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yeah dude, i got typed the same type as you and i experience the same thing of just avoiding so many things because of my weak emotional resilience 😭😭. like avoiding certain conversations or topics, avoiding situations that “have” the potential of becoming emotionally hitting on me. avoiding them at all costs because i believe or know that i would be stuck in a rut or hit like a truck because of those emotions + the fear of being humbled because of IxxP issues 😭. it’s like one small thing can spiral and ruin the whole day so i end up doing so much thinker stuff to avoid the hit as much as possible.

Once you give it away it doesn't belong to you anymore.

Fe-we just trying to fuck out here bay-be! Been there done that still trying to forget it. Lol omg 💀

I think… I’m getting a tiny step closer to understanding wtf Ni is with your videos.. still feels like an alien function. Thinking out loud (Te lol): I guess Ni doms see every day or every situation as the same - sort of like the Groundhog Day. Otherwise, they wouldn’t assume “ok, next time THIS happens, I’ll do it differently”. For an Oe saviour every day/situation seems different (even slightly) - so the mentality is “THIS won’t ever happen the same way EVER, so why even bother trying to remember how I’m gonna act/react next time”.

Great points, my man! Love the bit about the _unconscious process._ These Oi types may not _feel_ like planning or _talk_ about planning, but it leaks out constantly that they have a way. I never consciously _try_ to be Di, and I would tell you I don't know my values - yet I'm _always_ leaking out my perspective and what I value. Really good distinction. Love the breakdown!

thankyou! finally! OPS sucks

yes!! I was talking to some community members and they were under the assumption that Ni's have their entire life planned out. Its just not how I experience Ni at all, i dont really have anything planned. It's more of a collective knowing from experiences i've collected what i do want and dont want, like you said, and deciding whether that's right or wrong & what it can add up to over time. but yea its a silent process since its N and introverted

Thanks, Uzair - really enjoyed this one 👍 Now explain how your (P) IxxP ass got to the point where it can blast with all the tribe chaos in the background. 🤔

I can't believe your 3rd grade teacher said that to you!

Thai temple in the background is next level Se 😅

"Planning" for good outcomes without being specific about it, manifesting good things into your life through being strategic. Without those annoying Si lists. If that's actually possible and works, it sounds like a superpower. And people wonder why everyone wants to be Ni. Or am I getting it wrong? If not, everyone else should steal at least some of it. At least I should. Awesome video! Would you get into this some more and make a part two?

This is great! I have been thinking how Ni kinda of prepares, not plans. This explains Ni very well, thanks!

Ni is CHAOS. Got it 🤣 Tbh I’m quite similar to you, I think the feminine Ne and x2 M Si in me makes me sometimes seem Ni-ish. Even if I do go off of a script, I still do things off the cuff, I prefer bullet points. Reading a script also makes me sound robotic lol. I find my favourite way to plan videos is go over the main points again and again in my head, then when I hit record, just make sure I’ve covered those 2-4 points. I know you know this, but most of the time when I’m not recording, I’m super like “This happened and then this, and then I said this, and they said that”. Very Si boring 🤣

Is that in Thailand?

Good insights, but I wish you had introduced these people to give a little context. I have no idea who they are.

I dunno. Planning is in the definition of strategy. Also when you plan you are projecting something you want in the future (goal) and moving toward it. That atomic habits guy is consistent because he knows it will get results. Maybe it’s my f Se but I call all of that planning. A script is not what I tend to think of when I think of a plan. But I guess it’s a way to write down what you want to say in advance. I mostly think of long term planning. Goal planning. If you want to be good at something you have to work at it. Knowing you have to actually “do something” is a plan. IMO.

Oh, it's Uzair in Are-You-Tired! 😄 Thanks for the shoutout! I was actually thinking the same while watching your video. Holly and I score both 2 out of 3 on your planning check list. Personally, I feel more comfortable not being spontaneous (introversion/sleep + blast last), and I have a preference for articles and scripts that are well-structured and well-written with specificity to the word (probably saviour sensory + double ST consume). And together, as you said, this looks much more like classical planning than what saviour Ni does. A great reminder that this kind of planning is not at the core of the human need of Oi in saviour state.

I disagree. I plan everything even when I'm navigating uncomfortable and spontaneous situations. My steps, my image, the vibe I'm going for when listening to music. -ENTJ

this is great! thank you so much for trying to illustrate the mechanics of Ni "strategy" and "how to strategically fast and comprehensive do I bring my thoughts across" seems to unlock something for me as a (B) - which literarily means Ni meaning smudging the lines and condensing input.

I loved the video. It's very very very on point even for what I do with Si. It's not about knowing specifics, it's about understanding how to use a fluid set of ideas to navigate situations that you have prepared for and rely on prior knowledge

What people get very wrong is seeing Ni as an isolated thing. It's Ni AND Se at all times. Just INxJ and ESxP have opposite priorities and polarities. Functions are paired. "Narrowing options in the moment" is perfect to show the basis of Ni/Se

Thanks Uzair 😊 Just in case of a bsfp reading the comments before getting typed: "No you don't have Si, that's just Ni being abusive on the Se."

Thank you. I’ve always found it bizarre when other kinds say INFJs plan. I’m like ‘um no’ Te blind 😵‍💫🙄.

Thanks so much for this. Very insightful, as I’ve also not experienced Ni as conscious, intentional planning. For me, it’s a constant modeling and projecting that’s always percolating in the back of my head around certain topics or situations. Developing and refining an idealized model of something or a perfecting an envisioned scenario. I don’t really do it with any specific purpose in mind; it is always accumulating, being constructed and tweaked, so it ends up prepackaged and ready to apply when needed. I don’t step-by-step plan anything if I can actually avoid it; I just already know how it’s generally supposed to be and do that. It’s very outcome-oriented rather than process-oriented.

This is my personal anecdote, but this is what i've learned interacting with IXXPs You have to understand that IXXPs desire to be a certain standard because they believe that they don't fit in society otherwise. The INTP cliche being the shining example (probably the worst type for fitting in), but you can see how terrible those people had it growing up in school. This relates to all the IXXP types. They get on these bad paths (because of double-observer) and nobody every teaches them and they can't see that what doing is wrong because they're blind to it. I've found that if your even remotely nice to these people then they'll open up their huge personalities because your not judging them on their flaws. Does modern society promote this isolationist behavior, or is this the path their meant to go on to actually further society in some way?

This sounds like a bunch of rambling. But interestingly enough, you come across like a ENTJ who's having an identity crisis. Either way, this E**J welcome you!

I gotta say, I hard disagree with the general idea that SF is more primal. 😮 Anyway, gotta give you some drama in the comments everyone is being too nice😂

Did you say your consulting fee is $1000 an hour? 😮

As INFP, I truly don't understand. Why so many INFP. Who are these ppl? The think MBTI is like horoscope. Being Fi dom isn't about crying 24/7. Always sad sad sad. INFP can think. It's weird when ppl think I am INTJ. Wth. Online INFP being popular but not sure if they are real. Me as INFP not that cool or popular. As older INFP, it's catastrophe. Also wondering why so many enfp act like esfp to me. That is Se not Ne. Lmao. Enfp not use se often. Smh.

i'm not "a big fan" of racism, i'm the #1 contributor.

So good and soo true! 👏 I love the attitude! Too bad that the things you said about ISFP's isnt always the case 🤣

I have not just impatience but severe anger at stupidity.

Hey u need to cut down your video time to below 9 minutes. Just saying. Love it otherwise.

so you think Dave is a feeler?

"Gotta give credit where credits due. This one is a banger" no no, THIS one is a banger

The more difficult the task, the more feeling shown. Dang. I get it. I just don’t like it! Can’t it be: I cared so much that I double observed extra hard on how to get this done the easiest way possible? 😅

i’ve also thought of this concept and how it connects to how it possibly explains why SF seems to be the most primal and animalistic, it’s serving the sensory bodily needs and feelings of the individual. whereas NT seems to be the most nerdy and “unpopular” of the letter pairings stereotypically speaking.

One more thing to mention is not only Sleep and Play have a mix of primal and non-primal, but even Consume and Blast have a "spectrum of possibilities" depending on the actual letter attached to them. Like, Se+Fi Consume is the MOST primal because it has both S and F attached to it, while Ne+Ti is the LEAST primal. I made a bunch of videos with a hypothetical evolutionary explanation for the functions and the connection between them, I think it's complementary to this video of yours in a way.

I like it! Makes a lot of sense. Lovely way to boil it down 👌

Wouldn't Deciders aka. Double Observers be more primal as they have the primal function of surviving in the world covered, but due to this, they are not as efficient with dealing with other people? I would think that being good at dealing with people (DD) would be something that developed later, since you are basically sacrificing the ability to work the observable world.

ACTUAL banger

That's a nice bench.

As always great insights! if aliens come to us, and ask what a human being is, I'm sure the best answer would be to show them an ESFP xD

I agree that Oe gathering is more primal. I process it by thinking that in order to do the Oi organizing, you need something to organize first. I hope people don't get too confused by saying Thinking and Feeling are the same thing 😂

Blast serves consume: “let’s just do this it works for everyone else” except the number of blasters that disagree with each other…. The consume also serves the blast because we need to consume all the different blasts and weigh them to determine which is more accurate? It’s a cycle. I agree that potentially the consume comes first, but it’s definitely not a linear relationship, it’s a cycle. As always, a good video. I enjoy them even when I am critical/disagree.

Wait did you make this video in a day or something? Jealous af Great insight. This reminds me of when OP was pushing the narrative of "everyone is a Decider" - perhaps "Deciders" are more primal as well?