Shout out to this beautiful man too, who open up and showed us his vulnerabilities and humanness..."Being alright to be defeated and be beaten...I don't know if there is any value maybe in admitting it to myself (...) or whatever... I don't regret caring or loving or whatever...but, you know, I am a kid in a way I would like to be loved too...I would like some reciprocity..."
I wonder what Rogers would do with the parts work that has been developed by Dick Schwartz. I can see him incorporating it very successfully in this session, which would give power to the client to feel safe in starting to address his emotional self.
Right from the beginning, the opening from Carl Rogers, my heart started opening, i could feel the positive regard, but more than that, love. And how nourishing that is to the process and to the relationship. The authenticity of Carl encouraged the other to 'come forth'; very beautiful to behold. A touch of magic. Wow.
I'm studying to become a counsellor and I'd never heard of Carl Rogers before. As soon as I started my Masters course, my wife was excitedly asking me if I'd learned about Dr Rogers yet. I told her I'd never heard of him before. Fast forward to now and I'm adopting Person-Centred Therapy as my preferred therapeutic method and see Jesus Christ and Carl Rogers as being the biggest influences in my life right now. What surprises me is that Carl Rogers is considered the most influential psychotherapist in modern history and, yet, how many people even know of him? His way of listening empathically could save so many lives and so many relationships. What an incredible human being.
For citation, title screen reads: Colleagues or Opponents: A dialogue between person-centred and psychodynamic therapy, Dave Mearns & Michael Jacobs, a CSCT Forum at Regent’s College, London, 1 March 2003
En linguistique, on dit qu’un texte touche l’excellence lorsque le récit se passe de connecteurs logiques ... « De la fluidité » ✨❤✨ Tous deux sont brilliants ✨❤✨
Two beautiful souls right here. I just loved how sincere this man was when would say, “for sure, for sure” agreeing with Carl. If we all learned how to attune like Carl, we’d change the world.
Do you think he imagined if he was actually angry to Rogers and ended up hurting him that it would reflect, or do you think he was just speaking generally? i’ve watched this vid about 6 times now and this was the only time thats entered my mind cause it seemed like Rogers was bravely gently prompting him to consider that very thing.
As masterful a therapist Rogers was I see him pushing this client too much into expressing his emotions rather than following him in his reluctance to expressing his feelings.
Hurt and anger together….I just made the connection with deep pain, hurt and then retaliation through anger …..happens with my feelings a lot. I do get angry but people can’t take it. English culture is so built on politeness and not being truthful ….so inauthentic …..
I hope this lovely sensitive man was able to find happiness in his life. So brave to allow this into the public domain and so inspiring for counselling/psychotherapy students to be able to watch Carl Rogers in session.
I really liked this, Carl Rogers is a pure genius. He is patient, wise and effectively the silence and r]the reflection of the client ensure the client can feel safe in exploring his anger when he chosen to. I like that he is being reflective .
Being in his situation it's alot ,it's not a condition that nobody can control...He being this strong to Express how he feel is so amazing..He want someone real that knows he is hurting and can be by his side and also need some family or friendly support 👌 In this society people faces this same situation....
If a man or a woman falls in love with you and she had some wounds from her father than in her eyes you are her forgotten father. It can be beneficial if she is slowly letting go of pictures in her head if she doesn't have the courage than you can't do nothing
Shout out to this beautiful man too, who open up and showed us his vulnerabilities and humanness..."Being alright to be defeated and be beaten...I don't know if there is any value maybe in admitting it to myself (...) or whatever... I don't regret caring or loving or whatever...but, you know, I am a kid in a way I would like to be loved too...I would like some reciprocity..."
fritz perals does it better
Rest in peace bro
Carl does not help the client to get closer to the roots of the feelings of anger, which I think is the reason why he feels he is going in circles
I wonder what Rogers would do with the parts work that has been developed by Dick Schwartz. I can see him incorporating it very successfully in this session, which would give power to the client to feel safe in starting to address his emotional self.
Right from the beginning, the opening from Carl Rogers, my heart started opening, i could feel the positive regard, but more than that, love. And how nourishing that is to the process and to the relationship. The authenticity of Carl encouraged the other to 'come forth'; very beautiful to behold. A touch of magic. Wow.
I'm studying to become a counsellor and I'd never heard of Carl Rogers before. As soon as I started my Masters course, my wife was excitedly asking me if I'd learned about Dr Rogers yet. I told her I'd never heard of him before. Fast forward to now and I'm adopting Person-Centred Therapy as my preferred therapeutic method and see Jesus Christ and Carl Rogers as being the biggest influences in my life right now. What surprises me is that Carl Rogers is considered the most influential psychotherapist in modern history and, yet, how many people even know of him? His way of listening empathically could save so many lives and so many relationships. What an incredible human being.
yes, he is!
What a perfect comment!
People were so much smarter before all the tech distractions. People had time to know themselves.
I would love to know how this client did after his therapy with Carl Rogers. I want to know what he went on to accomplish.
For citation, title screen reads: Colleagues or Opponents: A dialogue between person-centred and psychodynamic therapy, Dave Mearns & Michael Jacobs, a CSCT Forum at Regent’s College, London, 1 March 2003
Wow! 8:19 "...damn right" - Rogers throws it down, I'm here with you, in this, lets ride.... Genuine empathy to the core. Wow,
The client seems such a lovely man . We drop our defences when we drop our defences , it just seems it is part of a process .
Some of that session is so powerful and moving especially in the silence.
Bookmark 20:24
26:00 talking about his father-in-law, mixed-race marriage, grieving for him. 28:00 unconditional positive regard exampled.
15:15 love, vulnerability, honesty, pain, courage
7:54 given the OK to be angry, he is still afraid. Me too. 8:50 he has an insight about a possible reason. About 11:15 Talking about the risk.
48:00 to 52:00 feels very familiar, painful and honest. Almost too much so.
6:50 how to be angry in a productive way - ? Profound, i want that also.
Thanks Austin for video
Masterclass
There's something in Carl Rogers that feels like gentle power. I want to have more of that.
En linguistique, on dit qu’un texte touche l’excellence lorsque le récit se passe de connecteurs logiques ... « De la fluidité » ✨❤✨ Tous deux sont brilliants ✨❤✨
That brother said it all: ''It aint my nature to be angry. But I feel angry...'' Old Carl Rogers had to stop at that one, gulp, and think.
"It's okay for me for you to be angry here" - Rogers. That is powerful. Thank you, Dr. Rogers.
The OG, such an inspiration
Watching Carl work is just incredible. He really does humanise the client and let them be safe to be whatever they are in that moment. Amazing.
❤astonishing session❤
Does anyone know the name of this man?
Imagine Carl Rogers + MDMA. Let someone REALLY be in touch with their feelings.
😊 now that would be interesting
Two beautiful souls right here. I just loved how sincere this man was when would say, “for sure, for sure” agreeing with Carl. If we all learned how to attune like Carl, we’d change the world.
Maybe if I really allow myself to be angry, I will see how hurt I am and I could be scared. WOW. Just powerful.
Do you think he imagined if he was actually angry to Rogers and ended up hurting him that it would reflect, or do you think he was just speaking generally? i’ve watched this vid about 6 times now and this was the only time thats entered my mind cause it seemed like Rogers was bravely gently prompting him to consider that very thing.
As masterful a therapist Rogers was I see him pushing this client too much into expressing his emotions rather than following him in his reluctance to expressing his feelings.
I wonder what happened to this gentleman? I hope he was able to heal aspects of his life and live a healthy and productive life. <3
I was wondering the same thing.
Same here
Hurt and anger together….I just made the connection with deep pain, hurt and then retaliation through anger …..happens with my feelings a lot. I do get angry but people can’t take it. English culture is so built on politeness and not being truthful ….so inauthentic …..
I cried over this session and found answers and healing for my own hurts. Carl Rogers is AMAZING! SUPER POWERFUL.
(Spring 2021/Spring 2022) 8:10
Imagine playing poker against Carl Rogers.
Amazing Carl! On the other hand, I believe Alexander Lowen's bioenergetics could also be useful to help the client deal with anger.
What a beautiful exchange. This young man deserves so much credit for looking deeply inward. Anyone know what happened to him?
Well he had Luekemia so sadly probably died
Amazing what unconditional positive regard does to a person 🥰😍 Rogers makes you feel completely accepted and seen 😇😋
Yes!!!
I hope this lovely sensitive man was able to find happiness in his life. So brave to allow this into the public domain and so inspiring for counselling/psychotherapy students to be able to watch Carl Rogers in session.
I really liked this, Carl Rogers is a pure genius. He is patient, wise and effectively the silence and r]the reflection of the client ensure the client can feel safe in exploring his anger when he chosen to. I like that he is being reflective .
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, for me, one of the most important videos there are 👍
Being in his situation it's alot ,it's not a condition that nobody can control...He being this strong to Express how he feel is so amazing..He want someone real that knows he is hurting and can be by his side and also need some family or friendly support 👌 In this society people faces this same situation....
If a man or a woman falls in love with you and she had some wounds from her father than in her eyes you are her forgotten father. It can be beneficial if she is slowly letting go of pictures in her head if she doesn't have the courage than you can't do nothing
"Like someone rammed a tree up my ass". I think he is talking about rape. Possibly from his father. 😲
That moment when Carl said it’s ok for him to be angry...wow. You could see in his eyes just what that meant to him. To be able to be just as he is.
Yes, it came over me like a wave. Powerful stuff. Then the realisation of the pain that's linked to that anger... Damn!
“If you did cry what would some of the themes of that cry be?” Excellent question! Enlightening session 👍👍
51:34 ...I hearing like ....some body ram them up your ass...lol...hard to describe you know...
I wonder if the teachings of psychologists takes the heart out of them. Are they not ' allowed' to cry with/ got a patient?