happy you did post this! Really nice filming, great auditory, and super content. I rarely subscribe, but I did for this (my third subscribe on RUclips). Begin before the beginning....so helpful. I've been running on sloth, in my prayer life and my house upkeep. thanks for the habituation training examples.