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Uncle_drewzzy
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Growing up my I did not have a emotional connection with my parents so I never felt comfortable asking them about all the issues a teenager had to face: being accepted by friends, peer pressure, bullying, fighting, girls, sex, drugs, alcohol, puberty, etc. However, I had an uncle name Rob who did not have any children and he was the only adult I had access to asking these hard questions. We were able to discuss all kinds of subjects from losing his virginity to losing his hair. He hid nothing from me and I loved him for it.
My wish is to be that uncle Rob to all the kids who doesn't have a parent or an adult who they can turn to when they have to deal with tough life situations. They don't have to figure everything out alone. I am not suggesting that I'm the perfect role model, and I may not appease everyone. However, I do have a clean record, am married with kids of my own. All my content are real life experiences, not googled or from a book.
Growing up my I did not have a emotional connection with my parents so I never felt comfortable asking them about all the issues a teenager had to face: being accepted by friends, peer pressure, bullying, fighting, girls, sex, drugs, alcohol, puberty, etc. However, I had an uncle name Rob who did not have any children and he was the only adult I had access to asking these hard questions. We were able to discuss all kinds of subjects from losing his virginity to losing his hair. He hid nothing from me and I loved him for it.
My wish is to be that uncle Rob to all the kids who doesn't have a parent or an adult who they can turn to when they have to deal with tough life situations. They don't have to figure everything out alone. I am not suggesting that I'm the perfect role model, and I may not appease everyone. However, I do have a clean record, am married with kids of my own. All my content are real life experiences, not googled or from a book.
Wisdom and advice to my 25 year old self
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Bob Proctor - amzn.to/4i0yEGj
Tony Robbins - amzn.to/3V6vCqc
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Lighting kit that I use for this video: amzn.to/4hKVCRK
The best microphone under $9: amzn.to/48IjRvH
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This is really sweet! Glad you matured from this gloomy pubescent phase.
The ring the doorbell idea is golden
Thank you!
I am a skinny guy. I was a skinny boy. I got shamed a bit for it when I was a child. I have never tried to lose weight.
Hang in there Drew. You be you and thanks for speaking out 😀
I get shamed constantly by at work for being quiet and actually working at work. People need to keep their comments to themselves. I was thinking of telling him that I don’t appreciate being labeled or harassed.
When my parents fighting i always go out of house and then calm
I started crying since I think it’s crazy how I actually have to look this up.
so gay haha
understandable but Cannabis is still incredible
@@HdauBean I agree it effects people differently. Some artists rely on it for creativity.
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Thank dude for that video. It’s great how you summarized your life experiences into a 6 minute video so that us younger generation can learn.
This is some solid advice !
Interesting point of view! It's a good thing that you've reduced your time being online on social media and redefined what social media means to you personally. But FOMO and ignorance are 2 different things that you should know the difference between. When you mentionned that people were wearing masks at the gym, I feel that you should have been aware of the current world/ social conditions. Even if it is 'anxiety inducing', just having the knowledge of it can help with you discerning whether or not you should take any preventative measures (i.e. wearing the mask to help mitigate the spread of it to you/ your family when you were at the gym/ carjacking in your neighbourhood etc.). Like even taking 5 minutes out of your week to learn what's happening in the world news keeps you from being blindsided and in touch with current events from reality.
@@zettt6001 my wife would keep me updated on any major news so I’m not totally out of touch. It can be your friends, family, co workers, etc. doesn’t have to be social media. I try to avoid the media rabbit hole.
Wow man you really have alot of dedication keep up the content
@@cheezy2382 thank you brother
Dude take a CHILL pill. No need to shout!
Couldn’t pass up the free lunch 😂😂😂
thank you so much
I am a Christian, but why force anyone? Thats just so stupid. God is a Spirit of Love, not fear and rules. Some parents have to learn to listen to Love in their hearts instead of being so manipulative and let go of control or what other Christians think
Wish I could give you a hug and some encouragement. It's been 4 years so maybe you are in a new place. I'm here cause my parents are fighting again. It hurt my feelings and I'm just looking for something to show me what to do. Although I understand sometimes in life, we can't do anything and have to let be. I'm very sorrowful rn.
This video should be called "I've fallen away from Jesus, and I want everyone else to do so as well". I pray that you will turn from your sin and repent, back to Jesus.
Watch the full video and the description, at adulthood he did become christian.
Time to turn off incognito and make a comment. Im tired of staying quiet about this. I don't care about saying personal things online anymore because my life is falling apart. Im a pretty young person, but sometimes i feel like the most mature person in my household. I love my parents, but my dad yells all the time and hes hypocritcal, and my mom is kinda irresponsible. My brother has been extremely paranoid about my dad and just down in the dumps recently because most arguments are about him. Won't give context. I want to do something to help, but it doesn't even seem worth my time anymore. Cant even properly react to it anymore. Im just, desensitized to it at this point. I just want life as i knew it back. God always has a plan, but what is THIS contributing to? I just dont get it man.
They did it for 21y
They do that every day
My parents fight physically too man.
Growing up I always thought about getting stronger and helping my mom defend against my dad
@Uncledrewzzy I do but my dad just pushes me out of the way man and I don't have the power to call the police
@@DarkZ_EdItZ717 It wasn't until I was in college that I started going to the gym and lifting weights when just my presence was enough to deter him from acting out. It takes time. However, once it happened, it was very empowering.
Nothing works. They have to want the help and want to get better, including being willing to connect to a real support group/counsellor to work through the reasons they're hurting themselves. I have watched my mom try to stop smoking for my entire life (almost 50 years), and she always goes back to it b/c 'something's missing.' She doesn't know how to deal with her negative emotions, relies on me coming home to visit as the time she'll (yet again) quit, hoping I will be her strength, and saying she'll lean on her willpower, which never lasts. I've done and said everything and have to quit giving myself false hope that 'this time' is going to be different. It's beyond heartbreaking watching my mom slowly kill herself amidst lies, deflection, excuses, and empty promises.
My 10 years of my life when my parents is started to fight me abusive me of arguing every single time for my childhood life is a problem to me of all time like this one man.
they argued all my life i want it stop soo bad🙁☹️
You cant stop it, I've tried. You can only stop yourself from hearing it.
My parents tried smoking. One couldn’t light a cigarette. The other, had asthma attack. But this was when they were teenagers. They only who smoked where my relatives. My Aunt smoke in the car, while my older sister and I, were in the car with her. This was 1980’s. When we went to restaurants, in the pass. We always said no smoking section.
its so annoying when i think they stopped but then one of them just HAS to get one last sentence in and it gets worse
No there is no has there is only need
Yes, I hate when that happens. It usually ends when my mom has the last word LOL
I know right! There fighting like- rn and it ended until one of them had to say something petty🙃
Everytime every year and then I use to cry web mom pack her bag after she stop I always be sad😢
I’ve been dealing with this for 33 years I can’t take it no more 🤦♂️
BOIII MY PARENTS ARE MAD I WANT THEM TO STOP IF U AGREE 👇
I know im late but i need tips to calm my mom down. She throws things around the house, my dad usually is the main reason that disappoints/angers her.. i did my best to calm my mom down but i still feel uneasy.
I'm 18 and my family would never force me to believe in Jesus if I didn't but you know what? I will never not believe in him cause I love him so much with all of my heart and I thank every single day for everything he has done for me in my life
How can you love someone you’ve never met. And no, feeling tingly emotions isn’t talking to someone, it’s a feeling all humans get in certain situations. Many denominations just tell you to avoid all those situations, like “worldly pleasures,” so that you won’t feel it outside of their control and realize it’s just human psychology. Also, you and the people around you do good things in your life, not a god. You can take credit for your own accomplishments, instead of constantly thinking how worthless and useless you are without your invisible friend. That’s just emotional abuse.
When I was a kid BOTH My Mom and Dad forced me to go to Church and every service I busted out being a loud mouth disrupting them they started taking away things that I am all about until one Sunday that it all came to a hit when I REALLY busted out during service and mom attacked me and I attacked her back and when I got back home dad pulled out the belt and darn near gave me a near never ending spanking until I stopped him by telling him that he was making me sick and played like I was about to get sick because of what he was about to do and got in the bathroom and stood in the bathroom for a good while and then avoided him for that whole Sunday and the backfire became where my whole act came back to haunt me on Friday Nights when I used to stay up late at night for the Arsenio Hall Show and be the last person getting into bed after that show but dad ended up taking away my late nights basically making me go to bed when he goes to bed. Basically I had lost that autonomy to stay up late at night. And then, Dad FINALLY got the message even that included opening his mouth and devouring me afterwards. Still, he got the message. Lately, Mom wanted to take with her back to Church for the first time in forever and I warned her that the next time that she attacked me for being a disruptive loud mouth again during service that she does not get to be a coward again and cry to the cops or run me out of the house and then she got the message. Yes, she ran her mouth devouring me but afterwards she still got the message. However, all of this included having to learn and teach myself a different code and learning how to speak their language in a way that they would understand spiritually. I am autistic and yes I am high functioning on like the hyper end and my parents had to learn the hard way to not force their spiritual assertion(s) of what right and wrong is against me or else I will not be all that receptive to them. Yes I believe in God and I believe in Jesus Christ but they had to learn that I operate in a different way than they do on some things.
i cant even speak a word to my dad about him smoking,which makes me even more concerned and sad..
Im a 13 year old boy and I live alone with my Mum who refuses to quit smoking. This has caused me depression since a while ago and whenever I tried thinking of ways to even just lower here usage, she would just yell at me that “It’s because I’m stressed” but I feel like smoking causes even more stress. This video didn’t help me very much but I’m pretty sure that’s just because my parents have been doing it for about 20 years now but I am very very happy that you have made such an understandable and open-minded video. Thank you a lot.
Me too. ME TOOOOOO
Same here 8 am just 8
I like what you said at the end of the video about setting boundaries. Setting boundaries and enforcing them.
Thx this realy helped😢
religion is for idiots
My dad has been smoking since he was 20. He is 49 now and Since I was 2, I would go outside while he would smoke a cigarette and I would yell, “daddy that’s not good for you! Please stop!” As I grew older I started telling him he can’t do this anymore. Now he has sleep apnea and uses a machine every night. I warned him that that stuff would happen and he didn’t believe me. I love him so much to the point where I hid his cigarettes, but I slowly realized it’s his depression coping mechanism. He has tried quitting for my sister and I, but it didn’t work very well and he wouldn’t act himself. He is talking to a therapist now and I think it’s helping him choose the right path.
Should i call child support? IM ONLY 13 AND THEY FIGHT ALL THE TIME 😭😭😭😭😭
Smae:(
No but you should get help and if they actually harm you physically or mentally then yes
If it gets physical, then yes. If it's verbal, but it's between the two of them, then no. If it's verbal, but it's directed at you, and you feel like your mental health is at risk, then yes.
@@EvelynandBreeleeMy mom does that sometimes, btw nice Mari pfp! :)
@@HollowMeowMeow thank you! And are you ok
Thank you so much bro have a good life you made my mom and dad stop fighting thanks I love you bro❤❤😢😢
my dad and mom are fiting rit naw
thats whats happening with my parents right now it sucks
I'm 29 and living with my parents.. almost every day I watch drama of their fights. I have undiagnose depression and diagnosed anxiety disorder 😢
This helps a lot
You’re a good father😢
Can you do "How to stop a mom and sibling stop fighting" please? My mom and sibling never stop fighting and I'm getting upset they are fighting right now...